{"id":3287,"date":"2026-05-07T11:30:31","date_gmt":"2026-05-07T11:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3287"},"modified":"2026-05-07T11:30:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-07T11:30:34","slug":"ilk-bulusmada-etkilemek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/impress-on-a-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130lk Bulu\u015fmada Etkilemenin 10 Yolu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, ilk bulu\u015fmada etkilemek isteyen bekar H\u0131ristiyanlar i\u00e7indir - bu bir performans oldu\u011fundan de\u011fil! Ama hepimiz iyi bir ilk izlenim b\u0131rakmak isteriz, de\u011fil mi?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr\">TL;DR<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk bulu\u015fmalar hissettirdikleri kadar korkutucu olmak zorunda de\u011fil. \u0130\u015fte ele alaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyin k\u0131sa bir \u00f6zeti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-1-greet-them-warmly\"><strong>Onlar\u0131 s\u0131cak bir \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n<\/strong><\/a> - Daha oturmadan ortam\u0131 haz\u0131rlay\u0131n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-2-friendly-physical-contact\"><strong>Dost\u00e7a fiziksel temas<\/strong><\/a> - Az\u0131 karar \u00e7o\u011fu zarar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-3-start-with-a-compliment\"><strong>Bir iltifatla ba\u015flay\u0131n<\/strong><\/a> - Sohbeti y\u00fcksek bir notla a\u00e7\u0131n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-4-make-them-laugh\"><strong>Onlar\u0131 g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcn<\/strong><\/a> - Kahkaha, ba\u011flant\u0131 kurman\u0131n en h\u0131zl\u0131 yollar\u0131ndan biridir<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-5-be-curious-about-them\"><strong>Onlar hakk\u0131nda merakl\u0131 olun<\/strong><\/a> - Ger\u00e7ek ilgi, m\u00fckemmel bir cevaptan daha \u00e7ekicidir<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-6-find-common-ground\"><strong>Ortak bir zemin bulun<\/strong><\/a> - Payla\u015f\u0131lan deneyimler an\u0131nda kimya yarat\u0131r<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-7-ask-good-questions\"><strong>\u0130yi sorular sorun<\/strong><\/a> - \u201cPeki, ne i\u015f yap\u0131yorsun? \u201ddan daha derine inin.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-8-keep-things-positive\"><strong>Her \u015feyi olumlu tutun<\/strong><\/a> - Enerji bula\u015f\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, olumsuzluk da \u00f6yle<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-9-share-your-faith\"><strong>\u0130nanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131n<\/strong><\/a> - Kim oldu\u011funuzun en \u00f6nemli k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 saklamay\u0131n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-10-end-with-a-compliment\"><strong>Bir iltifatla bitirin<\/strong><\/a> - Veda ettikten \u00e7ok sonra bile g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemelerini sa\u011flay\u0131n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\u0130lk Bulu\u015fmada Nas\u0131l Etkileyebilirsiniz?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Ibz81brmwX4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-introduction\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir kafenin \u00f6n\u00fcnde arabamda oturdu\u011fumu, derin nefes al\u0131p verdi\u011fimi ve kendimi kendinden emin, \u00e7ekici bir insan oldu\u011fuma ikna etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Bu adamla iki haftad\u0131r konu\u015fuyordum, sohbet harikayd\u0131 ve bir \u015fekilde daha kap\u0131dan i\u00e7eri girmeden tam bir pani\u011fe kap\u0131lmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tan\u0131d\u0131k geldi mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk bulu\u015fmalar <em>garip<\/em>. Asl\u0131nda yabanc\u0131 olan ama ho\u015flanabilece\u011finize karar verdi\u011finiz biriyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz. Ayn\u0131 anda hem ilgin\u00e7, hem \u00e7ekici, hem de ruhsal a\u00e7\u0131dan olgun olma bask\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ok fazla. Yine de, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, asl\u0131nda harika bir ilk izlenim yaratan \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7ok daha basittir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben de bu listeyi haz\u0131rlad\u0131m. Bir hileler veya performans taktikleri listesi de\u011fil, en iyi halinizle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmak ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin evet dedi\u011fine ger\u00e7ekten memnun olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz on ger\u00e7ek, pratik \u015fey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-greet-them-warmly\">1. Onlar\u0131 