Hiding my weird quirks 🤪

Just let them reveal themselves naturally. It’s for the best for people to decide if they don’t like you for your quirks so you don’t waste time later on.

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So, here's the thing, I can be very goofy & dorky... and I used to think this would for sure be a turn off to men, so I'd be more overtly quirky around guys I had no interest in, & much more reserved & over thinking probably with the ones I really liked. But guess what, the goofy ended up attracting all the guys I had zero interest in 😂. & the overthinking pushed my crushes away... Just my luck. So yeah, as a scholar once said in this chat 🤣, let your freak flag fly😅 except if U need therapy.

I say just be yourself not what someone wants to see!

All the quirks 🤡 no I save mine to stay mysterious & make each date more interesting & fun! Not sure what my quirks are 🤔 who wants to find out? lol

I think people need to remember that NO ONE is PERFECT, that’s why Jesus died on the cross for our sins, so maybe when first meeting others we should humble ourselves and not forget we are all weird in one way or another 🤷🏻‍♀️

Front-load the quirks. You gotta stand out from the crowd and you won’t do that by being boring and polite.

I believe you should be as real & authentic as possible. If they like that, awesome! If they think you're "too weird" or "crazy", then it's their loss.

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It’s natural to be guarded until we get to know someone, but I don’t think we should actively suppress quirks/who we are either, like wearing a mask. It also depends on the quirks - if we are aware of them and acknowledge the weirdness then it’s probably not harmful or inconvenient (like the profile question “I know it’s weird but I like eating…”). If we aren’t aware of our quirks and think they are normal - or meet someone like that - there could be problems. Wisdom and grace are needed.

I definitely recommend being your 100% authentic God-given self from the start 🧡 That way you will weed out those who aren’t a fit for you. It’s so important you feel comfortable being your true self around a partner. Something I have learnt the hard way!

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