Yes, I do go out alone sometimes. I don't mind. The only thing that would hold me back from doing something alone is the cost. I'm saving for a car this year.
Do Christian Singles go out alone? 😎
If you're single and don't always have a friend to do stuff with, do you still do the stuff? Eating out, travelling, cinema etc? Do you hold back from doing anything in your singleness because you don't want to do it alone? What have you done alone that you've really enjoyed?
Of course we do! Too many fun things to do and too many places to explore- can't wait for friends to always have time!!!:)
I'd like to but struggle to go out in general, let alone on my own!
@Grace how are you doing
I never used to! But the last few months I have been forcing myself to go do things on my own. If I was to wait for company to go do the things I will enjoy, I would barely leave the house 🤣 was a strange feeling at first tho!
Yes. Restaurants, movies, parks, certain beaches, bookstores, road trips, etc. I’m not going to wait to start living life. Sharing places & memories with them will be special- and no matter how much I do or see, there will always be things that will be discovered & experienced for the first time together.
I’ve been lost in Rome & Frankfurt, been grounded in an Icelandic blizzard, taken the long way to a different part of the US, re-learned driving stick shift by myself in a rental in France- even the most stressful experiences are memories I treasure…because I did it. Eating alone to trying new things-they made me into the woman I am today. More resilient, accepting of help, self-assured, compassionate, discerning, wise, etc Less easily intimidated, manipulated, unnecessarily apologetic, etc
Yes! But only to the places where it is safe.
@Christine How do you assess whether something is safe? I’ve noticed that many people have a wide array of opinions on this- so I’m curious about where you’d draw that line.
Yes! I enjoy going on solo dates, I often go out to eat or even catch a good movie! I think it’s important to enjoy your season of singleness,and do the things you love,rather than waiting to enjoy them with a spouse. Figure out what brings you joy and embrace that. Although we may desire marriage,a season of singleness is a blessing from God!
Ya, we have to.
Yes
Yes I do, but I would love to have girlfriend to do things with me
There are a few things I'd rather not do alone, like the Paradox Museum in London lol , but I'm happy solo most of the time.
All the time, and I think that’s the idea - to enjoy experiences in lieu of what you miss out from being single. Even so, you’re also trying to enjoy experiences that would otherwise be difficult to attain when you’re in a relationship/family one day. More recently I find myself enjoying the conversations I strike with random strangers.
Of course!
Yes
Yes of course!
Yes, I do. I'd rather not miss out on an experience just because I have to do it alone. I enjoy my own company
For sure it can happen.
Yes, I go out alone.. but I guess we are never truly alone as the Holy spirit is with us. But physically being alone, yes we can find many opportunities to start conversations and build friendships with other people in passing, which we might never do if we were in the company of another person. It truly is a blessing 😊
Me, go out alone???!! No way, no how!! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m allergic to that! I do some things like going to the gym, visit family members, go to church (ofc), sometimes I do walks near the beach or ride my bike… but that’s as far as I go. Eating alone in a restaurant just feels too awkward, same with going to the movies or travelling… all of these are much more fun when we have company… I usually drag my son along 🤭🤭😁😁 next victim will be my future bf… so he better get ready 🤣🤣
Yes.
I absolutely do go out by myself and enjoy it. I strongly believe in being your own best company sometimes. I have gone to brunches, lunches, dinners, a concert, several movies, and shopping by myself. I look forward to sharing life with someone one day, but even then, I think it's important to still have some time to one's self and still do some things you enjoy.
I’m single and yes I do and I don’t enjoy going but I keep going, thinking I could find somebody
Of course! I don't see why not!
I love taking myself to the movies and to eat. I challenge myself to not to wait on anyone to enjoy life.
