{"id":2921,"date":"2025-06-05T09:41:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T09:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2921"},"modified":"2025-06-05T09:41:02","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T09:41:02","slug":"bekarlik-hedi%cc%87yesi%cc%87","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/gift-of-singleness\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekarl\u0131k Yetene\u011fine Sahip miyim?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bek\u00e2rl\u0131k arma\u011fan\u0131na sahip olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ya da \u015fu anda sadece bek\u00e2r olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlaman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k arma\u011fan\u0131n\u0131z var m\u0131? \u0130ster sadece bir d\u00f6nem ister \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu s\u00fcrecek bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131 olsun, \u00f6nce \u0130sa Mesih'te tamamland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 unutmay\u0131n. Bu i\u015faretlere g\u00f6z at\u0131n. Hi\u00e7biri size do\u011fru gelmiyorsa, kal\u0131c\u0131 bekarl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-complete-fulfilment-in-your-own-company\">Kendi \u015firketinizde eksiksiz yerine getirme<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-no-desire-for-a-romantic-commitment\">Romantik ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k arzusu yok<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-emotional-independence\">Duygusal ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-a-clear-sense-of-calling\">Net Bir \u00c7a\u011fr\u0131 Duygusu<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-inner-peace\">\u0130\u00e7 Huzur<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dcz\u00fcc\u00fc olan, baz\u0131 kilise topluluklar\u0131n\u0131n bekarlara evlenmeleri i\u00e7in bask\u0131 yapmas\u0131d\u0131r. E\u011fer evlenmezlerse bir \u015fekilde <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/evli-ciftler-bekarlardan-daha-degerli\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">evli bir ki\u015fiden daha az ya da de\u011fersiz<\/a>. \u0130ncil'in \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi bu de\u011fildir.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Korintliler 7:6-7'de \u015f\u00f6yle yazar: \"Ama bunu bir buyruk olarak de\u011fil, bir \u00f6d\u00fcn olarak s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum. <strong><sup>&nbsp;<\/sup><\/strong>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n benim gibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterdim. Ama herkesin Tanr\u0131'dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bir arma\u011fan\u0131 vard\u0131r; biri \u015f\u00f6yle, \u00f6b\u00fcr\u00fc b\u00f6yle.\" Pavlus asl\u0131nda evlili\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 savunmaktad\u0131r. Evlilikte yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey olmasa da, dikkatiniz Rab ve e\u015finiz aras\u0131nda b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcr. Tanr\u0131 ikinizin birlikte olmas\u0131ndan y\u00fccelik elde edebilir mi? Elbette, ama evli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda daha fazla \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck vard\u0131r. Pavlus yine her ikisinin de bir arma\u011fan oldu\u011funu, ancak se\u00e7im yapmak zorunda kalsayd\u0131 bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7ece\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u00d6yleyse bu listeyi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irerek bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa tam olarak \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131p \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirleyelim. E\u011fer de\u011filseniz, daha \u00f6nce de s\u00f6yledi\u011fim gibi, bunun i\u00e7in inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bekarl\u0131k hediyesi... Ya istemezsem?!\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jItkpbwT8L0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Belki de ben <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/tanri-neden-yalniz-hissetmeme-izin-veriyor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hayat\u0131m\u0131n geri kalan\u0131nda tek ba\u015f\u0131ma.<\/a>\" Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a, bir\u00e7o\u011fu sonsuza kadar bek\u00e2r kalmalar\u0131 gerekip gerekmedi\u011fini merak etmeye ba\u015flar. 30, 40, hatta 50 ya\u015f\u0131na kadar evlenmemi\u015f olmak bazen Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n onlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z istedi\u011finin bir i\u015fareti gibi gelir. Yine de evlilik arzusu devam ediyor ve bu da \u015fu soruyu g\u00fcndeme getiriyor: H\u00e2l\u00e2 evlili\u011fi arzuluyorsan\u0131z nas\u0131l bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131labilirsiniz? Ne yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z - belli bir ya\u015f\u0131 ge\u00e7ti\u011finiz i\u00e7in pes edip bek\u00e2r olmay\u0131 kabul m\u00fc etmelisiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir denge oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum. E\u011fer ger\u00e7ekten evli olmak istiyorsan\u0131z, inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 canl\u0131 tutabilirsiniz. