It can seem isolating at times.

Is it harder being single at Christmas? đ
Is Christmas a hard time to be single? Anyone got some good advice for anyone feeling like singleness is hard over the holidays?
No
I often find it is. And I am generally pretty content being single. But like others have said, lots of people find Christmas hard for all sorts of reasons. I think we all need to look out for others at Christmas and try and be sensitive to what people might be experiencing.
Yes.
100%
Sometimes it's hard, others dont
Defo harder
Definitely harder IMO
It's certainly a lot cheaper đ
It's actually better
Straight and practical answer is, most of the time Yes, depending on aga as well.
In Filipino culture, we often say "malagi ang Pasko" or "cold Christmasâ because you are not in a relationship. Sadly, with this connotation, many people feel pressured to rush into marriage or relationships at a young age. Iâve been single for many years, and I would be a hypocrite if I said I never felt that way. However, the true meaning of Christmas is Godâs love, not oneâs relationship status.
ContinueâŚ. Without Godâs love, His divine orchestration, and the advent of the Messiah, Jesus Christ, there would be no reason to commemorate or celebrate Christmas. Some refer to this state as celibacy or single-blessedness, but every single person here in the Salt app believes that one day, God will fulfill their longing to be with the person He has ordained for them.
Continue⌠Still, let us always remember that the greatest gift from God is not a relationship or a partner, but a baby wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a mangerâJesus Christâwho brought us hope, love, peace, and joy.
Well, even though I would love to be with my partner. I am still grateful for so many things.
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@Debbie hello, sure!!
I donât find it hard, but thatâs cuz I have my brother and his in laws. Though our church does special things for those alone in the holidays. They have families and couples in the church âadoptâ someone who needs family for christmas. Itâs quite lovely
Not that bad when you run an animal sanctuary. Me and the critters will be having a Merry Christmas đ
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Yes it is. I keep busy with a tradition we have at our home which is spring cleaning followed by decking the halls. Delicious Christmas treats and food. And never ever forget "Home Alone" 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5. Laughter is the best medicine
I thrive on sadness. Itâs so unhealthy but itâs the only thing I know. I love being sad way too much - I donât know how to explain it. đđŞ â¤ď¸đ§
Oh yeah. All those romantic christmas movies arent helping when you would like a scenario like that. But honestly I think Ill take a long brake from dating. It only frustrates me and it troubles my mind. I need clarity with my busy schedule but I notice ive focused my thoughts on dating and women for too long. It is holding me back
Itâs hard being single at Christmas if you canât catch up with friends during the season (which is made difficult if people are busy with family/various gatherings), as this magnifies the isolation. But itâs a tough time for anyone whose lost loved ones, family arenât around, reflecting on a difficult year + comparing to previous happy Christmases. Advice would be to arrange plans with friends ahead of time (have something to look forward to) and call friends youâve not spoken to in ages.
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@Kati I think Iâll pass, but knock yourself out! (Please donât!)
As long as you are Christian and filled the Holy Spirit you can't be feeling singleness, keep yourselves busy, join community church service, online services, read the word of God, listen to a Christian message, Meditate on the love God which was revealed through Jesus Christ. Allow the spirit of God to minister to you during this time, Keep yourself active in things of God and you won't feel any singleness.
@Edith pressing into God and being busy can help, but we are human and feeling singleness/alone is a normal reaction. Iâd actually counter that unless there is genuine connection, church services can make loneliness a lot worse. If we didnât feel the need for connection, no one would ever get married or be on this app. Even those who are called to singleness still need genuine friends around them, weâre not meant to be an island.
@Rob agree with you. Always remember your human but the advise given can work.