{"id":1360,"date":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","date_gmt":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=1360"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","slug":"whats-wrong-with-christian-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/whats-wrong-with-christian-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s WRONG With Christian Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I recently heard a story of a \u2018date gone wrong\u2019&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A young couple, back in the day, were planning a day trip together. This was when you had to use a printed timetable to figure out your bus route.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The girl spent ages sorting the timings, painstakingly planning the route. The guy agreed to the plans &#8211; 6.10am at the bus stop, see you there.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She arrives the next morning, a little early in all fairness. She waits and the boy is a no show.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In her frustration she hops on the next bus to his house, battering on the front door a little after 6am.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one answers, everyone is still asleep. The girl isn\u2019t pleased to say the least, being stood up so early in the day is not a good start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He eventually emerges to a grumpy girl and despite the delay they decide to give the trip a go anyway.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Years later despite this blip, they\u2019re married. But she still hasn\u2019t forgotten. The man says, \u201cIn my defence, if you asked anyone who knew me, there was no way I\u2019d have made it out for then.\u201d They laugh, but she still shakes her head a bit\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: The Summary<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the problem with dating, it\u2019s never all smooth sailing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Christian dating then is no exception.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From mixed up plans, unexpected illnesses, catfishing, ghosting and more, dating on or offline is a big old bag of ups and downs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a world where many think that Christian dating is just a conveyor belt of perfect matches and shotgun weddings, the reality is that the Christian dating scene isn\u2019t always what Christian singles expect it to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often in dating we like to look towards the good news and success stories, for hope if nothing else!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But sometimes it\u2019s good to take an honest look and ask &#8211; What\u2019s wrong with Christian dating?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s explore\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>What should Christian dating be like?<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The meddlers.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The \u2018great picking\u2019.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Singing from the same hymn sheet.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Surface level searching.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Why so serious?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Dating and God.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The hardest thing about Christian dating.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"What\u2019s WRONG with Christian Dating?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7VfiQ6IesUU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-christian-dating-should-be-like\">What Christian dating should be like<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is what I think other people expect dating as a Christian man or woman to be like..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SINGLE MAN<\/strong>: I\u2019m single. I saw you in church and I\u2019m attracted to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SINGLE WOMAN<\/strong>: That\u2019s good. I\u2019m single and attracted to you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SINGLE  HANDSOME<\/strong> <strong>MAN: <\/strong>Let\u2019s date for a relatively short period of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>BEAUTIFUL<\/strong> <strong>WOMAN<\/strong>: I like the sound of that, June wedding?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SINGLE MAN: <\/strong>Let\u2019s do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>WOMAN<\/strong>: We\u2019re married now, that was easy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If only right?!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now the above was a bit tongue and cheek but for many Christian singles the idea of meeting someone of the same faith should make dating a lot easier.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It should be a God honouring and faith filled experience.&nbsp;There should be moments of spiritual connection and lots of prayer. We should feel assured of the relationship, like God has blessed every second of it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, these things in the right mindset and context are all lovely elements of dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But we are all humans after all, living with the same issues and hang ups as everyone else even when we follow Jesus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When dating online, on apps or in person:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We may experience disrespect or delusion.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We may know heartbreak and hurt.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We may feel confused or misled.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And in elements of dating, our <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/over-spiritualize-dating\/\">Christian culture has moulded things a little out of shape<\/a>.&nbsp;As we take a look at some things that Christian dating may have wrong, have a think about your own experience and what dating advice God may be shining light on, guiding us to what Christian dating <em>should <\/em>be like after all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"couple on carousel\" class=\"wp-image-784\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-meddlers\">The Meddlers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Christians are not meant to be gossips, this is a clear from the Old Testament to the New.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u2018Do not go about spreading slander among your people. Do not do anything that endangers your neighbour\u2019s life. I am the Lord.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Leviticus 19:6<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ephesians 4:29<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t know about you, but I have never been in a church where there wasn\u2019t gossip around. Who is dating who is often a hot topic. A little good news story just adds to the hope and joy of a Sunday service, doesn\u2019t it?