{"id":3047,"date":"2025-09-11T10:51:47","date_gmt":"2025-09-11T10:51:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3047"},"modified":"2025-09-11T10:51:49","modified_gmt":"2025-09-11T10:51:49","slug":"flortte-hayal-kirikligi-ile-basa-cikmanin-5-yolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/5-ways-to-deal-with-disappointment-in-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Fl\u00f6rtte Hayal K\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kman\u0131n 5 Yolu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fl\u00f6rt hayat\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili olarak insanlarda ya da Tanr\u0131'da hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0131 u\u011frad\u0131n\u0131z? Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, fl\u00f6rt hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n 5 yolunu g\u00f6stererek bu konuda ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmenizi \u00f6nleyecek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Randevularda hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin garantisi yoktur. Peki hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsunuz? Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 biriyle ge\u00e7irece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde, sadece \"Sana \u00e7ok de\u011fer veriyorum, ama ili\u015fkimizin daha ileri gidece\u011fini sanm\u0131yorum\" dedi\u011fini duydu\u011funuzda ne yapars\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir Hristiyan olarak nas\u0131l iyile\u015firsiniz ve bu ili\u015fkinin kayb\u0131n\u0131n yas\u0131n\u0131 tutarken bile Mesih'in sevgisini nas\u0131l yans\u0131t\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? \u0130\u015fte fl\u00f6rtte hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n be\u015f pratik yolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-grieve-the-loss-honestly-with-god\">Kayb\u0131n Yas\u0131n\u0131 Tanr\u0131 ile D\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e Tutun<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-stop-taking-rejection-personally\">Reddedilmeyi Ki\u015fisel Almaktan Vazge\u00e7in<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-guard-your-identity-in-christ\">Mesih'teki Kimli\u011finizi Koruyun<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-look-at-the-pattern-not-just-the-person\">Sadece Ki\u015fiye De\u011fil, \u00d6r\u00fcnt\u00fcye Bak\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-keep-your-heart-open-without-settling\">Yerle\u015fmeden Kalbinizi A\u00e7\u0131k Tutun<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Randevula\u015fmada her zaman bir risk d\u00fczeyi olacakt\u0131r. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ki\u015finin gelecekteki e\u015finiz oldu\u011funu garanti edemezsiniz. Evet, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ili\u015fkinizi onaylamas\u0131 i\u00e7in dua edebilirsiniz, ancak di\u011fer ki\u015finin de \u00f6zg\u00fcr iradesi vard\u0131r. E\u011fer sizin do\u011fru ki\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za karar verirlerse, bunu kabul etmek zorundas\u0131n\u0131z. Bu ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 incelerken, g\u00f6ksel Baban\u0131z taraf\u0131ndan zaten derinden sevildi\u011finizi ve kalbinizi bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla payla\u015fmadan \u00f6nce O'na ait olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Randevularda Hayal K\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na U\u011framak\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/yYBGMWSTkBM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu ili\u015fki i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'ya dua ettiniz, g\u00fcvendiniz ve inand\u0131n\u0131z - peki neden ili\u015fki y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011finde sizi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratm\u0131\u015f gibi hissediyorsunuz? Bir ili\u015fki evlili\u011fe do\u011fru gidiyor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde duygusal olarak yat\u0131r\u0131m yapmak kolayd\u0131r. Umutlu olmakta yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yoktur, ancak ger\u00e7ek bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k olu\u015fana kadar o ki\u015fiye ellerinizi a\u00e7\u0131k tutmak en iyisidir. Bu pratikte ne anlama geliyor? Kula\u011fa \u015f\u00f6yle gelebilir: \"Bu ki\u015fi beni heyecanland\u0131rsa da, evlenece\u011fimizi varsaymak yerine bekleyip g\u00f6rece\u011fim.