{"id":2970,"date":"2025-07-03T13:47:17","date_gmt":"2025-07-03T13:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2970"},"modified":"2025-07-03T13:47:19","modified_gmt":"2025-07-03T13:47:19","slug":"bekarlik-veya-evlilik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/singleness-or-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekarl\u0131k ya da Evlilik: Bir Hristiyan Olarak Hangisi Daha \u0130yi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yaz\u0131, evlili\u011fin Hristiyanl\u0131k yar\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sonu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmekte ve hem bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n hem de evlili\u011fin nesnel art\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve eksilerini incelemektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eu soruyu soral\u0131m: \"Bek\u00e2r olmak bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak evlenmekten daha m\u0131 iyidir?\" Sorunun neyin daha iyi oldu\u011fuyla ilgili oldu\u011funu sanm\u0131yorum. As\u0131l soru \u015fudur: \"Tanr\u0131 hayat\u0131mdan en b\u00fcy\u00fck y\u00fcceli\u011fi bek\u00e2r olarak m\u0131 yoksa evli olarak m\u0131 elde edebilir?\" Bunu s\u00f6yledikten sonra, bu karma\u015f\u0131k soruyu en iyi nas\u0131l yan\u0131tlayabilece\u011fimizi inceleyelim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-both-singleness-and-marriage-are-divine-gifts\">Hem Bekarl\u0131k Hem de Evlilik \u0130lahi Arma\u011fanlard\u0131r<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-it-s-about-god-s-plan-for-your-life\">Bu, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z \u0130\u00e7in Plan\u0131yla \u0130lgili<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-free-will-plays-a-role\">\u00d6zg\u00fcr \u0130rade Bir Rol Oynar<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-fulfilment-comes-from-god-not-relationship-status\">Doyum Tanr\u0131'dan Gelir, \u0130li\u015fki Durumundan De\u011fil<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-you-can-impact-the-kingdom-either-way\">Krall\u0131\u011f\u0131 Her \u0130ki \u015eekilde de Etkileyebilirsiniz<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi, mesele birinin di\u011ferinden daha iyi olmas\u0131 de\u011fil. Bekar olmak sizi daha az de\u011ferli yapmaz ve hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biriyle payla\u015fmak istemek yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir. Her iki yol da ge\u00e7erli ve de\u011ferlidir. Yelpazenin neresinde oldu\u011funuzu belirleyebilmeniz i\u00e7in daha derine inelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bekar olmak evli olmay\u0131 yener\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WlDt0BOZ9SA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Belki de evlenmezsem daha iyi olur.\" Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar\u0131n uzun s\u00fcredir bek\u00e2r olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in kendilerini s\u00fcrekli bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa mahk\u00fbm ettiklerini ne kadar s\u0131k duydu\u011fumu anlatamam. Belli bir ya\u015fa geldiklerinde, h\u00e2l\u00e2 evlili\u011fi arzulad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in umutlar\u0131n\u0131 korumak yerine, \"Belki de Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011fi budur\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Hatta baz\u0131lar\u0131 kendi konumlar\u0131n\u0131 hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in Pavlus'tan al\u0131nt\u0131 yap\u0131yorlar, ancak Pavlus'un ger\u00e7ekte ne dedi\u011fine daha yak\u0131ndan bakmak \u00f6nemlidir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"B\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n benim gibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterdim. Ama herkesin Tanr\u0131'dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 arma\u011fan kendine \u00f6zg\u00fcd\u00fcr; biri \u015f\u00f6yle, \u00f6b\u00fcr\u00fc b\u00f6yle\" (1. Korintliler 7:7, NKJV).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musunuz? \"Herkesin Tanr\u0131'dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bir arma\u011fan\u0131 vard\u0131r.