{"id":3134,"date":"2025-12-18T10:26:11","date_gmt":"2025-12-18T10:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3134"},"modified":"2025-12-18T10:26:13","modified_gmt":"2025-12-18T10:26:13","slug":"iliskilerde-catisma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/conflict-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fkilerde \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 Y\u00f6netmek \u0130\u00e7in 5 \u0130pucu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, ili\u015fkilerde ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilmeniz i\u00e7in size gerekli donan\u0131m\u0131 sa\u011flar. Zorlu konu\u015fmalara yakla\u015f\u0131rken bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in gerekli ara\u00e7lar\u0131 ve dili size sunuyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n fark etmedi\u011fi \u015fey, zor anlar\u0131 birlikte atlatman\u0131n sizi sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiye daha da yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rabilece\u011fidir. Partnerinizin \u00f6fke, kay\u0131p, keder, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve benzeri duygularla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek \u00f6nemlidir. Bu ki\u015fiyle bir hayat kuruyorsunuz. \u201cEvet\u201d demeden \u00f6nce her \u015feyi bilemezsiniz, ancak pembe g\u00f6zl\u00fcklerle evlili\u011fe ad\u0131m atmak da istemezsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fkinizde ve gelecekteki evlili\u011finizde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz birka\u00e7 \u015fey var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-choose-peace-over-power\">Tepki Vermeden \u00d6nce Durun<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-choose-peace-over-power\">G\u00fc\u00e7ten ziyade bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7in<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-speak-the-truth-in-love\">Sevgiyle Ger\u00e7e\u011fi S\u00f6yle<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-pray-before-during-and-after\">\u00d6ncesinde, S\u0131ras\u0131nda ve Sonras\u0131nda Dua Edin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-forgive-and-release-fully\">Tamamen affet ve b\u0131rak gitsin<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 y\u00f6netirken a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7mamak gerekir. Sorunlar\u0131 hal\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na s\u00fcp\u00fcrmemelisiniz, ancak e\u015finizin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi yanl\u0131\u015f bulup s\u00fcrekli onu d\u00fczeltme ihtiyac\u0131 hissedecek kadar titiz davranmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. E\u015finiz \u00e7ocuk de\u011fildir, ona \u00e7ocukmu\u015f gibi davranmay\u0131n. \u00c7iftlerin birbirlerine sayg\u0131s\u0131zca davranmas\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc bir durumdur. Unutmay\u0131n, e\u015finiz Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n suretinde yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; O'nun o\u011fluna veya k\u0131z\u0131na nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011funuza dikkat edin. Tanr\u0131, ikinizin bir olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister ve bu birle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde zaman zaman \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar ya\u015fayabilirsiniz. Bu, bir \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez; sadece, Kutsal Kitap'\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi, \u201cayn\u0131 fikirde\u201d olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\u0130li\u015fkilerde \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in 6 \u0130pucu\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/B1jt410O9_Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAsla tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131z. Birbirimizin her \u015feyini seviyoruz.\u201d K\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre \u00f6nce, evlilik \u00f6ncesi dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011fa giden gen\u00e7 bir \u00e7iftin hik\u00e2yesini duydum. Konu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya geldi\u011finde, verdikleri cevap buydu. \u0130li\u015fkilerdeki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar genellikle k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Hatta baz\u0131lar\u0131 bunu \u201czehirli davran\u0131\u015f\u201d olarak nitelendirip, \u201c <em>narsisizm.