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 kendilerine odaklanmak ya da bir ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan sonra iyile\u015fmek i\u00e7in bir d\u00f6nem bek\u00e2r kalmay\u0131 tercih eder. Ancak uzun s\u00fcreli bek\u00e2rl\u0131k her zaman bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki, nereden biliyorsunuz? Net bir noktayla ba\u015flayal\u0131m: Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda hi\u00e7 evlenmeyi istemediyseniz, muhtemelen bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Bunda yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok. Siz sadece kendinizi tamamen Rab'be adam\u0131\u015f, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, aileniz ve toplum arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla sevgi ve tatmin buluyorsunuz. E\u011fer bu sizseniz, utanmadan bunu kucaklay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-complete-fulfilment-in-your-own-company\">Kendi \u015firketinizde eksiksiz yerine getirme<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bekar hayat\u0131n\u0131n daha basit oldu\u011funa dair hikayeler duydum, termostat i\u00e7in tart\u0131\u015fmak zorunda kalmamak gibi. \u0130stedi\u011finiz gibi ayarlars\u0131n\u0131z ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zevkleri hakk\u0131nda endi\u015felenmeden sevdi\u011finiz \u015feylerin -m\u00fczik, film, her neyse- tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Kendi arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan ho\u015flan\u0131yor musunuz? D\u00fcnyadan elini ete\u011fini \u00e7ekmi\u015f bir \u015fekilde de\u011fil, sizi nadiren yaln\u0131z hissettiren sakin, ho\u015fnut bir \u015fekilde. Zihniniz s\u00fcrekli olarak bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zlemiyor. Romantik filmler izledi\u011finizde bile, \"Ke\u015fke benim de olsayd\u0131\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp \u00fcz\u00fclmezsiniz. Sadece filmin oldu\u011fu gibi tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kendinizi hi\u00e7bir zaman bir partnerle hayal etmediyseniz, belki de bekarl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131n\u0131z. Ve bu son derece normaldir. Toplum genellikle bir ili\u015fki istemiyorsak yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey varm\u0131\u015f gibi hissetmemizi sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ailemiz bile bir \u015feyleri ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz i\u00e7in bize bask\u0131 yapabilir. Ama bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri do\u011fru de\u011fil. Bir kez bile evlenme iste\u011fi duymam\u0131\u015f insanlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 seviyorlar, kiliselerinde hizmet ediyorlar ve evli olmamay\u0131 tercih ediyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6te yandan, kendinizi hep evli olarak hayal ettiyseniz, derin bir nefes al\u0131n. Sonsuza kadar bek\u00e2r kalman\u0131z gerekmiyor. Bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine bek\u00e2r olsan\u0131z bile, Tanr\u0131 bir anda de\u011fi\u015fim yaratabilir. \u00d6nemli olan cesaretli kalmakt\u0131r. Bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ne zaman sona erece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyemem, ama bir g\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n m\u00fckemmel zamanlamas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-desire-for-a-romantic-commitment\">Romantik bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k arzusu yok<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lisede ve \u00fcniversitede fl\u00f6rt etmi\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak baz\u0131 insanlar uzun vadeli ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k i\u00e7in uygun de\u011fildir. Bu onlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc insanlar oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak herkes d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e evlilikte \"iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc ve di\u011ferlerinden vazge\u00e7erek\" diyemez. Bu, sadece geli\u015fig\u00fczel fl\u00f6rt etmeniz ve insanlar\u0131n duygular\u0131yla oynaman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na m\u0131 geliyor? Hay\u0131r. Ancak biriyle uzun vadeli bir ili\u015fki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011finizi biliyorsan\u0131z, bu konuda d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun. Kendinizi adamayacaksan\u0131z onlar\u0131n umutlar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rman\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birini uzun s\u00fcre romantik olarak arzulamad\u0131ysan\u0131z bunda yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok. Film ho\u015funuza gidebilir <em>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Planlay\u0131c\u0131s\u0131<\/em>Ama bu Jennifer Lopez'in karakteri gibi beklenmedik bir romantizm istedi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelmez. Romantizm her yerde; filmlerde, TV \u015fovlar\u0131nda ve \u015fark\u0131larda. Noel filmleri bile genellikle \u0130sa'n\u0131n do\u011fumuna odaklanmak yerine romantizme y\u00f6neliyor. D\u00fcnya \"romantizm\" diye ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor olabilir, ancak ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011finiz bu de\u011filse romantizmi benimsemek zorunda de\u011filsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-single-focus\">Tek odak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer 1. Korintliler 7:32-33'\u00fc okursan\u0131z, \"Ama ben kayg\u0131s\u0131z olman\u0131z\u0131 istiyorum. Evli olmayan ki\u015fi Rab'bin i\u015fleriyle, Rab'bi nas\u0131l ho\u015fnut edebilece\u011fiyle ilgilenir. Ama evli olan d\u00fcnyan\u0131n i\u015fleriyle, yani kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l ho\u015fnut edece\u011fiyle ilgilenir.