Mostly yes. I have been solo travelling for almost a decade. I don’t wish to wait and miss out on opportunities because I don’t have a spouse. I do enjoy going with friends but they mostly have children so it’s challenging to find the right time. I like eating out, going to the theatre, so I just go! I’ve never encountered people staring or anything. I won’t miss out on things I enjoy. Feel encouraged that you can too. You’re not alone. God is always present. ✝️
Some people make it sound like you have to force yourself to be happy when you're alone. I don't agree with that, it's good to seek happiness when you're single, but it might look different than when you're with a partner. I don't like to eat in a restaurant or go to the movies alone, I can just watch something at home. I don't like the idea of traveling alone, but I've gone to conventions by myself to meet people. That doesn't mean you can't do those things with family or friends.
Sometimes yes. When i’m working out or running.
I love going out iceskating by myself. I have learned to enjoy these activities by myself. I haven't tried to eat out at a fancy restaurant by myself. I will try this in 2025, as a way to reward myself :)
To be honest when I started going out alone (eat in restaurants, stay in coffee shops, go to the movies, shopping), I realised that I can still enjoy doing them. I used to be so dependent in doing these things but now I enjoy them with or without company 😅
Yeahhh.
I dont mind doing stuff on my own. Going cinema, football, eating etc However i do find it tiring, long to go travelling but have been struggling to maintain a job due to disiabilities and theres much i cant afford. This complicates things,, as while I dont mind being alone, I am feeling very alone in my life atm. So, there are good days and bad days.
I enjoy doing things alone I’m so used to it.
I traveled many times by myself, it has pros and cons. Obviously it's not fun as if you were in couple, but you have to trust God that there's a reason to make you appreciate the woman that will enter my life later. Everything in the right timing
I go out by myself and I am working on fully enjoying my singleness just as I used to do 10 years ago before I got married.
I enjoy my singleness to the fullest! It has been a blessing 🙌 Why hold back on life because I do not have a wife? If you believe in God and his timing, then you live life to the fullest and believe that you will get your chance to spend beautiful moments with your wife. In the meantime, you have all that you need in Christ, so why wait? P.S.: I do not enjoy life with the desire of the flesh but that of the spirit. I have become more grounded in faith, but I am still a sinner in need of grace!
I go out to dinner and things by myself. I enjoy the time to visit total strangers. I’ve never met a stranger…
I basically do nothing alone while single. I do stuff with my brother or friends but I wouldnt go to a restaurant alone. I do miss a lovely lady in my life to enjoy life with. Currently Im mostly busy with securing my future ( and my hopefully future wife)
I’ve done a solo travel and loved it 😊 I have the best time going with friends too, it’s a different experience but I know that God makes me complete in my singleness 😊🙌🏽
@Deborah I like to solo travel. I’ve been to Bali, Antigua, Scotland, Ireland. It’s been a blast!
Yes I was alone
It is awesome, I always travel alone or go on cycling tours, i just love it 🥰
It’s tough after a divorce BUT YES!!! Making time for yourself is definitely a priority. God is always with us. 🙏🏽
Yes all the time! I am literally on a Dinner Cruise by myself now! Enjoy Single Life! Happy New You!
@Angel Noah by yourself on a dinner cruise! Nuh!! I never heard a that! ( and I’m not hitting on you , you too young for me !! ) my brother from another mother!!
I do
Yeah. I go out often. I try to go once a week.
I wish I did more but struggle with social anxiety has a whole
I relate to this so much. And I end up on my phone which I think makes me look unapproachable.
Yes! I went to a wedding reception tonight and just introduced myself to several people. Would have been more fun with someone but it was still great to get dressed up and do something different. :)
Yes I do lol
Hola buenas tardes 👋🏾
Y’a, im going to this Christian club in Nashville tonight. I also ride on my Onewheel, run, and gym. There’s a lot you can do without someone.
Went to Big Church Festival this year, met lots of beautiful people there! Went to Germany, as well, met many beautiful brothers and sisters! Obvs I don't go clubbing, but as long as I honour God, why not?!
Hi Geidys, going alone is not bad. But I really like to go with Christian friends to big church, so please if you are interested in going again , get in touch thanks
Hi happy new year 2025 🎉🎉🎉 GOD bless @You
I have done solo dates, movies ect, but I have never traveled alone. I want to try doing a solo weekend away... Just by thinking about it, it feels so lonely.. 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
No 😅atleast not me
I wouldn’t do any of these things alone. Definitely activities to do with a partner.