\" Bu, baz\u0131 insanlara bek\u00e2rl\u0131k, baz\u0131lar\u0131na ise evlilik arzusu bah\u015fedildi\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir. Peki, hangisi oldu\u011funuzu nas\u0131l anlayabilirsiniz? Bence \u00e7ok basit. E\u011fer daha \u00f6nce <em>asla <\/em>evlenmek istiyor ve bunu tercih ediyorsan\u0131z, muhtemelen <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekarlik-hedi%cc%87yesi%cc%87\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bekarl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lmak<\/a>. Ama yine de evlili\u011fi arzuluyorsan\u0131z, evlilik arma\u011fan\u0131na sahip olabilirsiniz. Ve uzun s\u00fcredir bekliyor olman\u0131z evlili\u011fin sizin i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyece\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-both-singleness-and-marriage-are-divine-gifts\">Hem Bekarl\u0131k Hem de Evlilik \u0130lahi Arma\u011fanlard\u0131r\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Ama ben senin kayg\u0131s\u0131z olman\u0131 istiyorum. Evli olmayan ki\u015fi Rab'bin i\u015fleriyle, Rab'bi nas\u0131l ho\u015fnut edebilece\u011fiyle ilgilenir. Ama evli olan ki\u015fi d\u00fcnyan\u0131n i\u015fleriyle ilgilenir, onu nas\u0131l ho\u015fnut edebilirim diye.&nbsp;<em>onun<\/em>&nbsp;\" (1. Korintliler 7:32, NKJV).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavlus burada ne demek istiyor? D\u00fcnyadaki \"\u015fimdiki s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan\" s\u00f6z etmektedir. \u0130lk kilise d\u00f6neminde H\u0131ristiyanlara yap\u0131lan zul\u00fcm korkun\u00e7tu. Pavlus ayr\u0131ca \"zaman\u0131n k\u0131sa oldu\u011fundan\" da bahsetti, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu H\u0131ristiyan \u0130sa'n\u0131n her an geri d\u00f6nebilece\u011fine inan\u0131yordu. Bek\u00e2r kalmak, \u00f6zellikle de hayat\u0131n\u0131z risk alt\u0131nda oldu\u011funda, daha az dikkat da\u011f\u0131t\u0131c\u0131 \u015feye sahip olmak anlam\u0131na geliyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-life-s-focus\">Hayat\u0131n oda\u011f\u0131<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evli olmayan biri olarak, ki\u015fi tamamen Rab'bin \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na odaklanabilirdi. Bu daha fazla \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck sunuyordu. Evlilik derin bir duygusal ba\u011f yarat\u0131r ve Pavlus'un da belirtti\u011fi gibi, sevgilerinizi b\u00f6ler. Sadece Rab'bi ho\u015fnut etmeyi ama\u00e7lamazs\u0131n\u0131z, ayn\u0131 zamanda e\u015finizi de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorundas\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Bu, nerede ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve nas\u0131l para harcayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da dahil olmak \u00fczere ya\u015fam\u0131n her alan\u0131n\u0131 etkiler. \u00d6rne\u011fin, Tanr\u0131 size yerel bir hay\u0131r kurumuna $1,000 vermenizi s\u00f6ylerse ve e\u015finiz bunu kabul etmezse, arada kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bununla birlikte, e\u015finiz e\u015fit derecede boyunduruk alt\u0131ndaysa ve ruhsal anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131yorsa, tam olarak anlamasa bile Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizden istedi\u011fi \u015feyi destekleyecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bu, evlili\u011fin arma\u011fan\u0131n\u0131 azaltmaz. D\u00fcnyevi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerin aksine, evlilik bir hapishane ya da bir \"pranga\" de\u011fildir. Sizi bo\u011fmak ya da geride tutmak i\u00e7in de\u011fildir. Aksine, evlilik Mesih'e daha \u00e7ok benzemenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak \u00fczere tasarlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k ve teslimiyetin bir ba\u015fka seviyesidir. Evlilikte her g\u00fcn kendinize \u00f6l\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz, b\u00f6ylece siz ve e\u015finiz zihin, beden ve ruh olarak bir olursunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir keresinde bir papaz\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duymu\u015ftum: \"Ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6l\u00fcrseniz, evlili\u011finiz o kadar \u00e7ok ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r.