They hate my date 😭

Pray about it. Sometimes family loves to look at the exteriors of a person, but if it comes from God, he will convict your parents' hearts.

Eu levaria em conta, pq já me deu mal em não ouvir meus amigos e familiares,

I'd like to think that I could make it work with any of the lovely women I've dated. My dad is more discerning though and sometimes close enough isn't good enough.

If they just don’t like him- I wouldn’t listen.. unfortunately sometimes the family can be the enemy. But I they have like really valid reasons: narcissist, cheater, violent(emotionally or physically) etc. then yes, you need to run and fast! There are people in our lives that are just jealous and don’t want to lose access to you etc. and some times those people can be the closest ones. So listen and check the facts and reasons behind and choose wisely 🙌🏻

Well you ultimately decide but if everyone in your life is saying it, it's very likely true.

If they are really friends or respectful family members, if we are happy, they must respect our choice and say nothing, even they don't like our date.

It’s not that they don’t approve your date… the real issue is the love you and value you and don’t trust your ability to get around someone else and don’t get hurt… I’ve work so much on myself that my mother and friends never look judgmentally any person that I date or just spend time with… They trust me enough to know I’m able to be safe… when things gets tough I run towards GOD not them… so they never feel the pressure of saving me

Probably not.

As long as God approves then I won't care who disapproves, I'm not trying to impress them but God.

I take notice because dating for me isn't just a fling but all about building a life with this person & even marry this person even into my family. I am raised in a Christian family and if my family don't like this person then maybe it is for my good because the wife I need to take should be a Christian woman with Christin values, a woman who is going to be my helper not the opposite.

I mean I guess it depends on how much you trust your family and their judgement. There's wisdom in a multitude of counselors, but also make sure you choose your counselors wisely. Do they tend to make good choices? Are they usually emotionally sound and have a good relationship with God? If so, then definitely take what they are saying into consideration. But ultimately, the best person to ask is the One who knows your dates heart better than anyone.

Honestly, it depends. If they have a point that’s one thing. If they don’t, or you just don’t agree with them, then it’s your choice whether you keep dating or not.

Cada quién es responsable de su propio destino, tu familia Y amigos No deben de Criticarte. Deben de apoyarte y aconsejarte para bien, si lo están haciendo, de esa manera no lo tomes a mal, se prudente y humilde. Muchas veces. Los familiares y amigos no se equivocan, porque ven en la persona que estás conociendo. Actitudes la cual refleja evidentemente una mala intención. Al acercarse a ti. Ve conociendo con cuidado. Y dile a tu familia. Gracias por esos consejos. Y ve con mucho cuidado

I would probably take that into consideration, checking if the reasons are genuine

Fine

Hola

Hello god bless

Best advice is to ask God, fast and pray for God to show you what is hidden. In my experience when no one agrees it means God is warning you

Bonjour, si vous êtes desperer ,vivez la dépression et autres sachez que Dieu est au contrôle et vous guéri de tous vos impuretés

hello, God bless you, how are you?

Hi

I believe you need to ask yourself these questions. Are their concerns specific and consistent, or vague and emotional? Does this relationship draw me closer to God, or quietly pull me away? And then ask God for wisdom and guidance. ✝️

Hola

Funny thing is...they end Up being right in the end . So lesson learned for the future🥴

This depends on the family member and the friendships. Why are they saying no?  You should take a notice, but what you do with that information is based on why they don’t approve

Creio q se varias pessoas q gostam de vc estão te sinalizando algo , é prudente averiguar!! Às vezes, estamos apaixonadas e projetamos no outro tudo aquilo q gostaríamos q ele fosse e passamos, então, a nao enxergar quem ele realmente é! Por isso, considero importante vc ficar atenta! Te desejo sucesso e q Deus, em toda sua glória, continue te abençoando!!!🌺🙏

If they are reasonable people, yes! If they are narcissistic, take it w a pinch of salt

Ola a paz a todos 🇧🇷

I think that taking notice is wise, as others have stated, this doesn't mean you follow blindly their advice. Asking why and seeking discernment from the Lord is the best way of going forward.

The reason is much more telling here than anything else. Why do they?

Yes, I say

A difficult situation, I think biblical council is important from a pastor and seek the face of God for His answer and His will to be done. As Christians we date to Marry and can’t afford to get it wrong. If a few people as family plus friends don’t agree, I’m thinking red flags for some reason, if you’re sure the relationship is of God, then safe to pursue.

Considering this is already a good choice, I think sometimes in the beginning the family who is not used to the idea of you having a date might be a little indifferent but as long as the person is willing to take time to establish a good relationship with the family then most probably they will warm up to that person.

The Bible says a man will leave his parents and become one with his wife, so he's separate from the parents and one with his wife, personally the friends and family just have to learn to like whoever it is. You spend most of your time with your wife/husband, not with family.

I believe that my family and friends are supporting me and praying for me. Their opinions matter but what matter the most is seeking His will. It's also important what my spiritual leaders to say.♥️

Oi

Obey, God is using them to help you

Besides that situation, Maybe I should take some steps back in the relationship to observe and analyse more the other person. Sometimes the rejection is just bc they saw something out of your love buble that is not healthy or good for you. Take it easy on your date life, avoiding bad experiences if possible. Don't get impulsive or reactive by this disapproval. Go with the flow, be vigilant and keep praying, God will reveal or settle everything if it's for your highest good and purpose.

What are the reasons for your family not liking who you date? I think it definitely depends.

IS HE DATING YOU OR THEM ? DO NOT TAKE NOTICE MATTERFACT THINK OF 10 GOOD THINGS ABOUT WHO THEY DATING IF YOU CAN'T THEN START THERE

Proverbs 11:14 King James Version 14 Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.

I would enquire further from them. What are they seeing/picking up on. Too often we become enamoured and our objectivity is compromised.

From my side, I will say to them : That's my life. You have yours. You are not happy, I am. My family knows my character so some dont cross the line so I am lucky about that. Good Luck !

You have to take notice of what they say, but not necessarily take action

If you're in doubt, ask all your previous dates for their opinions 🤣🤣

I think it depends on why they hate. If they don’t approve of them because of their colour, race, wage etc then I’d ignore their advice and look for new friends. If they seem to have genuine concerns about my welfare and the persons intentions etc then I would listen and decide for myself if I felt they were right or not. I think it would be tricky moving forward if you decided to not take their advice but people survive worse.

They also hate my date yet I believe if he is not for me so let it be

If someone you trust has genuine concerns (and can explain in a level-headed manner) then take heed. But if it’s someone just expressing an opinion or being authoritarian about it (which of course never happens in Christian circles…) then hold that very, very lightly. Seek the wisdom of mature Christians that you know care about you.

I’ve see a lot of damage caused by people not approving, especially in Bible college days. Often family, and quite often God is still in this and years later family have come around. The church is often the judgmental place

If friends and family don't like your date, I would take that as a red flag. Depends on why they don't like him either.

I'd take notice of course. I loved them first, before my date. I value their thoughts and feelings. There's no family tho to please on my end. But I'd pray for wisdom and clarity and listen first to what my godly leaders and friends have to say about my date. Check the roots of their comments 🤍🙏🏽 At this point, my people would be thrilled if I'd finally introduce one haha.

It really depends about the reasons they don’t like the person, and trust me that one prayer you make, makes them disappear lol

What's the reason? Are they noticing red flags? Is it one or two family or friends that dislike him? Or is everyone telling you the same thing? Is a deep character issue they see or do they just not vibe with him? Family and friends that bring up legitimate red flags, safety concerns, or character flaws need to be considered. They know you better than the new person you're dating knows you.