I stayed 10 days in Portugal and enjoyed my « me » time on restaurants, walk to the beach and the city, take pictures and share some good moments with completely strangers.
I'm always up for people joining me for a film. However, I always go to the cinema alone. The after show chat is what helps me process what I've seen.
Yes I still do it because I'm looking for someone who'll enjoy doing everything I enjoy doing, which to me means finding all the activities I enjoy doing solo, so if I'm on a date or get stood up, I can still do whatever it was I was planning to do, enjoy it, feel more at ease being in my element and that will make the date itself fo smoother, too.
Hello Isabel how are you
I do like taking myself to cafés and eating out sometimes. And I have loved traveling alone. I think it’s a beautiful experience that can lead us to grow closer to God, get to know oneself more and meet people. To me it’s like not waiting to be with someone to start living and creating lifelong memories. In the future it can be a common hobby to share with the person we will be with.
Being alone doesn’t mean to be depressed lol go eat a steak and lobster and it’s the same price as a dinner for 2!
I am uses to do alone so nothing is really annoying
Went to my friends place, went to eat with his family
Travel not so much I hate feeling lost and not knowing where I am , and I’m not tech savvy so I rather go with someone who take charge!
How do you work this so confusing
I’m sure most of us don’t like to go or do things alone! Because sometimes is just better with company but there are things I rather do alone like grocery shopping , or when I’m shopping for a gift! I like to take my time. But I do go out by myself, I go to the parks and sit at a restaurant or even at a fair ,I’m a sociable person I will talk to anyone even while waiting in line.
Yes love going to cinema 🎦 by myself
No I am always with my daughter or family
I do sometimes, including a brief trip to Costa Rica. I am a but shy about being out and about without some friends however.
Yes. Sometimes it is good, time to think about everything. But prefer companionship more
Absolutely! I go anywhere and also have solo travelled.
I go out alone and sometimes i spend my time hanging out to my sisters in Christ ☺️
No I don’t 😅
Absolutely 💯 yes
Luke 4; He was alone, & being tempted by the devil in the wilderness. In this regard, I have nothing to worry about whenever I go out alone.
Hi yes i do stuff alone such as eat out and travel. I went to New Zealand on my own so not daunted by things I would like to put faith on hold as am fairly new to this And would love to share this journey with someone also I know that faith cant be put on hold though
Never alone, always with Jesus. Sometimes He feels even more present when alone in public places. Idk if anyone else feels this too!?
I do things alone. I have been for movies, fancy dinners, travels and anything that I wish to. I don't wait for people to join. I do have a lot of friends but sometimes they are all busy and I don't like holding myself back from doing anything just because all my friends are busy or out of town 😄
Also I enjoy my own company. Someone recently said to me that if one can't enjoy their own company, how can they expect someone else to enjoy their company in a relationship and that's quite true.
@Angel I totally agree. I am always cautious to travel alone (maybe it’s just a mental hurdle?) but I believe you have to live life and participate in it fully, or it will just kind of slip right on by you - and what a travesty that would be!
Ofcourse! I love new experiences, and doing them by yourself you can truly focus on it.
Yes. For now I enjoy my singleness and my time alone. The peacefulness I feel is satisfying.
I must say that yes I do go out and sometimes do things by myself. I am a mom so I’m always surrounded by my kids, but sometimes I do enjoy going out and doing some stuff by myself like going to the movies or getting a massage or going out to eat if it’s not that one of my friends or family could join me.
I do everything alone, just went out to watch Gladiator 2 and after that I had dinner at a restaurant.
Yes, sometimes I prefer to go shopping or go to the mall alone, I have my own time and I'm comfortable where to go or try foods that I can enjoy even alone.
Hmm. It’s actually best to have someone special with you as he or is she is your best support system. But as a single person, you can lean with trusted friends. It’s also the best way to build friendships while you’re waiting for your significant other.