\" \u0130ncil'in \u00f6z\u00fc de bu de\u011fil midir? \u0130sa'ya daha \u00e7ok benzemek i\u00e7in her g\u00fcn kendimize \u00f6lmek? Tanr\u0131 birlikteli\u011finizin merkezi oldu\u011funda, bu birliktelik arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla y\u00fccelik getirebilir. Size nas\u0131l iyi bir kar\u0131 ya da koca olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretir. Dua etme, g\u00fclme ve birlikte ya\u015fama \u015feklinizle evlili\u011finizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na tan\u0131kl\u0131k etmek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131r. Evlili\u011finizin \u0130sa'y\u0131 sergileyen bir sahne olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-it-s-about-god-s-plan-for-your-life\">Bu, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z \u0130\u00e7in Plan\u0131yla \u0130lgili<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r olmak evli olmaktan daha m\u0131 iyidir? \u015eahsen ben bunun Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili plan\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum. E\u011fer Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iradesi bir e\u015fe sahip olmay\u0131 i\u00e7eriyorsa, o e\u015fe kavu\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. E\u011fer i\u00e7ermiyorsa -ki hi\u00e7bir zaman evlenme arzusu duymad\u0131n\u0131z- o zaman bu konuda endi\u015felenmenize gerek yok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r, toplumdan ve hatta ailelerinden evlenmeleri i\u00e7in bask\u0131 hissetmektedir. Diyelim ki bir ki\u015fi ger\u00e7ekten bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131 ama etraf\u0131ndakiler soru sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 seslerini y\u00fckseltmek yerine k\u00f6t\u00fc ili\u015fki kararlar\u0131 verebilir ve sonu\u00e7ta uzun vadede kendilerine zarar verebilirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-seek-for-yourself\">Kendiniz i\u00e7in aray\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7o\u011fu aile iyi niyetli olsa da, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011fini aramak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Anne baban\u0131z sizin gelece\u011finiz i\u00e7in bir vizyona sahip olabilir, ancak son s\u00f6z\u00fc Tanr\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Ne yapar <em>O<\/em> sizin i\u00e7in ne istiyor? Arzular\u0131n\u0131z O'nun iste\u011fiyle uyumlu mu? Tanr\u0131'yla olan ili\u015fkinizle ba\u015flay\u0131n ve O'nun size yol g\u00f6stermesine izin verin. Sizi bir e\u015fe y\u00f6nlendirebilir ya da y\u00f6nlendirmeyebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-biblical-wisdom\">\u0130ncil bilgeli\u011fi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in iyi \u015feyler planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00fcveniyor musunuz? O'nun planlar\u0131n\u0131n size zarar vermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, geli\u015fmenize yard\u0131m etmek ve O'na y\u00fccelik getirmek i\u00e7in oldu\u011funa? Yeremya 29:11-13 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sana kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri biliyorum, diyor Rab, sana bir gelecek ve umut vermek i\u00e7in k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck de\u011fil esenlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri. O zaman Bana yakaracaks\u0131n, gidip Bana dua edeceksin, Ben de seni dinleyece\u011fim. <strong><sup>&nbsp;<\/sup><\/strong>Beni arayacak ve bulacaks\u0131n&nbsp;<em>Ben,<\/em>&nbsp;Beni b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00fcre\u011finizle arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda (NKJV).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0131k s\u0131k 11. ayetten al\u0131nt\u0131 yapar\u0131z, ama ben 12. ve 13. ayetleri vurgulamak istiyorum. Tanr\u0131'ya yakard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda O bizi dinler. O'nu arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, O'nu buluruz. \u0130ster bekarl\u0131k ister evlilik olsun, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili plan\u0131n\u0131 bilmek ister misiniz? Sadece O'na sorun. Yanl\u0131\u015f cevap yoktur. Matta 7:7-8 bizi cesaretlendirir: \"\u0130steyin, size verilecektir; aray\u0131n, bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z; kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131n, size a\u00e7\u0131lacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc isteyen herkes al\u0131r, arayan bulur, kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7alan herkese kap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r\" (NKJV).