{"id":363,"date":"2024-03-12T13:18:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-12T13:18:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=363"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:45:05","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:45:05","slug":"cekim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"Cazibe: Hristiyan Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde \u00d6nemli mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde \u00e7ekicilik. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f soldu\u011fu ve kalp daha \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in onu g\u00f6rmezden mi gelmeliyiz? Yoksa cazibe a\u015fk\u0131 canl\u0131 m\u0131 tutar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En sevdi\u011fim renk mor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cadbury parlak moru de\u011fil ama yumu\u015fak leylaklar, hafif lavantalar, menek\u015fe dokunu\u015flar\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in tamamen kullan\u0131\u015fs\u0131z ama tamamen muhte\u015fem olan buzlu leylak rengi bir k\u0131\u015fl\u0131k ceketim vard\u0131. D\u0131\u015f\u0131nda harika g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ama k\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u011fmura ve r\u00fczgara dayanamayan kuma\u015f tutamlar\u0131 vard\u0131. Yine de \u00e7ok severdim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mor \u015feyleri sevmenin laneti b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey. Tamamen i\u015fe yaramaz olsalar bile, her zaman onlara \u00e7ekilirim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Liste pedlerinden uzanma giysilerine, minderlerden <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lecreuset.co.uk\/en_GB\/p\/stoneware-mug\/SW0302.html?dwvar_SW0302_color=blueBellPurple&amp;dwvar_SW0302_size=l0-35\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Le Creuset kupalar<\/a> (sponsorlu de\u011fil), \u00e7ar\u015faftan s\u0131rt \u00e7antas\u0131na - hepsini istiyorum!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mor olan her \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 duydu\u011fum \u00e7ekim, baz\u0131 al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerimde k\u0131l pay\u0131 kurtulmama neden oldu. S\u0131k s\u0131k geri ad\u0131m at\u0131p \"Bunu ger\u00e7ekten istiyor muyum, yoksa mor oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in mi istiyorum?\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda kal\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mor sevdam\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman imkans\u0131z bir g\u00f6rev gibi geliyor...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ekim g\u00fcc\u00fc hayatlar\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir etkendir. Sat\u0131n almalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, kariyer yollar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve potansiyel partnerlerimizi etkiler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak cazibe de bizi yan\u0131ltabilir, sonu\u00e7ta arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ya da kendimizi do\u011fru \u00e7ekti\u011fimizi hissetti\u011fimiz \u015feyleri elde etmek her zaman bizim i\u00e7in en iyisi de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar olarak cazibe, fl\u00f6rt dans\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r ve bu dans\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmemiz gerekir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bizi 'o' ki\u015fiye g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek cazibeye g\u00fcvenebilir miyiz yoksa bizi yanl\u0131\u015f ili\u015fki yoluna s\u00fcr\u00fcklemesin diye cazibeyi elimizin alt\u0131nda m\u0131 tutmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zellikle fl\u00f6rtte cazibe s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 takip etmek her zaman en ak\u0131ll\u0131ca ad\u0131m olmayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak isteyen H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak, bizi kendi arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n derinliklerine de\u011fil, Tanr\u0131'ya yakla\u015ft\u0131racak ki\u015filerle \u00e7\u0131kmaya odaklanmam\u0131z gerekmez mi? Ve zaten cazibeye odaklanmak sadece y\u00fczeysel ve 'Mesih gibi' de\u011fil midir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu da bize ilgi \u00e7ekici bir soru getiriyor, <strong><em>Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtlerinde \u00e7ekicili\u011fi g\u00f6rmezden mi gelmeliyiz?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Cazibe bir pasta gibidir.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ka\u00e7\u0131rabilirsin.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Yanl\u0131\u015f yola sapm\u0131\u015flar.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Rol\u00fcn\u00fc oynuyor.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ve \u00e7ekiciler!<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>K\u0131zlara ve erkeklere bir \u00e7ift s\u00f6z<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Hristiyan Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde Cazibeyi G\u00f6rmezden mi Gelmeliyiz?