{"id":2974,"date":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2974"},"modified":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","slug":"durumsal-iliskiler-ve-bunlardan-nasil-kacinilacagi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/situationships-and-how-to-avoid-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Durumlar ve Bunlardan Nas\u0131l Ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131laca\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yaz\u0131, H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131n ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 ya da netlikleri olmayan bir partnerle birlikte olduklar\u0131 durumlar\u0131 tan\u0131malar\u0131na ve bunlardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Umar\u0131m de\u011ferinizin fark\u0131na var\u0131r ve asla ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131yla yetinmezsiniz. Baz\u0131 Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar korkudan, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten ve <em>\"Yaln\u0131z olmaktan daha iyidir.\"<\/em> Bu t\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere art\u0131k bir son verelim! Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisini hak ediyorsunuz ve bu beklemeye de\u011fer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak durumsal ili\u015fkilerden nas\u0131l ka\u00e7\u0131nabiliriz? \u0130\u015fte birka\u00e7 ipucu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarify-intentions-early\">Niyetleri Erken Netle\u015ftirin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">'Neredeyse' ile Yetinmeyin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Kalbinizi ve Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Koruyun<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">S\u0131n\u0131rlar Olu\u015fturun ve Uygulay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Duygular\u0131n\u0131z Yerine Tanr\u0131'ya G\u00fcvenin<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt hayat\u0131n\u0131zda Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131rmak istedi\u011finizi biliyorum ve do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi beklemenin zor olabilece\u011fini anl\u0131yorum. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi \u00e7ekici g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir, ancak y\u00fczeyin alt\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011finiz ki\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edersiniz. \u015eu anda mant\u0131kl\u0131 gelmeyebilir ama Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131na g\u00fcvenmek yapabilece\u011finiz en iyi \u015feydir. Evet, kendinizi ortaya koyun ve yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n, ancak zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bo\u015fa harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in muhakeme yetene\u011finizi kullan\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bir Durumla Nas\u0131l Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kabilirim?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4Vd8hU5XAR8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hi\u00e7 bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131 ya da ya\u015fayan birini tan\u0131yor musunuz? Belki de d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131p, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n birinden ekmek k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 kabul etmesini izlediniz ve \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz, <em>\"\u00c7ok daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 hak ediyorlar.\"<\/em> Ya da belki de kendinizi bir durum ili\u015fkisinin i\u00e7inde buldunuz, kalabilece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz i\u00e7in kald\u0131n\u0131z. <em>\"Ki\u015fiyi de\u011fi\u015ftir.\"<\/em> Onlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde farkl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za ve sonunda size ba\u011flanacaklar\u0131na inand\u0131n\u0131z. Ama sonunda, bu karar\u0131n size b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 tek \u015fey kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve muhtemelen aptall\u0131k duygusu oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Durum arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 tam olarak nedir? Bu terimi sadece birka\u00e7 y\u0131l \u00f6nce \u00f6\u011frendim ve \"arkada\u015fl\u0131k\" ile yak\u0131ndan ili\u015fkili olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Durum arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, biriyle romantik bir ba\u011f payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, ancak ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k olmadan. Derin sohbetler eder, birlikte zaman ge\u00e7irirsiniz ama netlik yoktur. S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 a\u015f\u0131p bu ki\u015fiyle yatabilirsiniz bile, ama ger\u00e7ek bir ili\u015fkinin g\u00fcvencesi yoktur. Her zaman merak i\u00e7inde kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, <em>\"Neyiz biz?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Benim hikayem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu bu t\u00fcr ili\u015fkilere kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak girmez. Fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131klar\u0131 \u015fey, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00f6d\u00fcnlerin onlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 istemedikleri bir \u015feye s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilece\u011fidir. 