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r\u0131n fl\u00f6rt hayatlar\u0131nda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Hem erkekler hem de kad\u0131nlar <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/kalp-kirikligi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/a> Evlilikle sonu\u00e7lanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri bir ili\u015fki ayr\u0131l\u0131kla sonu\u00e7land\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Erkekler de kesinlikle bu ac\u0131y\u0131 hissetse de, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade eden daha \u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan kad\u0131n g\u00f6rmeye e\u011filimliyim. Bir\u00e7o\u011fu sadece se\u00e7ildi\u011fini hissetmek istiyor ve se\u00e7ilmedikleri zaman bu derin bir cesaret k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olabiliyor. Ayn\u0131 durum, sadece sunabilecekleri \u015feyler i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ekten kim olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in sevilmek isteyen Hristiyan bek\u00e2r erkekler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-grieve-the-loss-honestly-with-god\">Kayb\u0131n Yas\u0131n\u0131 Tanr\u0131 ile D\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e Tutun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r, bir ili\u015fki y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011finde Tanr\u0131'ya kar\u015f\u0131 biraz k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k hissettiklerini tam olarak kabul etmekte zorlan\u0131r. Bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in dua ederseniz, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n otomatik olarak bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirece\u011fine dair yayg\u0131n bir yanl\u0131\u015f kan\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu inan\u00e7 sizi sadece daha derin hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131na ve kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131na haz\u0131rlar. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z bir ili\u015fkiyi iyile\u015ftirmenin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 Tanr\u0131'ya kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gospel sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Kirk Franklin'in en sevdi\u011fim s\u00f6zlerinden biri \u015fudur: \"Tanr\u0131 yaln\u0131zca sizin a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyi iyile\u015ftirebilir.\" Bu pratik anlamda ne anlama geliyor? Dualar\u0131n\u0131zda a\u00e7\u0131k olmak ve \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemek anlam\u0131na gelir: \"Tanr\u0131m, bu ki\u015fiyle ili\u015fkimizin y\u00fcr\u00fcmemesinden nefret ediyorum. Ger\u00e7ekten evlenece\u011fimizi san\u0131yordum.\" E\u011fer Tanr\u0131'ya kar\u015f\u0131 tamamen a\u00e7\u0131k ve \u015feffaf olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, Mezmurlar kitab\u0131n\u0131 okuman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim. Davut yalvar\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda ac\u0131mas\u0131zca d\u00fcr\u00fcstt\u00fcr - ister d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131yor, ister Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n nerede oldu\u011funu merak ediyor, ister ge\u00e7mi\u015f g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131 itiraf edip merhamet diliyor olsun. Tanr\u0131 olmadan ya\u015fayamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordu ve ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc davranm\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-reflect\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>En son ne zaman dua ederken Tanr\u0131'ya kar\u015f\u0131 bu kadar d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldunuz? D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k anlam\u0131na gelmez. Soru sormakta bir sak\u0131nca yoktur. Ancak sorular\u0131n\u0131z Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n karakterinden ya da sizin i\u00e7in y\u00fcre\u011finden ku\u015fku duymaktan kaynaklan\u0131yorsa zararl\u0131 olur. \u0130nsanlar \"Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 sorgulamay\u0131n\" derken genellikle bunu kastederler. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, bir\u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan bunu \u00e7ok ileri g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr ve Tanr\u0131'ya hi\u00e7bir \u015fey soramayacaklar\u0131na inanmaya ba\u015flarlar; bunun itaatsizlik ya da iman eksikli\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelece\u011finden korkarlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>77. Mezmur Davut taraf\u0131ndan yaz\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f olsa da, yazar\u0131 Rab'be kar\u015f\u0131 ayn\u0131 derecede savunmas\u0131zd\u0131r. Mezmurun tamam\u0131n\u0131 okursan\u0131z, yazar\u0131n kederden hu\u015fuya ge\u00e7ti\u011fini fark edeceksiniz. Ac\u0131s\u0131 Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sadakatini hat\u0131rlamas\u0131na yol a\u00e7ar ve umutsuzlu\u011fu \u00f6vg\u00fcye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Tanr\u0131'yla olan ili\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in yas tutmaya zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n. S\u00f6z veriyorum, O'nun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizi orada kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. O sizin duygular\u0131n\u0131zdan korkmaz. Ac\u0131n\u0131zla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilir ve daha da \u00f6nemlisi onu iyile\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stop-taking-rejection-personally\">Reddedilmeyi Ki\u015fisel Almaktan Vazge\u00e7in<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc biliyorum: <em>\"Reddedilmeyi nas\u0131l ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamayabilirim?\"<\/em> Bu zor bir durumdur \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ili\u015fki biter bitmez \u00e7o\u011fu Hristiyan bekar, neyi yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ya da neyi farkl\u0131 yapabileceklerini merak ederek kendilerini ele\u015ftirmeye ba\u015flar. Bu, ili\u015fkinizde m\u00fckemmel oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelmez. Her \u015feyi do\u011fru yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak bu di\u011fer ki\u015finin sizi uzun vadeli gelece\u011finin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her <em>\"Hay\u0131r\"<\/em> sizin de\u011ferinizle ilgilidir. Muhtemelen \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi duymu\u015fsunuzdur <em>\"bazen <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/flortte-reddedilmeyle-nasil-basa-cikabilirim\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">reddedilmek Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n korumas\u0131d\u0131r<\/a>.\"<\/em> \u00c7o\u011fu Hristiyan bek\u00e2r ac\u0131 \u00e7ekerken bunu duymak istemez; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc tek hissedebildikleri ac\u0131d\u0131r ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kalplerinin k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131na izin verece\u011fine inanmak zordur, \u00f6zellikle de niyetleri iyiyken. Ama di\u011fer ki\u015finin size kar\u015f\u0131 iyi niyetli olmamas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? Biz sadece birinin bize g\u00f6stermeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fi \u015feyi g\u00f6rebiliriz, ama Tanr\u0131 y\u00fcre\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Siz o ki\u015finin e\u015finiz oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz, ama Tanr\u0131 gelece\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve bu ili\u015fkinin y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcp y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyece\u011fini bilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trusting-god\">Tanr\u0131'ya G\u00fcvenmek<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nihayetinde konu g\u00fcvene gelir. Tanr\u0131 bir kap\u0131y\u0131 kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda O'na g\u00fcvenebilir miyiz? Bir ili\u015fki y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011finde O'na g\u00fcvenebilir miyiz? Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n a\u015fk \u015fanslar\u0131n\u0131n sonu anlam\u0131na geldi\u011finden sessizce korkar. Merak ederler, <em>\"Ya bu benim son \u015fans\u0131msa? Ya yeni biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131rsa? Ya hayat\u0131m\u0131n sonuna kadar yaln\u0131z kal\u0131rsam?\"<\/em> Bu sorular\u0131n temelinde korku vard\u0131r ve korkunun Tanr\u0131'dan gelmedi\u011fini biliyoruz. O bize g\u00fc\u00e7, sevgi ve ak\u0131ll\u0131ca kararlar alabilmemiz i\u00e7in sa\u011flam bir zihin vermi\u015ftir. Bu ili\u015fkinin sona ermi\u015f olmas\u0131, O'nun hayat\u0131n\u0131za yeni birini, sizin i\u00e7in daha uygun birini getiremeyece\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hepimiz Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenme konusunda b\u00fcy\u00fcyebiliriz - sadece ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131zda de\u011fil, romantik ili\u015fkilerimizde de. Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k d\u00f6nemimde bana yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan bir ger\u00e7ek, kendime \u015funu hat\u0131rlatmakt\u0131: <em>\"Tanr\u0131 benden bir \u015fey saklam\u0131yor; benim i\u00e7in bir \u015fey sakl\u0131yor.