S\u0131cak Bir \u015eekilde Kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk be\u015f saniye, sonraki be\u015f dakikadan daha \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tek bir ak\u0131ll\u0131ca s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeden, tek bir iyi soru sormadan \u00f6nce, selamlaman\u0131z onlara sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zda bir \u015feyler anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r bile. Onlar\u0131 odan\u0131n di\u011fer ucunda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde s\u0131cak ve samimi bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme mi? Bu zaten bir kazan\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyin. G\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurun, ciddiymi\u015f gibi g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyin ve isimlerini s\u00f6yleyin. \u015eu kadar basit bir \u015fey <em>\u201cHey, sonunda seninle tan\u0131\u015fmak \u00e7ok g\u00fczel\u201d<\/em> Bekledi\u011finizden daha iyi bir yer, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunu d\u00f6rt g\u00f6zle bekledi\u011finizi g\u00f6steriyor. Ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmak gerekirse? \u00c7o\u011fu insan bunu yeterince duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>H\u0131zl\u0131 ipucu:<\/strong> Onlar gelmeden \u00f6nce telefonunuzu kald\u0131r\u0131n. Onlar i\u00e7eri girdi\u011finde telefonunuzda olmak, s\u0131cak bir kar\u015f\u0131lamay\u0131 daha ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeden geri alman\u0131n en h\u0131zl\u0131 yoludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-friendly-physical-contact\">2. Dost\u00e7a Fiziksel Temas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu insanlar\u0131 tedirgin ediyor. Ama beni dinle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uygun, arkada\u015f\u00e7a fiziksel temas (sar\u0131lmaktan bahsediyorum), kelimelerin yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 \u015fekilde s\u0131cakl\u0131k ve g\u00fcven iletir. Sadece bir ekran arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla konu\u015fmu\u015f olan iki insan aras\u0131nda var olan g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez duvar\u0131 y\u0131kar. Halihaz\u0131rda fiziksel bir \u00e7ekim varsa, bu da buna katk\u0131da bulunur ve en ba\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a \u201cBu bir randevu - romantik bir ke\u015fif yap\u0131yoruz\u201d deme \u015fans\u0131 verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anahtar kelime <em>dost\u00e7a<\/em>. \u0130ki dakika i\u00e7inde tam bir kucakla\u015fmaya girmiyorsun. Sadece i\u015faret ediyorsun: Senin yan\u0131nda rahat\u0131m ve senin de benim yan\u0131mda rahat hissetmeni istiyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-start-with-a-compliment\">3. Bir \u0130ltifatla Ba\u015flay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevimsiz bir tane de\u011fil. Ger\u00e7ek bir tane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arada b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark var <em>\u201cVay can\u0131na, \u015fahsen daha da g\u00fczelsin.\u201d<\/em> (biraz garip) ve <em>\u201cBu cekete bay\u0131ld\u0131m, sana \u00e7ok yak\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f.\u201d<\/em> (spesifik, ger\u00e7ek, al\u0131nmas\u0131 kolay). \u0130kincisi, onlar\u0131 sadece bir profil resmi olarak de\u011fil, bir insan olarak fark etti\u011finizi s\u00f6yler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir keresinde, tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131n ilk birka\u00e7 dakikas\u0131 i\u00e7inde biri bana mesajlar\u0131m\u0131n bu kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli olmas\u0131ndan ger\u00e7ekten ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti. Bu iltifat\u0131 g\u00fcnlerce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Anlaml\u0131 gelmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130ster tarzlar\u0131, ister enerjileri ya da sohbette bahsettikleri bir \u015fey olsun, iltifat edecek belirli bir \u015fey bulabilirseniz, bu dikkatinizi verdi\u011finizi g\u00f6sterir. Ve dikkat etmek bir insan\u0131n yapabilece\u011fi en \u00e7ekici \u015feylerden biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-make-them-laugh\">4. Onlar\u0131 G\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcn<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Stand-up komedyeni olman\u0131za gerek yok. Sadece biraz insan olmaya istekli olman\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk bulu\u015fmada kahkaha ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir \u015fey yapar. Gard\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Resmi bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme tarz\u0131ndaki sohbeti ger\u00e7ekten ba\u011flant\u0131 hissi veren bir \u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Ve en iyi k\u0131sm\u0131? Birini g\u00fcld\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in do\u011fu\u015ftan komik olman\u0131z gerekmez. Sadece g\u00fclmeye istekli olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z <em>kendinize<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen mizah, \u00e7evrenizle ilgili komik bir g\u00f6zlem, \u00f6nceki mesajlar\u0131n\u0131zdan aptalca bir \u015feyi geri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rma. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hafiflik anlar\u0131 insanlar\u0131n hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerdir. M\u00fckemmel cilalanm\u0131\u015f cevaplar de\u011fil. \u00c7ok \u00e7abalamay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve sadece <em>ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-be-curious-about-them\">5. Onlar Hakk\u0131nda Merakl\u0131 Olun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte \u00f6\u011frenmem itiraf etmek istedi\u011fimden daha uzun s\u00fcren bir s\u0131r: \u0130nsanlar odadaki en etkileyici ki\u015fiye a\u015f\u0131k olmazlar. Kendilerini en iyi hissettiren ki\u015fiye a\u015f\u0131k olurlar. <em>g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek merak manyetiktir. E\u011fildi\u011finizde, bir takip sorusu sordu\u011funuzda ve cevab\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten dinledi\u011finizde, di\u011fer ki\u015fi bunu hisseder. Randevudan \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar, <em>\u201cOnlarla konu\u015fmak \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131.\u201d<\/em> Ve genellikle demek istedikleri \u015fudur: Sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda kendilerini ilgin\u00e7 hissettiler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden her sessizli\u011fi kendinizle ilgili bir hikayeyle doldurma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne direnin. Onlar\u0131n hayat\u0131 hakk\u0131nda sorular sorun. Onlar\u0131 neyin ayd\u0131nlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenin. Ne \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, neyi hayal ettiklerini veya neyle m\u00fccadele ettiklerini sorun. Sorgulama \u015feklinde de\u011fil. Bir <em>\u201cSeni ger\u00e7ekten ilgin\u00e7 buluyorum\u201d<\/em> yol. Listemizi deneyin <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/iyi-ilk-bulusma-sorulari\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"3187\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">harika ilk bulu\u015fma sorular\u0131<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Soru soran biri ile ger\u00e7ekten merak eden biri aras\u0131ndaki fark:<\/strong> Merakl\u0131 ki\u015fi bir sonraki ad\u0131mda ne s\u00f6yleyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden \u00f6nce cevab\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten dinler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-find-common-ground\">6. Ortak Zemin Bulun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ba\u011flant\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fme s\u0131ras\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130kinizin de ayn\u0131 t\u00fcr kaotik kilise gen\u00e7lik grubuna giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc veya hayat zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ikinizin de stresli bir \u015fekilde pi\u015firdi\u011finizi veya pizzadaki ananas konusunda tamamen ayn\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fe sahip oldu\u011funuzu ke\u015ffetti\u011finizde, bir \u015feyler de\u011fi\u015fir. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada etkilemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iki yabanc\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, birbirini seven iki insan gibi hissetmeye ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. <em>olsun<\/em> Birbirimizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zorlamay\u0131n. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada etkilemek i\u00e7in ortak ilgi alanlar\u0131 \u00fcretmenize gerek yok. Ancak do\u011fal olarak buldu\u011funuz ortak ilgi alanlar\u0131na e\u011filin. Bir \u015fey yank\u0131 uyand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bunu s\u00f6yleyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00fczeyde ortak bir zemin bulmakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, daha derine inin. Ortak de\u011ferler, ortak inan\u00e7, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l ya\u015famak istedi\u011finize dair ortak bir his. Uzun vadede ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan ortak zemin budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-ask-good-questions\">7. \u0130yi Sorular