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/0FtpgpxepMU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/delphinechui\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> H\u0131ristiyan ili\u015fkilerindeki cazibe \u00fczerine iki sent ekliyor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-is-like-cake\">Cazibe kek gibidir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aJQmVZSAqlc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">E\u011fer devler so\u011fan gibiyse,<\/a> cazibe pasta gibidir - herkes pastay\u0131 sever!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun nedeni cazibenin iyi, Tanr\u0131 vergisi bir tasar\u0131m par\u00e7as\u0131 olmas\u0131 ve bunu beynimiz \u00fczerindeki olumlu etkilerinde g\u00f6rmemizdir. Serotonin, dopamin ve norepinefrin sal\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc, ba\u015fka bir ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ekim hissini belirlememize ve bundan keyif almam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmada \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli roller oynar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bize verdi\u011fi pek \u00e7ok iyi \u015fey gibi, \u00f6zg\u00fcr iradeye sahip insanlar olarak bazen bunu da kendimiz i\u00e7in mahvediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kat kat tatl\u0131 ve yap\u0131\u015fkan g\u00fczelliklerle dolu bir pasta gibi, cazibenin zorlay\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 bizi pastan\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 t\u00fcketmeye itebilir. Ancak hepsini tek seferde yerseniz, hasta olabilirsiniz... Bu, bir \u015feye tak\u0131l\u0131p kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda olan \u015feydir. <em>fiziksel <\/em>tek ba\u015f\u0131na cazibe. \u00c7ekicilikten s\u00f6z etti\u011fimizde ilk akla gelen budur ve konu\u015ftuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ana oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak \u00e7ok daha fazla cazibe var, bu pastan\u0131n katmanlar\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-emotional\">Duygusal<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygusal \u00e7ekim, bir ki\u015fiye ki\u015fili\u011fi, ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131, zekas\u0131, mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve daha fazlas\u0131 nedeniyle ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissetti\u011fimiz zamand\u0131r. Oldu\u011fu ki\u015fi nedeniyle ona do\u011fru \u00e7ekildi\u011fimizi hissederiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pareen Sehat MC, RCC i\u00e7in <a href=\"https:\/\/wellbeingscounselling.ca\/emotional-attraction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Well Beings Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k <\/a>\u00f6zetliyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle, duygusal bir ba\u011f y\u00fczeysel olan\u0131 a\u015far ve bir ki\u015finin \u00f6z\u00fcnde kim oldu\u011funun \u00f6z\u00fcne dokunur. Bu, ki\u015finin ger\u00e7ek benli\u011fine - g\u00fczel y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn ya da s\u0131k\u0131 fizi\u011finin ard\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiye - \u00e7ekilmekle ilgilidir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, romantik ya da ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc t\u00fcm iyi ili\u015fkilerin temelidir. Ancak uzun vadeli ili\u015fkilerde \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir rol oynar ve Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde radar\u0131m\u0131zda olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-romantic\">Romantik<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Romantik \u00e7ekicili\u011fimiz, genellikle di\u011fer \u00e7ekicilik t\u00fcrleriyle birlikte deneyimlense de, kendi ba\u015f\u0131na tek ba\u015f\u0131na ayakta durabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Romantik \u00e7ekim duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na ba\u011flar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bize romantik \u015feyler hissettirir - karasevda, s\u0131cakl\u0131k, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ve \u015fefkat. Bir ili\u015fki ke\u015ffedildik\u00e7e ve geli\u015ftirildik\u00e7e 'a\u015fk\u0131m\u0131z' daha derin romantik duygulara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve bu bir arzuya yol a\u00e7ar<em> <\/em>romantik \u015feyler yapmak - randevulara \u00e7\u0131kmak, el ele tutu\u015fmak, a\u015fk notlar\u0131 yazmak, ili\u015fkiyi etiketlemek, di\u011ferini bir hediye ile \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtmak vb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-sexual\">Cinsel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve tabii ki cinsel \u00e7ekim, genellikle fiziksel \u00e7ekimle i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Bu, \u00f6p\u00fc\u015fmekten cinsel ili\u015fkiye kadar herhangi bir \u015fekilde ba\u015fka bir ki\u015fiyle cinsel ba\u011flant\u0131 kurma arzusudur. \"Vay can\u0131na, \u00e7ok seksi!