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Isabel - Team SALT
Thu May 22 2025

What NOT to sat on a first date 😳

Has anyone said anything weird and wonderful on a first date that should never have been uttered?! Or what would be something that should NOT be said on a first date? Stories please!

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Daniel's avatar
Daniel

Hy

Tue Jun 03 2025
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Tebello's avatar
Tebello

Send me your account number 😬😅

Mon Jun 02 2025
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Helena's avatar
Helena

Why are you single ? Haha

Sun Jun 01 2025
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Gena's avatar
Gena

@Helena Hi pretty!

Mon Jun 02 2025
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Jennifer's avatar
Jennifer

I love you! 🤔

Sat May 31 2025
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Corey

I believe it should be appropriate, case by case. To be honest, even Sault looks like sugar. Prayer first about your true intentions surrounding why you want to ask a woman of God out. It must be a situation where the man's intentions are set forth to marry the woman as it says in the Bible. We as strong men are born to be the leader in the household only leading by faith and a strong representation of what it means to be a mature man of God. With a great blessing comes 🙏

Sat May 31 2025
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Fabiana

“I’m just here for friendship…” or “I’m recently divorced with a couple kids under the age of 5…”

Sat May 31 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

@Fabiana but if it’s the truth the person should say instead if leading people on

Sun Jun 01 2025
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Joy's avatar
Joy

@Fabiana i have alot to say about this but....🤐

Mon Jun 02 2025
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Dave's avatar
Dave

"I already have a boyfriend" True story.

Sat May 31 2025
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Emma's avatar
Emma

@Dave 🤦‍♀️no way!!!

Sun Jun 01 2025
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Mikayla

“I have commitment issues” Was said on a first date, I was really hopeful. Glad it didn’t work out.

Sat May 31 2025
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Kacey's avatar
Kacey

Will you marry me

Sat May 31 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Hi everybody

Wed May 28 2025
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Mich's avatar
Mich

For me, it's past relationships, Financial Debt, Excessive complaining with regards to things, Interviewing portions, Health Issues..though you need to be genuine and conversational but there are things that need to be set back at the first meeting.

Thu May 22 2025
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Tim's avatar
Tim

“What do you do for work?” (Are we getting to know each other or get a read on social status and income?)

Thu May 22 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Tim yeah it feels more like an interview or a pop quiz. But I have nothing to hide and my openness and curiosity seems to spook guys cause they know that I expect the same.

Thu May 22 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Tim I've been raised in the traditional Presbyterian Church (undergone baptism & confirmation) but these last couple of years been attending an Evangelical church. Would you please tell me about the Reformed Presbyterian Church PCA as I am keen to know more about it & what the difference is to the traditional Presbyterian Church?

Thu May 22 2025
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Tim's avatar
Tim

Hi. And sorry for the delayed reply. The senior pastor at my church attends their yearly meetings and provided updates from time to time. This could be a sensitive subject for some but I would say so far they have not fully compromised scripture. Organizations are helpful but are made up of fallen people. For now they are still ok. Some unbiblical proposals have come up but were rejected.

Sat May 31 2025
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Millie

@Tim oh, I never think of that question that way 🙈 I just think that if someone spends the majority of their time in the workplace, it's worth asking about that side of their life. 🤷‍♀️

Thu May 29 2025
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Tony's avatar
Tony

@Millie Agreed. It can also say a lot about their personality

Thu May 29 2025
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Amos

@Tim this is confusing. Occupation, along with recreation, is a great conversation starter and gateway to what they want. Have dated 15+ women.

Fri May 30 2025
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Tim

@Amos How many of the 15 women made you their first choice and pursued you with genuine burning desire? Food for thought, if you told them you worked an entry level job making 50K vs being the director of some big corporation would it make any difference to them?

Sat May 31 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

@Tim money talks 🙃

Sun Jun 01 2025
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Tim

As a man who is midlife let me tell you the temptation with money gets worst. But there are healthy ways to view money. So many people want someone who has high income but they themselves don’t understand budgeting. One can ask about work and much later income but not on the first date as the original question was asking.

Mon Jun 02 2025
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Jason

I had started a list of Songs you should not sing (karaoke 🎤) on a first date ... Like .... I Could Sing if Your Love Forever ...... Skillet's sing Whispers in the Dark .....

Thu May 22 2025
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Eliza's avatar
Eliza

Say*

Thu May 22 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

…but seriously, alphabetical or numerical? Which order? 🙃

Thu May 22 2025
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