2019'da e\u015fimle tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce ben de kendimi benzer bir durumda buldum. Bu adam\u0131n iyi biri oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm ama ilerlemekten bahsetti\u011fimizde mesafenin \u00e7ok fazla oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyip duruyordu. A\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fay\u0131m, ikimiz de ayn\u0131 \u015fehirde ya\u015f\u0131yorduk ve aram\u0131zda sadece k\u0131rk be\u015f dakika vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130steklerine sayg\u0131 duymak i\u00e7in elimden geleni yapt\u0131m ama yapmam gereken \u015fey \u00e7ekip gitmekti. Bunun yerine, fikrini de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011fini varsayarak onunla konu\u015fmaya devam ettim. Bunu derin konu\u015fmalar izledi ve bir ili\u015fki gibi hissettirse de \u00f6yle de\u011fildi. Sonunda Tanr\u0131 bana onun telefonlar\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmamam\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Ona kar\u015f\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 bir \u015feyler hissetmeme ra\u011fmen itaat ettim. \u0130ki y\u0131l sonra New York'ta ya\u015fayan kocamla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Mesafe onun i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli de\u011fildi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben g\u00f6r\u00fclmeye de\u011ferdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarify-intentions-early\">Niyetleri Erken Netle\u015ftirin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlilik hedefiyle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ba\u011flanmak istemeyen birinin pe\u015finden gitmenin bir anlam\u0131 yoktur. Bu onlar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc biri yapmaz, sadece sizin hedeflerinizi payla\u015fmad\u0131klar\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelir. Siz evlilik ve \u00e7ocuk istiyorsunuz, onlar ise ba\u011flanmadan kalmay\u0131 tercih ediyor. Bir keresinde bir kad\u0131n\u0131n bir talk show sunucusuna evlenme teklif etmeyen bir y\u0131ll\u0131k erkek arkada\u015f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini sordu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Birlikte ya\u015famaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131 ama erkek hala ona evlenme teklif etmemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adam\u0131n yan\u0131t\u0131 -benim fark etti\u011fim ama di\u011ferlerinin g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etti\u011fi bir yan\u0131t- \u00e7evresinde pek \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ili\u015fki g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde sonlanmaktan korktu\u011fu y\u00f6n\u00fcndeydi. \u0130\u015fler yolunda gitmezse diye risk almak istemiyordu. Bu sek\u00fcler bir program olsa da, Hristiyan bekarlar bile kendilerini benzer durumlarda buluyorlar. Niyetinizi erkenden belirlemek kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmaya yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-be-intense-about-it\">Bu konuda gergin olmay\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, ilk bulu\u015fmada hayat hedeflerinizi payla\u015fman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Ancak, birka\u00e7 bulu\u015fma ve anlaml\u0131 konu\u015fmalardan sonra, farkl\u0131 yollarda oldu\u011funuzu hissederseniz, bu hissinize g\u00fcvenin ve yolunuza devam edin. Birini \u00e7ekici oldu\u011funuza ikna edemezsiniz. Sadece Tanr\u0131 bir insan\u0131n kalbini de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir, bu y\u00fczden zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bo\u015fa harcamay\u0131n. Do\u011fru ki\u015fi sizin de\u011ferinizi hemen anlayacak ve kalbinizi kazanmak i\u00e7in ne gerekiyorsa yapacakt\u0131r. Sizi se\u00e7meleri ya da sevmeleri i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 ikna etmek zorunda kalmayacaks\u0131n\u0131z; onlar sadece bilecek ve siz de bileceksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unutma, olmak <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/evlilik-icin-flort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">niyetiniz hakk\u0131nda net olun<\/a> birini kaybetme riskini de beraberinde getirir. Gerekirse \u00e7ekip gitmeye istekli misiniz? Bu kolay de\u011fildir, ancak uzun vadede sizi kalp a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131ndan kurtarabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">'Neredeyse' ile Yetinmeyin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131rk be\u015f dakikal\u0131k bir yolculuk yapmak istemeyen bir adamla neredeyse anla\u015f\u0131yordum. Neredeyse her konu\u015fmam\u0131zda bu konuyu a\u00e7t\u0131 ve \u015f\u00f6yle dedi, <em>\"Bu i\u015fe yarayabilir, ama \u00e7ok uzaktas\u0131n.