I actually find it tempts you to lower your standards

Too much choice on dating apps?!
Do you feel like dating apps make you too picky? Is there too much choice? Do we always think there might be a better option? How do you try to stay open and bring God into your swiping?
Lol by the day Kidding!
Communication is key! If I match with someone who doesn’t talk, I unmatch. Not being picky, but it’s an insight into their character and priorities
The app could perhaps make it easier for people to connect. How about letting people connect directly through the Social part of the app?
@John you can do that by tapping the person's picture, you'll then see their profile and can send an intro
There's never too much choice when you know what kind of woman (or man of course) you're looking for
The longer you are on the apps the pickier you become. “You either die a hero or you live long enough to become the villain” - Harvey Dent (from The Dark Knight)
@Jude Drat! I almost typed same, you beat me to it 👊🏽🙂
@Stan oh mate! Seems like I always beat you aye 🙃😂
@Jude aww no, but you keep thinking that m’kay 😂
@Jude lol, one I heard recently was "Dating apps are either a dumpster or a desert, but usually both." I chuckled.
@Lachlan you can be an oasis 🏞 for the ladies in that desert 🏜
@Jude there's only one Oasis on here and it ain't me 😉
@Lachlan hahaha she blocked me because my theological questions are too difficult to answer 🥲
@Jude are you sapiosexual ?
@Emmanuelle haha 😆 I wouldn’t say so. If a girl is just physically attractive I won’t like her. I need more, but she’s doesn’t need to be extremely intelligent. If she’s top 20% I’d be happy 👍
@Jude I think it was more so the fact you guys kept going round in circles. Even I can appreciate it gets tiresome. Going back to your Harvey Dent quote... have you become a villian? lol
@Jude I understand you. As for me I’m sapiosexual . I pretty much enjoy good convos with “intelligent” folks. Especially about everything biblical and good books from different men of God 😊
@Lachlan lol I hope not
It’s not about having too many or not enough options. Allowing yourself to be publicly put on display isn’t easy, and no one can manipulate you into choosing who to trust. Some of us have been hurt before. Christian app or not there are many wolves in sheep’s clothing.
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@Ben hi ! I’m sure there is so much more to discover about you… kindly add more amazing pictures of you and respond to more question… I’m sure you’ll turn heads 😊 wish you the best ✨
@Ben For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he 🤷🏾♀️ change your way of thinking and see the change you’ll experience ✨ wish you the best always
@Ben really sorry I should have said : you are the only one who has the power to change the narrative. That’s better. ✨
Sometimes I hear things at church or read things in women’s profiles here that make me forget I live in the same world, with the same faith. And I find myself wishing I could live in that world instead. I just hope I never have to share my own experiences with anyone—because they’re really not good.
I find people desperately need attention and love. The difficulty is previous experiences make an actual relationship anxiety provoking. As soon as a relationship looks to be going anywhere the fear of rejection/failure is so strong that’s people find it easier to reject. They then get their quick fix of genuine need of excitement/attention by starting with someone else. The pattern repeats and repeats. Other people get damaged in the process and fearful of the rejection too 😢We need to heal ❤️
I think its more a problem of quality over quantity! When you say you are a Christian App but then dont adhere to biblical standards it makes finding a true partner no easier than a secular dating app or real world dating 😕
@Leona 💯👏🏾
@“Genesis” how are you lovely lady? Not seen you in ages, I pray you are well 🙏🏻💜
That might all depend where you live - in my area there are very few people on here.
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I’m always open to chat with different people The world is so small. You never know who God can use to reach you. Close mindedness should be resisted with passion on dating app. Discernment is also needed to know if the person you are talking to is genuine or not. It’s never just to date, you never know 🤷🏾♀️ I rest my case✨