<\/em> E\u011fer e\u011fitimli bir profesyonel de\u011filseniz, birini tan\u0131mlamak i\u00e7in bu terimleri kullanmamak en iyisidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne yaz\u0131k ki, her \u015feyin mercek alt\u0131na al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fcnyada ya\u015f\u0131yoruz ve en ufak bir yap\u0131c\u0131 geri bildirim bile zararl\u0131 olarak i\u015faretlenebiliyor. Sevgiyle ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylemek ne zaman bir \u201cg\u00fcnah\u201d haline geldi? Sevgilinize, hatta e\u015finize kar\u015f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici, kaba veya a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 olmadan d\u00fcr\u00fcst olabilirsiniz. \u0130ncil, \u201cBar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 ne mutlu\u201d der ve bazen bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 olmak, zor bir konu\u015fma yapmak anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pause-before-you-react\">Tepki Vermeden \u00d6nce Durun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ortas\u0131nda, pi\u015fman olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyler s\u00f6ylemek kolayd\u0131r. Bir an durmak \u2014 sadece 10 saniye bile olsa \u2014 Kutsal Ruh'un bir sonraki ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirmesi i\u00e7in alan sa\u011flar. Nefes al\u0131n, bir ad\u0131m geri \u00e7ekilin ve bir \u015feyi kan\u0131tlama d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne direnin. Duygusal tepkiler gerilimi art\u0131r\u0131r, ancak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli tepkiler bar\u0131\u015f yarat\u0131r. Gerekirse sessizce dua edin. Tanr\u0131'dan sadece zafer de\u011fil, a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k da isteyin. Bu duraklama, at\u0131l\u0131m ile \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 belirleyebilir. \u00d6zdenetim, bir nedenden dolay\u0131 Ruh'un meyvesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tek amac\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmaksa, zaten kaybetmi\u015fsiniz demektir. \u00d6nemli olan bir ki\u015finin kazanmas\u0131 de\u011fil, ikinizin birlikte bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmas\u0131d\u0131r. Siz \u201ckazan\u0131rsan\u0131z\u201d ama e\u015finiz kendini dinlenilmedi\u011fini veya yenildi\u011fini hissederse, ikiniz de kaybedersiniz. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarda \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim bir \u015fey, kesin ifadelerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmakt\u0131r. \u201cSen her zaman\u201d veya \u201cSen asla\u201d gibi ifadeler nadiren do\u011frudur ve genellikle duygularla beslenir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead\">Bunun yerine ne demeli?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun yerine, \u201cXYZ yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ben b\u00f6yle hissettim\u201d deyin. Bu, e\u015finizi d\u00fc\u015fman olarak g\u00f6rmek yerine soruna odaklanman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. D\u00fc\u015fman, \u00e7iftleri ay\u0131rmak ve \u00f6nemsiz \u015feyler i\u00e7in kavga etmelerini sa\u011flamak ister. Onun evlili\u011finizi elinizden almas\u0131na izin vermeyin. Siz ve e\u015finiz ayn\u0131 tak\u0131mdas\u0131n\u0131z, \u00f6yle davran\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, gururun engel olmas\u0131na izin verecek bir zaman de\u011fil. Kendilerini zay\u0131f g\u00f6sterece\u011finden korktuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in savunmas\u0131z olmaktan \u00e7ekinen erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hikayelerini duydum. Ancak e\u015finize bir \u015feyin sizi incitti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek sizi zay\u0131f yapmaz. Asl\u0131nda d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck genellikle sevgiyi ve g\u00fcveni derinle\u015ftirir. Sessiz kal\u0131rsan\u0131z, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmemi\u015f duygular birikebilir ve sonunda patlayabilir. E\u015finiz sizi ger\u00e7ekten seviyorsa, kalbinizden ge\u00e7enleri duymak isteyecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-choose-peace-over-power\">G\u00fc\u00e7ten ziyade bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7in<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz, \u00f6zellikle de bunun bedeli ili\u015fkinizi kaybetmekse. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, bir ki\u015finin her zaman hakl\u0131 olmas\u0131yla ilgili de\u011fildir. \u0130ki ki\u015finin, anla\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131 durumlarda bile birbirlerine sayg\u0131 duymas\u0131yla ilgilidir. Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7mek, savunmaktan \u00e7ok dinlemek anlam\u0131na gelir. Egonuzu bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p sevginin \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fck etmesine izin vermek anlam\u0131na gelir. Evet, ger\u00e7ek \u00f6nemlidir, ama ses tonu da \u00f6nemlidir. Kendinize sorun: Bu, iyile\u015fmekle mi yoksa kontrol\u00fc ele almakla m\u0131 ilgili?