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cennetteki Baban\u0131za \"Hayat\u0131m i\u00e7in plan\u0131n nedir?\" diye sorun. O her \u015feyi bir anda a\u00e7\u0131klayacak m\u0131? Muhtemelen hay\u0131r. Ama ad\u0131m ad\u0131m planlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayacakt\u0131r. Sonunda parma\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bir y\u00fcz\u00fck olsun ya da olmas\u0131n, O'nun planlar\u0131n\u0131n iyi ve m\u00fckemmel oldu\u011funa g\u00fcvenebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-free-will-plays-a-role\">\u00d6zg\u00fcr \u0130rade Bir Rol Oynar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">San\u0131r\u0131m bazen bu konuda bir se\u00e7ene\u011fimiz oldu\u011funu unutuyoruz. Evet, toplumdan, ailemizden ve arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan bask\u0131 hissedebiliriz, ancak sonu\u00e7ta karar bize aittir. E\u011fer ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011fini ar\u0131yorsak, arzular\u0131m\u0131z eninde sonunda O'nunkilerle ayn\u0131 hizaya gelecektir. Neden mi? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O'nu seviyoruz ve O'nu ho\u015fnut etmek istiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 en derin arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilir ve g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Bu arzular\u0131 O'na teslim etti\u011fimizde, sonu\u00e7 konusunda O'na g\u00fcvenebiliriz. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir: \"Ya Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011fi evlenmemem y\u00f6n\u00fcndeyse? Ben ger\u00e7ekten evlenmek istiyorum.\" Yine, Tanr\u0131 y\u00fcreklerimizi bilir. E\u011fer evlili\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bir arzu duyuyorsan\u0131z, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n size bu arzuyu s\u0131rf evlenmemeniz i\u00e7in verdi\u011fine inanm\u0131yorum. S\u00fcleyman'\u0131n \u00d6zdeyi\u015fleri 13:12 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Ertelenen umut y\u00fcre\u011fi hasta eder, ama arzu gelince ya\u015fam a\u011fac\u0131 olur\" (NKJV).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-biggest-soul-cry\">En b\u00fcy\u00fck ruh \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biliyorum ki bir\u00e7ok kalp uzun s\u00fcredir bekar olmaktan dolay\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r hissediyor. Belki hi\u00e7 randevuya \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131n\u0131z ya da belki evlili\u011fe \u00e7ok yak\u0131nd\u0131n\u0131z ama ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k sona erdi. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 bunu kabul etmez ama Tanr\u0131'ya kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k duymaya ba\u015flar ve \"Neden bana bir e\u015f nasip etmedi?\" diye sorarlar. Bu t\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere kar\u015f\u0131 dikkatli olmal\u0131y\u0131z, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kula\u011fa hakl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f\u0131z gibi gelebilir. Tanr\u0131 bize g\u00fcnah nedeniyle Kendisinden sonsuza dek ayr\u0131lmam\u0131z d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bor\u00e7lu de\u011fildir. Verdi\u011fi her \u015fey O'nun sonsuz l\u00fctfu ve merhameti sayesindedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha iyi bir dua \u015f\u00f6yle olabilir: \"Tanr\u0131m, gelecekteki evlili\u011fimin Seni y\u00fcceltmesini istiyorum.\" Bir\u00e7ok insan evlili\u011fi \u00f6ncelikle romantik bir ba\u011f olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Evlilik romantik ve e\u011flenceli olsa da, sonu\u00e7ta bizi \u0130sa'ya daha \u00e7ok benzemek \u00fczere ar\u0131nd\u0131rmak i\u00e7indir. Kendimize \u00f6lme s\u00fcreci ger\u00e7ektir. E\u011fer \u015fimdi bek\u00e2rken kendimize \u00f6lmek i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edersek, evlilik daha da zor olacakt\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n, bu konuda bir se\u00e7ene\u011finiz var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-fulfilment-comes-from-god-not-relationship-status\">Doyum Tanr\u0131'dan Gelir, \u0130li\u015fki Durumundan De\u011fil\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun do\u011fru oldu\u011funu bilsek de, hepimizin ara s\u0131ra hat\u0131rlatmaya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Hem d\u00fcnyan\u0131n hem de kilise