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Isabel - Team SALT
Tue Apr 29 2025

What's on your 'spouse list'? ✏️

Do you have a list of traits in a partner that you're specifically praying for and looking for? What's on the list?

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Jessica's avatar
Jessica

I’m looking for a nice,gentleman who has passion about God and loving , Animal lover! That’s it! Have a good day!

Wed May 14 2025
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Amanda's avatar
Amanda

A worshiper, a gentle and kind spirit, and who also desires a relationship based on friendship and calling over mere physical attraction. Called to NE Asia, (I’m in Japan!) appreciation for nature, is okay with quiet, and sees me as an equal partner. Love of kids, animals, and some sort of creative hobby would also be nice! 😊

Tue May 13 2025
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James's avatar
James

@Amanda hi x

Tue May 13 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Life has taught me that in everything thing you do please date a kind me..

Tue May 13 2025
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Tyrone

Compassionate, thoughtful and loving. Someone who finds the good in all things and God above all.

Mon May 12 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Tyrone I just wanted to tell you that I prayed for you asking God to give you a spirit to be a bit more gracious and patient with yourself & I want to share a heartfelt hug & a virtual cup of coffee (or tea) ☕/🍵with you! I thought it would be a nice way to begin our day 🤗🤗🤗

Tue May 13 2025
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Kody's avatar
Kody

Seeks the Lord, loves her family, compassionate, and fun

Sun May 11 2025
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Lina's avatar
Lina

A man of God, provider & protector,prayerful,empathetic and Fun.. not too much to ask, yet so difficult to find sometimes 🙌🏻

Sun May 11 2025
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David's avatar
David

Determining and trustworthy are qualities of a woman, but beauty is also important knowing that it is vain

Sat May 10 2025
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madel's avatar
madel

A person who prioritized God more than anything.. a true Christian who is willing to be change day by day and a prayerful man.

Sat May 10 2025
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Cynthia's avatar
Cynthia

Romance, sweep me off my feet💗

Sat May 10 2025
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Muyembe's avatar
Muyembe

A closeness to God, iron sharpens iron right?

Fri May 09 2025
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Anthony's avatar
Anthony

Find me on Facebook Anthony Heath Sr.

Fri May 09 2025
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Anthony's avatar
Anthony

Hello everyone I'm looking for a beautiful woman of God to start a conversation with and see where it goes.i want a wifey type of woman.

Fri May 09 2025
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Chiara's avatar
Chiara

Kindness goes a long way in my books! And emotional maturity with the ability to self reflect - to be able to have hard conversations not just easy ones, and to be able to compromise sometimes (not expected all the time for sure!) 😊

Fri May 09 2025
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Anonymous

@Chiara I 100% agree with you on this one. Emotional maturity is huge for me and it's such an underrated trait. Having someone who is emotionally rooted makes conflict resolution a lot easier. I love it when someone values communication in the relationship and they are Christ-like when it comes to treating the other person - selfless rather than selfish. Also, I have to put someone who is adventurous because I get bored indoors lol

Mon May 12 2025
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Sophie-As

I can feel dont know how but that GOD IS BETWEEN US Because if not I prefer to stay single AMEN

Thu May 08 2025
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Neuwe's avatar
Neuwe

Godly Man.

Thu May 08 2025
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Ruby's avatar
Ruby

He should love me in a sacrificial, sanctifying, and protective way, just like Christ’s love for the Church. “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”Ephesians 5:25

Thu May 08 2025
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Emmanuelle's avatar
Emmanuelle

Looking for a kingdom minded man. Pretty rare in this generation unfortunately

Wed May 07 2025
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John's avatar
John

I don't have a list written down but I think I'm sure I know what kind of lady I'm looking for

Wed May 07 2025
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Matityahu's avatar
Matityahu

An honest woman that can communicatie

Wed May 07 2025
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Kenye's avatar
Kenye

A man after God, not just someone that professes to be a godly man. He must be seeking the Father like I am. That’s a man I can follow, submit to and rule the world with. We can say we are chasing God and I look at the fruit of your life. It’s such a blessing to live for Christ and I’m ready to be joined to another. Where you at hun?

Wed May 07 2025
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Kayleigh's avatar
Kayleigh

It would be a blessing to meet my future husband to cherish and follow the Lord together. Someone who is mature and is faithful and puts the Lord first.

Tue May 06 2025
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Christopher's avatar
Christopher

It would be such a blessing to be able to hold someone that loves Christ.

Tue May 06 2025
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Christine's avatar
Christine

I want someone who loves me like Christ loved the church, is respectful and kind, puts God first, is mature, and is faithful.

Mon May 05 2025
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Eber's avatar
Eber

What happens when God chooses your spouse and tells you to love them unconditionally? 🙏🏼📖☝🏼

Mon May 05 2025
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Kelly

@Eber If you don't mind me commenting some thoughts - first, you should get confirmation that what you've heard is actually from God on the person you think is your spouse. Also at the end of the day, while you can and should love them to the best of your ability, it's only God who can truly love unconditionally. Hence the different confirmation. Hope that helps a bit!

Tue May 06 2025
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Eber's avatar
Eber

@Kelly I agree! The only way we can love anyone is by being reborn again 🙏🏼 1 John 4:8 Jesus is our example by hearing and obeying him☝🏼there’s a reward for demonstrating this type of Love from God! I was making a point, we must guard our Hearts. A lot of people after the flesh on this app 😬📖 thanks for sharing your opinion.

