{"id":2966,"date":"2025-06-26T09:48:23","date_gmt":"2025-06-26T09:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2966"},"modified":"2025-06-26T09:48:25","modified_gmt":"2025-06-26T09:48:25","slug":"es-listesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/spouse-list\/","title":{"rendered":"'E\u015f Listesi' Yazmak \u0130\u00e7in 5 \u0130pucu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131nda, m\u00fckemmel e\u015finizi bulman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak bir e\u015f listesi yapmaktan ve bunun iyi bir fikir olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir partnerde ne istedi\u011fimize dair listelerimiz olmal\u0131 m\u0131? Ne istedi\u011finiz konusunda net olman\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum, insanlara bir \u015fans vermeyecek kadar kapal\u0131 olmak de\u011fil, potansiyel bir partnerle uyum i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funuzdan emin olmak i\u00e7in. \u00d6rne\u011fin, Tanr\u0131 sizi \u00c7in'de misyoner olmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131ysa, sizi destekleyecek ya da ayn\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131 hissedecek bir e\u015fe ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olacakt\u0131r. Tam olarak ayn\u0131 \u015feyi yapmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz, ancak e\u015finiz Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi yapmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyi te\u015fvik etmelidir. Billy ve Ruth Graham'\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum - Graham d\u00fcnyay\u0131 dola\u015farak m\u00fcjdeyi duyuruyor ve \u00f6\u011fretiyordu ve e\u015finin yan\u0131nda olmas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark yarat\u0131yordu. Billy Graham bir m\u00fcjdeci olarak daha \u00f6n saflarda yer almas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, e\u015fi de en az onun kadar fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer bir liste yapacaksan\u0131z, neden bir liste yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilmemiz gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Bu, ne kadar para kazand\u0131klar\u0131 veya nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fckleri gibi tercihlerle ilgili bir liste de\u011fil. Bunun yerine, listeniz pazarl\u0131k konusu olmayan \u015feyler olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bir e\u015f listesine sahip olman\u0131n neden iyi oldu\u011funa dair baz\u0131 nedenler:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarity-on-your-values\">De\u011ferleriniz konusunda netlik<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-eliminate-time-wasting-relationships\">Zaman kaybettiren ili\u015fkileri ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-strengthen-your-intentions\">Niyetlerinizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-boost-self-awareness\">\u00d6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-keep-you-grounded-despite-emotions\">Duygulara ra\u011fmen ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yere basmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Size listenizde ne olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fim. Herkesin istedi\u011fi farkl\u0131 \u015feyler vard\u0131r. Yine, listenizin y\u00fczeysel \u015feylerle ilgili olmamas\u0131 ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in yapabileceklerini ka\u00e7\u0131rmaman\u0131z i\u00e7in bu size rehberlik etmek i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bir E\u015f Listesi Yazmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pjmjjeT8NF0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"E\u015finizden ne istedi\u011finize dair bir liste yap\u0131n. Muhtemelen bu tavsiyeyi daha \u00f6nce duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Belki de bir r\u00f6portajda evlenmeden \u00f6nce bir liste yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia eden bir \u00fcnl\u00fcn\u00fcn bunu s\u00f6yledi\u011fini duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Belki de her gece e\u015f listesi \u00fczerinde dua etti\u011fini ve k\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra hayat\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Bu 'liste kavram\u0131' nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olursa olsun, \u00e7o\u011fu Hristiyan bekar \"Ne istedi\u011fime dair bir liste yapmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?