\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemize neden olan da bu \u00e7ekimdir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Partner aray\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir rol oynasa da, di\u011fer cazibe t\u00fcrlerinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bize bekar bir Hristiyan olarak fl\u00f6rt etmek s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda cinsel \u00e7ekimin nihai itici g\u00fc\u00e7 olmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-we-ignore-it\">Bunu g\u00f6rmezden gelebilir miyiz?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibeyi bu \u015fekilde b\u00fct\u00fcnsel olarak ele ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, sadece fiziksel y\u00f6nlerin y\u00f6netmesine izin vermedi\u011fimizde, elbette cazibe fl\u00f6rtte dikkate al\u0131nmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6nemlidir ve g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemelidir!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlar olarak fl\u00f6rt etmek evlili\u011fe, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla 'bir olmaya' y\u00f6nelik bir \u00e7abad\u0131r ve bunu ba\u015farmak i\u00e7in cazibenin t\u00fcm y\u00f6nlerini dikkate almam\u0131z gerekir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak hepimize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in, \u00f6zellikle fiziksel \u00e7ekicili\u011fe daha yak\u0131ndan bakal\u0131m...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"tutku bizi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 temsil ederek buraya getirdi\" class=\"wp-image-81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-you-might-miss-out\">Cazibe Merkezi: Ka\u00e7\u0131rabilirsiniz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde (fiziksel\/cinsel) \u00e7ekicili\u011fe odaklanman\u0131n riski nedir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u015feyleri ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. \u00c7ekicilik i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcm\u00fcze dayanarak fl\u00f6rt etmek, kiminle \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yaln\u0131zca y\u00fcz de\u011ferine g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmemize yol a\u00e7abilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kayd\u0131raca\u011f\u0131z, kayd\u0131raca\u011f\u0131z ve e\u015fle\u015ftirece\u011fiz (ideal olarak <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TUZ<\/a>Akl\u0131n\u0131zda tek bir soru var - \"Onlardan ho\u015flan\u0131yor muyum?\" ve genellikle bunu \u00e7ok az, y\u00fcksek oranda k\u00fcrat\u00f6rl\u00fc \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i bulu\u015fma bilgilerine dayand\u0131r\u0131yorsunuz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, s\u0131\u011f fl\u00f6rt deneyimlerine yol a\u00e7abilir. Ve hatta sizi iyi fl\u00f6rt f\u0131rsatlar\u0131ndan mahrum b\u0131rakabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt ederken ana filtrenizin cazibe olmas\u0131na izin vermek, sizin i\u00e7in iyi bir e\u015fle\u015fme olabilecek birine bir \u015fans verme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 muhtemelen es ge\u00e7ece\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu ki\u015fi her zamanki tipiniz de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Akl\u0131m\u0131za, di\u011fer \u00e7ekim alanlar\u0131na izin verdi\u011fimizde ve \u00f6zellikle bir Hristiyan arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamas\u0131 veya web sitesinde bir tarih ararken ger\u00e7ekten zaman ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kendimizi ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131raca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken bulabiliriz. Bu konuda daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 okuyun <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/tanisma-uygulamalari-gunah\/\">Burada<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-led-down-the-wrong-path\">Cazibe: Yanl\u0131\u015f Yola Y\u00f6nlendirilmek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sizi bilmem ama ben bana uygun olmayan insanlardan ho\u015fland\u0131m. Yanl\u0131\u015f insanlardan etkilenebiliriz...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibeye, \u00f6zellikle de fiziksel \u00e7ekicili\u011fe kulak verdi\u011fimizde, genellikle daha k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc i\u00e7in \u00f6d\u00fcn veririz. Cazibe, inan\u00e7 (ya da inan\u00e7s\u0131zl\u0131k), ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 se\u00e7imleri ve iyi bir Hristiyan e\u015fle tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n di\u011fer temelleri hakk\u0131nda k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 bayrak k\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do\u011fru olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bilsek bile bu \u00e7ekicili\u011fi durdurmaz, de\u011fil mi? Fl\u00f6rt etmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde cazibenin sesini dinleme konusunda kendi ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn fark\u0131nda olmal\u0131 ve kendimizi kontrol etmeliyiz. Bir H\u0131ristiyan'\u0131 'd\u00fcnyevi' birinden ay\u0131ran \u015fey budur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u00d6yleyse, uykuda olan ba\u015fkalar\u0131 gibi olmayal\u0131m, uyan\u0131k ve ay\u0131k olal\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1 