\"<\/em> \u0130ki y\u0131l sonra da New York'tan Teksas'a u\u00e7ak bileti almakta hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct etmeyen kocamla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, 2019'daki adam\u0131n ne istedi\u011fini tam olarak bilmedi\u011fini fark ediyorum. Hristiyan olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen h\u00e2l\u00e2 kendi \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. Terk edilme sorunlar\u0131 vard\u0131 ve Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 sevmesine ra\u011fmen kararl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131r de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Etraf\u0131nda dola\u015farak hata yapt\u0131m. \u0130\u00e7ten i\u00e7e onunla konu\u015fmaya devam etmenin k\u00f6t\u00fc bir fikir oldu\u011funu hissediyordum ama sohbetlerimizden ger\u00e7ekten keyif al\u0131yordum. Fark etmedi\u011fim \u015fey -Rab bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6sterene kadar- bu adam\u0131n beni bir hem\u015fire olarak kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131yd\u0131. Ge\u00e7mi\u015finden gelen \u00e7ok fazla travmas\u0131 vard\u0131 ve Tanr\u0131'ya ko\u015fmak yerine duygusal destek i\u00e7in bana ko\u015fuyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-aware\">Fark\u0131nda olun<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir\u00e7ok insan, \u00f6zellikle de kad\u0131nlar bu duruma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizler do\u011fu\u015ftan bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131z. Tanr\u0131 bizi yard\u0131m etmek ve destek olmak i\u00e7in yaratt\u0131, ancak dikkatli olmazsak kendimizi bir erke\u011fin hem\u015firesi olarak bulabiliriz. Benim ba\u015f\u0131ma gelen de tam olarak buydu. Bir\u00e7ok y\u00f6nden onun hayat\u0131nda bir idol haline gelmi\u015ftim. K\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in beni arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 asla unutmayaca\u011f\u0131m. Ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 payla\u015fmad\u0131 ama eski al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131na geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Sonra ba\u015fka bir gece, gecenin ikisinde beni arad\u0131: <em>\"Telefona cevap verme ve onu geri arama.\"<\/em> Zordu ama itaat ettim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek yerle\u015febilirdim, <em>\"\u0130li\u015fkiler b\u00f6yledir i\u015fte. Kimse m\u00fckemmel de\u011fildir.\"<\/em> Hi\u00e7bir e\u015fin hatas\u0131z olmayaca\u011f\u0131 do\u011fru olsa da, birinin hem\u015firesi olmak ile Tanr\u0131'yla ili\u015fkilerini kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken onu desteklemek aras\u0131nda fark vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi, her sabah g\u00fcn do\u011fmadan \u00f6nce kalk\u0131p dua eden ve Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar'da Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 arayan bir adamla evliyim. Ben onu desteklesem de, o bana gelmeden \u00f6nce Rab'bi ar\u0131yor. Beni duayla kucakl\u0131yor ve Mesih'in Kilise'yi sevdi\u011fi gibi sevmek i\u00e7in \u00e7abal\u0131yor. Korkudan daha az\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek ya da hak etti\u011finizin bu oldu\u011funa inanmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Baz\u0131 H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2rlar ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki hatalar\u0131n\u0131n onlar\u0131 Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisinden mahrum b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri i\u00e7in raz\u0131 olurlar. Ancak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisinden daha az\u0131 asla sizin pay\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fildir. O'na ve zamanlamas\u0131na g\u00fcvenirseniz, sizin i\u00e7in harika \u015feyler haz\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"725\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg\" alt=\"k\u00f6pekle oturmak\" class=\"wp-image-2528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg 725w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-768x1085.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-1087x1536.jpg 1087w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2.jpg 1415w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Kalbinizi ve Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Koruyun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n durum ili\u015fkilerine yakalanmalar\u0131n\u0131n bir nedeni de o ki\u015fiyle zihinlerinde \u00e7oktan \"evlenmi\u015f\" olmalar\u0131d\u0131r. Baz\u0131 Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar, ya hi\u00e7 randevuya \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131\u015f ya da uzun s\u00fcredir bek\u00e2r olduklar\u0131ndan, kendilerine ilgi g\u00f6steren ilk ki\u015finin \u00fczerine atlayabilirler. Otuz ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7tikleri, k\u0131rk ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 ya da elliye yakla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n bir se\u00e7enek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na kendilerini ikna ederler. \"Zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fckenmekte oldu\u011fu\" yalan\u0131na inan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hatad\u0131r. Randevu sadece bir etkinliktir; bir taahh\u00fct ya da evlilik teklifi de\u011fildir. Randevunun amac\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda bilgi toplamakt\u0131r. Randevudan sonra soru \u015fu olmamal\u0131d\u0131r, <em>\"Onlarla evlenmek istiyor muyum?\"<\/em> ama daha ziyade, <em>\"\u0130kinci bir randevuya \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyor muyum?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-guard-your-heart\">Kalbinizi nas\u0131l koruyabilirsiniz?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atas\u00f6zleri 4:23 der ki, <em>\"Y\u00fcre\u011finizi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6zenle koruyun, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam\u0131n sorunlar\u0131 ondan kaynaklan\u0131r.