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Isabel - Team SALT
Tue May 13 2025

Too much choice on dating apps?!

Do you feel like dating apps make you too picky? Is there too much choice? Do we always think there might be a better option? How do you try to stay open and bring God into your swiping?

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Renée's avatar
Renée

I actually find it tempts you to lower your standards

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

Lol by the day Kidding!

Wed May 14 2025
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Anonymous

Communication is key! If I match with someone who doesn’t talk, I unmatch. Not being picky, but it’s an insight into their character and priorities

Wed May 14 2025
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John

The app could perhaps make it easier for people to connect. How about letting people connect directly through the Social part of the app?

Wed May 14 2025
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Lachlan's avatar
Lachlan

@John you can do that by tapping the person's picture, you'll then see their profile and can send an intro

Wed May 14 2025
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John's avatar
John

There's never too much choice when you know what kind of woman (or man of course) you're looking for

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

The longer you are on the apps the pickier you become. “You either die a hero or you live long enough to become the villain” - Harvey Dent (from The Dark Knight)

Wed May 14 2025
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Stan's avatar
Stan

@Jude Drat! I almost typed same, you beat me to it 👊🏽🙂

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

@Stan oh mate! Seems like I always beat you aye 🙃😂

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Stan's avatar
Stan

@Jude aww no, but you keep thinking that m’kay 😂

Wed May 14 2025
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Lachlan

@Jude lol, one I heard recently was "Dating apps are either a dumpster or a desert, but usually both." I chuckled.

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

@Lachlan you can be an oasis 🏞 for the ladies in that desert 🏜

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Lachlan

@Jude there's only one Oasis on here and it ain't me 😉

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude

@Lachlan hahaha she blocked me because my theological questions are too difficult to answer 🥲

Wed May 14 2025
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Anonymous

@Jude are you sapiosexual ?

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude's avatar
Jude

@Emmanuelle haha 😆 I wouldn’t say so. If a girl is just physically attractive I won’t like her. I need more, but she’s doesn’t need to be extremely intelligent. If she’s top 20% I’d be happy 👍

Wed May 14 2025
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Lachlan

@Jude I think it was more so the fact you guys kept going round in circles. Even I can appreciate it gets tiresome. Going back to your Harvey Dent quote... have you become a villian? lol

Wed May 14 2025
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Anonymous

@Jude I understand you. As for me I’m sapiosexual . I pretty much enjoy good convos with “intelligent” folks. Especially about everything biblical and good books from different men of God 😊

Wed May 14 2025
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Jude

@Lachlan lol I hope not

Wed May 14 2025
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Taylor

It’s not about having too many or not enough options. Allowing yourself to be publicly put on display isn’t easy, and no one can manipulate you into choosing who to trust. Some of us have been hurt before. Christian app or not there are many wolves in sheep’s clothing.

Tue May 13 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Conținut șters

Tue May 13 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Ben hi ! I’m sure there is so much more to discover about you… kindly add more amazing pictures of you and respond to more question… I’m sure you’ll turn heads 😊 wish you the best ✨

Tue May 13 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Ben For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he 🤷🏾‍♀️ change your way of thinking and see the change you’ll experience ✨ wish you the best always

Thu May 15 2025
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Anonymous

@Ben really sorry I should have said : you are the only one who has the power to change the narrative. That’s better. ✨

Thu May 15 2025
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Amir

Sometimes I hear things at church or read things in women’s profiles here that make me forget I live in the same world, with the same faith. And I find myself wishing I could live in that world instead. I just hope I never have to share my own experiences with anyone—because they’re really not good.

Tue May 13 2025
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Emma

I find people desperately need attention and love. The difficulty is previous experiences make an actual relationship anxiety provoking. As soon as a relationship looks to be going anywhere the fear of rejection/failure is so strong that’s people find it easier to reject. They then get their quick fix of genuine need of excitement/attention by starting with someone else. The pattern repeats and repeats. Other people get damaged in the process and fearful of the rejection too 😢We need to heal ❤️

Tue May 13 2025
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Leona

I think its more a problem of quality over quantity! When you say you are a Christian App but then dont adhere to biblical standards it makes finding a true partner no easier than a secular dating app or real world dating 😕

Tue May 13 2025
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“Genesis”

@Leona 💯👏🏾

Wed May 14 2025
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Leona

@“Genesis” how are you lovely lady? Not seen you in ages, I pray you are well 🙏🏻💜

Wed May 14 2025
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Jennifer

That might all depend where you live - in my area there are very few people on here.

Tue May 13 2025
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Lachlan's avatar
Lachlan

Nu.

Tue May 13 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

I’m always open to chat with different people The world is so small. You never know who God can use to reach you. Close mindedness should be resisted with passion on dating app. Discernment is also needed to know if the person you are talking to is genuine or not. It’s never just to date, you never know 🤷🏾‍♀️ I rest my case✨

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