{"id":3277,"date":"2026-04-22T12:48:24","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T12:48:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3277"},"modified":"2026-04-22T12:48:28","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T12:48:28","slug":"otizm-ile-flort","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/dating-with-autism\/","title":{"rendered":"Otizmle Fl\u00f6rt: Ger\u00e7ekten Yard\u0131mc\u0131 Olan 5 \u0130pucu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, otizmle fl\u00f6rt eden herkes i\u00e7in s\u00fcreci daha kolay ve etkili hale getiren en iyi fl\u00f6rt ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zetlemektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Otizm sizi arkada\u015fl\u0131ktan, ortakl\u0131ktan veya s\u00f6zle\u015fmeden diskalifiye etmez. Bu sadece yolunuzun farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilece\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir ve farkl\u0131 olmak eksik olmak anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bir ili\u015fkinin ge\u00e7erli olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n deneyimini yans\u0131tmas\u0131 gerekmez. Tanr\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma yoluyla de\u011fil, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck ve sadakat yoluyla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Kablolar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6ren ayn\u0131 Tanr\u0131, ba\u011flant\u0131 kurma arzunuzu da g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve bunu tamamen anlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve e\u011fer bek\u00e2r kalmaya ve hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tamamen Rabbe adamaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissediyorsan\u0131z, bu g\u00fczel bir \u015feydir; ancak bunun nedeni kendinizi fl\u00f6rt d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda sayman\u0131z de\u011fil, \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olman\u0131zd\u0131r. Kimsenin sizi istemeyece\u011fini ya da anlamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz i\u00e7in de\u011fil. A\u015fktan diskalifiye edilmi\u015f de\u011filsiniz. \u0130\u015fte otizmli biriyle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsan\u0131z size yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak baz\u0131 ipu\u00e7lar\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-1-lead-with-honesty\">D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle liderlik edin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-2-define-your-rhythms\">Ritimlerinizi tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-3-communicate-needs-clearly\">\u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131 net bir \u015fekilde iletin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-4-choose-patience-over-pressure\">Bask\u0131 yerine sabr\u0131 se\u00e7in<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-5-keep-god-human-centered\">Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 insan merkezli tutun<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Hay\u0131r, sen herkes i\u00e7in de\u011filsin. Bu, birinin size a\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in kim oldu\u011funuzu de\u011fi\u015ftirmekle ilgili de\u011fil. Bu, ger\u00e7ekli\u011finizi kabul etmek ve bilgelikle ilerlemekle ilgili. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131za kimi getirece\u011fini asla bilemezsiniz. S\u0131rf \u00e7evrenizdekiler \u00f6yle yapt\u0131 diye O'nu bir kutuya koymay\u0131n. Evet, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilin ama inan\u00e7 sizin i\u00e7in hala ge\u00e7erlidir. Sen <em>olabilir<\/em> Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi ak\u0131ll\u0131ca y\u00f6nlendirece\u011fine ve kalbinizi koruyaca\u011f\u0131na g\u00fcvenerek fl\u00f6rt konusunda risk al\u0131n. \u015eimdi bu ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 teker teker ele alal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Otizmle Fl\u00f6rt Etmek \u0130\u00e7in 5 \u0130pucu\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/gDx3YGfVVxw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Benim Hikayem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bana otizm te\u015fhisi konmad\u0131, ancak yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe kadar sosyal kayg\u0131m\u0131 da fark etmedim. Y\u0131llarca, sosyal etkile\u015fimlerin neden benim i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden daha zor oldu\u011funu merak ettim. Neden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck konu\u015fmalar beni yoruyordu? Sohbet ba\u015flatmak -\u00f6zellikle erkeklerle- neden rahats\u0131z edici veya bunalt\u0131c\u0131 geliyordu. \u00d6zellikle fl\u00f6rt etmek bu zorluklar\u0131 y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Mesajla\u015fmak bana bir g\u00fcvenlik hissi veriyordu. Yan\u0131t vermeden \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi ve bask\u0131 olmadan etkile\u015fime ge\u00e7memi sa\u011flayan bir tampon olu\u015fturdu. Yeterince mesajla\u015f\u0131r ve yak\u0131nl\u0131k kurarsak, telefona cevap verirken -ya da aramay\u0131 kendim yaparken- kendimi daha rahat hissediyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Engellerle ilgili fark\u0131ndal\u0131k artm\u0131\u015f