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha \u00f6nce de belirtti\u011fim gibi, amac\u0131n\u0131z hala tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmaksa, zaten kaybetmi\u015fsiniz demektir. Tek \u00f6nemsedi\u011finiz \u015fey hakl\u0131 olmak ve son s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylemekse, e\u015finizle bir tak\u0131m olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya odaklanm\u0131yorsunuz demektir. Ma\u00e7 boyunca topu hi\u00e7 tak\u0131m arkada\u015f\u0131na pas etmeden elinde tutan bir basketbolcuyu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ya da pas vermeyi reddeden ve topu tek ba\u015f\u0131na sahada ko\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir oyun kurucuyu. Her iki durumda da, bencil oyuncu tak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne g\u00fcvenmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in yaralanma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 daha y\u00fcksektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu spor alan\u0131nda garip g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsa, bir ili\u015fkide ne kadar zararl\u0131 olabilir? Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7mek, birinin sizi ezmesine izin vermek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Sessiz kalmak veya sorunu g\u00f6rmezden gelmek anlam\u0131na da gelmez. Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7mek, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li bir \u00e7aba sarf etmek anlam\u0131na gelir. Ne yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi konusunda Tanr\u0131'ya dan\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz, \u00f6zellikle de sorun \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fckse veya nas\u0131l tepki verece\u011finizden emin de\u011filseniz. O size bilgelik verebilir. Bu, 24 saat bekleyip konuyu tekrar g\u00fcndeme getirmek veya nezaket ve sevgiyle do\u011frudan ele almak anlam\u0131na gelebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-fight-to-dominate\">Hakimiyet m\u00fccadelesi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne yaz\u0131k ki, erkek ya da kad\u0131n\u0131n di\u011ferini domine etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkiler vard\u0131r. \u00c7ok yayg\u0131n olmasa da, kocalar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmeye ve ili\u015fkiyi y\u00f6netmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan dominant kad\u0131nlar vard\u0131r. Erkek pasif ya da daha rahat bir yap\u0131ya sahipse, bu dinamikte nas\u0131l sesini y\u00fckseltece\u011fini bilemeyebilir. Ancak ili\u015fkiler hi\u00e7bir zaman bir g\u00fc\u00e7 m\u00fccadelesi olarak tasarlanmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tanr\u0131, erkekleri ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131 uyum i\u00e7inde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak ve O'na \u015fan getirmek i\u00e7in tasarlanm\u0131\u015f benzersiz yeteneklerle yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa'n\u0131n Kilise'yi, yani gelinini, asla egemenli\u011fi alt\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezsiniz. Kutsal Kitap bize, \u0130sa'n\u0131n kendini onun i\u00e7in feda etti\u011fini s\u00f6yler. Bu y\u00fczden Kutsal Kitap <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/tanrisal-bir-koca-olmak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">kocalara sevmelerini emreder<\/a> e\u015flerine ve kendilerini fedakarca adarlar. E\u015fler ise itaat etmeye \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131rlar \u2014 zay\u0131f olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, korunmalar\u0131, kollanmalar\u0131 ve sevilmeleri gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ili\u015fkide kendinizi tamamen kaybetmemelisiniz, evlilik <em>yapmak<\/em> kendini feda etmeyi gerektirir. \u201cBiz, bizim\u201d haline gelir. \u201cBen, kendim ve ben\u201d art\u0131k odak noktas\u0131 olamaz. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, sadece kendi iste\u011fini elde etmek i\u00e7in evlili\u011fe giriyorsan, bekar kalman daha iyidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 sana ve e\u015fine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, iki birey g\u00f6rmez, bir birey g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Birlikte uyum i\u00e7inde y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011frenirken birbirinizle bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde olun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-speak-the-truth-in-love\">Sevgiyle Ger\u00e7e\u011fi S\u00f6yle<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zarafet i\u00e7ermeyen d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck sertle\u015fir, sessizlik ise kin do\u011furur. Tanr\u0131 bizden ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklamam\u0131z\u0131 istemez, onu sevgiyle tatland\u0131rmam\u0131z\u0131 ister. Bir \u015fey can\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yak\u0131yorsa, bunu s\u00f6yleyin, ama