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Isabel - Team SALT
Wed Jun 18 2025

First Date Ideas 😍

What do you love to do on a first date? Ideas please!

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Bryant's avatar
Bryant

I prefer ice cream date or hiking

Tue Jul 15 2025
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Val's avatar
Val

Museums, landmarks, aquariums. Places to walk, talk and have an experience.

Tue Jul 15 2025
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Binna

My first ain't like a first date, I don't like when things are done officially, it won't be fun... I will treat her and serve her like we've been dating in ages, I will bring up good conversations that will make us forget about our troubles 🤣

Mon Jul 14 2025
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Lara

Picnics near water :)

Mon Jul 14 2025
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Lydia

Just a simple coffee date, it's about getting to find out if this is someone you'd want to hopefully marry, not about all the fancy stuff 😊

Mon Jul 14 2025
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James

@Lydia I agree; better to take things slow like the toitoise beating the hare. Simple coffee date or a walk or something xx

Mon Jul 14 2025
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Gean

Mim chamo Gean Santos Moreira de marcolino moura Bahia município de Rio de contas Bahia chapada Diamantina tenho 25 anos Sou solteiro procuro algo sério sou da igreja católica

Sun Jul 13 2025
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Andy

I’m going to sound very English. I invite the lady to a country house / national trust property, it’s somewhere public with lots of people about, and although I’m not into houses gardens or antiques everyone can have an opinion on for example a picture and it gives us something to talk about and keeps the conversation going, theirs normally also a tea shop, so we can have a sit down and proper chat if thing are going well

Sun Jul 13 2025
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Emma

@Andy love this idea Andy, because I personally love a National Trust Property ☺️🥰❤️

Sun Jul 13 2025
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J

Alguna chica de Murcia Valencia o Madrid ?? Que me hable por pv

Sun Jul 13 2025
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J's avatar
J

Hola soy de Murcia 32 años me llamo Jordi

Sun Jul 13 2025
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Jo's avatar
Jo

Yeah something fun. It differs for each person, like I’m not someone who’d like fishing… but go carting… yes! And others won’t like go carting. Or… the classic coffee date :)

Sun Jul 13 2025
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Brianne

Bowling, it's active and casual and you can order some light appetizers.

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Martin

@Brianne you have a point...and for some people like me, having an activity is better to help keep the conversation going, when you are first meeting the person.

Mon Jul 14 2025
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Jeff

I need to learn from others 😅

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Glaydson

Meeting at good restaurant

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Nacho

Play a videogame, and of course start with prayer

Fri Jul 11 2025
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Vlado

The last first date (3 years ago) was just classic tea/coffee with talk, but lately I realized date could be more fun and adventurous, so thinking about something that will bring some thrill and adrenaline but not being dangerous with talk of course, as we should be getting to know each other and not finish each other.

Fri Jul 11 2025
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Jason

@Vlado would you recommend Paintball in a first date ???

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Vlado

@Jason paintball for teams, usually women dont like pain from what I know and paintball can be very painful, i would rather recommend go-kart racing, laser tag - yes laser tag would be better, its still adrenaline because nobody wants to get shot, its pain free, and its a lot of fun.

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Emma

@Jason I’d say completely depends on the girl. Some would love to wear a fabulous dress and heels on a date, hating getting muddy or uncomfortable from paintball. However other girls might love it!!! I’d always be happy to be asked and thrilled that someone cared that I would be happy and comfortable on date. Very best of luck and God bless 🤗🙏

Sun Jul 13 2025
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Aitor

Hola! Soy español 29 años de Madrid

Thu Jul 10 2025
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Anonymous

Hola buenas noches

Thu Jul 10 2025
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Ignacio

Si, realmente la 1ra cita está muy sujeto a como se dio... Recetas hechas npierde el encanto de la originalidad, incluso la espontaneidad.

Wed Jul 09 2025
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Poly

Olá

Wed Jul 09 2025
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Poly

Hello

Wed Jul 09 2025
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James

@Poly hola I can speak in poco español xx

Wed Jul 09 2025
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Emma

@James all good 👍

Wed Jul 09 2025
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James

@Emma how are u x

Thu Jul 10 2025
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Emma

Being open to the idea that a perfect first date idea is unique and different to each of us. Let’s be unselfish and give the choice to the other person. Let’s be open to realising God may not tell us at first date if this person is, “the one.” I truly believe he’s allowed me in the past to continue to a point to stay in a wrong relationship to teach me something I needed to know!! Personally I’m up for a little adrenaline on a first date 😉

Tue Jul 08 2025
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James's avatar
James

@Emma hello I love that. How are you xx

Wed Jul 09 2025
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Martin

@Emma I think you have some really good perspectives!