\" diye merak eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir liste yapman\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f bir taraf\u0131 olmasa da, bu konuda \u00e7ok kat\u0131 olmamaya dikkat etmeliyiz. Bunun nedeni, listenizdeki t\u00fcm kutucuklar\u0131 i\u015faretleyen biriyle evlenmeye o kadar odaklan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ki, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in ne istedi\u011fini ka\u00e7\u0131rabilirsiniz. Bir \u00f6rnek vereyim: \u00c7o\u011fu kad\u0131n kocalar\u0131n\u0131n belli bir boyda, genellikle de 1.80'in \u00fczerinde olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. Ancak Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri'nde bir erke\u011fin ortalama boyu 1.80 ya da 1.80 civar\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bu da \u00e7o\u011fu kad\u0131n\u0131n boy \u015fart\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in potansiyel e\u015f adaylar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na geliyor. Boy konusunda kararl\u0131 olsayd\u0131m, 1.80 boyundaki kocam\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olurdum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarity-on-your-values\">De\u011ferleriniz konusunda netlik<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fcleyman'\u0131n \u00d6zdeyi\u015fleri 31:30 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Cazibe aldat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, g\u00fczellik ge\u00e7icidir, Ama Rab'den korkan kad\u0131n \u00f6v\u00fcl\u00fcr.\" D\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe bu kadar \u00e7ok odaklanan bir d\u00fcnyada ya\u015f\u0131yor olmam\u0131z \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n belli bir bedende, erkeklerin de belli bir boyda olmas\u0131 gerekiyor. E\u011fer erkek g\u00f6z kama\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 de\u011filse, buna de\u011fmez. E\u011fer bir kad\u0131n manken gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcyorsa, ona bakman\u0131n ne anlam\u0131 var?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beni yanl\u0131\u015f anlama. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yan-flortunde-ceki%cc%87ci%cc%87li%cc%87gi%cc%87-goz-ardi-etmeli%cc%87-mi%cc%87yi%cc%87z\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00c7ekim g\u00fcc\u00fc \u00f6nemlidir<\/a>. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 buna kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kabilir ama ben Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin nelerden ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bildi\u011fine ve bunu dikkate ald\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yorum. Ancak, tek odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey cazibe olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Kutsal Kitap g\u00fczelli\u011fin soldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. Yirmili ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z altm\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda da \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyeceksiniz. Evet, kendinize iyi bak\u0131n ama eninde sonunda zaman hepimizi ya\u015fland\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-character-counts-for-more\">Daha fazlas\u0131 i\u00e7in karakter say\u0131lar\u0131<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir e\u015f ararken de\u011ferlerin anahtar olmas\u0131 gerekir. Uzun s\u00fcredir evli de\u011filim ama size \u015funu s\u00f6yleyebilirim ki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir temele sahip olmak sizi hayat\u0131n zor zamanlar\u0131nda ayakta tutacakt\u0131r. Zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7erken e\u015finizin de\u011ferleri \u00f6nemli olacakt\u0131r. Sizin Mesih'e ba\u011fl\u0131 olman\u0131z gerekir, e\u015finizin de \u00f6yle. D\u00fc\u015fman sald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn bir \u00f6nemi yoktur. \u00d6nemli olan e\u015finizin elinizi tutup 'Ne olursa olsun Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcveniyoruz' diyebilmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onlar\u0131 sad\u0131k tutacak olan d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ve Rab korkusudur. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 kocas\u0131na sahip olabilirsiniz, ama sizin i\u00e7in dua etmiyorsa, kaybedersiniz. Erkekler, model g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcml\u00fc bir e\u015finiz olabilir, ama e\u011fer tart\u0131\u015fmac\u0131ysa, Kutsal Kitap bir erke\u011fin kavgac\u0131 bir e\u015fle ayn\u0131 yerde olmaktansa \u00e7at\u0131da uyumas\u0131n\u0131n daha iyi oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De\u011ferlerinizi biliyor musunuz? Y\u00fczeysel olmayan hangi \u00f6zelliklere ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z var? \u00d6nemli olan \u0130sa'ya olan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Bir keresinde bir papaz\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duymu\u015ftum: 'Tutku i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ama\u00e7 i\u00e7in evlenin. E\u011fer bir ama\u00e7 i\u00e7in evlenirseniz, tutkunuz da gelecektir. Hay\u0131r, bu sevmedi\u011finiz ya da kimyan\u0131z\u0131n uyu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 biriyle evlenin anlam\u0131na gelmiyor, sadece evlili\u011fin romantizmden \u00e7ok daha