k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlara evli olmad\u0131klar\u0131 takdirde kendilerini \"daha az\" hissettirmesi \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Baz\u0131 bakanl\u0131klarda bek\u00e2rlara \u00f6zel bir \u015fey bile yok. Bunlar ya evli \u00e7iftler ya da gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki ya k\u0131rk\u0131na yakla\u015fan bek\u00e2r kad\u0131n? Peki ya otuz be\u015fine yakla\u015fan bek\u00e2r erkek? Hatta yapacak ba\u015fka bir i\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 varsay\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk hizmetlerinde g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olmas\u0131 istenen bek\u00e2r bir kad\u0131nla ilgili bir hik\u00e2ye bile duydum. Ne kadar \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc bir varsay\u0131m! Bek\u00e2r olmak anlamdan ya da ama\u00e7tan yoksun oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na m\u0131 gelir? Kendi planlar\u0131n\u0131zla me\u015fgul olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlam\u0131na m\u0131 geliyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ya tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ya da arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla seyahat etmek isteseydiniz? Hatta Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar\u0131n hen\u00fcz evlenmedikleri i\u00e7in ilk evlerini sat\u0131n almaktan vazge\u00e7irildiklerini bile duydum. Ne gibi? Baz\u0131 kiliselerin bek\u00e2rlar\u0131 liderlik rolleri i\u00e7in bile de\u011ferlendirmedi\u011finden bahsetmiyorum bile. Bu \u00e7arp\u0131k d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarz\u0131n\u0131 durdurabilir miyiz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feeling-inferior-as-a-single\">Bekar olarak a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k hissetmek<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu varsay\u0131mlar Hristiyan bekarlar\u0131n kendilerini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k hissetmelerine neden olabilir. Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k bir arma\u011fan olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmek yerine, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken bir sorun haline gelir. Bu sorunu \"\u00e7\u00f6zmezlerse\" hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n bitti\u011fini, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Ama hayattaki nihai ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilmek ister misiniz? Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k de\u011fil; \u0130sa'y\u0131 tan\u0131mamakt\u0131r. Markos 8:36 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Bir insan b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyay\u0131 kazan\u0131p kendi can\u0131n\u0131 yitirirse bunun ona ne yarar\u0131 olur?\" (NKJV).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tekrar okuyun. D\u00fcnyadaki her \u015feye sahip olabilirsiniz ama \u0130sa'ya sahip de\u011filseniz yine de kaybedersiniz. Evli olun ya da olmay\u0131n, \u0130sa nihai ili\u015fkidir. \"\u0130sa yeterlidir\" s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duydu\u011fumuzu ve baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini devirdi\u011fini biliyorum. Kula\u011fa kli\u015fe geliyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunu \u00e7ok s\u0131k duyuyoruz. Ancak bu do\u011fru olsa bile, evlilik arzunuzu ortadan kald\u0131rmaz. Sizi anl\u0131yorum. Evlenmeden \u00f6nce on iki y\u0131l boyunca bek\u00e2rd\u0131m ve biriyle birlikte olmak isterken bir y\u0131l daha evlenmeden ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim o k\u00f6t\u00fc anlar\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-best-relationship\">En iyi ili\u015fki<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evli bir kad\u0131n olarak size bir \u015fey s\u00f6yleyebilir miyim? Do\u011fru ki\u015fiyle bile olsan\u0131z, \u0130sa'yla olan ili\u015fkiniz h\u00e2l\u00e2 en \u00fcst d\u00fczeydedir. Kocam\u0131 seviyorum ama o bile insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla kalbimdeki en derin bo\u015fluklar\u0131 dolduram\u0131yor. Huzur ve a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 aramam gereken zamanlar oluyor. Onun da bana \"S\u00f6ze girip dua etmem gerek\" dedi\u011fi zamanlar oluyor. Elbette birbirimizin yan\u0131nday\u0131z ama ancak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n