Sorun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sessizli\u011fi doldurmak ile ger\u00e7ekten konu\u015farak bir yere varmak aras\u0131nda fark vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130yi sorular sadece bilgi toplamakla kalmaz. Kap\u0131lar\u0131 da a\u00e7ar. Ki\u015fiyi sadece prova edilmi\u015f bir \u015feyi de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ek bir \u015feyi payla\u015fmaya davet ederler. Ve ilk bulu\u015fmada, tam da istedi\u011finiz \u015fey budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte ilgin\u00e7 bir yere gitme e\u011filiminde olan birka\u00e7 tanesi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>\u201c\u015eu anda ger\u00e7ekten tutkulu oldu\u011funuz \u015fey nedir?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cGer\u00e7ekten iyi bir hafta sonu sizin i\u00e7in neye benziyor?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cSon zamanlarda fikrinizi de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011finiz \u015fey nedir?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cKilise toplulu\u011funuz nas\u0131l? Bu konuda neyi seviyorsunuz?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunlar\u0131n ortak noktalar\u0131na dikkat edin. A\u00e7\u0131k u\u00e7ludurlar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye davet ederler ve di\u011fer ki\u015fiye kendisi i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan bir \u015feyi payla\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yer verirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u0131zl\u0131ca sorulan CV sorular\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n (i\u015f, nerede b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz, ka\u00e7 karde\u015f oldu\u011funuz). Bu cevaplar size pek bir \u015fey anlatmaz. Ancak birine para bir fakt\u00f6r olmasayd\u0131 ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorarsan\u0131z her \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-keep-things-positive\">8. \u0130\u015fleri Olumlu Tutun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Enerji bula\u015f\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Ve olumsuzluk sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan daha h\u0131zl\u0131 yay\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu, durmaks\u0131z\u0131n ne\u015feli olman\u0131z veya hayat\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fckemmelmi\u015f gibi davranman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Ancak ilk bulu\u015fma, kabus gibi patronunuzu, karma\u015f\u0131k aile dinami\u011finizi veya bir dizi korkun\u00e7 fl\u00f6rt deneyiminizi anlatabilece\u011finiz bir yer de\u011fildir. Hen\u00fcz de\u011fil. \u0130\u015fler ilerlerse t\u00fcm bunlar i\u00e7in zaman olacakt\u0131r. \u015eu anda, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda olmay\u0131 \u015fu duygularla ili\u015fkilendirmesini istiyorsunuz <em>iyi<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir keresinde yirmi dakika boyunca i\u015finden ne kadar nefret etti\u011finden bahseden biriyle randevuya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Sonunda kendimi bitkin ve biraz da \u00fczg\u00fcn hissettim. Durum ger\u00e7ekten zor olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, di\u011fer her \u015feyi renklendirdi\u011fi i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca hafif tutun - ilk bulu\u015fmada sizi etkileyecek olan budur. Nelerden heyecan duydu\u011funuza, nelere minnettar oldu\u011funuza ve neleri d\u00f6rt g\u00f6zle bekledi\u011finize odaklan\u0131n. Bu t\u00fcr bir enerji ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ekicidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>Unutmay\u0131n:<\/strong> Pozitiflik sahte olmakla ilgili de\u011fildir. Hayat m\u00fckemmel olmasa bile, masaya en iyi halinizi getirmeyi se\u00e7mekle ilgilidir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-share-your-faith\">9. \u0130nanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Payla\u015f\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kim oldu\u011funuzun en \u00f6nemli k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 saklamay\u0131n. Ama ayn\u0131 zamanda, inan\u00e7 konular\u0131 ilk bulu\u015fmada payla\u015fmak i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a derin olma e\u011filimindedir, bu y\u00fczden ak\u0131ll\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunun savunmas\u0131z hissettirebilece\u011fini biliyorum. \u0130nan\u00e7 ki\u015fiseldir. Ve bu konuya \u00e7ok erken girerseniz, a\u011f\u0131r, tuhaf ya da ruhani ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zdaki bir rol i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 se\u00e7iyormu\u015fsunuz gibi hissettirece\u011fine dair her zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir korku vard\u0131r. Ama \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u015fey var: E\u011fer Hristiyan biriyle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsan\u0131z, inanc\u0131n\u0131z anla\u015fmay\u0131 bozmaz. Bu bir <em>Vak\u0131f<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kahve i\u00e7erken t\u00fcm tan\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 vermenize gerek yoktur. Ancak inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n do\u011fal bir \u015fekilde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na izin vermek, ister Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n son zamanlarda size \u00f6\u011frettiklerinden bahsetmek, ister kiliseniz hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak veya Kutsal Yaz\u0131larda okudu\u011funuz bir \u015feyi payla\u015fmak olsun, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey s\u00f6yler. Onlara sizin ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nanc\u0131n organik olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 randevular\u0131n her zaman en iyileri oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Hristiyanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yerine getirdi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sadece <em>kim oldu\u011fumuzun bir par\u00e7as\u0131<\/em>. Ve bu tam da \u00e7o\u011fumuzun arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcrden bir insan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u011fer hala o ki\u015fiyi ar\u0131yorsan, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT'ta \u00e7ok say\u0131da ger\u00e7ek H\u0131ristiyan var<\/a>. Hristiyanlar taraf\u0131ndan, Hristiyanlar i\u00e7in in\u015fa edilmi\u015ftir ve buradaki herkes siz daha merhaba bile demeden sizinle en \u00f6nemli \u015feyi payla\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-end-with-a-compliment\">10. Bir \u0130ltifatla Bitirin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nas\u0131l geldi\u011finiz kadar nas\u0131l ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk bulu\u015fman\u0131n sonu, eve gitmeden \u00f6nce hat\u0131rlayacaklar\u0131 son \u015feydir, t\u00fcm ak\u015fam\u0131 kafalar\u0131nda tekrar oynat\u0131rlar ve sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l hissettiklerine karar verirler. O y\u00fczden bunu iyi de\u011ferlendirin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vedala\u015f\u0131rken yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z samimi ve \u00f6zel bir iltifat \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir etki yarat\u0131r. Onlara fark etti\u011finizi s\u00f6yler. Onlara e\u011flendi\u011finizi s\u00f6yler. Ve onlar\u0131, sizin ad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan s\u0131cak bir duyguyla evlerine g\u00f6nderir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131na gerek yok. \u015e\u00f6yle bir \u015fey:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>\u201c\u00c7ok iyi vakit ge\u00e7irdim. Seninle konu\u015fmak ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok kolay.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cGen\u00e7lik grubuyla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 dinlemeye bay\u0131ld\u0131m. Bu ger\u00e7ekten ilham verici.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cNe bekleyece\u011fimden emin de\u011fildim ama bu ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok g\u00fczeldi. Te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Basit. Samimi. \u00d6zg\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve sonra, e\u011fer onlar\u0131 tekrar g\u00f6rmek istiyorsan\u0131z, bunu s\u00f6yleyin. Onlar\u0131 tahminler i\u00e7inde b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. \u00d6zg\u00fcven \u00e7ekicidir ve ne istedi\u011fini bilen ve bunu s\u00f6ylemekten korkmayan birinden daha \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli bir \u015fey yoktur. Ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun. E\u011fer bir titre\u015fim yoksa, sadece iltifatla bitirin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk bulu\u015fman\u0131n m\u00fckemmel olmas\u0131 gerekmez. Sadece olmas\u0131 gerekir <em>ger\u00e7ek<\/em>. S\u0131cak g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcn, ger\u00e7ekten ilgilenin, inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kim oldu\u011funuzun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmas\u0131na izin verin ve iyi bitirin. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada etkilemek i\u00e7in gereken tek \u015fey bu.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post is for single Christians who want to impress on a first date &#8211; not that it&#8217;s a performance! But we all want to make a good first impression, right?! TL;DR First dates don&#8217;t have to be as terrifying as they feel. 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