sald\u0131rmay\u0131n. S\u00f6zleriniz a\u00e7\u0131k, sakin ve Mesih gibi olsun. Amac\u0131n\u0131z sald\u0131rmak de\u011fil, ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmakt\u0131r. \u0130yi y\u00f6netildi\u011finde, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar asl\u0131nda g\u00fcven ve sayg\u0131y\u0131 derinle\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygular\u0131n yo\u011fun oldu\u011fu zamanlarda bu kolay de\u011fildir. Bu nedenle e\u015finize cevap vermeden \u00f6nce bir nefes al\u0131p sakinle\u015fmek \u00f6nemlidir. Sakinle\u015ftikten sonra, e\u015finize ki\u015fisel olarak sald\u0131rmak yerine konuya odaklan\u0131n. Daha \u00f6nce de belirtildi\u011fi gibi, bu zorlu konu\u015fmalar sizi ve e\u015finizi birbirinize daha da yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rabilir. Birbirinize kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldu\u011funuzda daha derin bir yak\u0131nl\u0131k olu\u015fur. Fiziksel yak\u0131nl\u0131ktan daha derin bir d\u00fczeyde kalplerinizi a\u00e7\u0131yorsunuz. Seks bir ba\u011f kurma bi\u00e7imi olsa da, duygusal savunmas\u0131zl\u0131k da ayn\u0131 derecede g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-conflict-resolution-in-the-early-stages\">Erken a\u015famalarda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00fczden de fl\u00f6rt a\u015famas\u0131nda duygusal olarak \u00e7ok \u00e7abuk ba\u011flanmamak \u00f6nemlidir. Kalbiniz size uygun olmayan birine ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bu durum karar verme yetene\u011finizi g\u00f6lgeleyebilir. Birini tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n ve hikayenizin par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 (\u00e7ocuklu\u011funuz, hatalar\u0131n\u0131z ve ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimleriniz) yava\u015f yava\u015f payla\u015f\u0131n. Ni\u015fanland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda veya evlendi\u011finizde, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ve ileti\u015fim ili\u015fkinizde \u00f6nemli bir rol oynayacakt\u0131r. Hayat devam edecek ve e\u015finizle yarg\u0131lanma veya sert tepkiler korkusu olmadan konu\u015fabilmeniz gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-challenge-and-correction\">Zorluk ve d\u00fczeltme<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayr\u0131ca, d\u00fczeltilmeye a\u00e7\u0131k olman\u0131z gerekir. E\u015finiz sevgiyle do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsa, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc davran\u0131p hatal\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu kabul etmeye haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Herkes bunu ba\u015faramaz. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u201czor durumda kalmaktan\u201d ho\u015flanmad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in bundan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131rlar. Ancak hepimiz hata yapar\u0131z ve evlili\u011fin g\u00fczel yanlar\u0131ndan biri, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n e\u015finizi sizin b\u00fcy\u00fcmenize ve olgunla\u015fman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in kullanabilmesidir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 her zaman rahat de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0131k s\u0131k \u201cdemir demiri keskinle\u015ftirir\u201d ayetini al\u0131nt\u0131 yapar\u0131z, ancak keskinle\u015ftirmek s\u00fcrt\u00fcnme anlam\u0131na gelir. Bu, bir \u015feyin daha iyi hale gelmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7alkalanma ve kesilme anlam\u0131na gelir. Bu s\u00fcrece boyun e\u011fmeye istekli de\u011filseniz, evlili\u011fi yeniden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek isteyebilirsiniz. \u0130deal olarak, bir inanan olarak zaten bu t\u00fcr bir ar\u0131nmadan ge\u00e7iyorsunuz, ancak evlilik bunu ba\u015fka bir d\u00fczeye ta\u015f\u0131r. Neden? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc evlilikte tamamen a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n\u0131z. Her g\u00fcn birbirinizle birlikte ya\u015fars\u0131n\u0131z. Ger\u00e7ekte kim oldu\u011funuzu saklayamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Fl\u00f6rt ederken maske takm\u0131\u015f olsan\u0131z bile, \u201cEvet\u201d dedikten sonra bu maske d\u00fc\u015fecektir. Sonunda ger\u00e7ek benli\u011finiz ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015finize zor bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylerken, Kutsal Ruh'un sizi nas\u0131l ikna etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. O sizi asla de\u011fersiz hissettirmez, sadece sevgiyle d\u00fczeltir ve y\u00f6nlendirir. Bu, kocamla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m konu\u015fmalarda benim ki\u015fisel barometremdir. Amac\u0131m onu y\u0131kmak de\u011fil, \u00f6zellikle de zaten su\u00e7luluk duyuyorsa. Benim