{"id":2915,"date":"2025-05-20T13:20:01","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T13:20:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2915"},"modified":"2025-05-20T13:20:03","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T13:20:03","slug":"tanrinin-ortagimi-getirmesini-bekle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/wait-for-god-to-bring-my-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Partnerimi Bana Getirmesini Beklemeli miyim?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131nda, e\u015f bulma konusunda 'Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklemenin' ne anlama geldi\u011fini ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beklemek kolay de\u011fildir, \u00f6zellikle de ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a. Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r otuzuna, k\u0131rk\u0131na, hatta ellisine yakla\u015f\u0131yor ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrde bir e\u015f yok. Bunu anl\u0131yorum ve size umut oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in buraday\u0131m. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklemek neden \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-divine-timing\">\u0130lahi Zamanlama<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/h-true-connection\">Ger\u00e7ek Ba\u011flant\u0131<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-personal-growth\">Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-avoid-heartache\">Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131ndan Ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kula\u011fa basit geliyor ama kolay de\u011fil. Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar \"kanaatk\u00e2r ol\" c\u00fcmlesini duyduklar\u0131nda bile pek \u00e7o\u011fu dudak b\u00fcker. \"Daha ne kadar ho\u015fnut olmam gerekiyor?\" Ya da \"Memnunum ama hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmuyor.\" Sizi anl\u0131yorum ve ben de b\u00f6yle hissetti\u011fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Ama neden b\u00f6yle hissetti\u011fimize bakal\u0131m <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/ask-hayatim-konusunda-tanriya-nasil-guvenebi%cc%87li%cc%87ri%cc%87m\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenmeliyiz<\/a> bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, odalar\u0131m\u0131zda kilitli kalmam\u0131z ve insanlarla hi\u00e7 tan\u0131\u015fmamam\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na m\u0131 geliyor? Hay\u0131r, ama baz\u0131 \u015feyleri olmaya zorlayamay\u0131z. Nedenini ke\u015ffedelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Randevularda kas\u0131tl\u0131 olmak ve Tanr\u0131&#039;n\u0131n hareket etmesine izin vermek | SALT Conversation\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wt7v11LnEd0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n acele etmesi gerekiyor.\" Bir kad\u0131n kocas\u0131n\u0131 beklemekten duydu\u011fu cesareti ve sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade etti\u011finde bir ili\u015fki soru-cevab\u0131n\u0131 dinliyordum. Papaz ve e\u015fi kad\u0131n\u0131n sorusunu nezaketle yan\u0131tlad\u0131lar. Do\u011fru ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Tanr\u0131'ya itaat etmek i\u00e7in elinden geleni yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015fimdiye kadar evlenmi\u015f olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yordu. \u0130kimiz de bunun her zaman b\u00f6yle olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyoruz ve papaz da buna dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'ya O'ndan bir \u015fey almak i\u00e7in itaat etmeyiz. Bizim i\u00e7in zaten yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu \u015feylerden dolay\u0131 O'na itaat ederiz. Evlilik bize vaat edilmemi\u015ftir ve ger\u00e7ekten \"hak etti\u011fimiz\" tek \u015fey cehennem ve Tanr\u0131'dan ayr\u0131lmakt\u0131r. Yine de Tanr\u0131 merhameti ve l\u00fctfuyla bizden kal\u0131c\u0131 olarak ayr\u0131lmak istemedi ve O\u011flu'nu g\u00f6nderdi. Biliyorum, Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklemek kolay de\u011fildir, ama bu O'na g\u00fcvenilemeyece\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki, bu konuda nas\u0131l bir yol izlemeliyiz? E\u015finizi size getirmesi i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklemeli misiniz? Bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r\u0131n yorgun oldu\u011funu ke\u015ffettim. Hi\u00e7bir yere varmayan randevulardan b\u0131km\u0131\u015flar. Hayaletlenmekten yorulmu\u015f hissediyorlar. Birka\u00e7 ay boyunca biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmaktan b\u0131k\u0131yorlar, ancak kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndaki ki\u015fi fikrini de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor ve her \u015feyi bitirip ba\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-divine-timing\"><strong>\u0130lahi Zamanlama<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu her zaman duyuyoruz: \"<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/i%cc%87li%cc%87ski%cc%87leri%cc%87m-i%cc%87ci%cc%87n-tanrinin-zamanlamasina-nasil-guvenebi%cc%87li%cc%87ri%cc%87m\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131na g\u00fcvenin.