\" Daha \u00f6nce de s\u00f6yledi\u011fim gibi, bek\u00e2r oldu\u011funuzda dikkatiniz b\u00f6l\u00fcnmez. Rab'be ay\u0131racak ve O'nun sizi ne yapmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffedecek daha fazla zaman\u0131n\u0131z olur. Pavlus bunu te\u015fvik etmi\u015ftir, \u00f6zellikle de son g\u00fcnlerde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve \u0130sa'n\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc \u00e7ok yak\u0131n oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r bir ki\u015fi olarak, dikkatiniz da\u011f\u0131lmadan Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmas\u0131na odaklanabilirsiniz. Evet, bir e\u015fle birlikte Tanr\u0131'ya hizmet edebilirsiniz, ancak evlenmemeniz g\u00fcnah de\u011fildir. Evlilik her \u015feyin sonu, her \u015feyin ba\u015f\u0131 de\u011fildir ve bir kurtulu\u015f meselesi de de\u011fildir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, kimseye kar\u015f\u0131 romantik duygular beslemiyorsan\u0131z ve Rab'bin \u00f6n\u00fcnde saf bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmeye kararl\u0131ysan\u0131z, evlenebilirsiniz. Ancak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir cinsel arzunuz varsa ve bir kar\u0131 ya da koca ile antla\u015fmaya dayal\u0131 bir ili\u015fki istiyorsan\u0131z, Tanr\u0131 bu arzuyu da onurland\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 temsil etmek \u00fczere tek ki\u015finin d\u0131\u015far\u0131 bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 da\u011f manzaras\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-2533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-1229x1536.jpg 1229w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe-10x12.jpg 10w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/lisa-christensen-dupe.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-emotional-independence\">Duygusal ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Eski sevgilimi bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc unutam\u0131yorum\" ya da \"Hayat\u0131m\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 bu ki\u015fi olmadan hayal edemiyorum.\" Bu duygular\u0131 hi\u00e7 ya\u015famad\u0131ysan\u0131z veya birine bu d\u00fczeyde ger\u00e7ekten ba\u011fl\u0131 hissetmediyseniz, duygusal olarak daha ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olabilirsiniz. Bu, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 sevmedi\u011finiz veya \u00f6nemsemedi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak birine kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir zaman ciddi duygular hissetmediyseniz, bekar olman\u0131z gerekiyor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birine duygusal olarak o kadar ba\u011fl\u0131 olan insanlar\u0131n hikayelerini duydum ki, e\u011fer dikkatli olmazlarsa, sanki t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 o ki\u015fi olmadan \u00e7\u00f6kecek ve yanacakm\u0131\u015f gibi hissediyorlar. A\u015f\u0131k olmak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr, bu y\u00fczden yo\u011funlu\u011fuyla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmaya haz\u0131r olmadan biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak ak\u0131ll\u0131ca de\u011fildir. \u0130lk kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. E\u011fer gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131zda olduysa, muhtemelen t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131z bitmi\u015f gibi hissetmi\u015fsinizdir. Bu ki\u015fi sizi terk etti ve siz nas\u0131l ilerleyece\u011finizi bilemediniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-re-secure\">G\u00fcvendesiniz<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6te yandan, belki de kim oldu\u011funuz konusunda her zaman g\u00fcvendeydiniz. Kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissetmi\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak bunu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcrmediniz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z bitmemi\u015fti, ili\u015fkiniz bitmi\u015fti. De\u011ferinizi biliyordunuz, di\u011ferlerinden daha \u00e7abuk yolunuza devam ettiniz ve belki de etraf\u0131n\u0131zdaki insanlar \"Umurunuzda m\u0131?\" diye merak etti. Umursamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan de\u011fil, ama duygular\u0131n\u0131z farkl\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Bunda yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok ve bir e\u015fle o derin ba\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7 istemediyseniz, bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun nedeni korkman\u0131z ya da ge\u00e7mi\u015f bir ili\u015fkiden dolay\u0131 yanm\u0131\u015f olman\u0131z de\u011fildir. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ac\u0131 \u00e7ekerek yemin ettikleri i\u00e7in bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr: \"Bir daha asla b\u00f6yle incinmeyece\u011fim, bu y\u00fczden hayat\u0131m\u0131n geri kalan\u0131nda yaln\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131m.\" Bu mant\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir, ancak evlili\u011fi hi\u00e7 istememekle ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir. Bu t\u00fcr bir yemin ederek kendinizi korumu\u015f olmuyorsunuz. Kendinize ve m\u00fcstakbel e\u015finize k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ediyorsunuz. Y\u00fcre\u011finizi saklayarak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ki\u015fiyi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Y\u00fcre\u011finizin so\u011fumas\u0131na ve nas\u0131rla\u015fmas\u0131na izin verdiyseniz, kendinizi bek\u00e2r tutuyor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tekrar soruyorum: Hi\u00e7 birine duygusal olarak ba\u011flanmay\u0131, yani savunmas\u0131z olmay\u0131 ve her \u015feyi payla\u015fmay\u0131 arzulad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? Cevab\u0131n\u0131z evetse, o zaman bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lmam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-clear-sense-of-calling\">Net Bir \u00c7a\u011fr\u0131 Duygusu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n onlar\u0131 kendilerinden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015feye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri i\u00e7in evlenmeyi istemeyenler de vard\u0131r. Bu durum genellikle tam zamanl\u0131 misyonerlerde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n farkl\u0131 yerlerine \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131rlar ve bir e\u015fe ba\u011fl\u0131 olmamak onlar i\u00e7in daha kolay olabilir. Bu, e\u015finizle birlikte Tanr\u0131'ya hizmet edemeyece\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u0130sa'ya hizmet etmek i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyay\u0131 dola\u015fan bir\u00e7ok kar\u0131-koca ekibi duydum. Seyahat etmiyor olsalar bile, birlikte past\u00f6rl\u00fck yapmaya ya da ba\u015fka bir kapasitede hizmet etmeye \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131labilirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n size verdi\u011fi g\u00f6reve odaklanm\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z, bunu kendi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmenizde hi\u00e7bir sak\u0131nca yoktur. Do\u011frusu, yaln\u0131z de\u011filsiniz. Pavlus harika bir \u00f6rnektir. Evlenmemi\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, Tanr\u0131 yine de yolculuklar\u0131nda M\u00fcjde'yi payla\u015fmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan insanlar\u0131 hayat\u0131na soktu. Hayat\u0131 tatmin olmam\u0131\u015f de\u011fildi. \u0130sa'n\u0131n kendisine g\u00fc\u00e7 verdi\u011fini bilerek, her \u015feyde nas\u0131l \"al\u00e7alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bolla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131\" \u00f6\u011frendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-calling\">Senin \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 sizi \u015fu anda ne yapmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131? Kendinizi bir e\u015fin yan\u0131nda hizmet ederken g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musunuz? E\u011fer g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla \u00e7al\u0131\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek kimsenin sizi utand\u0131rmas\u0131na izin vermeyin. Pavlus gibi, O da y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla sizi \u00e7evreleyebilir. Etraf\u0131n\u0131zda bir topluluk oldu\u011funda asla ger\u00e7ekten yaln\u0131z de\u011filsinizdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi yapmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feye ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Herhangi bir konuda netlikten yoksunsan\u0131z, t\u00fcm kalbinizle O'nu aray\u0131n. O size yol g\u00f6sterecektir. Bununla birlikte, \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131zda bir e\u015fle ortak olmay\u0131 arzuluyorsan\u0131z, bu arzunuzu da Rab'be teslim edin. O do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi sizinle ayn\u0131 hizaya getirecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-inner-peace\">\u0130\u00e7 Huzur<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kim ne derse desin, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n esenli\u011fine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kamaz. Etraf\u0131n\u0131zdaki herkes farkl\u0131 bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylese bile, O size bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemi\u015f ve size esenlik vermi\u015fse, kim aksini iddia edebilir? Evlenmeden \u00f6nce kocam hakk\u0131nda huzur duydu\u011fumu hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bana ne bildirdi\u011fini biliyordum ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131 do\u011fru karar\u0131 verdi\u011fimden emin olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, benim yan\u0131t\u0131m her zaman \"Ne i\u00e7in dua etti\u011fimi biliyorum\" oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bek\u00e2rl\u0131k konusunda y\u00fcre\u011finize ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fini yaln\u0131zca siz bilirsiniz. Evlilik i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir arzu duyuyorsan\u0131z ve evlenmeniz gerekti\u011fine dair derin bir i\u00e7sel bilgiye sahipseniz, buna tutunmaya devam edin. Bunun tam tersi do\u011fruysa ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi bu ya\u015fama \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorsan\u0131z, buna da tutun. Kimsenin sizi Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizinle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyden vazge\u00e7irmesine izin vermeyin. Bazen aileden, kiliseden ve toplumdan gelen bask\u0131lar bizi fevri kararlar almaya itebilir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki bir \u015feyi \"d\u00fczeltmemiz\" gerekti\u011fini hissederiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-listen-to-god\">Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 dinleyin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 memnun etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendinizi y\u0131prat\u0131yorsan\u0131z, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011finde de\u011filsiniz demektir. O'nun huzurunun nerede oldu\u011funa bak\u0131n ve her \u015feyden \u00f6nce buna g\u00fcvenin. Bek\u00e2r olmaktan her zaman huzur duydunuz mu? Evlenen arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duymadan ger\u00e7ekten mutlu oluyor musunuz? E\u011fer bu sizseniz, bek\u00e2rl\u0131k Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fam olabilir. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 \"yaln\u0131z\" ge\u00e7irmekten korkmuyorsunuz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc derinlerde bir yerde asla ger\u00e7ekten yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biliyorsunuz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi farkl\u0131 bir \u015fey i\u00e7in ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorsunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Bunu hi\u00e7 hayal edemiyorum\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, sizi krall\u0131k ili\u015fkisi i\u00e7in inanmaya devam etmeye te\u015fvik ediyorum. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n neden di\u011ferlerinden daha erken evlendi\u011fini ya da baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n neden daha uzun s\u00fcre bekledi\u011fini bilmiyorum. Ama \u015funu biliyorum ki, ister evli ister bek\u00e2r olal\u0131m, Tanr\u0131 hepimize bir arma\u011fan vermi\u015ftir. Yukar\u0131daki noktalar\u0131n hi\u00e7biriyle \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmiyorsan\u0131z, hala umut var demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lies-about-time\">Zaman hakk\u0131nda yalanlar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Zaman t\u00fckeniyor\" ya da \"art\u0131k gen\u00e7le\u015fmiyorsun\" s\u00f6zlerine kanmay\u0131n. Tanr\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ya da ne kadar s\u00fcredir bek\u00e2r oldu\u011funuzu unutmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Nerede oldu\u011funuzu ve tam olarak neye ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu nas\u0131l sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir. Beklemekten ho\u015flanmayabiliriz, ama Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 bekledi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in asla pi\u015fman olmay\u0131z. Ye\u015faya 40:31 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Ama Rab'bi bekleyenler g\u00fc\u00e7lerini yenileyecekler; kartallar gibi kanatlan\u0131p y\u00fckselecekler, ko\u015facaklar ve yorulmayacaklar, y\u00fcr\u00fcyecekler ve bay\u0131lmayacaklar.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k y\u0131llar\u0131mda en sevdi\u011fim \u015fark\u0131lardan biri Elevation Worship ve Maverick City'nin \"Wait on the Lord\" \u015fark\u0131s\u0131yd\u0131. O'nun g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yenileyece\u011fi vaat ediliyor. Kendinizi yorgun ve cesaretsiz hissediyorsan\u0131z, O'ndan g\u00fc\u00e7 isteyin. O perde arkas\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor ve sizin i\u00e7in en muhte\u015fem a\u015fk hik\u00e2yesini yaz\u0131yor. Yerle\u015fmi\u015f ya da pes etmi\u015f olsayd\u0131m, \u015fimdi burada sizi cesaretlendiriyor olmazd\u0131m. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 bekleyin. Uzun s\u00fcreli bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kal\u0131c\u0131 olarak kabul etmeyin. \u0130nanmaya devam edin ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n her \u015feyi yoluna koymas\u0131n\u0131 izleyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015fmaya haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inan\u0131lmaz Hristiyan bekarlar<\/a> ve inan\u00e7la ileriye do\u011fru ad\u0131m atmak? \u0130ndirin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT Arkada\u015fl\u0131k Uygulamas\u0131<\/a> Bug\u00fcn!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post will help you discern whether you have the gift of singleness from God or whether you&#8217;re just single right now. TL;DR: The Summary Do you have the gift of singleness? Whether it\u2019s just a season or a lifelong calling, remember you\u2019re complete in Jesus Christ first. Check out these signs. 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