{"id":2968,"date":"2025-06-26T10:47:11","date_gmt":"2025-06-26T10:47:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2968"},"modified":"2025-06-26T10:47:12","modified_gmt":"2025-06-26T10:47:12","slug":"cinselligi-kucaklarken-saf-kalmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/staying-pure-while-embracing-sexuality\/","title":{"rendered":"Cinselli\u011finizi Nas\u0131l Kucaklars\u0131n\u0131z VE Saf Kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131n saf kalmalar\u0131na ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n tasarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi harika seks yapmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 cinselliklerine ve seks ya\u015famlar\u0131na davet etmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor olabilirsiniz: \"Tamam, seksin Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n fikri oldu\u011funu anl\u0131yorum ama ben do\u011fal d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri olan bir yeti\u015fkinim. Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda nas\u0131l saf kalabilirim?\" Bir di\u011fer yayg\u0131n soru ise \"Standartlar\u0131m\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mda kim benimle bekleyecek?\" Bunlar ge\u00e7erli endi\u015felerdir, \u00f6zellikle de bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a. On alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa beklemesini s\u00f6ylemek bir \u015feydir, ama \u015fimdiye kadar evlenmi\u015f olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen otuz be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir kad\u0131n ne olacak? Ya safl\u0131k i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan ama \"Ben yeti\u015fkin bir adam\u0131m\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen k\u0131rk iki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir erke\u011fe ne demeli? Peki ya zaten seks yapt\u0131ysan\u0131z? Bu deneyime maruz kald\u0131n\u0131z ve \u015fimdi Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131rmak istiyorsunuz, ancak bedeniniz size farkl\u0131 bir \u015fey s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-purity\">Safl\u0131k nedir?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sizi temin etmek isterim ki, bedeninizle Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131rabilirsiniz. Ancak safl\u0131k sadece seksten uzak durmak de\u011fildir. \u0130sa, bir erkek y\u00fcre\u011finde bir kad\u0131n\u0131 arzuluyorsa, zaten bu eylemi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmi\u015ftir, demi\u015ftir. Tanr\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 nesnele\u015ftirmememiz i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizin saf olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. Peki, ayartmalarla dolu bir d\u00fcnyada safl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l koruyabilirsiniz? Bunu be\u015f pratik ad\u0131ma ay\u0131ral\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-redefine-purity-as-a-strength-not-suppression\">Safl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bast\u0131rma De\u011fil, G\u00fc\u00e7 Olarak Yeniden Tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-understand-the-why-behind-purity\">Safl\u0131\u011f\u0131n Ard\u0131ndaki 'Neden'i Anlay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-set-boundaries-that-empower-you\">Sizi G\u00fc\u00e7lendiren S\u0131n\u0131rlar Belirleyin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-embrace-healthy-outlets-for-desire\">Arzu i\u00e7in Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar\u0131 Kucaklay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-seek-god-s-guidance-daily\">Her G\u00fcn Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Rehberli\u011fini Aray\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Evlenmeden \u00f6nce seks yapt\u0131ysan\u0131z, hasarl\u0131 mal olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 vurgulamak istiyorum. Hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Rab'be itiraf etti\u011fimizde, O bizi ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamakta sad\u0131kt\u0131r. Ama O'nun l\u00fctfunu k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131z? Kesinlikle hay\u0131r! Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n l\u00fctfu sayesinde g\u00fcnah\u0131 akl\u0131m\u0131za bile getirmemeliyiz. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 soruyor, <em>\"Ne kadar uzak \u00e7ok uzakt\u0131r?<\/em> veya <em>\"\u00c7izgiyi ge\u00e7meden \u00e7izgiye ne kadar yakla\u015fabilirim?<\/em> Kendinizi bu sorular\u0131 sorarken bulursan\u0131z, bu kalbinizin Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n standartlar\u0131yla yeniden hizalanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin bir i\u015faretidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunun yerine, zihniyetimiz \u015f\u00f6yle olmal\u0131d\u0131r, <em>\"\u00c7izgiye yak\u0131n bir yerde olmak istemiyorum. <\/em>D\u00fc\u015fman, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimiz \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in saf kalamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za inanmam\u0131z i\u00e7in bizi kand\u0131r\u0131r. Ancak Kutsal Kitap bize Y\u00fcce Olan'\u0131n i\u00e7imizde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler. E\u011fer i\u00e7imizde Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n dolulu\u011fu olan Kutsal Ruh'a sahipsek, O bizi ayartman\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmemiz i\u00e7in zaten g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmi\u015ftir. Haydi dalal\u0131m!