huzuruna \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131ktan sonra birbirimiz i\u00e7in daha iyi olabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Demek istedi\u011fim \u015fu: Sizi \u0130sa tan\u0131mlar, ili\u015fki durumunuz de\u011fil. Kimsenin sizi bu y\u00fczden a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k hissettirmesine izin vermeyin. E\u011fer Mesih'te kim oldu\u011funuzu bilmiyorsan\u0131z, bir e\u015f aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na girmeden \u00f6nce oradan ba\u015flaman\u0131z i\u00e7in size meydan okuyorum. E\u015finizi ancak \u0130sa'yla olan ili\u015fkiniz kadar derin sevebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-can-impact-the-kingdom-either-way\">Krall\u0131\u011f\u0131 Her \u0130ki \u015eekilde de Etkileyebilirsiniz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak bek\u00e2r olmak m\u0131 yoksa evli olmak m\u0131 daha iyidir? \u0130yi haber \u015fu ki, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Krall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 her iki \u015fekilde de etkileyebilirsiniz. Bek\u00e2r olarak, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n rehberli\u011fini takip etmek i\u00e7in daha fazla \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe sahipsiniz - yak\u0131n \u00e7evreniz ve Tanr\u0131sal \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kimseye dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131za gerek kalmadan O nereye y\u00f6nlendirirse oraya gidebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlenmeyi se\u00e7erseniz, siz ve e\u015finiz ili\u015fkinizde O'nu onurland\u0131rd\u0131k\u00e7a Tanr\u0131 da y\u00fccelik kazanmaya devam edebilir. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n her ikiniz arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131na g\u00f6stermenin ger\u00e7ek bir g\u00fcc\u00fc vard\u0131r. Bunu yaparken M\u00fcjde'yi yans\u0131t\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z - \u0130sa'n\u0131n gelini olan Kilise'yi nas\u0131l sevdi\u011fini g\u00f6sterirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu soruyu yan\u0131tlaman\u0131n en iyi yolu \u015fu soruyu sormakt\u0131r: \"Neye \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131yorsunuz? Tanr\u0131 sizin ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla en fazla y\u00fcceli\u011fi nas\u0131l elde edebilir?\" E\u011fer bek\u00e2r kalmaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissediyorsan\u0131z, bunu kabullenin. Sizde yanl\u0131\u015f olan bir \u015fey yok. Unutmay\u0131n, kimli\u011finizi \u0130sa tan\u0131mlar. \u00d6te yandan, evlili\u011fi arzuluyorsan\u0131z, Tanr\u0131'dan y\u00fcre\u011finizi sizin i\u00e7in iste\u011fiyle uyumlu hale getirmesini isteyin. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">m\u00fcstakbel e\u015f<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer \"\u00c7ok uzun s\u00fcre bekledim. Hi\u00e7 evlenebilecek miyim?\" Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zaman \u00e7izelgesini bilmiyorum ama e\u015finiz i\u00e7in umudunuzu kaybetmemenizi \u00f6neririm. D\u00fc\u015fman pes etmenizi, inanmay\u0131 b\u0131rakman\u0131z\u0131 ve inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kaybetmenizi ister. Bunun olmas\u0131na izin vermeyin! M\u00fcstakbel e\u015finiz i\u00e7in dua etmeye devam edin ve bu arada yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmaya ve kendinizi ortaya koymaya devam edin. Biriyle \u00e7\u0131karken sa\u011fduyunuzu kullan\u0131n ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n m\u00fckemmel zamanlamas\u0131nda do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi g\u00f6sterece\u011fine g\u00fcvenin. O ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015fmaya haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inan\u0131lmaz Hristiyan bekarlar<\/a>? SALT Arkada\u015fl\u0131k Uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 hemen indirin!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post acknowledges that marriage is not the end of the Christian race and looks at the objective pros and cons of both singleness and marriage. TL;DR: The Summary Let\u2019s ask the question: \u201cIs it better to be single than to marry as a Christian?\u201d I don\u2019t think the question is about what\u2019s better. 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