{"id":262,"date":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T10:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=262"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:17","slug":"christian-dating-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/christian-dating-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Christian Dating Boundaries: How Far is Too Far?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Christian dating boundaries are the thing we get asked about the most. How far is too far when it comes to physical and emotional boundaries?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of my strongest memories of pure pleasure was from a festival in my teens.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was a theatre kid at drama camp. I know, so cool. My friend and I however were&#8230; not \u2018one\u2019 with the outdoors. We were like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=t7jZXt9luKQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Melman from Madagascar<\/a>, if you get the 2005 (yikes) reference.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We powered through for the sake of the arts. But the less than desirable catering left us famished for something more.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lo and behold, in the shopping centre nearby there was a <em>Greggs<\/em>. We gleefully bought a caramel custard donut to satisfy our longing for something really good.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I took a bite. Utter bliss. Sweet, sticky, kind of goopy. It was incredible. Total indulgence after our days of sleepless nights in nature.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the thing with fast food, isn\u2019t it. It feeds into the instant gratification our bellies and minds crave.&nbsp;I have to say though, even writing about it now makes my stomach churn a bit. That donut discovery led to more than obsession. It now makes me feel a bit funny whenever I walk past a <em>Greggs<\/em>. It\u2019s safe to say I over indulged because I wanted to replicate that first bite feeling from drama camp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: The Summary<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This analogy is not dissimilar to ones I heard growing up in church or youth camps. It was all somehow linked to saving sex for marriage. \u201cDon\u2019t spoil what is good before it\u2019s too late\u201d and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was easy to get on board as a very naive teen. But as an adult entering the dating world I still wanted to know how far I could get before that sick feeling in my stomach returned<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re wrestling with this, you aren\u2019t alone. Many single Christians want to know <strong>how far is too far?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this blog<strong> <\/strong>I\u2019ll let you in on what\u2019s helped and guided me. Hopefully God\u2019s voice will speak to you and everything else &#8211; like the world when I ate that donut &#8211; will fall away.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s talk about some <strong>Christian Dating Boundaries!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>The will to wait&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Things that help<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Unhelpful substitutes&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Make it easy&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>What if it\u2019s too late?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"BOUNDARIES in Christian Dating: Cuddle with caution\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qy1yLQ12rHo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Watch <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> talk about her take on Christian Dating Boundaries<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-far-is-too-far\">How Far is Too Far?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A list of Christian dating rules would be great wouldn\u2019t it?! Especially when it comes to where our limit should be with physical intimacy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Side note. Hilariously there is one on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Set-Boundaries-in-Christian-Dating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">WikiHow<\/a>. It\u2019s not all bad to be fair!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But we know that as people, we aren\u2019t so great at following rules. When a \u2018do and don\u2019ts\u2019 list appears, all we want is to see how far we can push the don\u2019t into a do. Ah human nature\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saving sex for marriage is a clear boundary God has called Christians to. If you&#8217;re single, dating or even engaged you may have considered this and still have questions. What about the rest?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Should we kiss? Is it okay to be alone together? What about late at night? What if we get a bit caught up in the moment?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s really hard to find information out there that doesn\u2019t hide from the specifics. When people do address the nitty gritty, it often opposes another opinion. It\u2019s difficult to tell what the right answer really is.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-conclusion\">My Conclusion<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>My conclusion is this. It\u2019s hard to justify that the desire to be intimate with someone who is not (yet) your spouse, is wholly motivated by love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deep down, when we approach physical intimacy with a \u2018how far can I go\u2019 attitude, it is because we\u2019re either:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jealous of those who don&#8217;t have these boundaries getting to do what they want.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Self-interested in pursuing pleasure and satisfaction.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Real love is sacrificial, not selfish. We know this because of what Jesus did on the cross. So sex and intimacy can wait in dating and engagement because love calls us to sacrifice. To deny ourselves for the other and our love for them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the \u2018other stuff\u2019 makes honouring your choice to wait more difficult or replaces the closeness and pleasure sex would serve &#8211; yes I\u2019d argue this is probably too far.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before we get wrapped up in specifics though, it\u2019s worth thinking more about the why. Then we can get more practical!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"no parking sign representing boundaries\" class=\"wp-image-95\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/waiting-in-singleness-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-the-will-to-wait\">Christian Dating Boundaries: The Will to Wait<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Olympians put in a lifetime of work and sacrifice to excel in their sport. Their dedication and focus leads them to physical feats many of us can\u2019t even comprehend.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During the Japan games in 2021, rumours of the Olympic Village sex culture were circulating. Stories of young people in their physical prime finally at the end of their competition looking forward to more than just a medal. Their achievements led to a more primal\u2026 release. No wonder condoms have been handed out to athletes since 1988 (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.gqindia.com\/get-smart\/content\/history-of-sex-in-the-olympic-village\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">read more on the real why here!