rol\u00fcm, onun yolunu d\u00fczeltmesine yard\u0131m etmek, ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylemek ve Rab onun kalbinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam ederken onun i\u00e7in dua etmektir. M\u00fckemmel biriyle evlenmeyi bekliyorsan\u0131z, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frayacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pray-before-during-and-after\">\u00d6ncesinde, S\u0131ras\u0131nda ve Sonras\u0131nda Dua Edin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dua son \u00e7are de\u011fildir, ilk silah\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Zor bir konu\u015fmaya girmeden \u00f6nce, Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 davet edin. Bilgelik, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck ve do\u011fru s\u00f6zler isteyin. Konu\u015fma s\u0131ras\u0131nda, O'nun rehberli\u011fine kulak verin. O, size duraklaman\u0131z\u0131, dinlemenizi veya hatta \u00f6nce \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemenizi s\u00f6yleyebilir. Sonra, huzur ve onar\u0131m i\u00e7in dua edin. Dualar\u0131n\u0131z, s\u00f6zlerin tek ba\u015f\u0131na asla k\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131 kaleleri y\u0131kabilir. Ruhsal sava\u015flar, ruhsal silahlar gerektirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-first-to-apologize\">\u0130lk \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'dan e\u015finizi d\u00fczeltmesini istemek cazip gelse de, O'nun sizi d\u00fczeltmesine haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olun. Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnseniz bile, Rab yine de \u00f6nce sizden \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemenizi isteyebilir. Bu sizi zay\u0131f yapmaz, evlili\u011finizin geli\u015fmesini hakl\u0131 olmaktan daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nemsedi\u011finizi g\u00f6sterir. Hararetli bir tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ortas\u0131ndaysan\u0131z ve durup dua etmeye karar verdiyseniz, \u00f6nce Tanr\u0131'dan kendi kalbinizi incelemesini isteyin. Evet, e\u015finizin kalbini de dua edebilirsiniz, ancak \u00f6nce kendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kabul etmelisiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015finiz konu\u015furken sessizce dua bile edebilirsiniz. Kocamla zorlu bir konu\u015fman\u0131n ortas\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuz zamanlar oldu ve ben sessizce dua ettim: \u201cTanr\u0131m, bu anda s\u00f6ylemem gereken do\u011fru kelimeleri bana ver.\u201d Sonras\u0131nda s\u00f6yledi\u011fim kelimelerin tam da kocam\u0131n duymaya ihtiyac\u0131 olan kelimeler olmas\u0131 beni s\u0131k s\u0131k \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6te yandan, kocam zor bir konuyu payla\u015f\u0131rken, hatta beni d\u00fczeltirken, sessizce Rab'den bana al\u0131nmamam i\u00e7in yard\u0131m etmesini isterim. Kendimi savunmakla me\u015fgul olursam, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kocam arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bana g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi ka\u00e7\u0131rabilirim. Bazen ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan bereket e\u015fimiz arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla gelir, ama al\u0131nmaya tak\u0131l\u0131rsak bunu ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6yleyse dua edin. Evlili\u011finizi \u0130sa'n\u0131n kan\u0131yla koruyun ve Tanr\u0131'dan hem sizin hem de e\u015finizin kalbini a\u00e7\u0131k tutmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyin \u2014 \u00f6zellikle zorlu anlarda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-forgive-and-release-fully\">Tamamen affet ve b\u0131rak gitsin\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama tek seferlik bir eylem de\u011fildir. Bir \u015fey sizi derinden yaralad\u0131ysa, bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te kendinize merhamet g\u00f6sterin. Bunu \u015fiddetle tavsiye ederim. <em>Unutamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Affetmek<\/em> Lysa TerKeurst taraf\u0131ndan. Kilise bize affetmeyi \u00f6\u011fretirken, bunu pratikte nas\u0131l yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, \u00f6zellikle de g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta nas\u0131l yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayan \u00e7ok az ki\u015fi vard\u0131r. Lysa'n\u0131n anahtar noktalar\u0131ndan biri, affetmeye karar verdi\u011finizde, bunu <em>var<\/em> affedilmi\u015f. Bu, zaman zaman hala tetiklenmeyece\u011fin anlam\u0131na gelmez, ama \u00f6nemli olan, affedilmenin \u00e7oktan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fini kendine hat\u0131rlatmakt\u0131r. Duygular\u0131n hen\u00fcz buna yeti\u015fmemi\u015f olsa bile, bu durum i\u00e7in \u0130sa'n\u0131n kan\u0131n\u0131 savunabilirsin. Lysa'n\u0131n kitab\u0131nda dedi\u011fi gibi, \u201cAffetmeyi se\u00e7iyorum ve duygular\u0131m hen\u00fcz buna izin vermese de, \u0130sa'n\u0131n kan\u0131 bunu kesinlikle \u00f6rtecektir.