olsa da, toplumun dar \u201cnormal\u201d tan\u0131m\u0131na uymayan insanlar\u0131 izole eden cahil ve bilgisiz g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler hala var. E\u011fer size resmi olarak otizm te\u015fhisi konduysa, bu <em>de\u011fil<\/em> yaln\u0131z kalmaya mahkum oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelmez. Otizmli pek \u00e7ok Hristiyan bekar i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck sava\u015f fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn kendisi de\u011fil, zaten geride olduklar\u0131na veya d\u0131\u015fland\u0131klar\u0131na dair sessiz inan\u00e7t\u0131r. Kilise alanlar\u0131, insanlar\u0131n ba\u011flant\u0131, ileti\u015fim ve cazibe deneyimledikleri \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli yollar\u0131 kabul etmeden evlilik vurguland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bunu istemeden de olsa peki\u015ftirebilir. Zamanla, e\u011fer fl\u00f6rt etmek kolay de\u011filse, bir \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi fikrini i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmek kolayd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak Tanr\u0131 aidiyet i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir zaman ayn\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fart ko\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar beklentilere uymayan, farkl\u0131 ad\u0131mlarla ilerleyen ya da ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7 duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kolayl\u0131klara ihtiya\u00e7 duyan insanlarla doludur. Tanr\u0131 onlar\u0131 kullanmadan ya da sevmeden \u00f6nce ba\u015fka biri olmalar\u0131n\u0131 istememi\u015ftir. Onlarla olduklar\u0131 yerde bulu\u015fmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-lead-with-honesty\">1. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle liderlik edin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Otizmle fl\u00f6rt, rol yapman\u0131n yerini d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda geli\u015fir. Ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmaya de\u011fer olmak i\u00e7in maskelemenize, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klama yapman\u0131za veya \u201cnormal\u201d bir versiyon sergilemenize gerek yoktur. Nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l i\u015fledi\u011finiz veya uyar\u0131mlara nas\u0131l tepki verdi\u011finiz konusunda d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmak bir kusur de\u011fil, netliktir. Ve netlik fl\u00f6rtte bir hediyedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nan\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131r\u0131r. Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar inananlar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli olarak \u0131\u015f\u0131kta y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r - m\u00fckemmel olmaya de\u011fil, samimi olmaya. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada te\u015fhisinizin her ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131z gerekmez, ancak zamanla d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck g\u00fcven yarat\u0131r. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck \u00fczerine kurulur, korku \u00fczerine de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience\">Benim deneyimim<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kocamla \u00e7\u0131karken, pek konu\u015fkan biri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ger\u00e7e\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade ettim. Konu\u015fmaya zorlayarak ya da daha d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck biriymi\u015fim gibi davranarak bunu telafi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131m. Onun yan\u0131t\u0131 basitti: <em>\u201cS\u00f6yleyecek bir \u015feyin oldu\u011funda konu\u015fursun.\u201d<\/em> Bu ifade \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kabulleni\u015f ta\u015f\u0131yordu. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte sessiz oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in alay konusu olmu\u015ftum, sanki sessizlik bende bir sorun oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na geliyormu\u015f gibi. Ama ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki, herkesin her an\u0131n\u0131 kelimelerle doldurmas\u0131 gerekmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar s\u00fcrekli konu\u015fman\u0131n ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmak anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Ancak ba\u011flant\u0131 ayn\u0131 zamanda mevcudiyet, dinleme ve bilin\u00e7li konu\u015fma gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir. Kelimelerimi dikkatle se\u00e7meyi seviyorum, b\u00f6ylece bir anlamlar\u0131 oluyor. Evet, \u015fakac\u0131 ve ne\u015feli olabilirim ama sadece ait oldu\u011fumu kan\u0131tlamak i\u00e7in konu\u015fma ihtiyac\u0131 hissetmem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-honesty-does\">D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ne yapar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi itmez, aksine \u00e7eker. Kim oldu\u011funuz konusunda d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldu\u011funuzda, birine uzun vadede s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclemeyecek bir versiyonunuzu de\u011fil, sizi tam olarak se\u00e7me f\u0131rsat\u0131 verirsiniz. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 sizi tan\u0131ma \u015fans\u0131 bulmadan \u00f6nce kendinizi diskalifiye etmeyin. B\u0131rak\u0131n onlar karar versin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck sizi duygusal yorgunluktan da korur. Maskelemek k\u0131sa vadeli bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm gibi gelebilir, ancak uzun vadede kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yarat\u0131r. Birisi sizin s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir olmayan bir versiyonunuza a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funda, bu versiyonu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrme bask\u0131s\u0131 da artar. Sonunda, bir \u015feyler vermek zorunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131, performans g\u00f6stererek sevgi kazanman\u0131z\u0131 gerektirmez. Do\u011fru ki\u015fi a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelili\u011finizi ve hatta sessiz anlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 takdir edecektir. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, her iki ki\u015finin de bilin\u00e7li ve duaya dayal\u0131 kararlar verebilece\u011fi sa\u011flam bir temel sa\u011flar. Kendiniz olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, zoraki kimya yerine ger\u00e7ek uyuma yer a\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z. Ve bu t\u00fcr bir d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck hem sizin hem de onlar\u0131n kalbini onurland\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-define-your-rhythms\">2. Ritimlerinizi tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Duygusal, sosyal ve fiziksel olarak kendi ritimlerinizi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda fl\u00f6rt etmek daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 hale gelir. Sizi ne yorar? Size ne enerji verir? Ne kadar etkile\u015fim hayat verici, ne kadar\u0131 bunalt\u0131c\u0131 hissettiriyor? Bunlar \u00fcstesinden gelinmesi gereken zay\u0131fl\u0131klar de\u011fil; sayg\u0131 duyulmas\u0131 gereken ger\u00e7eklerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki haftal\u0131k randevular \u00e7ok fazla geliyordur. Belki uzun sohbetler toparlanma s\u00fcresi gerektiriyordur. Belki spontane planlar strese neden olurken, yap\u0131 huzur getiriyordur. Bu ilgisiz oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelmez; kendinizin fark\u0131nda oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 t\u00fckenmi\u015flikten etkilenmez. Dinlenmeyi O tasarlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bunu Kendisi modelledi. O'nun sizi \u015fekillendirme bi\u00e7imini onurland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, su\u00e7luluk duygusu yerine huzurla \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n\u0131z. Ama\u00e7 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131na ayak uydurmak de\u011fil, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k olmadan ba\u011flant\u0131n\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fcyebilece\u011fi bir ritim yaratmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-0\">Benim deneyimim<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kocamla \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanlar vard\u0131 ve ben basit\u00e7e \u015f\u00f6yle derdim, <em>\u201cBa\u015fka bir \u015feyim yok.\u201d<\/em> Ve bu sorun de\u011fildi. G\u00fclerdi ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi sonland\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131k. S\u0131rf ona e\u015flik etmek i\u00e7in s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131 zorlamam\u0131 beklemiyordu. Bir sonraki konu\u015fmam\u0131zda payla\u015facak bir \u015feyim varsa, o zaman payla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Karma\u015f\u0131k de\u011fildi ve g\u00fcvenliydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fru ki\u015fiyle birlikte oldu\u011funuzda, bir gelgit ya\u015fan\u0131r. Bu, ili\u015fkilerin \u00e7aba gerektirmedi\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak temel bir rahatl\u0131k d\u00fczeyi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Fl\u00f6rt etmek s\u00fcrekli kendini denetlemek veya duygusal yorgunluk gibi hissettirmemelidir. Arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u00f6nemlidir. Ben kocam\u0131 en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131m olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum ve bu arkada\u015fl\u0131k fl\u00f6rt s\u0131ras\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sayg\u0131 ve ortak anlay\u0131\u015fla ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu ba\u011f evlilikte daha da g\u00fc\u00e7lendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-defining-your-rhythms-does\">Ritimlerinizi tan\u0131mlamak ne i\u015fe yarar?