Selanikliler 5:6<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibe \u00e7o\u011fu zaman eylemlerimizi k\u00f6r\u00fckleyebilir. Ancak \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olarak kendimizi bilerek g\u00fcnaha ya da hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na sokmak istemeyiz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-playing-its-part\">Cazibe: Rol\u00fcn\u00fc Oynuyor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00fcm bunlar s\u00f6ylenirken, fiziksel \u00e7ekicili\u011fin bir Hristiyan olarak ve \u00f6tesinde fl\u00f6rt ederken \u00f6nemli bir rol\u00fc vard\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibe, bir ili\u015fkiyi platonik olman\u0131n \u00f6tesine ta\u015f\u0131r. Arkada\u015fl\u0131k gibidir ama alt\u0131nda farkl\u0131 bir ate\u015f vard\u0131r. 'Bizim insan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131' (o \u00f6zel ki\u015fiyi) bizim insanlar\u0131m\u0131zdan (arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z ve ailemiz) ay\u0131ran \u015feydir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As <a href=\"https:\/\/aleteia.org\/2015\/07\/23\/is-attraction-irrelevant-in-christian-dating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Kirsten Andersen<\/a> diyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Sonu\u00e7 olarak, \u00e7ekici buldu\u011funuz insanlar\u0131n pe\u015finden gitmenizde bir sak\u0131nca yoktur.  Tanr\u0131 bizi bu \u015fekilde yaratt\u0131; evlendi\u011fimiz ki\u015fi i\u00e7in ate\u015fli olmam\u0131z gerekiyor.  Ne de olsa yeni hayat b\u00f6yle yarat\u0131l\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-early-stages\">Erken A\u015famalar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt ederken, \u00f6zellikle de ilk a\u015famalarda, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine duydu\u011funuz \u00e7ekim b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde fiziksel olarak motive oluyorsa korkmay\u0131n - ne de olsa yeni birinde g\u00f6r\u00fclecek en kolay \u015fey budur. Tek istedi\u011fimiz, fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn partnerinize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi halinde bunun zamanla daha \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fc bir \u00e7ekime ve daha derin bir ba\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ekicilik ayn\u0131 zamanda bir ili\u015fkinin s\u00fcrmesine de yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. T\u0131pk\u0131 bebeklerin a\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131nda onlar\u0131 sevmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in sevimli olmalar\u0131 gibi, cazibe de daha az 'g\u00f6z al\u0131c\u0131' anlarda partnerimize ba\u011fl\u0131 kalmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu sadece \u015fu an i\u00e7in de\u011fil, evlili\u011fin uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. Bu gibi<a href=\"https:\/\/www.truthandfire.com\/news-bedford\/2018\/8\/3\/hello-im-a-christian-and-physical-attraction-is-important-to-me\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> Ger\u00e7ek + Ate\u015f<\/a> Blog notlar\u0131:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Hayat devam ediyor. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z olabilir, zorlu bir i\u015finiz vard\u0131r ve e\u015finiz muhtemelen sinirlerinizi bozuyordur. Yine de Rab evli \u00e7iftlerin birbirlerini cinsel ili\u015fkiden yoksun b\u0131rakmamalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yler (1. Korintliler 7:3-4). Bu gereklilik hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde, hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten de araya girebilece\u011fini bildi\u011fimden, kocam\u0131n cinsel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacaksam (ve o da benimkileri kar\u015f\u0131layacaksa) birbirimize \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak bir \u015feyler vermemiz gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye meyilliyim. \u0130kimiz de di\u011ferini \u00e7ekici bulmal\u0131y\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi hepimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bulu\u015fmada evlilik ve bebekler hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyece\u011fiz, ancak bu '\u00e7ekicili\u011fin' amac\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak ak\u0131lda tutmakta fayda var. Makyaj\u0131n\u0131z bozuldu\u011funda ya da k\u0131yafetleriniz iyi \u00fct\u00fclenmedi\u011finde (insanlar hala \u00fct\u00fc yap\u0131yor mu?) bile bu \u00e7ekicili\u011fi g\u00f6rebiliyor musunuz? Randevumuzdaki fiziksel \u00e7ekicili\u011fimiz y\u00fczeysel d\u00fczeyden daha m\u0131 fazla?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-attraction-the-icing-on-the-cake\">Cazibe merkezi: Pastan\u0131n \u00dczerindeki Krema<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rtte cazibe, nihayetinde pastan\u0131n \u00fczerindeki 'ger\u00e7ek olamayacak kadar iyi' krema olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Birbirimizi anl\u0131yoruz, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na g\u00f6sterdikleri ilgiden ve \u00e7ekici olmalar\u0131ndan ilham al\u0131yorum.\"&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte \u015fimdi kazand\u0131n!