\"<\/em> Tanr\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in en iyisini sakl\u0131yor. Ve bizi derinden sevdi\u011fi i\u00e7in, zaman\u0131 gelmeden bize bir \u015fey vermez. Zaman\u0131ndan \u00f6nce gelen \u015feylerin hayatta kalamama riski vard\u0131r ve Tanr\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in bunu istemez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O'nu kabul edebilir misin? <em>\"Hay\u0131r\"<\/em> \u015fimdi, b\u00f6ylece O'nun <em>\"evet\"<\/em> Sonra m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"plaj sahnesi\" class=\"wp-image-2539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/searra-ritchie-dupe.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guard-your-identity-in-christ\">Mesih'teki kimli\u011finizi koruyun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu s\u00f6ylemeye gerek yok, ancak ili\u015fki durumunuz sizi tan\u0131mlamaz. Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yere ve i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz k\u00fclt\u00fcre ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak de\u011fi\u015febilece\u011fine inan\u0131yorum. \u00d6rne\u011fin, Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri'nin kuzeyinde sadece birka\u00e7 y\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131m, ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n genellikle aile kurmak yerine kariyer yapmay\u0131 se\u00e7tikleri i\u00e7in sayg\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerini fark ettim. E\u011fer bir kad\u0131n koca ve \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak istiyorsa, bunda bir sorun yok; ancak hayat\u0131m\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim G\u00fcney'de oldu\u011fu gibi bir toplumsal bask\u0131 yok gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ABD'nin g\u00fcneyinde, \u00f6zellikle de \"\u0130ncil Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131\" olarak bilinen b\u00f6lgelerde, bekar kad\u0131nlar\u0131n evlenip \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in -\u00f6zellikle kilise i\u00e7inde- daha fazla bask\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu, \u00fcniversiteden mezun olduktan ve bir kariyere ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonraki mant\u0131kl\u0131 ad\u0131m olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Hatta G\u00fcney'deki baz\u0131 kiliseler bunu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcrerek kad\u0131nlar\u0131 evlilik ve annelikten \u00f6nce kariyerlerine odakland\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in ay\u0131pl\u0131yor. Sanki bir kad\u0131n kocas\u0131 olana ve anne olana kadar tamamlanm\u0131\u015f say\u0131lmazm\u0131\u015f gibi. Bunlar d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n yalanlar\u0131d\u0131r ve ne yaz\u0131k ki baz\u0131 kiliseler bunlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ek olarak kabul etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-value\">Sizin de\u011feriniz<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k olmama izin verin: kimli\u011finiz evli olup olmaman\u0131za ba\u011fl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Kimli\u011finiz, ruhunuzu g\u00fcnahtan ve Tanr\u0131'dan sonsuza dek ayr\u0131 kalmaktan kurtarmak i\u00e7in \u00e7arm\u0131hta \u00f6len \u0130sa Mesih'e dayan\u0131r. Siz kimsiniz? Siz Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fusunuz. Mesih'te kanla sat\u0131n al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir inanans\u0131n\u0131z. Parma\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bir y\u00fcz\u00fck olmasa bile, oldu\u011funuz halinizle fazlas\u0131yla yeterlisiniz. \u015eu anda se\u00e7ilmi\u015f, sevilmi\u015f ve b\u00fct\u00fcns\u00fcn\u00fcz. Evli oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131 sizi daha fazla sevmiyor ve bek\u00e2r oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in de sizi daha az sevmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen bask\u0131 sadece toplumdan gelmez, ayn\u0131 zamanda <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/evlenmem-icin-baski-yapan-aile-veya-kilise-uyeleriyle-basa-cikmak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">aile veya k\u00fclt\u00fcrel beklentilerden<\/a>. Durum b\u00f6yle olsa bile, geleneklere g\u00f6re de\u011fil, Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc'ne g\u00f6re ya\u015famaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131yoruz. Bu zor olabilir, \u00f6zellikle de aileniz sizi seviyor ve sizin i\u00e7in sadece en iyisini istiyorsa. Ancak g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015funu sormal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa insanlar\u0131 m\u0131 memnun etmeyi