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritimlerinizi tan\u0131mlamak gereksiz su\u00e7luluk duygusunu da \u00f6nlemeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Alana veya yap\u0131ya ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funuz i\u00e7in kimseyi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratm\u0131yorsunuz. Duygusal ve zihinsel sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ak\u0131ll\u0131ca y\u00f6netiyorsunuz. Fl\u00f6rt etmek ay\u0131rt etmekle ilgilidir. Ritminize sayg\u0131 duyuldu\u011funda, daha haz\u0131r, daha ilgili ve g\u00fcven in\u015fa etme konusunda daha yetenekli olursunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Biriyle vakit ge\u00e7irdikten sonra nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finize dikkat edin. Huzurlu mu yoksa t\u00fckenmi\u015f mi hissediyorsunuz? Sakin mi yoksa endi\u015feli mi? Bu sinyaller \u00f6nemlidir. Tanr\u0131 genellikle huzur yoluyla konu\u015fur, bask\u0131 yoluyla de\u011fil. Biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak O'nun sizi nas\u0131l tasarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131yla uyumlu oldu\u011funda, kendinizi s\u00fcrekli ink\u00e2r ediyormu\u015f gibi hissetmezsiniz. S\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir hissedeceksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-communicate-needs-clearly\">3. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131 net bir \u015fekilde iletin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f beklentiler, fl\u00f6rtte incinme ve kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratman\u0131n en h\u0131zl\u0131 yollar\u0131ndan biridir. Do\u011frudan ileti\u015fime, planlar hakk\u0131nda netli\u011fe veya duygular\u0131 i\u015flemek i\u00e7in zamana ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z varsa, bunu s\u00f6yleyin. A\u00e7\u0131k ihtiya\u00e7lar sizi talepkar yapmaz, sorumlu yapar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar bizi ger\u00e7e\u011fi sevgiyle s\u00f6ylemeye te\u015fvik eder. \u0130leti\u015fim kontrolle ilgili de\u011fildir; anlay\u0131\u015fla ilgilidir. Birinden sizi d\u00fczeltmesini istemiyorsunuz, sizi tan\u0131maya davet ediyorsunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-1\">Benim deneyimim<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen e\u015fimin s\u00f6ylediklerini, ba\u015f\u0131na \u015fu ifadeyi koyarak tekrarlard\u0131m, <em>\u201cA\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fay\u0131m...\u201d<\/em> Dinlemedi\u011fim i\u00e7in de\u011fildi. Birbirimizi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan emin olmak istedi\u011fim i\u00e7indi. Bu t\u00fcr bir a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k gereksiz yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalar\u0131 \u00f6nler. Birisi sizinle alay ederek ya da anlama ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek yan\u0131t verirse, bu dikkat etmeye de\u011ferdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi yumurta kabuklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde y\u00fcr\u00fcyormu\u015f gibi hissetmemelisiniz. Duygusal g\u00fcvenlik \u00f6nemlidir-\u00f6zellikle de otizmle \u00e7\u0131karken. Kendinize d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e sorun: <em>Onlarla herhangi bir \u015fey hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fabilir miyim?<\/em> Cevab\u0131n\u0131z hay\u0131r ise duraklay\u0131n. Ba\u015fta a\u00e7\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim kurmak aylarca, hatta y\u0131llarca s\u00fcrecek hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131ndan kurtarabilir. Ayr\u0131ca sizi olgunluk ve zarafetle kar\u015f\u0131lamaya istekli olmayan insanlar\u0131 da filtreler. M\u00fckemmellik istemiyorsunuz; dikkate al\u0131nmak istiyorsunuz. Sizi ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemseyen bir ki\u015fi, sizi nas\u0131l iyi sevebilece\u011fini anlamak isteyecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 ili\u015fkilerde bar\u0131\u015fa de\u011fer verir. Kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, korku ve duygusal kapanma sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkinin meyveleri de\u011fildir. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dile getirmek s\u00fcrekli olarak reddedilmeye ya da alay edilmeye yol a\u00e7\u0131yorsa, bu dua ederek uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lacak bir \u015fey de\u011fil, kabul edilmesi gereken bir \u015feydir. Sevgi g\u00fcvende hissettirmelidir, susturucu de\u011fil. \u0130leti\u015fim ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u015fimdi reddediyorlarsa, daha sonra d\u00fczelmesi pek olas\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-choose-patience-over-pressure\">4. Bask\u0131 yerine sabr\u0131 se\u00e7in<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc genellikle dile getirilmeyen bir <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yanlar-cok-hizli-evleni%cc%87yor\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"3159\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">zaman \u00e7izelgeleri \u00fczerinde bask\u0131<\/a>-\u0130li\u015fkiyi h\u0131zl\u0131ca tan\u0131mlay\u0131n, ilerleyin ya da yolunuza devam edin. Ancak sab\u0131r erteleme de\u011fildir. Fark\u0131ndal\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Otizmli biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak genellikle daha yava\u015f duygusal tempodan yararlan\u0131r ve bu sorun de\u011fildir. Tanr\u0131 yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 aceleye getirmez; onu geli\u015ftirir. Bask\u0131 yarg\u0131y\u0131 bulan\u0131kla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken, sab\u0131r dua, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme ve bilgelik i\u00e7in alan yarat\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu, i\u015fleri sonsuza kadar uzatmak anlam\u0131na gelmez. Sab\u0131r ve ka\u00e7\u0131nma aras\u0131nda bir fark vard\u0131r. Y\u0131llar hi\u00e7bir netlik veya y\u00f6nlendirme olmadan ge\u00e7ip gidiyorsa, d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e konu\u015fman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015f demektir. Birini asla oyalamay\u0131n ve kendinizin de oyalanmas\u0131na asla izin vermeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-patience-does\">Sab\u0131r ne i\u015fe yarar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 sab\u0131r sorular sorar. Kontrol eder. Ka\u00e7\u0131nmak yerine anlay\u0131\u015f arar. Tanr\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011fe g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015ften \u00e7ok daha fazla de\u011fer verir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sab\u0131r ayn\u0131 zamanda size karakteri g\u00f6zlemlemek i\u00e7in de zaman verir. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta kelimeler kolayd\u0131r; tutarl\u0131l\u0131k zaman al\u0131r. Yava\u015flamak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ileti\u015fim ve s\u0131n\u0131rlarla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmenizi sa\u011flar. Bunlar ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7taki kimyadan \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 zaman\u0131n tehdidi alt\u0131nda de\u011fildir. E\u011fer bir \u015feyin b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi gerekiyorsa, b\u00fcy\u00fcyecektir. Ve e\u011fer \u00f6yle de\u011filse, sab\u0131r bunu da ortaya \u00e7\u0131karacakt\u0131r-gereksiz kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 olmadan. Fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n aceleyle de\u011fil, s\u00fck\u00fbnetle geli\u015fti\u011fine g\u00fcvenin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-keep-god-human-centered\">5. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 insan merkezli tutun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tutmak <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn merkezinde Tanr\u0131 var<\/a> her duyguyu ruhsalla\u015ft\u0131rmak ya da ili\u015fkiyi bir kontrol listesine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bu, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n insanlarla derinden ilgilendi\u011fini hat\u0131rlamak anlam\u0131na gelir; performansla de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130man kayg\u0131 de\u011fil, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck getirmelidir. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nezaket, \u00f6zdenetim, l\u00fctuf ve tutarl\u0131l\u0131kla kendini g\u00f6sterir. Her ad\u0131m\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 analiz etmeden O'na g\u00fcvenebilirsiniz. Kendinizi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme sarmal\u0131nda bulursan\u0131z, g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, ak\u0131l hocan\u0131z\u0131 ya da sevdi\u011finiz birini devreye sokman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015f olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-experience-2\">Benim deneyimim<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ni\u015fanlanmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda \u015f\u00fcpheyle bo\u011fu\u015ftu\u011fumu hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Her \u015fey do\u011fru geliyordu ve bu beni korkutuyordu. Tanr\u0131'ya s\u00f6yledim, <em>\u201cSan\u0131r\u0131m bana a\u015f\u0131k oluyor.\u201d<\/em> Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n yan\u0131t\u0131 basitti: <em>\u201cB\u0131rak onu.\u201d<\/em> Bu huzur benimle kald\u0131. Acele etmedik ama korku y\u00fcz\u00fcnden iyi bir \u015feye direnmeyi b\u0131rakt\u0131m. Kocam evlenme teklif etti\u011finde, evet demekte hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct etmedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevginin yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu yalan\u0131na kanmay\u0131n. Neden siz de\u011filsiniz? Otizmli olun ya da olmay\u0131n, siz Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bir \u00e7ocu\u011fusunuz. O iyi arma\u011fanlar vermekten zevk al\u0131r. E\u011fer evlilik Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finize yerle\u015ftirdi\u011fi bir arzuysa, bu konuda O'na g\u00fcvenin. Bilgelik ve inan\u00e7la ileriye do\u011fru ad\u0131m at\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u011fer haz\u0131rsan\u0131z <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">benzer d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n <\/a>\u0130nan\u00e7, \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fck ve ger\u00e7ek ba\u011flant\u0131ya de\u011fer verenler, SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn indirin.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post summarises the best dating tips for anyone dating with autism that make the process easier and more effective. TL;DR: The Summary Autism does not disqualify you from companionship, partnership, or covenant. It simply means your path may look different\u2014and different does not mean deficient. 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