derin bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-eliminate-time-wasting-relationships\">Zaman kaybettiren ili\u015fkileri ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sizi bilmem ama ben fl\u00f6rt konusunda biraz zaman kaybettim. Temel de\u011ferlerimden emin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in, bana uygun olmayan ili\u015fkilere girmeye raz\u0131 oldum. Bir erke\u011fin benden ho\u015flanmas\u0131n\u0131 o kadar \u00e7ok istedi\u011fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum ki kendim i\u00e7in konu\u015fmad\u0131m. Tekneyi sallamak ve fikrimi payla\u015fmak istemedim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunun onu uzakla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. B\u00fcy\u00fck hatayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Temel de\u011ferlerinizi bilmek zaman kaybetmenizi \u00f6nleyecektir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, seks yapmak i\u00e7in evlenene kadar beklemeye kararl\u0131ysan\u0131z, 'menfaatleri olan arkada\u015flar' anla\u015fmas\u0131 isteyen veya evlilik \u00f6ncesi seksin iyi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biriyle e\u011flenmezsiniz. Neden mi? Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 bedeninizle ho\u015fnut etmek istiyorsunuz, dininizden dolay\u0131 de\u011fil, O'na olan sevginizden dolay\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-compatibility\">Uyumluluk<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siz de ayn\u0131 inanca sahip biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak istersiniz. Kocamla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mda s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 o belirledi. Evlenene kadar beklemek istedi\u011fimi zaten biliyordum, ama o da ayn\u0131 \u015feyi s\u00f6yleyince bir\u00e7ok kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve uzla\u015fma ortadan kalkt\u0131. Hatta ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta telefonda konu\u015fmam\u0131z i\u00e7in bir zaman s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 koymu\u015ftuk, b\u00f6ylece konu\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131z gece ge\u00e7 saatlerde uygunsuz bir hal almayacakt\u0131. Ne demek istedi\u011fimi anlad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? O kendi de\u011ferlerini biliyordu, ben de kendi de\u011ferlerimi biliyordum, b\u00f6ylece birbirimizin zaman\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015fa harcam\u0131yorduk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ba\u015fka \u00f6rnek de \u00e7ocuk istememeniz olabilir - b\u00fcy\u00fck bir aile isteyen biriyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n hi\u00e7bir anlam\u0131 yoktur. Bunda utan\u0131lacak bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, kendinizi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmeniz i\u00e7in de bir neden yoktur. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak istemiyorsan\u0131z, ayn\u0131 \u015feyi isteyen biriyle tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131z ve ikinizin de ayn\u0131 fikirde olmas\u0131 daha iyidir. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi, net olmak uzun bir yol kat etmenizi sa\u011flar ve zaman kazand\u0131r\u0131r. \u015eunu da s\u00f6ylemeliyim ki, fl\u00f6rt ederken hatalar yaparsan\u0131z, Tanr\u0131 bu zaman\u0131 telafi edebilir. Bu, i\u015fleri m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde yapmakla de\u011fil, bilerek ve yol boyunca Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 ho\u015fnut etmekle ilgilidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"ni\u015fan foto\u011fraf\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-2184\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-9x12.jpeg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-strengthen-your-intentions\">Niyetlerinizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir e\u015f listesine sahip olmak da odaklanman\u0131z\u0131 ve niyetli olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir. Niyetli derken, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi elli k\u00fcsur soruyla sorguya \u00e7ekti\u011finiz randevulara gitti\u011finizden bahsetmiyorum. Hay\u0131r, rahatlam\u0131\u015f ve iyi vakit ge\u00e7iriyorsunuz. Olas\u0131l\u0131klara a\u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n\u0131z, ancak yine de standartlar\u0131n\u0131z zihninizin \u00f6n saflar\u0131nda yer al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Devam etmeden \u00f6nce randevulara ne kadar s\u00fcre vermelisiniz? \u00dc\u00e7 randevu kural\u0131 olan bir arkada\u015f\u0131m var. Kocas\u0131yla ilk tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kocas\u0131 \u00e7ok gergindi. Bunun onu uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na izin vermek yerine bir \u015fans daha verdi. Kocam ve benden iki ay sonra, 2023 y\u0131l\u0131nda