How do you know you're attracted to them?

I think when a person shows God‘s love grace and peace and is pushing you further to God not further away then that’s when you know this person is from God

I am more attracted to a person whose values are similar to mine.

You like seeing the world through the other person’s eyes.

How I know? Simple. The “Can’t wait to tell him”’s throughout the day along with a high esteem for his thoughts/opinions/ideas and admiration of his character/lifestyle. What tips me over the line? In short, when a man I already admire & respect creates a safe space to express, exist, pursue our callings, and still enable many of my shenanigans. (While maybe reminding me to do the stuff of living, when I ask for such reminders.)

What makes someone attractive from the initial seeing someone's profile. Mostly when their profile match up with something that's of interest to you. Haven't dated in a long while a so being super cautious.

It happens organically, it's not forced.

Attraction is complicated for me and often takes a long time to understand. Unlike a quick spark, my feelings grow slowly as I get to know someone and feel comfortable. Sometimes, by the time I realize I’m attracted, it feels too late. This is just how my brain works. I deeply value love and connection, but for me, figuring out friendship from attraction takes time and isn’t obvious to me and can really be very difficult, frustrating, and confusing for me to figure out.

A telltale sign is when the person brings out the best in you & then suddenly you’re writing a poem or a song to express those feelings about that person. No way to explain feelings but in art or music if you’re creative, & missing the person most of the time when you’re apart. From chemistry to harmony, something’s gotta be drawing you to want to go beyond friendship. It’s a blazing love for Christ & their consistent actions for you that definitely move mountains - safe to say you’re attracted.

For me, it's actually very simple, because it's rare. But when I'm truly attracted to someone, I fall so deeply in love that I can't stop thinking about her. It feels like a calling, to give my all and love her with every fiber of my being.

Attraction is not only about looks but also their character and personality. Looks fade but godly character is where it’s at. To be honest if a person is gorgeous with an ugly attitude they start to lol ugly. Whilst someone whose appearance may be average but they are so lovely will shine and appear more appealing because their true beauty shines through.

How does one know you’re attracted to someone? Good question. When you notice small details about them. When you smile when you think of them and you gave some feels. When you feel a certain amount of pull towards them and a curiosity. 😊

If you have affection towards someone a certain amount of physical attraction can be overlooked, but if I ever have a strong conviction that i’m having a conversation with my sister: well that’s a dead giveaway.

When the memory of: their face, the words they’ve said, or things they’ve done pops into your mind…and your heart is warmed. Appreciation and feelings. Mind and heart.

See ‘Spouse List’ post 🙃