Tue May 06 2025
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James's avatar
James

@Kelly hi beautiful comment x

Tue May 06 2025
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Dave's avatar
Dave

The most important things: Prayerful, Patient, Non-Judgmental.

Mon May 05 2025
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Oasis

Someone who is surrendering to Jesus, can admit their faults, can be open and honest with those faults, someone who seeks to pray together and confess faults to each other. Someone who truly knows how fallen they are and are in need of Christ they are and someone who sees I am in the same boat and am in need of Jesus too. Someone who lifts me up to Jesus when I’m down and someone who lets me lift them up to Jesus when I’m down. Basically someone who is constantly being changed by the Gospel.

Sun May 04 2025
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Rose's avatar
Rose

A deep understanding of God’s word , strong prayer life , living out his faith in every aspect of life , and it goes on and on 😅

Sun May 04 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Consistent, God focused, honest, emotional intelligent, the list could go on 😅 All in Gods timing x

Sun May 04 2025
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Peter's avatar
Peter

Prayer for a Friend or a special person that will come along.

Sat May 03 2025
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Cate's avatar
Cate

God told me to tear up my lists long ago. Whilst I have preferences and also look for red flags, ultimately, I will love the person He puts in front of me and believe He will put the supernatural love in me for him and vice versa.

Sat May 03 2025
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Julie's avatar
Julie

Intelligence

Sat May 03 2025
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Laura's avatar
Laura

Empathy is really at the top of the list for me.

Sat May 03 2025
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James's avatar
James

@Laura beautiful x

Sun May 04 2025
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Chris's avatar
Chris

A spouse

Sat May 03 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Chris snap, so am I 😉🤗

Sat May 03 2025
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LaToya's avatar
LaToya

@Chris 😂

Fri May 09 2025
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Christie's avatar
Christie

Someone that knows what kingdom marraige is about. Prays. Believes in love and commitment

Fri May 02 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

I’m looking for a partner and I’m praying you every day for a partner to the Lord Bruce. Answer my prayer.

Fri May 02 2025
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Christie's avatar
Christie

God focused

Fri May 02 2025
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Shell's avatar
Shell

When it comes to lists, it’s common to have 2 areas that we pray for our future spouse - non-negotiable character and values, & preferences (ahem looks or height). While the non-negotiable side doesn’t change for the most part, the preferences has, for me, over the years. If the man loves God, it’ll show in his actions, his service, his family, ministry, and in everything done unto the Lord. That’s what matters at the end of it all.

Thu May 01 2025
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Jacob

Modesty, authenticity, kindness, devotion to God, gentle, quiet. I think it would be wise to embody the traits we would like to find in a spouse before we demand them from other people

Thu May 01 2025
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Ms M

@Jacob 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Fri May 09 2025
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Paul's avatar
Paul

1. Leads life like a true Christian 2. Reciprocative physical attraction is important to a certain level. 3. Is smarter than me, in a sense that she can have a logical discussion about a disagreement or in making a decision , or call me out on something. 4. God willing, wanting to start a family.

Thu May 01 2025
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Cèsar's avatar
Cèsar

I woukd think is less about preferences and more about character shaped by the gospel.

Thu May 01 2025
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Martin's avatar
Martin

I will run out of characters as my list is very detailed and I know exactly what I am looking for 🧐 But for the start, it ideally would be l a woman who is extroverted, straight forward and can communicate her feelings in an effective manner 💯 Also I am looking for someone who excels at things I do not have talent for (and the other way around) so that we can be a perfect team 🔥 Bonus points if she is a worship leader, is physically attractive and not bound to staying at a location 🙏🏻

Thu May 01 2025
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John's avatar
John

Martin, do you think you (or the typical Christian man) would go further if the lady wasn't physically attractive?

Tue May 06 2025
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Georg's avatar
Georg

I think we can do better than lists. When God created Eve, Adam didn't stop and say, “Wait, I have a list of what I want first.”

Thu May 01 2025
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Zoe's avatar
Zoe

@Georg true & vice versa

Thu May 01 2025
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Sarah's avatar
Sarah

Besides the Christian viewpoints and life viewpoints, as those come first, I’m praying for someone who understands that I have mild autism, and who is open to kids but won’t push me to have them, nor do I want to be the one pushing him to have kids with me, I want us both ready, as the lord wills it.

Thu May 01 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Great question! I'm gonna answer with faith in God that he will pick the right man for me! Some traits I'm looking for besides an active relationship with God are: Humility, gentleness, a bit goofy like me 😂, a listener , honesty, ambiverted...there's plenty other traits but I'll run out of characters😅. I guess the shallow traits I'd prefer are things like: a deep voice, naturally long eyelashes and big hands (Don't ask😅), facial hair and 5"10+ 😅

Wed Apr 30 2025
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Andy's avatar
Andy

@Mica long eyelashes, goofy, 5'10"+? I think you're looking for a camel 🐫 😂

Wed Apr 30 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

Do you want this in alphabetical or numerical order? 🙃

Tue Apr 29 2025
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Chris's avatar
Chris

@Jude hit us with the alphanumeric list!

Wed Apr 30 2025
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Evelyn's avatar
Evelyn

@Jude I suggest both an alphabetical and numerical list with cross-referencing throughout both lists! 😂😂😂😂😂

Sat May 03 2025
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Yafet

@Jude 😂😂😂😂

Sat May 03 2025
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