I prefer ice cream date or hiking

First Date Ideas ð
What do you love to do on a first date? Ideas please!
Museums, landmarks, aquariums. Places to walk, talk and have an experience.
My first ain't like a first date, I don't like when things are done officially, it won't be fun... I will treat her and serve her like we've been dating in ages, I will bring up good conversations that will make us forget about our troubles ð€£
Picnics near water :)
Just a simple coffee date, it's about getting to find out if this is someone you'd want to hopefully marry, not about all the fancy stuff ð
@Lydia I agree; better to take things slow like the toitoise beating the hare. Simple coffee date or a walk or something xx
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Iâm going to sound very English. I invite the lady to a country house / national trust property, itâs somewhere public with lots of people about, and although Iâm not into houses gardens or antiques everyone can have an opinion on for example a picture and it gives us something to talk about and keeps the conversation going, theirs normally also a tea shop, so we can have a sit down and proper chat if thing are going well
@Andy love this idea Andy, because I personally love a National Trust Property âºïžð¥°â€ïž
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Hola soy de Murcia 32 años me llamo Jordi
Yeah something fun. It differs for each person, like Iâm not someone whoâd like fishing⊠but go carting⊠yes! And others wonât like go carting. Or⊠the classic coffee date :)
Bowling, it's active and casual and you can order some light appetizers.
@Brianne you have a point...and for some people like me, having an activity is better to help keep the conversation going, when you are first meeting the person.
I need to learn from others ð
Meeting at good restaurant
Play a videogame, and of course start with prayer
The last first date (3 years ago) was just classic tea/coffee with talk, but lately I realized date could be more fun and adventurous, so thinking about something that will bring some thrill and adrenaline but not being dangerous with talk of course, as we should be getting to know each other and not finish each other.
@Vlado would you recommend Paintball in a first date ???
@Jason paintball for teams, usually women dont like pain from what I know and paintball can be very painful, i would rather recommend go-kart racing, laser tag - yes laser tag would be better, its still adrenaline because nobody wants to get shot, its pain free, and its a lot of fun.
@Jason Iâd say completely depends on the girl. Some would love to wear a fabulous dress and heels on a date, hating getting muddy or uncomfortable from paintball. However other girls might love it!!! Iâd always be happy to be asked and thrilled that someone cared that I would be happy and comfortable on date. Very best of luck and God bless ð€ð
Hola! Soy español 29 años de Madrid
Hola buenas noches
Si, realmente la 1ra cita está muy sujeto a como se dio... Recetas hechas npierde el encanto de la originalidad, incluso la espontaneidad.
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@Poly hola I can speak in poco español xx
@James all good ð
@Emma how are u x
Being open to the idea that a perfect first date idea is unique and different to each of us. Letâs be unselfish and give the choice to the other person. Letâs be open to realising God may not tell us at first date if this person is, âthe one.â I truly believe heâs allowed me in the past to continue to a point to stay in a wrong relationship to teach me something I needed to know!! Personally Iâm up for a little adrenaline on a first date ð
@Emma hello I love that. How are you xx
@Emma I think you have some really good perspectives!
@Martin thank you for your kind words ð¥°ð
I've been wanting to suggest this but haven't dared yet. It feels both powerful and vulnerable, but a good way to start a date would be to pray together. Something like: "Heavenly father, thank you for bringing us together on this day. We pray that you open our hearts, that we may speak the truth, speak what is on our heart, have the courage to show ourselves fully and encounter each other with grace not judgement. Amen".
@Wolfgang I'm smitten with your idea of starting a date with like this! I too always start my chats with God with "Heavenly Father" cause I'm addressing my prayer to God, our Father who art in Heaven, and showing a sense of reverence & respect, gratitude & praise. Like you I too am a prayer warrior who prays hard, loves harder! I spoke to God about you & I prayed for you & also thank God for you being such a blessing.
Wolfgang your prayer pulls at my heart strings & resonates with me. I find it would build a strong foundation rooted in faith. Love how it beautifully expresses gratitude for being brought together & asks for God's divine assistance in communicating openly & authentically with one another, emphasizing compassion & understanding rather than judgment. It creates a safe space where as a couple can be vulnerable & share their true selves with grace.
I pray that your Prayers as a couple suggestion will inspire others as it has touched me, encouraging to serve one another! Be blessed, go well & continue to be a blessing and not a curse. Yours Hayley
Well, just hang out and talk your favourite hobbies
Always a church date, then a coffee or walk
Surviving mutual projections, assumptions, and unhealthy coping strategies triggered by previous experiences that we are completely clueless while we are just talking about our careers and hobbies. That would be ideal ð
@Samuele lol sounds like a therapy session with a happy twist. As long as both are aware of being analyzed & don't mind then the date will be interesting and fun ð
@Samuele we are entirely clueless ðð May we have Gods wisdom and not our own, mines rather faulty and proven a few times to be so!!!!!!! ðð€£
Paz con todos ustedes...y el amor prevalezca..amen
Going to a unique museum is a favourite. Also successfully went Geocaching once!
@Dave geocaching sounds fun, Iâve not heard of it before so asked google! Thanks ðð» when are we going? ð
Anything with pizza or tacos
@Yanira id have a date with you with pizza ð and tacos ð® xx
@James OR Both Taco Pizza ð
Go to church and eat after as we pray it out and pray after separation both going back home
A picnic and a walk by the park/ beach
@Melissa Just my kind of girl. I would like to take you on a date.
@Joyci I am a Catholic. Are you a Catholic?
@Joyci That is great. I'm would like to find a Catholic girl.
Customize the date to their likes & values .... Recently, I met a lady for lunch at a Chinese buffet, then went around to like six thrift stores shopping .... Sparks did not fly but we both had a great time and found some good bargains ....and really got to know each other's tastes &; preferences in clothes, kitchen gadgets, board games, music, books, movies, furniture, etc ..... -- Definitely fun & got out of routine to go to shops I had not been before .... Also walking dogs at a park ðð
@Jason that's sounds like an ideal date, I love thrift shopping, and walking the dogs ð would be awesome too ð
@Jason that sounds like a good approach. Then you will both have had some good clean fun to remember, even if there was no romantic link.
Be Creatice. Talked about this on my channel. So know thr person likes and dislikes plus hobbies. Those are your keys. That will bring happiness in your date. It shows you care and do so.
I try to design a date to introduce someone into my world. So places I like to go to on my own, things I found interesting in the city, things I want to discover. That way, I can see if the person enjoys it or if theyâre not really into it which is fine.