{"id":550,"date":"2024-12-23T12:50:03","date_gmt":"2024-12-23T12:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=550"},"modified":"2024-12-23T12:52:04","modified_gmt":"2024-12-23T12:52:04","slug":"whats-bad-advice-to-give-to-a-single-christian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/whats-bad-advice-to-give-to-a-single-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s bad advice to give to a single Christian?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being single as a Christian can be a beautiful season of life\u2014a time to grow closer to God, discover your purpose, and build strong relationships with others. But let\u2019s be honest, it also comes with challenges, especially when well-meaning <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/christian-dating-advice-gone-wrong\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">people offer advice<\/a> that ranges from unhelpful to downright harmful. If you\u2019ve ever cringed at someone\u2019s \u201cwisdom,\u201d you\u2019re not alone. Let\u2019s explore some bad advice single Christians often hear and what you should do instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-just-wait-on-the-lord-he-ll-send-the-right-person-when-you-re-ready\">\u201cJust Wait on the Lord\u2014He\u2019ll Send the Right Person When You\u2019re Ready.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While it\u2019s true that God\u2019s timing is perfect, this advice can leave you feeling like you\u2019re passively waiting for your life to start. It suggests that you\u2019re incomplete until you\u2019re married or that you need to achieve some mythical level of readiness before God blesses you with a spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, trust God\u2019s timing, but remember that faith requires action. Proverbs 16:9 says, \u201cThe heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.\u201d Take steps to meet new people and develop healthy relationships. Joining a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">community of like-minded believers<\/a> or even using a Christian dating app like SALT can be a great way to meet others who share your values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Unhelpful Things Married People Say to Singles\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1FenXduIgWA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-yourself-first-marriage-will-happen-when-you-least-expect-it\">\u201cFocus on Yourself First\u2014Marriage Will Happen When You Least Expect It.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice-0\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While self-improvement is always a good idea, this advice can be misleading. It often implies that your singleness is somehow a \u201cproblem\u201d you need to fix. It can also discourage you from being intentional about pursuing a godly relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead-0\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be intentional about your growth, not as a prerequisite for marriage but as part of becoming the person God created you to be. At the same time, don\u2019t shy away from actively pursuing relationships. It\u2019s okay to want marriage and to take steps toward it. Again, tools like SALT make it easier to <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\">connect with other committed Christians<\/a>, opening the door to meaningful connections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here&#8217;s what the community on SALT Social had to say about<a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/hr\/social\/worst-advice-for-single-christians\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> bad advice<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-god-helps-those-who-help-themselves\">\u201cGod Helps Those Who Help Themselves\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice-1\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This phrase isn\u2019t even in the Bible! While it\u2019s important to be proactive, this advice can lead to striving in your own strength and potentially stepping outside God\u2019s will. It might even pressure you into settling for someone who isn\u2019t God\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead-1\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Balance faith and action. Pray consistently for God\u2019s guidance in your relationships, but don\u2019t be afraid to put yourself out there. Whether it\u2019s joining a small group, attending social events, or using Christian platforms like SALT, trust that God will guide you as you seek His will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"STOP saying this to single Christians\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mBHaSL319qw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-be-too-picky\">\u201cDon\u2019t Be Too Picky.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice-2\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While no one is perfect, this advice often encourages people to lower their standards or compromise their values. A strong, Christ-centered relationship requires shared beliefs and a mutual commitment to God\u2019s principles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead-2\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have realistic expectations, but don\u2019t compromise on the essentials. Look for someone who shares your faith, values, and vision for the future. Remember, a godly relationship should reflect Ephesians 5:25\u2014a sacrificial love that honors God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-stay-pure-god-will-reward-you-with-a-spouse\">\u201cIf You Stay Pure, God Will Reward You with a Spouse.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice-3\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This advice treats purity like a transactional deal with God. While honoring God with your body and heart is essential, marriage isn\u2019t a \u201creward\u201d for good behavior. Believing this can lead to frustration or disillusionment if marriage doesn\u2019t come when you expect it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead-3\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pursue purity because it\u2019s what God calls you to, not as a way to \u201cearn\u201d anything. Trust that God\u2019s plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11), whether they include marriage or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-need-to-find-someone-quickly-you-re-not-getting-any-younger\">\u201cYou Need to Find Someone Quickly\u2014You\u2019re Not Getting Any Younger.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-it-s-bad-advice-4\">Why It\u2019s Bad Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This advice fuels anxiety and creates a sense of urgency that often leads to rushed or unwise decisions. It\u2019s rooted in societal pressures rather than God\u2019s truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-instead-4\">What to Do Instead<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reject the timeline culture. God\u2019s timing is perfect, and there\u2019s no \u201cexpiration date\u201d on finding love. Focus on growing in your relationship with Christ and trust Him to guide you to the right person at the right time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-personal-reflections\">Personal Reflections<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I was single, I often heard conflicting advice that left me more confused than comforted. One piece of advice I ignored (thankfully) was to stop looking altogether and just \u201clet it happen.\u201d Instead, I stayed active in my church, attended events, and met people\u2014and eventually, through a community of believers, I found someone who shared my values and love for Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For those navigating the single season, I encourage you to embrace it fully. This is a time to grow, serve, and connect in meaningful ways. Use tools like SALT, which aligns with Christian values, to widen your circle. Who knows? God may use those very steps to lead you to someone special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Singleness isn\u2019t a problem to be solved but a season to be lived fully. Bad advice often comes from a place of misunderstanding, so filter everything through God\u2019s Word and prayer. Be intentional, trust God\u2019s timing, and remember that His plans for you are always for your good. Whether or not marriage is part of your future, you are complete and deeply loved in Christ.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being single as a Christian can be a beautiful season of life\u2014a time to grow closer to God, discover your purpose, and build strong relationships with others. But let\u2019s be honest, it also comes with challenges, especially when well-meaning people offer advice that ranges from unhelpful to downright harmful. 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