tercih edersiniz? Bu her zaman kolay bir durum de\u011fildir. Ama \u00f6nce Mesih'in pe\u015finden gitmeye karar verdi\u011finizde, -e\u011fer evlilik O'nun sizin i\u00e7in plan\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131ysa- sizin zorlaman\u0131za gerek kalmadan kendi zamanlamas\u0131yla bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirece\u011fine g\u00fcvenebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-look-at-the-pattern-not-just-the-person\">Sadece Ki\u015fiye De\u011fil, \u00d6r\u00fcnt\u00fcye Bak\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan sonra kendinizi ele\u015ftirmek ya da kusur bulmak yararl\u0131 olmasa da <em>o<\/em> d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir envanter \u00e7\u0131karmak ak\u0131ll\u0131ca olacakt\u0131r. Kendinize sorun: Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve yap\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fekilde farkl\u0131 yapabilece\u011finiz bir \u015fey var m\u0131? E\u011fer buna a\u00e7\u0131ksan\u0131z, g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz birka\u00e7 arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ili\u015fki s\u0131ras\u0131nda sizde herhangi bir kal\u0131p veya al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k fark edip etmediklerini de sorabilirsiniz. D\u00fcr\u00fcst geri bildirim almaya istekli olun. Daha sonra bunu Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcn ve \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 ya da geli\u015fmenizi istedi\u011fi bir \u015fey olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 size g\u00f6stermesini isteyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu, kendinizi par\u00e7alara ay\u0131rmak veya yeterince iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekle ilgili de\u011fildir. Bu, sorumluluk almak ve ili\u015fki dinami\u011finde oynam\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011finiz rol i\u00e7in hesap verebilir olmakla ilgilidir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ele\u015ftirel miydiniz? G\u00fcvensiz miydiniz? Onlar\u0131 olduklar\u0131 gibi kabul etmek yerine tercihlerinizi onlara m\u0131 yans\u0131tt\u0131n\u0131z? Bunlar, tekrarlayan kal\u0131plar\u0131 ararken kendinize sorman\u0131z gereken g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc sorulard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Benim hikayem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kocamla tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce, hayat\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re \u015fekillendirmek gibi bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m vard\u0131. Sanki kendi arzular\u0131m\u0131n ve ilgi alanlar\u0131m\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi yokmu\u015f gibiydi; onun benden ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olmaya odaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. O zamanlar fark etmedi\u011fim \u015fey, kendim olmayarak ili\u015fkiyi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa s\u00fcr\u00fckledi\u011fimdi. Sonunda bunu Tanr\u0131'ya a\u00e7t\u0131m ve y\u00fczeyin alt\u0131nda saklanan g\u00fcvensizlikleri iyile\u015ftirmesini istedim. Ger\u00e7ek benli\u011fimi -kusurlar\u0131m\u0131, tuhafl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 ve her \u015feyimi- g\u00f6sterirsem \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m erke\u011fin ilgisini kaybedece\u011finden, s\u0131k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131ndan ya da tuhaf oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnece\u011finden korkuyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak oldu\u011fum ki\u015fiyi ger\u00e7ekten sevmeye ve be\u011fenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, fl\u00f6rt etmeye yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m tamamen de\u011fi\u015fti. Yeni ke\u015ffedilmi\u015f bir \u00f6zg\u00fcvenim vard\u0131. Bu y\u00fczden kocamla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, t\u00fcm kusurlar\u0131m\u0131, tercihlerimi, tuhafl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6ren ve yine de bir ili\u015fki s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek isteyen biriyle birlikte olmak canland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131. \u015eimdi bile evli bir kad\u0131n olarak kocam benimle oldu\u011fum gibi vakit ge\u00e7irmekten ger\u00e7ekten keyif al\u0131yor. Ba\u015fka biri gibi davranmak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek, onunla evlenmeden \u00e7ok \u00f6nce kavramam gereken bir \u015feydi. E\u011fer \u015fu anda bekar bir ki\u015fi olarak kendinize g\u00fcvenmiyorsan\u0131z, evlendi\u011finiz i\u00e7in