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Cinselli\u011finizi Nas\u0131l Kucaklars\u0131n\u0131z VE Saf Kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kHzNUgy_jKM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"\u0130sa'y\u0131 seviyorum ama ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m var.\" Bunu, Tanr\u0131'ya olan a\u015fklar\u0131n\u0131 itiraf eden ancak evlilik \u00f6ncesi seks konusunda rahat olan H\u0131ristiyan bekarlardan - hem erkeklerden hem de kad\u0131nlardan - \u00e7ok kez duydum. Hatta baz\u0131lar\u0131 \"Tanr\u0131 cinsel a\u00e7\u0131dan uyumlu olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilmeden neden biriyle evlenmemi istesin ki?\" diyor. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, konu seks oldu\u011funda bu \u00e7arp\u0131k bir zihniyettir. Bir keresinde bir papaz\u0131n vaaz\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duymu\u015ftum: \"Seksin bir ke\u015fif olmas\u0131 gerekir, bir sergi de\u011fil.\" Ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle, evlenene kadar seksi asla tam olarak anlamamam\u0131z veya deneyimlemememiz gerekiyordu. Neden mi? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 korumak istiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Merhum Dr. Myles Munroe bunu \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015f ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n hi\u00e7bir zaman birden fazla e\u015fe ya da zehirli ruh ba\u011flar\u0131na sahip olmam\u0131z\u0131 istemedi\u011fini vurgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Seksin her zaman evlilik i\u00e7inde bir sevgi ve ger\u00e7ek bir \u015fefkat eylemi olmas\u0131 gerekiyordu. Bedeninizi herhangi birine vermemeniz gerekiyordu. Hi\u00e7bir zaman \"tek gecelik ili\u015fkiler\" ya da \"\u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkisi\" -yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 taklit eden ancak evlili\u011fin ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan yoksun olan ili\u015fkiler- olmamal\u0131yd\u0131. Sizi daha sonra ba\u015fka biri i\u00e7in terk eden eski sevgilinizle ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz bir geceden pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duyarak kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131z gerekmiyordu. Peki ne oldu? \u0130\u015fin i\u00e7ine g\u00fcnah girdi ve \u015fimdi d\u00fc\u015fman Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n g\u00fczel ve iyi olarak tasarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyi sapt\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ge\u00e7enlerde yeni evli bir kad\u0131n\u0131n seks hayat\u0131yla ilgili hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bekledi\u011fi gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 okudum. Seksin filmlerde ve televizyonda tasvir edili\u015f \u015fekli sayesinde ger\u00e7ek hayatta da ayn\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f. Bunun yerine, bunu rahats\u0131z edici ve tatmin edici bulmuyor. Gruptaki di\u011fer e\u015flerle birlikte ona verdi\u011fim yan\u0131t basitti: seksi yaratana, yani Tanr\u0131'ya geri d\u00f6n\u00fcn. O tasarlad\u0131, bu y\u00fczden O'nun S\u00f6z\u00fc'n\u00fcn bu konuda ne dedi\u011fini anlamam\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-redefine-purity-as-a-strength-not-suppression\">Safl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bast\u0131rma De\u011fil, G\u00fc\u00e7 Olarak Yeniden Tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 seks yapmak i\u00e7in evlenene kadar beklemenizi isteyerek size i\u015fkence etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor. Unutmay\u0131n, seksi Tanr\u0131 yaratt\u0131 ve iyi olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in tasarlad\u0131. O sizden hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi esirgemiyor, bilakis sizin i\u00e7in en iyisini sakl\u0131yor. Hi\u00e7 kimsenin \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duymad\u0131m, <em>\"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n benim i\u00e7in yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiyi bekledi\u011fim i\u00e7in pi\u015fman\u0131m.\"<\/em> Daha s\u0131k duyuyorum, <em>\"E\u015fim bekledi\u011fime de\u011fdi ve gerekirse her \u015feyi yeniden yapar\u0131m.