What NOT to say on a first date 🫣

"I only want to do charity work later on and be a stay at home mom...do you earn enough to support that?"

How many properties do you own? 🤦🏻‍♂️

Many of the questions listed are either pointed, or show a lack of thought/imagination of what to say (perhaps made worse by nerves). These could be avoided by asking open questions, including preparing some that relate to what the person mentioned in their profile (hobbies, places they’ve travelled, pets, church involvement).

How much momey do you make?

"How long have you been on SALT" 🤦‍♀️

Maybe something like: „Hey Jochebed, what would you be without Jochen (me)?!“

Something like : „you have a very high center of gravity!“ …?

Isabelle Rogmans from Krefeld is such a beautiful woman!!

The five forbidden words, that are taboo among the nations, a crime agaisnt humanity: "So, you come here often?"

que has stalkeado su Instagram, que te has probado mil looks antes de salir, que ya te has imaginado escenarios de futuro, que has mirado cuánto tarda en contestar o que vienes diciendo ‘sin expectativas’ cuando claramente alguna tienes. La primera cita es ese momento mágico donde ambos fingimos normalidad mientras intentamos parecer menos interesados de lo que estamos.

‘My ex’….

Oh, I dont really like taco bell. 🙄

"Let me telling you how I'm making money off of crypto..."

"Do you go on many dates?" 🤦‍♀️

"The Holy Spirit is telling me that you are my wife"🥲It CAN happen but unfortunately it can cause pressure😔

Not on a date but I was telling him about my day and how much it rained. He responded : « im the only one allowed to make my baby wet » I call him later that day to end this nonsens.

'Can i come to yours?'

It's fine if we sleep together we can repent after... (someone else's date) 😂

"So what do you do" 😔

Im not too worried about topics, I like a conversation that flows topic to topic. Wanna talk about your ex, or politics, or flat earth 😉 I find its more the attitude. Politics, exs, our faith, etc are the important issues. Why avoid them?! Have to talk about them sometime. Better to find out their are significant differences earlier than after 5 dates! 😛

Hola a todos Soy de Venezuela pero tener buenos amigos en Cristo

I was insistant on walking on the correct side of the sidewalk at night and my date said, "It's like being on a date with my mother [pause for awkward laughter]" lol

Is it not better to be honest about your intentions, discuss common interests and how best to bring them about , amongst other more holy things?

Let's not talk about God now

Complimenti, invadenza

Talking about the x and showing pictures of all the xs :) haha i experienced this . Second, coments like „you look so good for your age“

Compliments, life, relax, be yourself, go in comfortable clothes ..

So you come here often ?

Netflix and chill- even if you honestly just want to netflix and chill—

Talking about money

You smell 🤣🤣

Any version of “God told me that you are my wife / husband”. Even if it is true, please let the Holy Spirit do its work 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Politics, money and religion (by the last one I mean, dont delve into deep theology about the sacraments or church history or apologetics on complementarianism) talk about Jesus, hobbies, food and travel

Dont talk anything negatively about your family, friends, colleagues, work, etc.

Talking about your ex. Ficar falando da ex. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm not speaking "mold" over good fruit... It's a date joke.

We pay 50/50 right? 😂

Hmm. Probably all your expectations of a future wife. It might come out as a job interview instead of getting to know the person as a person.

@Christine if you wanna chat just send me an intro or heart!

Im not fussed what someone talks about on first date. I believe the first date should be a kind of a buffer date. Nerves and emotions flowing. If they want to tell me their political veiws, their breif on past relationships of heart ache and betrayl and what they have learnt a what not to accept in the future…. What ever…. Sometime it can blurt out.. Im there to get to know someone. Not dance around with avoidance of the difficult stuff.

I am vegan

Talking about your ex

I told my wife i was an excellent driver on our first date.....lik Rain Man.

"I already have a boyfriend" True story.

God told me we’re going to get married

I love you. Steady on there!

Are you paying or am I? ( Jesus paid the bill 😉 )

Talking about politics 😬