birdenbire g\u00fcvende olmayacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-your-heart-open-without-settling\">Yerle\u015fmeden Kalbinizi A\u00e7\u0131k Tutun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vazge\u00e7mek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Baz\u0131 Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar, daha \u00f6nce de belirtildi\u011fi gibi, yaln\u0131z kalmaktan korktuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in sonunda raz\u0131 olurlar. Bunu ge\u00e7mi\u015f bloglarda da s\u00f6yledim ama tekrarlamakta fayda var: Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r, ya\u015flar\u0131 nedeniyle, acele edip \"bek\u00e2rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmezlerse\" Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Tanr\u0131sal bir e\u015fle gelmeyece\u011finden korkuyor. Bu da ortadan kald\u0131rmam\u0131z gereken bir ba\u015fka yaland\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yerle\u015fmenin tehlikesi, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in en iyisini ka\u00e7\u0131rabilmenizdir. Bu, Tanr\u0131 tam bir a\u00e7\u0131k b\u00fcfe haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015fken masadan k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131 almak gibidir. Bu bana bir s\u00fcre \u00f6nce Instagram'da g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm bir payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rlatt\u0131. \u0130sa diz \u00e7\u00f6km\u00fc\u015f, arkas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir oyuncak ay\u0131 tutarken, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ok daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ay\u0131y\u0131 tuttu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor. B\u0131rakmak istemiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onu \u00e7ok seviyor. Fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey ise \u0130sa'n\u0131n ona verecek \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015feyi oldu\u011fu ama elindekini teslim etmeden onu alamayaca\u011f\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-god-s-best\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu ne kadar vurgulasam azd\u0131r: Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisinden daha az\u0131na raz\u0131 olmay\u0131n. S\u0131rf evlenmi\u015f olmak i\u00e7in evlenmek, e\u011fer kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131za y\u00f6nelik \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na ve amac\u0131na uygun de\u011filse, buna de\u011fmez. Bu t\u00fcr bir evlilik sizi e\u015finizi memnun etmek ve Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 izlemek aras\u0131nda b\u0131rakacak, gereksiz gerginlik ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl yaras\u0131 yaratacakt\u0131r. Sizinle birlikte \u0130sa'n\u0131n pe\u015finden ko\u015facak bir e\u015f istersiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan erkek ya da kad\u0131n\u0131n \"Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 bekledi\u011fim i\u00e7in pi\u015fman\u0131m\" dedi\u011fini hi\u00e7 duymad\u0131m. Ama ben <em>var<\/em> \"Yerle\u015fmekten nefret ediyorum\" diyenleri \u00e7ok duydum. Beklemek korkutucu gelebilir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne bekleyece\u011finizi bilmiyorsunuz, ama siz <em>olabilir<\/em> Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenin. O sizin i\u00e7in yaln\u0131zca en iyisini sakl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fl\u00f6rt yolculu\u011funuzun ac\u0131dan uzak olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilin. \u0130ni\u015fler ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar olmayacak. Ama siz <em>olabilir<\/em> K\u0131r\u0131k y\u00fcre\u011finizi Rab'be teslim edin, O'nun onunla ilgilenece\u011fini, onu iyile\u015ftirece\u011fini ve yeni gibi onaraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilin. Tanr\u0131 k\u00fclleri g\u00fczelli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme konusunda ustad\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">harika Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/a>? \u0130ndirin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyanlar i\u00e7in arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamas\u0131<\/a>, SALT, bug\u00fcn!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Disappointed in people or God about your dating life? This blog post will walk you through 5 ways to deal with disappointment in dating to prevent you from being bitter about it. TL;DR: The Summary There are no guarantees in dating. So how do you handle the disappointment? 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