\"<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavlus daha sonra Filipililer 4:7'de \u015f\u00f6yle yazar, <em>\"Ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n her anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 a\u015fan esenli\u011fi Mesih \u0130sa arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla y\u00fcreklerinizi ve zihinlerinizi koruyacakt\u0131r.\"<\/em> Ancak, kalbinizi korumak duvarlar \u00f6rmek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Baz\u0131 Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar bunu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcrerek kendilerini korumak amac\u0131yla herkesle aralar\u0131na mesafe koyarlar. Ancak bu sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcnde incinme ya da aldat\u0131lma korkusu yatar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kutsal Kitap bize y\u00fcreklerimizi korumam\u0131z\u0131, yani uyan\u0131k ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmam\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler. Hayat\u0131m\u0131za kimlerin girmesine izin verdi\u011fimize dikkat etmeliyiz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00fcreklerimiz birine ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda duygular\u0131m\u0131z da de\u011fi\u015fir. Duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilin\u00e7li olarak kontrol alt\u0131nda tuttu\u011fumuzda, aldat\u0131lma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z azal\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'dan ay\u0131rt etme g\u00fcc\u00fc ve ilgilendi\u011fimiz ki\u015finin ger\u00e7ek niyetini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyebiliriz. Cevap her zaman duymak istedi\u011fimiz \u015fey olmayabilir, ancak Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 s\u00fcrece davet etti\u011fimizde, O bizi asla yoldan \u00e7\u0131karmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Fl\u00f6rtte Kalbinizi Nas\u0131l Korursunuz?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8H-NYeXDyHI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">S\u0131n\u0131rlar Olu\u015fturun ve Uygulay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birisi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131za sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermiyorsa veya sizi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131zdan dolay\u0131 utand\u0131r\u0131yorsa, bu sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131k bir i\u015faretidir. Onlara s\u00f6yledi\u011finizi hayal edin: <em>\"Seninle konu\u015fmaktan \u00e7ekinmiyorum ama bu derin konu\u015fmalar\u0131 yapmak \u00e7ok fazla, \u00f6zellikle de bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k istemedi\u011fini ifade etmi\u015fken. Bu sadece kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yarat\u0131yor. Bana birlikteymi\u015fiz gibi davran\u0131yorsun ama de\u011filiz. B\u00f6yle devam ederse, senden uzakla\u015fmak zorunda kalaca\u011f\u0131m.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kula\u011fa sert gelebilir ama kendinize sorun: Hangisi daha \u00f6nemli? Onlar\u0131n sizden istediklerini elde etmeleri mi yoksa sizin iyili\u011finizi korumalar\u0131 m\u0131? Evet, onlar\u0131 kaybetme riskiniz var, ancak ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki, en ba\u015f\u0131ndan beri onlara hi\u00e7 sahip olmad\u0131n\u0131z. Size s\u00f6yleyip duruyorlar, <em>\"Bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131r de\u011filim.\"<\/em> Yine de sizi tak\u0131lmak i\u00e7in davet ediyorlar. Sizinle bir gelecek g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorlar ama ara s\u0131ra \u015f\u00f6yle \u015feyler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar, <em>\"Ke\u015fke senin gibi biriyle evlenebilseydim.\"<\/em> Bunu s\u00f6ylemekten nefret ediyorum ama duygular\u0131n\u0131zla oynan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-recognise-manipulation\">Manip\u00fclasyonu tan\u0131ma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00f6zlerinin tuza\u011f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmeyin; eylemlerine dikkat edin. Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi ortaya \u00e7\u0131karacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ok fazla kad\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle der, <em>\"Benden ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum ama k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylemedi.\"<\/em> ya da, <em>\"Y\u0131llard\u0131r bir ayr\u0131l\u0131p bir bar\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.\"<\/em> Bir yerde olmamal\u0131s\u0131n <em>kapal\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k<\/em> durum. E\u011fer biri sizinle ger\u00e7ekten birlikte olmak istiyorsa, karar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7oktan vermi\u015ftir. \u0130\u015fleri resmiyete d\u00f6kmeniz sadece an meselesidir. Yol boyunca h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131klar olabilir, ancak bunlar ger\u00e7ek bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde durmayacakt\u0131r. Aileleri ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z. Bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn tarihi belirlenecek. Birlikte nerede ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tart\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131zda sa\u011flam durun. Netlik ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k isteyerek \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey istemi\u015f olmuyorsunuz. E\u011fer bu i\u015fe yana\u015fm\u0131yorlarsa ya da ayak s\u00fcr\u00fcyorlarsa, onlar\u0131 mihraba s\u00fcr\u00fcklemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 yoktur. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fabilir, <em>\"Evlilik herkese g\u00f6re de\u011fil.\"<\/em> ve bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anl\u0131yorum. Ancak H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak daha y\u00fcksek bir standarda \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131yoruz. Evlilik olmadan bir antla\u015fman\u0131n faydalar\u0131n\u0131 istemek Rab'bi ho\u015fnut etmez. E\u011fer konu\u015ftu\u011funuz ki\u015fi bunu sorun etmiyorsa, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/ayrilmaniz-gerekti%cc%87gi%cc%87ni%cc%87n-i%cc%87saretleri%cc%87\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00e7ekip gitmelisin<\/a>-Hemen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Duygular\u0131n\u0131z Yerine Tanr\u0131'ya G\u00fcvenin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Size 2019'da konu\u015ftu\u011fum adam\u0131 engellemenin kolay oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fim. Bir noktada onun kocam oldu\u011funa ger\u00e7ekten inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Her yerde onaylamalar g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc san\u0131yordum ama \u015fimdi bunun Tanr\u0131'dan gelmedi\u011fini biliyorum. Bazen bir \u015feyi o kadar \u00e7ok isteriz ki, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \"evet\" demedi\u011fi halde \"evet\" dedi\u011fine kendimizi inand\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Kendi arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 O'nun onay\u0131 san\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer bu ki\u015fi ger\u00e7ekten Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in se\u00e7ti\u011fi ki\u015fi olsayd\u0131, kafan\u0131z kar\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131. 1. Korintliler 14:33a \u015f\u00f6yle der, <em>\"\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil, esenli\u011fin yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.\"<\/em> \u00d6yleyse neden hayat\u0131n\u0131za netlik yerine yaln\u0131zca kaos getiren birini soksun ki? Bu ki\u015fiyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan beri tek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek: <em>\"Bug\u00fcn sonunda beni se\u00e7tikleri g\u00fcn m\u00fc?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fcrekli onlar\u0131n sevgisini kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz. Belki de onlara hediye almak i\u00e7in kendi yolunuzdan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsunuz. Nazik jestlerde yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok, ama e\u011fer <em>sat\u0131n al<\/em> a\u015fklar\u0131, yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yorsunuz. \u0130li\u015fkiler emek ister mi? Evet, \u00f6yle. Ama fark \u015fu ki <em>DURUMLAR<\/em> tek tarafl\u0131d\u0131r. Siz onlara elinizden gelenin en iyisini verirken onlar size sadece art\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 veriyorsa, uzakla\u015fman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015f demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-trust-god\">Tanr\u0131'ya nas\u0131l g\u00fcvenilir<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onlarla bir gelecek hayal etti\u011finizde bunun zor oldu\u011funu biliyorum. Ama duygular\u0131n\u0131z konusunda Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenmeniz gerekir. Onlar <em>de\u011fil<\/em> senin hakk\u0131ndaki fikirlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirecek. Bu, ani bir ayd\u0131nlanma ya\u015fay\u0131p a\u015fklar\u0131n\u0131 ilan etmek i\u00e7in trafikte ko\u015ftuklar\u0131 bir romantik komedi de\u011fil. Merhum Maya Angelou \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti, <em>\"Biri size kim oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterdi\u011finde, ona ilk seferinde inan\u0131n.\"<\/em> Ve ne demi\u015fler, <em>\"Beni bir kez kand\u0131r\u0131rsan, kendinden utan\u0131rs\u0131n. Beni iki kez kand\u0131r\u0131rsan, benden utan.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizi aldatmas\u0131na izin vermeyin. Duygular ge\u00e7icidir. Size e\u015finizin \u00e7ok yak\u0131nda oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylesem, bu ili\u015fkiyi hemen terk eder miydiniz? Bence yapars\u0131n\u0131z - \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisi \u00e7ok yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zda. Bilmiyorum. <em>ne zaman<\/em> Zaman\u0131n\u0131z gelecek, ama Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in birinci s\u0131n\u0131f bir plan\u0131 varken ikinci en iyiyle yetinmeyin. Kalbinizle ilgili olarak O'na g\u00fcvenin; O kalbinize sizden daha \u00e7ok de\u011fer verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inan\u0131lmaz Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/a>? SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn indirin ve <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">uzun s\u00fcreli Hristiyan ili\u015fkisi<\/a>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post helps Christians recognise and avoid situationships &#8211; where they&#8217;re with a partner with no commitment or clarity. TL;DR: The Summary I hope you realize your worth and never settle for breadcrumbs from others. 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