<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This could be a good analogy for Christians, right? Run your race, fix your eyes on Jesus and you\u2019ll be rewarded with a super sex life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not quite. As Christians singles we need to remember that sex is not the ultimate prize. It is not something we are owed or receive as a \u2018well done\u2019 for being good. Nor does it fix a relationship or immediately make marriage a success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sex is a gift. One that is worth waiting for because God said so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think this ultimately is why a rulebook about dating boundaries does not exist. We have been called to walk by faith not by sight. To trust that what God says is the best thing, really is the best thing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God wants His will to become our will. The will to wait.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>As a sign of faith <\/strong>&#8211; I trust what God says to be true.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>As a testimony to the world <\/strong>&#8211; I believe it is worthwhile to follow God and not listen to the doubt in our culture<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>To honour your (future) spouse<\/strong> &#8211; I am willing to love you even when sex isn\u2019t involved.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>As a gift to yourself &#8211;<\/strong> My body matters and I am worthy of real love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-things-that-help\">Christian Dating Boundaries: Things That Help<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sure for many single Christians the decision to wait is not always an easy one. Whether a potential spouse is on the horizon or not.&nbsp; The choice to be obedient to God\u2019s design for sex in marriage is not without temptations, frustrations or confusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what helps?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-setting-boundaries\"><strong>Setting boundaries<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually set some boundaries. Doing this while you are single is wise too. Spend time praying and committing yourself to boundaries you feel God is calling you to.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This will make your conversations in a relationship much easier to navigate. It also gives you somewhere to start from rather than a \u2018what do you think is best?\u2019 scenario.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-talking-about-it-nbsp\"><strong>Talking about it&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We already have a tricky culture in Christianity when it comes to talking about sex. By that I mean &#8211; we rarely do it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talking about intimacy with your girlfriend\/boyfriend or fiance is important. Being honest and agreeing your boundaries is vital if you want to attempt to stick to them. Don\u2019t shy away or leave it too late. The vulnerability it takes to have these conversations is a great way to build trust and good communication in your relationship too.&nbsp;Daria talks about how to communicate our boundaries effectively <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QyOdTBXIMqM\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-having-accountability\"><strong>Having accountability<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t know how you feel, but if I didn\u2019t have a weekly Bible study group to show up to I would definitely read less of the Bible. Knowing I need to show up and chat about some scripture reading motivates me on the days I\u2019d rather not spend time reading lots of passages. Accountability helps!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<br>It\u2019s the same with physical boundaries in our relationship. Invite a Christian you trust to check in with you &#8211; be it someone in church leadership, personal friend, family member or mentor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-more-than-physical-boundaries\"><strong>More than physical boundaries<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>God calls us to be chaste not just with our bodies but with our thoughts (see this <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lust-vs-attraction\/\">Lust vs. Attraction Blog<\/a>) and our emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning self control in a Christian dating relationship is not just limited to sex and intimacy. Our thoughts and feelings need to be protected too. Practising and growing self control in all of these areas sets you up for life. Sex life included.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-cutting-to-the-chase\"><strong>Cutting to the chase<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you might be surprised to read an encouragement for Christians to just get married already. Our reputation seems to precede this thought. However I do think there are many couples out there who stretch out their wait. There might be a number of reasons for this.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately the longer you have to wait, especially as you get closer as a couple, the harder it is to stick to your boundaries.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worry less about what other people may think or say. If you\u2019ve found a godly person who you love and you know you&#8217;re going to marry them &#8211; there\u2019s no harm cutting to the chase.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-accepting-the-imperfection\"><strong>Accepting the imperfection<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We may stumble in some way. I pray you don&#8217;t. I pray God protects you and focuses your heart on following Him. But for many of us this might not (already) be a perfect walk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before you\u2019re too harsh on yourself remember that we have a loving God who is quick to forgive and help us start fresh. More on this further on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"922\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg\" alt=\"couple getting close\" class=\"wp-image-85\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1024x922.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-300x270.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-768x691.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-1536x1382.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-2048x1843.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/relationship-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-unhelpful-substitutes\">Christian Dating Boundaries: Unhelpful Substitutes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When we choose to set physical boundaries while dating we can often look for alternatives to fill the \u2018void\u2019. Here are some unhelpful behaviours and attitudes to be aware of.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-playing-with-the-line-nbsp\"><strong>Playing with \u2018the line\u2019&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Setting yourself boundaries and then spending your time messing around or getting close to \u2018the line\u2019, will lead to misery and guilt. Have some honest prayer times with God about how you feel and ask Him to guide you to following His path over your own impulses.