evlendiler. Hepimiz elimizden gelenin en iyisini yapmak istesek de, ilk bulu\u015fmada bir \u015feyler olabilir, bu y\u00fczden a\u00e7\u0131k fikirli olun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-communicate-intentions\">Niyetleri iletin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elbette niyetinizi erkenden belli edebilirsiniz. Onlarla evlenmek istedi\u011finizi de\u011fil ama bir g\u00fcn evlenme niyetiyle \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz. Bu \u015fekilde, 'sadece \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131' bilirler. \u00d6n\u00fcn\u00fczde net bir biti\u015f \u00e7izgisi var ve bunu \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in onlarla bir \u015feyler yapmaya devam etmek istiyorsan\u0131z, sorun de\u011fil. E\u011fer istemiyorsan\u0131z, bunun sizin de\u011ferinizle hi\u00e7bir ilgisi yoktur. Onlar sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, pek \u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan bekara \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck getirmelidir. Fl\u00f6rt etmenin amac\u0131 o ki\u015finin e\u015finiz olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hemen anlamak de\u011fildir. Evet, Tanr\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi erkenden ortaya \u00e7\u0131karabilir, ancak hemen bilmek genellikle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmez. Rahatlay\u0131n ve \u00f6zel birini tan\u0131ma s\u00fcrecinin tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n. Evet, niyetli olun ama e\u011flenin ve kendiniz olun. Hi\u00e7bir zaman do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi etkilemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131za gerek kalmayacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-boost-self-awareness\">\u00d6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130ster inan\u0131n ister inanmay\u0131n, bir e\u015f listesine sahip olmak sadece sizinle ilgili de\u011fildir. O listeye bak\u0131p 'Ben bunlar\u0131n hepsiyim' diyebilir misiniz? Ba\u015fka bir papaz\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duydum: \"Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi siz misiniz? \u00d6rne\u011fin, e\u015finizin mali a\u00e7\u0131dan sorumlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsan\u0131z, siz b\u00f6yle biri misiniz? Duygusal olarak dengeli olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsunuz - peki ya siz? \u0130yi bir ileti\u015fimci olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsunuz - siz nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kuruyorsunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00fcm beklentileri m\u00fcstakbel e\u015flerimize y\u00fckleyip kendimiz i\u00e7in bile \u00e7aba sarf etmemenin bir anlam\u0131 yok. Bu adil de\u011fil. E\u015fimiz hayat\u0131m\u0131za girecek ve t\u00fcm sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zecek biri de\u011fildir. Hayat\u0131 birlikte ya\u015famam\u0131z ve birlikte b\u00fcy\u00fcmemiz i\u00e7in oradalar. Yani biz de \u00fczerimize d\u00fc\u015feni yapmal\u0131y\u0131z. Siz bir tak\u0131ms\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-work-on-yourself\">Kendiniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listenizin, kendi \u00fczerinizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gereken \u015feylere g\u00f6zlerinizi a\u00e7mas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bu, e\u015finiz i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz en iyi \u015feylerden biridir - kendinizin en iyi versiyonu olmak. Evet, evlilik ba\u015fka bir iyile\u015fme katman\u0131 getirir ve Tanr\u0131 size yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in e\u015finiz arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir, ancak \u015fimdi bekarken gerekli olan\u0131 yap\u0131n. Kocam benim i\u00e7in bir l\u00fctuf oldu mu ve baz\u0131 alanlarda b\u00fcy\u00fcmeme yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu mu? Evet, ama onunla tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce de kendim \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 bana iyile\u015fmem gereken \u015feyler oldu\u011funu ve bunu evlenene kadar beklemektense \u015fimdi yapmam\u0131n daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi. Cennetteki Babam\u0131z bizi o kadar \u00e7ok seviyor ki, e\u015fimizi bizim en k\u00f6t\u00fc versiyonumuzdan koruyacakt\u0131r. Pazarl\u0131k konusu olmayanlar listenizi haz\u0131rlarken, aynaya bakman\u0131z i\u00e7in bir ipucu olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-you-grounded-despite-emotions\">Duygulara ra\u011fmen ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yere basmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015finizi beklemek kolay de\u011fildir ve duygular\u0131m\u0131z bizi hem en iyi hem de en k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015fekilde etkileyebilir. Bir e\u015finizin ya da