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The risk for singles here is that their church community may hinder rather than help the Christian dating experience. From being too involved in matchmaking, keeping tabs on couples, pressuring singles or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singlefriendlychurch.com\/news-and-resources\/singleness-in-uk-church-2012-research\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">making them feel excluded for their single reality<\/a>. This talk whether done in \u2018private\u2019 or public can have a negative impact.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think meeting someone in your church is a lovely thing, it makes a lot of sense. But if you feel like you\u2019re being watched, criticised or commented on as a single person or a new couple, things might feel unnecessarily pressured.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From public outings of new love blossoming, to sneaking conversations, or dissecting suspicious Instagram stories &#8211; one thing that can be wrong with Christian dating is everyone being in dating people\u2019s business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now this isn\u2019t to say you shouldn\u2019t involve your church friends in your dating life at all. In fact Lauren makes a good and measured case for the opposite in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8m0H0mGFduI\">SALT\u2019s YouTube video.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, each of us as members of the body of Christ need to lean out of our flesh like ways and try to recalibrate our gossiping desires (Proverbs 16:28) or at least keep some of it more internal for the sake of the congregation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-great-picking\">The &#8216;Great Picking&#8217;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There can be an unspoken rule in Chrisitan dating, a strange dynamic between men and women that could be considered wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating as a Christian woman may often feel like having to wait to be picked. And if you aren\u2019t the fresh faced Christian girl who just hit twenty, then your ship has sailed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hatty Calbus in<a href=\"https:\/\/www.womanalive.co.uk\/opinion\/no-one-talks-about-being-single-in-the-church-after-your-50s-but-the-church-has-a-lot-to-work-on\/16103.article\"> Women Alive<\/a> claims that,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIn the UK Church overall, women outnumber men by two to one and the ratio of single women to single men gets put as high as eight to one.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The divide is disproportionate, with a male \u2018shortage\u2019 leading to desperate women sitting in the pews awaiting their turn to be picked.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But this \u2018great picking\u2019 nonsense really grinds my gears. No good relationship just happens.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s something wrong with Christian women looking for love being left to wait around feeling helpless and hopeless. This will not lead to good decision making should any single man cross their path in the near future.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or on the flip side, there&nbsp; are women frustrated and angry at men who are falling short. More on that later.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember the most annoying part of a dating experience ending as a Christian was the realisation that as we both moved on and met other people, chances are, he\u2019d be married before me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a silly worry and a whisper of the enemy to keep me down.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We can\u2019t magic more men into our churches who will happen to fall in love with us. We can however as women try to shift our focus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s worry less about where our Boaz is and be more like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Esther%201&amp;version=NLT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Esther <\/a>&#8211; not the beauty pageant bit but the woman who spoke up when it mattered, who gathered with others to pray, who held firm to her faith especially in the hard moments. There\u2019s much more to dating than waiting to be asked on a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"open book\" class=\"wp-image-791\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-singing-from-the-same-hymn-sheet\">Singing From The Same Hymn Sheet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now this one is more common than you think. When dating a Christian, many assume that on matters of faith they\u2019ll agree.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But just because they\u2019re a Christian this doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re <em>your <\/em>type of Chirstian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People may identify as a Christian however this could mean many different things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For some this difference might be on basic theology, or the traditions of their denomination. Check out our \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/denomination-and-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Should I date outside my denomination<\/a>\u2019 blog for more thoughts and advice on discerning this.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unhelpfully, the values in the Bible are not always interpreted the same and unfortunately, maybe even wrongly, we can\u2019t feel secure in all our Christian values being shared with our prospective date. For some the awkward, \u201cSo we aren\u2019t going to be having sex?\u201d comment can lead to devastating results.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turns out being a Christian can be a broad term and lead to some confusion on what dating another Christian person looks like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now there\u2019s nothing wrong with <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/dating-multiple-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">differences in Christians varying slightly in what they want in their dating life<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What can reduce the issues is being up front about where you are at. If you\u2019re a Christian looking to date then being clear and explaining what your faith looks like to you in a practical and personal sense is always helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-surface-level-searching\">Surface Level Searching<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you heard the phrase style over substance? I think at times this is an area where things go wrong in Christian dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Time and again I hear long lists of \u2018musts\u2019 from single Christian men and women.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What to look for in a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Must read the Bible twenty times a year.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Must want to go on multiple missions trip.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Must serve on a Sunday.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And lead a small group.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Of course they pray out loud.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And give lots of money to the church.