Life is for living. I do many things alone, it's just how things are. I usually travel alone, but I can miss companionship
As a dad i can’t afford to
I’m a mom, so I’m never alone and always have a partner to do everything with lol. but yes apart from that I do things alone all the time mostly going to parks reading my Bible
even married people go out alone. Our partners will not always want to do the things we want to do, and it’s definitely okay to do them alone. It’s liberating when you travel alone, because you get to do only the things that you want to do! 🤣
I used to live with family or flatmates, but I recently moved into my own place and now do most things on my own. While I still hang out with a small group of friends weekly, I’ve started going out for morning walks, breakfast, and trips to the mall by myself. I haven’t tried going to the movies or traveling alone yet, but this has been a season of learning and truly enjoying my own company.
Dear Mey. You pretty inspiring. I like your profile too. I also do bible end times research that goes into jewish roots at times (happy hanukkah). - my intro. dont have premium either lol - comment: ive thought of doing stuff myself in recent times but dont have the impetus currently. I used to Theres a prophetic word that said live alone in 2025, work alone but obviously i dont think its ruling out marriage. Closing line: Would be cool to chat. Would love to hear about your business
I've been to the cinema plenty of times by myself, I actually really enjoy it. Done the eating out alone a couple of times, which feels weird in comparison. Sometimes feels like I'm being judged for it (whether that's actually true or not). I'm just not as used to that. And maybe because you're actually meant to be quiet at the cinema lol 😆
Yeah, I totally do things alone. Cinema only once in a blue moon… travelling, I travel alone sometimes, but I always go to stay with family or friends overseas… so it’s not completely alone… but that’s a perk of being a YWAMer… you end up with friends all over the world :) Though I prefer doing things with people…
I often go out and eat and shopping alone. Grocery. Um clothes and needs. When youngsr to thr singles dancss alone as well as roller skating at roler rinks alone. But of course prefer eith someone special.
@Marco Hello, how are you?
I love traveling alone. Having more friends and learning new culture.
I’m rolling with my bros 😄 Traveling, dining out, anything adventurous, large social groups, evangelism: it’s a great thing to have friends more outgoing than you are to piggyback off their energy.
I love it and I do my favorite activities alone all the time!
Depends how annoying people are being!
By "Grace Alone" Given "Faith Alone" In "Christ Alone" Through "Scripture Alone" "Glory to God Alone"
Hahahaha Darren. Thats funny.
I loooove traveling alone! I do most things alone, but experiencing new places on my own itinerary is wonderful. That's
@Kristina I recommend England 🏴 🙃
@Jude 😂
@Kristina What's your most memorable experience so far?
I go to the movies alone a lot. Been single so long I’m used to my own company
@Kel awh mahn I pray you find a really good partner soon ❤️
I take my dog Hezekiah with me most places, besides church, he gets me to be more social , Parks are fun especially caves, restaurants with outdoor dining when there is nice weather , Oh he loves big fireworks 🎇 , we have not tried outdoor theatre in a park yet , he likes people watching at high school football 🏈 games with lawn chair 👍 I have done some road trips to visit old friends.... He goes with me grocery shopping but stays in car besides walking around each parking lot
Haha I went out alone yesterday.
I totally take myself out on dates. I find it invigorating. One time I met a fellow Christian who was travelling from Malaysia and we were catching a Brisbane ferry and she decided to sit next to me. We ended up having dinner together but that wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t decide to go out by myself. We still talk on WhatsApp which is pretty cool. Going out by myself gave me the opportunity to meet someone new and who knows how God has worked through this interaction :)
Gym training, coffee shop time, walks out...
I am at peace being on my own and single. I like to go out and eat on my own. I love going to new restaurants trying out new foods. I like going for walks on my own. I praise the Lord for being single. It has made me love myself for who I am, and it has made me the person I am today. I know my single status will change soon. I am hopeful and praying. May the peace of the Lord be with all you. I give thanks for my Father in heaven for the trials I faced to get where I am today.
I love treating myself to lovely meals in lovely restaurants. I am now getting more adventurous about solo travelling. Tried it once and thoroughly enjoyed it. Planning one for 2025 🙏💃🙏