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-masturbation\"><strong>Masturbation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Culture sees masturbation as a healthy way to deal with sexual urges. A \u2018quick fix\u2019, to satisfy our basic needs is surely a good way to keep us on the path to purity, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I talk about this more in these two blogs: <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sex-drive\/\">Sex drive<\/a> as a single and <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/lust-vs-attraction\/\">lust vs. attraction<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be brief masturbation points to instant gratification and personal gain, serving the individual over the relationship. This does not set us up well for sex in marriage or our current relationship status. Remember real love is sacrificial, not selfish.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-or-never-talking-about-sex-sexual-desires-nbsp\"><strong>Always or never talking about sex\/sexual desires.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Like Godlilocks eating the three bears\u2019 porridge &#8211; it\u2019s good to strike a balance here. Too much sex chat will typically trigger more temptation. Never talking reduces trust and might cause feelings of shame.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-others-voice-over-god-s-voice\"><strong>Others voice over God\u2019s voice<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We have to want to set these boundaries and choose chastity from a place of love and obedience to God. If we are choosing this to please, convince or are scared of others&#8217; judgement &#8211; we will never stick to it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other people also let us down. I remember finding out a couple I looked up to had sex during their engagement. This discovery left me feeling a bit disappointed. Even they didn\u2019t wait\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God however never lets us down and His promises are true<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfil?<\/em><br>(Numbers 23:19)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Approach your boundaries out of awe and fear of the Lord, not of people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-make-it-easy\">Christian Dating Boundaries: Make it Easy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are some things that just make situations of sexual temptation easier to avoid. Why make things more difficult for yourself? These tips will hopefully ease some of the burden you are feeling or thinking and lead to a more&nbsp; joyful wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-always-wondering\"><strong>Always wondering<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you keep asking God&nbsp; or yourself \u2018how far is too far\u2019 you might want to try reframing your thinking. A useful lens might be to ask:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can I share this form of intimacy with the other person and not feel:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ashamed?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Like I have to hide my behaviour?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Scared of what God might think?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This is useful in helping us examine our hearts and choose behaviour that honour God, ourselves and our partner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-prioritise-romance\"><strong>Prioritise romance<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of thinking of all the things you can\u2019t do, think about what you can do. Dating is such an exciting time to be lost in the joy of new love and heart swelling romance. Dream and plan ways that you can encourage more romance in your relationship. Write a love letter, sing them a song, watch the sunset together. Enjoy living out the cliches!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-curbing-temptations\"><strong>Curbing temptations<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes we just make life too tempting for ourselves. Some simple steps to reduce temptation might include&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Reinstating a curfew time&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Not being alone for too long (in a car, at home, on a bed\/couch)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Having a \u2018no blankets\u2019 rule.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"BOUNDARIES in Christian dating: single to married\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/INPJFQnn8uY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Christian Dating Boundaries: Single vs. Married<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-boundaries-what-if-it-s-too-late\">Christian Dating Boundaries: What if it&#8217;s Too Late?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I hinted at this earlier as I know it is many people\u2019s lived experience. We have maybe gone too far and wonder where we sit with God.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is there any point choosing boundaries now? Will this impact my future relationships? Is God mad at me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best news is that with Jesus, it is never too late. He has already paid the price for our sin and shame and invites us to follow Him even when we get it wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God loves you and whether your struggle is sexual purity or anything else, He has not given up but already has a great plan for you! I found this <a href=\"https:\/\/joycemeyer.org\/everydayanswers\/ea-teachings\/its-never-too-late\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">short blog from Joyce Meyer a great encouragement<\/a> &#8211; I hope it blesses you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Let&#8217;s Conclude<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was a young teenager I was at a very small gathering with some other Christian teens at someone\u2019s house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can\u2019t remember the full reason why we were there. I can\u2019t remember much about the adult who was leading the gathering. How we got onto the topic of sex has entirely slipped my memory. But clear as day I remember this Christian man\u2019s words of advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\u201cThe right person will wait. If they\u2019re not willing to wait, they\u2019re not the right person.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve found the challenge as I entered the Christian dating world to be less about finding the right person. But more about becoming the right person myself\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We each have an opportunity here. To align our will with God\u2019s, take steps that help and not look for substitutes, discard the temptations to make life easier and say yes to the new start God offers us each day.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In these, \u2018how far is too far\u2019 will be a distant question, finding freedom in the gentle guidance of our loving God. May you find fullness of life as you live out these dating boundaries in your relationship. It\u2019ll be well worth the wait!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Looking for real love? Join <a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">SALT<\/a> today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christian dating boundaries are the thing we get asked about the most. 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