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Emma

@Martin thank you for your kind words 🥰🙏

Sat Jul 12 2025
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Wolfgang

I've been wanting to suggest this but haven't dared yet. It feels both powerful and vulnerable, but a good way to start a date would be to pray together. Something like: "Heavenly father, thank you for bringing us together on this day. We pray that you open our hearts, that we may speak the truth, speak what is on our heart, have the courage to show ourselves fully and encounter each other with grace not judgement. Amen".

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Wolfgang I'm smitten with your idea of starting a date with like this! I too always start my chats with God with "Heavenly Father" cause I'm addressing my prayer to God, our Father who art in Heaven, and showing a sense of reverence & respect, gratitude & praise. Like you I too am a prayer warrior who prays hard, loves harder! I spoke to God about you & I prayed for you & also thank God for you being such a blessing.

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Just Me Hayley

Wolfgang your prayer pulls at my heart strings & resonates with me. I find it would build a strong foundation rooted in faith. Love how it beautifully expresses gratitude for being brought together & asks for God's divine assistance in communicating openly & authentically with one another, emphasizing compassion & understanding rather than judgment. It creates a safe space where as a couple can be vulnerable & share their true selves with grace.

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Just Me Hayley

I pray that your Prayers as a couple suggestion will inspire others as it has touched me, encouraging to serve one another! Be blessed, go well & continue to be a blessing and not a curse. Yours Hayley

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Anonymous

Well, just hang out and talk your favourite hobbies

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Amala

Always a church date, then a coffee or walk

Mon Jul 07 2025
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Samuele

Surviving mutual projections, assumptions, and unhealthy coping strategies triggered by previous experiences that we are completely clueless while we are just talking about our careers and hobbies. That would be ideal 😉

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Just Me Hayley

@Samuele lol sounds like a therapy session with a happy twist. As long as both are aware of being analyzed & don't mind then the date will be interesting and fun 😜

Mon Jul 07 2025
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Emma

@Samuele we are entirely clueless 😆😉 May we have Gods wisdom and not our own, mines rather faulty and proven a few times to be so!!!!!!! 😉🤣

Tue Jul 08 2025
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Anonymous

Paz con todos ustedes...y el amor prevalezca..amen

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Dave's avatar
Dave

Going to a unique museum is a favourite. Also successfully went Geocaching once!

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Zoe

@Dave geocaching sounds fun, I’ve not heard of it before so asked google! Thanks 🙏🏻 when are we going? 😝

Fri Jul 11 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Anything with pizza or tacos

Sun Jul 06 2025
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James

@Yanira id have a date with you with pizza 🍕 and tacos 🌮 xx

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Jason's avatar
Jason

@James OR Both Taco Pizza 🍕

Mon Jul 07 2025
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HUMBERTO

Go to church and eat after as we pray it out and pray after separation both going back home

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Melissa

A picnic and a walk by the park/ beach

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Matej

@Melissa Just my kind of girl. I would like to take you on a date.

Sun Jul 06 2025
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Matej

@Joyci I am a Catholic. Are you a Catholic?

Mon Jul 07 2025
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Matej

@Joyci That is great. I'm would like to find a Catholic girl.

Mon Jul 07 2025
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Jason

Customize the date to their likes & values .... Recently, I met a lady for lunch at a Chinese buffet, then went around to like six thrift stores shopping .... Sparks did not fly but we both had a great time and found some good bargains ....and really got to know each other's tastes &; preferences in clothes, kitchen gadgets, board games, music, books, movies, furniture, etc ..... -- Definitely fun & got out of routine to go to shops I had not been before .... Also walking dogs at a park 🐕👍

Sat Jul 05 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Jason that's sounds like an ideal date, I love thrift shopping, and walking the dogs 🐕 would be awesome too 😄

Sat Jul 05 2025
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Martin's avatar
Martin

@Jason that sounds like a good approach. Then you will both have had some good clean fun to remember, even if there was no romantic link.

Mon Jul 07 2025
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Pastor Marco

Be Creatice. Talked about this on my channel. So know thr person likes and dislikes plus hobbies. Those are your keys. That will bring happiness in your date. It shows you care and do so.

Sat Jul 05 2025
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Eric

I try to design a date to introduce someone into my world. So places I like to go to on my own, things I found interesting in the city, things I want to discover. That way, I can see if the person enjoys it or if they’re not really into it which is fine.

Wed Jun 18 2025
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