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cinsellik Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bir arma\u011fan\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta O, erkek ve di\u015fiyi yaratm\u0131\u015f ve onlara verimli olmalar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7o\u011falmalar\u0131n\u0131 emretmi\u015ftir. G\u00fcnah d\u00fcnyaya girmeden \u00f6nce, Adem ve Havva birbirleriyle saf mutlulu\u011fu deneyimleyerek m\u00fckemmellik i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131lar. \u015eimdi onlar\u0131n se\u00e7imlerinin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor olsak da, bedenlerimizle O'nu onurland\u0131rmak i\u00e7in hala Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Ruhu taraf\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7lendiriliyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-reframe-sex\">Seksi yeniden \u00e7er\u00e7evelendirin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek yerine, <em>\"Seks yapmak i\u00e7in beklemek zorunda olmak i\u015fkence.\"<\/em> olarak yeniden \u00e7er\u00e7eveleyin, <em>\"Tanr\u0131 beni o kadar \u00e7ok seviyor ki en iyisine sahip olmam\u0131 istiyor.\"<\/em> Kula\u011fa daha iyi gelmiyor mu? <em>\"Tanr\u0131 benden uzak duruyor\"<\/em>? \u00d6yle de\u011fil. Tanr\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na iyi arma\u011fanlar vermekten zevk al\u0131r ve bunlar i\u00e7in do\u011fru zamanlamay\u0131 bilir. Araba kullanmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn - 30 ya\u015f\u0131nda araba kullanman\u0131n hi\u00e7bir sak\u0131ncas\u0131 yoktur, ama anahtarlar\u0131 iki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa vermek tehlikeli ve \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015finiz i\u00e7in haz\u0131r olabilirsiniz, ancak bazen her \u015fey Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Kula\u011fa kli\u015fe gelebilir ama do\u011fru. E\u015fimle 2015'ten \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olsayd\u0131m, ili\u015fkimiz y\u00fcr\u00fcmezdi. Ben duygusal olarak haz\u0131r de\u011fildim, o ise kurtulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 bile. Kiliseye gidiyor ve ibadetlerini yerine getiriyordu ama kalbi tamamen Tanr\u0131'ya adanm\u0131\u015f de\u011fildi. Tanr\u0131 bilgeli\u011fiyle bizi birbirimizden korudu ve alt\u0131 y\u0131l sonras\u0131na kadar tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131za izin vermedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-waiting-for-sex\">Seks i\u00e7in bekliyorum<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Seks yapmay\u0131 bekleyen 30 ya\u015f\u0131nda bek\u00e2r bir kad\u0131n olmak zor muydu? Kesinlikle. Ama kocamla tan\u0131\u015fmadan birka\u00e7 y\u0131l \u00f6nce, Tanr\u0131 beni pop\u00fcler vaaz serisine y\u00f6nlendirdi <em>\u0130li\u015fki Hedefleri<\/em> D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm Kilisesi'nden Past\u00f6r Michael Todd taraf\u0131ndan. \u0130ki mesaj, <em>\"Seks Konteyneri\"<\/em> ve <em>\"Seks Size Sahip mi?\"<\/em>beni derinden etkiledi. Daha sonra Papaz Jerry Flowers'\u0131n \u015fu ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ba\u015fka vaaz\u0131n\u0131 dinledim <em>\"Seks Tuza\u011f\u0131.\"<\/em> Bu \u00f6\u011fretiler seks hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimi yeniden \u015fekillendirdi ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n benim i\u00e7in niyetinin iyi oldu\u011funu, kocam\u0131 beklemenin buna de\u011fece\u011fini anlamama yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n en iyisinden daha az\u0131 sahte bir \u015feye raz\u0131 olmak olurdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sahte bir \u015fey istemezsin, de\u011fil mi? Ger\u00e7ekten sadece seks yapmak i\u00e7in mi raz\u0131 olmak istiyorsunuz? Zevk bir an i\u00e7in s\u00fcrebilir ama sonsuza dek s\u00fcrmez. Evli bir kad\u0131n olarak size s\u00f6yleyebilirim ki, seks Tanr\u0131 vergisi, krall\u0131k e\u015finizle payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok daha g\u00fczeldir. Korku yoktur, yaln\u0131zca ger\u00e7ek bir yak\u0131nl\u0131k ve g\u00fcven vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130ster inan\u0131n ister inanmay\u0131n, seksin yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizimle arzu etti\u011fi yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yans\u0131tmak i\u00e7indir. T\u0131pk\u0131 bir kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n tek beden olmas\u0131 gibi, bizler de Rab'le ruhta bir olmaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131yoruz. Pavlus Yeni Ahit'te \u015f\u00f6yle der, <em>\"B\u00f6ylece O'nu tan\u0131yabilirim.\"<\/em> kelime <em>Biliyorum<\/em> e\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki derin yak\u0131nl\u0131kla ayn\u0131 anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015fimizi ruhen, duygusal olarak ve sonra da fiziksel olarak tan\u0131mam\u0131z gerekir. Ne yaz\u0131k ki d\u00fcnya bu s\u0131ralamay\u0131 tersine \u00e7evirmi\u015f, fiziksel yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 birinin kalbini ve ruhunu ger\u00e7ekten tan\u0131madan \u00f6nceki ilk ad\u0131m haline getirmi\u015ftir. Cinselli\u011finiz Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bir arma\u011fan\u0131d\u0131r ve O bunu k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanman\u0131z\u0131 ya da ge\u00e7ici arzular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tatmin etmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kullanman\u0131z\u0131 istemez. Evet, arzular\u0131n\u0131z ger\u00e7ek ama neyi daha \u00e7ok istiyorsunuz? \u0130sa'y\u0131 memnun etmeyi mi yoksa kendinizi memnun etmeyi mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"yatak ve pencere\" class=\"wp-image-2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tim-hasse-dupe-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-understand-the-why-behind-purity\">Safl\u0131\u011f\u0131n Arkas\u0131ndaki 'Neden'i Anlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Merhum Dr. Myles Munroe'nun bir keresinde s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi, \"Tanr\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korumak ister.