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u0131l mesele de budur; H\u0131ristiyan bir fl\u00f6rt ili\u015fkisinde cazibe tek fakt\u00f6r olamaz. Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131n pe\u015findeysek, fl\u00f6rt ederken gelecekteki e\u015fimizi ararken al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc ve makul olmam\u0131z gerekir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu ki\u015finin Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bizim i\u00e7in yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetmek isteriz! Bunu bildi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in, bu ki\u015finin m\u00fckemmel \u00f6zellikler ve niteliklerden olu\u015fan bir onay kutusu listesine uymayan unsurlar\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 bekleriz, ancak buna ra\u011fmen, kim olduklar\u0131 ve nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in en anlaml\u0131 olan\u0131d\u0131r. VE \u00e7ekicidirler!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-word-to-the-guys-and-girls\">K\u0131zlara ve Erkeklere Bir S\u00f6z<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guys\">\u00c7ocuklar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada sizin i\u00e7in a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken zor bir \u00e7izgi var, bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Dindar bir e\u015f ararken \u00e7ekicili\u011fin \u00f6nemini bilmek iyi bir \u015feydir, ancak bunun dengesi nesnele\u015ftirmeye d\u00fc\u015fme riskiyle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yad\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Blogunda, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bryanstoudt.com\/date-godly-woman-youre-not-attracted-to\/#:~:text='%20Of%20course%2C%20there's%20nothing%20wrong,a%20person%20we're%20dating.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Bryan Stoudt <\/a>bunu da fark eder:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n nesnele\u015ftirilmesini -her ne sebeple olursa olsun- onaylayamasak da, etraf\u0131m\u0131zdaki k\u00fclt\u00fcr bunu zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.  (Hem erkekler hem de kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in.) Filmler, televizyon ve internet bize iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm, imaj ve cinsel \u00e7ekicili\u011fin her \u015fey oldu\u011fu mesaj\u0131n\u0131 veriyor.  \u00c7o\u011fu kilise ve Hristiyan \u00e7evresi bu mesaj\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu kabul etse de, bazen uygulamada fazla yol g\u00f6sterici olam\u0131yorlar.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kafan\u0131z kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ysa veya neyin en iyi oldu\u011funu bulmakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, muhtemelen tek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilin.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-attraction-isn-t-everything\">E\u011fer cazibe her \u015fey de\u011filse.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">...baz\u0131 bekar Hristiyan erkekler de \u015fu soruyu soruyor olabilir: O zaman \u00e7ekici bulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir k\u0131zla \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu yapmak erdemli bir davran\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, etkisi umuldu\u011fu gibi olmayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bryanstoudt.com\/date-godly-woman-youre-not-attracted-to\/#:~:text='%20Of%20course%2C%20there's%20nothing%20wrong,a%20person%20we're%20dating.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Bryan Stoudt <\/a>tavsiyede bulunur:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>K\u0131sa cevab\u0131m, 'Hay\u0131r, onunla bir fl\u00f6rt ili\u015fkisine ba\u015flamamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z' olacakt\u0131r. Fiziksel \u00e7ekim potansiyel bir e\u015fteki en \u00f6nemli \u00f6zellik de\u011fildir, ancak sizin ona olan \u00e7ekiminiz \u00f6nemlidir.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Hi\u00e7bir kad\u0131n kendini teselli \u00f6d\u00fcl\u00fc gibi hissetmek istemez, sizin 'etkilenmeniz gereken' ama etkilenmedi\u011finiz biri gibi.  E\u011fer bu ili\u015fkiyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrseniz, o incinecek ve siz de kendinizi su\u00e7lu hissedeceksiniz.  Kalpleriniz birbirine dolanacak ve b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla \u00f6nemli duygusal ac\u0131lar ya\u015fanacakt\u0131r.<\/em>Ac\u0131 ve kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak i\u00e7in, fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fczden etkilenmek \u00f6ncelikler listenizde olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Dinleyin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lovesamanthalee\/video\/7193491182951992618\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Samatha Lee.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiziksel cazibe muhtemelen daha do\u011fal gelecektir ve bu sorun de\u011fildir! Dindar bir kad\u0131n bulmak isteyen ve akl\u0131nda evlilik olan ak\u0131ll\u0131 bir erke\u011fin yapaca\u011f\u0131 \u015fey, di\u011fer cazibe alanlar\u0131nda kapasitesini art\u0131rmakt\u0131r...