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayr\u0131ca okuyuculara, tetiklenmenin affetmede ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n S\u00f6z\u00fc arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, asi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri defetme yetkisine sahibiz. Zihninizin dola\u015fmas\u0131na ve ac\u0131y\u0131 tekrar tekrar ya\u015faman\u0131za izin vermeyin. Kutsal Kitap bize yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kaydetmememizi s\u00f6yler; bu nedenle, e\u015finizin yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli olarak yeniden ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ilerlemek zor olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-get-rid-of-the-list-of-wrongs\">Yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n listesinden kurtulun<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Affetmeye karar verdi\u011finizde, o ki\u015fiyi su\u00e7lamak i\u00e7in ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki hatalar\u0131n\u0131 tekrar g\u00fcndeme getirmeyin. Baz\u0131 e\u015fler, yeni bir tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmak i\u00e7in ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki incinmeleri silah olarak kullan\u0131rlar. Bu adil de\u011fildir ve sevgi de\u011fildir. Tanr\u0131 bizi affetti\u011finde, ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze vurmaz veya bizi k\u0131namaz. Tanr\u0131 size bunu yapm\u0131yorsa, siz de e\u015finize veya ba\u015fka birine bunu yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamak pratik gerektirir. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olabilirsiniz, ama o zaman Kutsal Ruh'tan yard\u0131m istersiniz. Kin tutmak veya hesap g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in cazip hissetti\u011finizde, Tanr\u0131'dan e\u015finize kar\u015f\u0131 kalbinizin yumu\u015famas\u0131 i\u00e7in dua edin. Onlar i\u00e7in i\u00e7tenlikle dua edin. Tanr\u0131'dan onlar\u0131 korumas\u0131, onlara rehberlik etmesi ve onlar\u0131 kutsamas\u0131 i\u00e7in dua edin. Hatta d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e, \u201cHala bununla u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yorum, ama ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaya karar verdim\u201d diyebilirsiniz.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-forgive-yourself\">Kendini affet<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Roller tersine d\u00f6nerse ve incitici davran\u0131\u015fta bulunan sizseniz, e\u015finizin iyile\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun. Hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kabul edin, af dileyin ve ayn\u0131 hatay\u0131 tekrarlamamak i\u00e7in elinizden geleni yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015finiz bir insan, siz de \u00f6yle. \u0130stemeden birbirinizi incitece\u011finiz anlar olacakt\u0131r. Bu, ikinizin de zehirli oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. Sadece ikinizin de kusurlu oldu\u011funuz ve b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n yard\u0131m\u0131na ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelir. O zor anlarda bile, Tanr\u0131 affetmeyi kullanarak aran\u0131zdaki ba\u011f\u0131 derinle\u015ftirebilir \u2014 tabii bunu ikiniz aras\u0131nda tutmay\u0131 se\u00e7erseniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a belirtmek gerekirse, bu, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline gelmi\u015f, k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 mazur g\u00f6rmek veya ho\u015f g\u00f6rmekle ilgili de\u011fildir. Bu, sizi ger\u00e7ekten sevmeye ve Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kusurlu bir insana merhamet g\u00f6stermekle ilgilidir. Kendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131 kabul ettiklerinde, onlar\u0131 affedin.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-being-like-minded-helps\">Ayn\u0131 fikirde olmak yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Herhangi bir ili\u015fkide yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak ayn\u0131 sayfada olmak yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur, bu y\u00fczden ili\u015fkinin nerede ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkat edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015fmaya haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inan\u0131lmaz Hristiyan bekarlar<\/a>? \u0130ndirin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT uygulamas\u0131<\/a> Bug\u00fcn!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post equips you to deal with conflict in relationships &#8211; something that is guaranteed to happen. 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