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I worry that some people are getting so caught up in the external expression of someone\u2019s faith as proof that they are&nbsp; \u2018Christian\u2019 enough for them to consider committing to. So much so they kind of forget to think about, you know, the person<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hear me out, these virtuous things are all good when our intention is to love God well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Relationships though aren\u2019t just about how someone acts like a Christian. Remember, you\u2019re looking for the person who is going to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@explorerssaurus\/video\/7166239265242778886\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">eat about 40,000 meals with you,<\/a> who has to deal with your family at Christmas, who you\u2019ll holiday with and so on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As single Christians meeting and dating other Christians we can set an ideal and get so focused on the external \u2018God stuff\u2019. In turn, we forget about seeking a connection with a person and getting to know someone for who they really are, not just their Sunday best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-so-serious\">Why So Serious?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course there\u2019s the risky business in Christian dating of jumping in too soon. With many focused on marriage, they often forget to stop and smell the roses.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This can be off putting for some &#8211; meeting someone who is a bit too intense about the future even when that\u2019s the kind of future they would like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even as a Christian dating for marriage, this doesn\u2019t have to mean a laser focus on marriage 24\/7.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now this isn\u2019t an excuse to play about with people\u2019s feelings. It\u2019s meant to be freeing so we can be our true selves as we get to know the godly man or woman we\u2019re on a date with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know, you might actually be able to look back at some dating experiences, even relationships, and know you had a good time even if the romance didn\u2019t work out. That sounds a bit better than the heart wrenching pain of losing (another) potential Christian husband or wife.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The focus of marriage is about openness to where God might lead you, not tight fisted control over what God hasn\u2019t brought you yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find some balance in your mind with this truth as you date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"couple on mountain\" class=\"wp-image-763\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-and-god\">Dating and God<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI need to find someone who helps me in pursuing God, not someone who distracts me from Him.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Real talk &#8211; this is frankly unrealistic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, the apostle Paul said,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I say to those who aren\u2019t married and to widows\u2014it\u2019s better to stay unmarried, just as I am.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>1 Corinthians 7:7-8<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes he\u2019s talking about marriage and sex in this context, but it relates to dating in the same way. A love interest is going to be a distraction from God, even if you marry them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you meet someone new and are exploring the start of a romantic connection, at least for the majority who aren\u2019t as pious as the rest, being God focused all the time is not a healthy expectation to hold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will be distracted &#8211; fact!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is not the fault of your date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Christian people dating, of course it\u2019s good to be helped by the person you are with in growing your faith. Making this your only goal however may mean you lose out on the other joys God has in store for your dating life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-hardest-thing-about-christian-dating\">The Hardest Thing About Christian Dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve gone through some of the tough bits already and I\u2019m sure there\u2019s loads more. Christian dating is far from picture perfect.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps for you the hardest thing is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Exclusion <\/strong>&#8211; be that your age, appearance, affluence or \u2018level of faith\u2019.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pressure <\/strong>&#8211; The unspoken expectations in yourself or from others.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Confusion <\/strong>&#8211; A lack of clarity, feelings or direction might make progress difficult.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Way<\/strong> asked Christian what they thought the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thewayuk\/video\/7131766767654915334\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">hardest thing about Christian dating<\/a> was, &#8211; maybe you have some thoughts to add too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think it\u2019s okay that there are hard parts.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also okay to call out what\u2019s wrong.When dating anyone, including other Chritsians, we should be people who:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Value others as God\u2019s creation.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are honest and kind.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Act with integrity and generosity.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Respect other people\u2019s boundaries.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps if we all hold these values tight, we can experience dating the way it should be instead of some of the wrongs that often occur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Let&#8217;s Conclude<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not sure I\u2019ve painted Christian dating in the best light but it\u2019s good to take a step back and realise that all dating involves flawed humans who will, sadly, make flawed choices.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes people will meddle, sometimes our date will fall short of expectations, sometimes our own ideals will get in the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re Christian and single there is hope though, especially when we know Jesus. What we experience isn\u2019t anything He can\u2019t relate to. We can turn to Him and ask for His help to <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">date differently<\/a>, bringing light to the world like He asks us to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you want a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">positive dating experience<\/a>, try SALT today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently heard a story of a \u2018date gone wrong\u2019&#8230; A young couple, back in the day, were planning a day trip together. This was when you had to use a printed timetable to figure out your bus route.&nbsp; The girl spent ages sorting the timings, painstakingly planning the route. 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