\" Cinsel deneyimleriniz y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme getirmelidir, pi\u015fmanl\u0131k de\u011fil. Safl\u0131k sadece ba\u015fka bir kural gibi hissettirdi\u011finde, onu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek zorla\u015f\u0131r. Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn liderlerinin iyi niyetli olduklar\u0131na inanmakla birlikte, bunu \u00e7ok ileri g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcler ve insanlar\u0131 kat\u0131 bir kurallar dizisiyle y\u00fcklediler. E\u011fer bir kural \u00e7i\u011fnenirse, ki\u015fi hasarl\u0131 bir mal olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyordu, kurtulu\u015fun \u00f6tesinde. Ancak cinselli\u011finizi Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131rman\u0131n ve O'nun seks konusundaki kalbini anlaman\u0131n bir yolu olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde, safl\u0131k bir zorunluluk de\u011fil, g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmi\u015f bir se\u00e7im haline gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00fcleyman'\u0131n \u015eark\u0131s\u0131 1:2 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Beni a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6p\u00fcc\u00fckleriyle \u00f6ps\u00fcn, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc senin sevgin \u015faraptan daha iyidir.\" Bu kula\u011fa tutkuyu \u00f6nemsemeyen bir Tanr\u0131 gibi mi geliyor? S\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, cans\u0131z bir evlili\u011finiz olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fini mi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz? Tabii ki hay\u0131r. Sorun tutkunun kendisi de\u011fil, bizim genellikle tutkuya \u00f6ncelik vermemizdir. Kimya \u00f6nemli olsa da, kal\u0131c\u0131 bir ili\u015fkinin temeli olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015finiz i\u00e7in heyecan duymal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00f6rt g\u00f6zle beklemenizde yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yoktur. Romantizm ve e\u011flence evlili\u011fin harika y\u00f6nleridir, ancak yine de temel olmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce Tanr\u0131, birlikteli\u011fimizin O'nu onurland\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 ister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-god-is-always-with-you\">Tanr\u0131 her zaman yan\u0131n\u0131zda<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Bek\u00e2r bir kad\u0131n olarak dua ederken Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bana a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerden biri, O'nun cinsel ya\u015fam\u0131m da d\u00e2hil olmak \u00fczere ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131n her alan\u0131nda y\u00fcceltilmek istedi\u011fiydi. Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k akl\u0131m\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131mdan ald\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunu daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftim. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olarak O'nun her zaman bizimle birlikte oldu\u011funu s\u0131k s\u0131k unutuyoruz. Bu, seks yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda O'nun odadan \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n devam etti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir. Bunu akl\u0131m\u0131zda tutarak, eylemlerimizin O'nu hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratmak yerine onurland\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-set-boundaries-that-empower-you\">Sizi G\u00fc\u00e7lendiren S\u0131n\u0131rlar Belirleyin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\"\u00d6p\u00fc\u015fmek yok, dokunmak yok, el ele tutu\u015fmak yok.\" Yine, safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn iyi niyetli oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek istesem de, kurallar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu k\u00fclfetli hale geldi. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131 ve tek bir hata bile yapanlar utan\u00e7 i\u00e7inde b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131. Birine ilgi duyuyorsan\u0131z -gen\u00e7ken bile- genellikle ona gelecekteki e\u015finiz gibi davranman\u0131z beklenirdi. Rastgele biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmaya ve kar\u015f\u0131 cinsi tan\u0131maya \u00e7ok az yer vard\u0131. Her \u015fey ciddiye al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. \u00c7ok ge\u00e7meden, erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar birbirleriyle nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kuracaklar\u0131n\u0131 bile bilemez hale geldiler. Kad\u0131nlar erkeklerin nelerden ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin de\u011fillerdi ve erkekler de bu s\u00f6zde ili\u015fkiden nas\u0131l ka\u00e7acaklar\u0131n\u0131 merak ediyorlard\u0131. <em>arkada\u015f b\u00f6lgesi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bence hem erkeklerin hem de kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir ad\u0131m geri \u00e7ekilip nefes almalar\u0131 gerekiyor. \u0130lk bulu\u015fma bir evlilik teklifi de\u011fildir ve biriyle ilgileniyor olman\u0131z onun otomatik olarak m\u00fcstakbel e\u015finiz olaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez. E\u011fer ikiniz de \u00f6zelle\u015ftikten sonra el ele tutu\u015fmak konusunda rahatsan\u0131z, sorun yok. Kiliseden sonra bo\u015f bir otoparkta \u00f6p\u00fc\u015fmenizi tavsiye eder miyim? Tabii ki hay\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-know-yourself\">Kendinizi tan\u0131y\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tetikleyicilerinizi bilmeniz gerekir. \u00d6p\u00fc\u015fmek sizi tahrik ediyorsa ve bundan ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131 tercih ediyorsan\u0131z, bunu \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiye iletin. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde, e\u011fer rahat hissetmiyorlarsa <em>Netflix ve rahatlama<\/em> buna sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin. Kutsal Kitap bize k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcnden ka\u00e7mam\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc gereksiz y\u00fckler getirmi\u015f olsa da, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n standartlar\u0131 onurlu bir \u015fekilde \u00e7\u0131kabilmeniz i\u00e7in sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 korkuluklar sa\u011flar. Hesap verebilirli\u011fin olmas\u0131 da \u00f6nemlidir. Randevu geceniz gecikirse arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizi kontrol etmesine ihtiya\u00e7 duyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fabilir, <em>\"Ben bir yeti\u015fkinim, insanlar\u0131n beni kontrol etmesine ihtiyac\u0131m yok. Kendi ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7aresine bakabilirim.\"<\/em> Bu do\u011fru olabilir, ancak beden aldat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Kendinizi fl\u00f6rtte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlamak istersiniz. Sonunda bu ki\u015fiyle evlenirseniz, pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duymadan ve su\u00e7luluk hissetmeden yeminlerinizi etmek isteyeceksiniz. Kocam ve ben bunu yapabildik \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc fl\u00f6rt ederken birbirimizi onurland\u0131rd\u0131k. Tanr\u0131 b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi ve \u015fimdi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlara sahip olman\u0131z sizi evlilikte de bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 korumaya haz\u0131rlayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-embrace-healthy-outlets-for-desire\">Arzu i\u00e7in Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar\u0131 Kucaklay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"D\u00fcrt\u00fclerimle nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131m?\" <\/em>Hristiyan bekarlar ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/cinsel-durtu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">me\u015fru cinsel arzular\u0131 kontrol etmek<\/a> giderek daha zor hale gelir. \u0130sa'ya gelmeden \u00f6nce cinsel bir ge\u00e7mi\u015finiz varsa, eski al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6nme iste\u011fi duyabilir ve ge\u00e7ici bir d\u00fcrt\u00fcye dayal\u0131 kal\u0131c\u0131 bir karar verme riskine girebilirsiniz. Peki, ne yapabilirsiniz? Tutku ve \u00e7ekim do\u011fald\u0131r; hissettiklerinizi hissetmek g\u00fcnah de\u011fildir. Ancak, oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yaln\u0131zca kendi arzular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yerine getirmek oldu\u011funda, bu tehlikeli bir hal al\u0131r.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130ster inan\u0131n ister inanmay\u0131n, seks de bir ba\u015fka hizmet bi\u00e7imidir. E\u015finizi memnun etmekle ilgilidir, t\u0131pk\u0131 onun da sizin memnuniyetinizden sorumlu oldu\u011fu gibi. Her iki e\u015f de birbirine hizmet etti\u011finde t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar kar\u015f\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-exercise\">Egzersiz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu arada, bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak cinselli\u011finizle Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 nas\u0131l onurland\u0131rabilirsiniz? Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, seks s\u0131ras\u0131nda salg\u0131lanan kimyasallar\u0131n ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n egzersiz yaparken de salg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. Bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f ya da ko\u015fu yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. En son ne zaman burpees yapt\u0131n\u0131z ya da plank tuttunuz? Bu kusursuz bir y\u00f6ntem olmasa da, fiziksel aktivite birikmi\u015f enerji ve gerginli\u011fi serbest b\u0131rakmaya yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-conversation\">Konu\u015fma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir ba\u015fka yararl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu da g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla sohbet etmektir. Seks sadece fiziksel rahatlamayla ilgili de\u011fildir, ayn\u0131 zamanda duygusal ba\u011fla da ilgilidir. Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda kiminle konu\u015fabilirsiniz, sizi cesaretlendirecek ve do\u011fru y\u00f6n\u00fc g\u00f6sterecek biriyle? Bir di\u011fer ba\u015fvurdu\u011fum strateji de vaaz izlemekti. Kutsal Kitap \u00f6\u011fretisini dinlemek oda\u011f\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirdi ve o anki inanc\u0131m\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-thankfulness\">Minnettarl\u0131k<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Neden o an\u0131 Tanr\u0131'ya \u015f\u00fckretmek i\u00e7in kullanm\u0131yorsunuz? Y\u00fcksek sesle dua etmeyi deneyin: <em>\"Tanr\u0131m, cinselli\u011fim i\u00e7in sana \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun. Bir g\u00fcn e\u015fimle kendimi tam olarak ifade edece\u011fimi biliyorum, ama o zamana kadar, \u015fu anda Seni onurland\u0131rmama yard\u0131m et.\"<\/em> Ayr\u0131ca sorabilirsiniz, <em>\"Tanr\u0131m, bu an ge\u00e7ene kadar \u015fu anda ne yapabilirim?\"<\/em> Sizi O yaratt\u0131, \u00f6yleyse neden O'nun rehberli\u011fini aram\u0131yorsunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-seek-god-s-guidance-daily\">Her G\u00fcn Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Rehberli\u011fini Aray\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 seksi yaratt\u0131 ve sizi de yaratt\u0131. O'ndan istedi\u011finizde neden size yard\u0131m etmesin? Nerede oldu\u011funuz konusunda d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun. O'na hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatabilirsiniz - zaten bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in bunlar\u0131 saklaman\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir, <em>Bu d\u00fcrt\u00fcler \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc. Kendimi kontrol edemiyorum.<\/em> Ama unutmay\u0131n, bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak Kutsal Ruh i\u00e7inizde ya\u015famaktad\u0131r. E\u011fer Tanr\u0131 sizi kurtaracak kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyse, cinsel ayartmalarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131za yard\u0131m edecek kadar da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc de\u011fil midir? Baz\u0131lar\u0131 Tanr\u0131'dan bu arzular\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 istemenin en iyisi oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r. Bu makul g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, evlendi\u011finizde cinsel arzunuza ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olacakt\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bunu ger\u00e7ekten ortadan kald\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor musunuz? Muhtemelen hay\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu, y\u00f6netilmesi kolay bir alan de\u011fildir, ancak imkans\u0131z da de\u011fildir. E\u011fer inan\u0131rsak, Tanr\u0131'yla her \u015fey m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Evet, \u00fczerimize d\u00fc\u015feni yapmal\u0131y\u0131z. Ba\u015ftan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131c\u0131 durumlardan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n ve kendinizi <em>yeterince g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc<\/em> tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00fcstesinden gelemezsiniz ve muhtemelen t\u00f6kezleyeceksiniz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n S\u00f6z\u00fc'ne, duaya, toplulu\u011fa ve ak\u0131l hocal\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ger\u00e7ek safl\u0131kta y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi ba\u015faracaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131ran Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/a>? A\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakileri bulmak i\u00e7in SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn indirin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cinsel safl\u0131k i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan Hristiyanlar<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post will help Christians to invite God into their sexuality and sex lives to help them stay pure and have amazing sex as God designed it. TL;DR: The Summary You might be thinking, \u201cOkay, I get that sex was God\u2019s idea, but I\u2019m an adult with natural urges. 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