m\u00fczakere edilemezler listenizin olmas\u0131, \u00f6zellikle i\u015fler zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda size nedeninizi hat\u0131rlatacakt\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015fman yalan s\u00f6yleyecek ve size \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey istedi\u011finizi ve inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda biriyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n daha kolay olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrecektir. Listenizin olmas\u0131 size \u0130sa'y\u0131 en az sizin kadar seven bir e\u015fe sahip olman\u0131n \u00f6nemini hat\u0131rlatacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fc\u015fman, seks yapmak i\u00e7in evlenene kadar beklemenin ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve arkaik bir ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenizi sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. \"Ba\u015fka kimse beklemiyor, neden kendinize i\u015fkence ediyorsunuz? Standartlar\u0131n\u0131z size Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n seksle ilgili plan\u0131n\u0131n inan\u0131lmaz oldu\u011funu ve m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan en iyi deneyimi ya\u015faman\u0131z\u0131 istedi\u011fini hat\u0131rlatacakt\u0131r. Sizi \u00f6nemsemeyen biriyle ruhsal bir ba\u011f kurman\u0131z\u0131 istemez. Ge\u00e7ici bir d\u00fcrt\u00fc i\u00e7in de\u011ferinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmenizi istemez. \u0130ster inan\u0131n ister inanmay\u0131n, Tanr\u0131 cinsel ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zdan y\u00fccelik ister. O'nu antla\u015fmayla y\u00fcceltebilirsiniz, bu y\u00fczden d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n sizi soymas\u0131na ve farkl\u0131 bir se\u00e7im yapman\u0131za neden olmas\u0131na izin vermeyin. \u00c7izgiyi a\u015fm\u0131\u015f olsan\u0131z bile, Tanr\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flar ve onar\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yolculuk zor olabilir, ancak listenize sahip olmak her \u015feyi yeniden perspektife oturtabilir. \u00c7ok fazla \u015fey istemedi\u011finizi g\u00f6receksiniz. E\u011fer Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 ho\u015fnut etmek istiyorsan\u0131z, arzular\u0131n\u0131zda samimi oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in O da bunu onurland\u0131racakt\u0131r. Bana standartlar\u0131m\u0131n '\u00e7ok y\u00fcksek' oldu\u011funun s\u00f6ylendi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. \u0130sa'y\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten seven ve arada s\u0131rada d\u00fcnyayla ilgilenmeyen dindar bir adam beklemek ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i de\u011fildi. Hay\u0131r, m\u00fckemmeli aram\u0131yordum ama Tanr\u0131'yla olan y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn samimi oldu\u011funu biliyordum ve kocam\u0131n da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n fazla teslimat yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131na tan\u0131kl\u0131k edebilirim. S\u00f6z konusu Kutsal Kitap oldu\u011funda kocam \u0131\u015f\u0131ldar. Okumak, dua etmek ve Tanr\u0131'ya tap\u0131nmak i\u00e7in erkenden kalkar. Rab'le olan y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc bana \u0130sa'ya daha da yak\u0131nla\u015fmam i\u00e7in ilham veriyor. Krall\u0131k e\u015finin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 budur. Sizi \u0130sa'ya yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rlar ve bu paha bi\u00e7ilemez bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-over-to-you\">Senin i\u00e7in<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listenizi yeniden de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in biraz zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n. Standartlara m\u0131 yoksa tamamen tercihlere mi dayan\u0131yor? Tercihlerde yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok, ancak y\u00fczeysel olanlar sizi bir yere kadar g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir. Sa\u011flam bir \u015feye ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z var ve bu da ki\u015finin Rab ile olan ili\u015fkisiyle ba\u015flar. Bulmas\u0131 zor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir ama beklemeye de\u011fer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015fmaya haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inan\u0131lmaz Hristiyan bekarlar<\/a>? SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn indirin ve belki de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">e\u015finizi bulun<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this blog post we talk about making a spouse list to help you find your perfect partner and whether it&#8217;s a good idea. TL;DR: The Summary Should we have lists for what we want in a partner? 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