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygusal olgunlu\u011funuz nas\u0131l? Biriyle derinlemesine bir konu\u015fma yapabilir ve onu ger\u00e7ekten dinleyebilir misiniz? Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda ve ailenizde, size nas\u0131l fayda sa\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sadece kim olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in sevdi\u011finiz nitelikleri fark ediyor musunuz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n romantik \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131 kabul edecek kadar romantik ve savunmas\u0131z olabilir misiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bulu\u015fmaya haz\u0131rlan\u0131rken bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-girls\">K\u0131zlar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ekicili\u011fin olduk\u00e7a tetikleyici bir kelime olabilece\u011finin fark\u0131nday\u0131m. Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde \u00e7ekicilik s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda, kad\u0131nlar olarak genellikle Hristiyan bir erkek taraf\u0131ndan se\u00e7ilecek kadar \u00e7ekici olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tak\u0131nt\u0131 haline getirebilir ve ba\u015fka birine olan \u00e7ekicili\u011fimize daha az odaklanabiliriz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilisenizde ya da H\u0131ristiyan \u00e7evrelerde tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z di\u011fer kad\u0131nlar\u0131n sizden daha \u00e7ekici olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in fl\u00f6rtte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz. Bug\u00fcn bu yalanlar\u0131 y\u0131kmak istiyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>E\u011fer bu do\u011fruysa, zaten o adamla\/adamlarla birlikte olmak istemezsiniz - bana g\u00fcvenin!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fiziksel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcz hak etti\u011finiz sevginin d\u00fczeyini ya da kalitesini belirlemez.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ger\u00e7ek bir dindar kad\u0131n, hayat\u0131n\u0131 spor salonuna, makyaja ya da di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrel normlara adama \u00e7abas\u0131yla \u00e7ekici de\u011fildir. Bunun yerine kalbinde olup bitenlerle g\u00fczelle\u015fir - i\u00e7inizde kim oldu\u011funuz \u00f6nemlidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>S\u00fcsl\u00fc sa\u00e7 modellerinin, pahal\u0131 m\u00fccevherlerin ya da g\u00fczel giysilerin d\u0131\u015f g\u00fczelli\u011fiyle ilgilenmeyin. Bunun yerine i\u00e7inizden gelen g\u00fczelli\u011fi, Tanr\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ok de\u011ferli olan yumu\u015fak ve sakin bir ruhun solmayan g\u00fczelli\u011fini giyinmelisiniz.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1 Petrus 3:3-4 (NLT)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu demek de\u011fildir ki <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@_theoriginaltiktok\/video\/7407408102640799008?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">'\u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131rba\u015fl\u0131, \u00e7ok dikkatli'<\/a> Ancak do\u011fru erke\u011fin bizde ve g\u00fczelli\u011fimizde Tanr\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011ferli olan \u015feyleri g\u00f6rece\u011fini kabul edin ve \u00e7\u0131karken bu ki\u015fiyi beklemek her zaman faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm kadar\u0131yla Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde \u00e7ekicili\u011fi ortadan kald\u0131rman\u0131n bir yolu yok, bu bizim kim olmak \u00fczere tasarland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibemizin pe\u015finden gitmenin risklerinin fark\u0131na varmak, genellikle listemizden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015fileri g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurdu\u011fumuzda bizi beklenmedik ve belki de daha iyi fl\u00f6rt deneyimlerine a\u00e7abilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r olan ve biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak isteyen H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak, cazibenin getirdi\u011fi olumlu y\u00f6nleri kucaklayabilir ve yanl\u0131\u015f yola sapmalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 dikkatli olabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibenin, bir e\u015f ararken daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir resmin par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilmek en ak\u0131ll\u0131ca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Bu bizi onsuz ya\u015fayamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015fiyi aramaya ve o tatl\u0131 cazibe pastas\u0131n\u0131n kremas\u0131n\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc deneyin (cazibe dahil) <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT'\u0131n \u00dccretsiz uygulamas\u0131<\/a> Bug\u00fcn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Attraction in Christian dating. Should we ignore it because looks fade and the heart is more important? Or does attraction keep love alive? 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