<\/a>\" Bunu vaazlarda, podcast'lerde, YouTube kanallar\u0131nda ve sosyal medyada duyuyoruz. E\u011fer yeterince uzun s\u00fcre dinlerseniz, evli bir H\u0131ristiyan size Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131na g\u00fcvenmeniz gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyecektir. Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu o kadar s\u0131k s\u00f6yleniyor ki art\u0131k bir kli\u015fe haline gelmi\u015f durumda. \u00c7o\u011fu H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2r bunu duydu\u011funda g\u00f6zlerini devirirse hi\u00e7 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmam. Ancak, Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc'n\u00fcn ne dedi\u011fine bakal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sizin i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m planlar\u0131 biliyorum\" diyor Rab, \"sizi refaha kavu\u015fturacak, size zarar vermeyecek planlar, size umut ve gelecek verecek planlar.\" (Yeremya 29:11, NIV)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musun? <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/i%cc%87nanc-i%cc%87li%cc%87ski%cc%87lerdeki%cc%87-supheleri%cc%87n-ustesi%cc%87nden-geldi%cc%87\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in planlar\u0131 var - iyi planlar<\/a>. Baz\u0131 \u015feyler belirli zamanlarda olur. Acele edemeyiz ve zorlayamay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Benim hikayem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2015'te kocamla tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce dua etti\u011fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Bir ili\u015fkim olmas\u0131n\u0131 o kadar \u00e7ok istiyordum ki kendimi umutsuz hissediyordum. Konu\u015ftu\u011fum ya da ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m her erkekle ili\u015fkim bir anda bitiyordu. Bilmedi\u011fim \u015fey, ayn\u0131 y\u0131l, \u015eubat 2015'te kocam\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 Rab'be teslim etti\u011fiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilisede b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, H\u0131ristiyan y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne tam olarak kendini adamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u015eimdi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kocam\u0131 imanda b\u00fcy\u00fctmek ve olgunla\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in zamana ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. \u0130nsanlara her zaman s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum, daha \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015fsayd\u0131k <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/esit-olmayan-boyunduruk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">e\u015fit olmayan boyunduruk<\/a>. Dedi\u011fim gibi, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131 m\u00fckemmeldir. Bir \u015feyi vaktinden \u00f6nce istiyor olabilirsiniz ve Tanr\u0131 merhametiyle sizin i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey hen\u00fcz haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015fimdilik \"hay\u0131r\" diyor olabilir mi? D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeniz gereken bir \u015fey var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-true-connection\"><strong>Ger\u00e7ek Ba\u011flant\u0131\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ili\u015fkide d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f \u00f6nemli olsa da, zamanla kaybolaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyoruz. Yirmili ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, altm\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda da ayn\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnece\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelmez. Elbette kendinize iyi bakabilirsiniz, ancak i\u00e7inizdekiler de \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130nternet \u00fczerinden tan\u0131\u015fma, insanlar\u0131n do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi bulma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olsa da, \u00e7ok say\u0131da ki\u015fi karakteri de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in gereken \u00f6zeni g\u00f6stermeden d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7ok fazla a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k veriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama Rab Samuel'e, \"Onun g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne ya da boyuna bakma, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben onu reddettim\" dedi. Rab insanlar\u0131n bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylere bakmaz. \u0130nsanlar d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe bakar, ama Rab y\u00fcre\u011fe bakar.\" (1. Samuel 16:7, NIV)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu ki\u015finin mali durumu nas\u0131l? Ailesine ve arkada\u015flar\u0131na sevgiyle yakla\u015f\u0131yor mu? Tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131 insanlara nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorlar? Aran\u0131zda ger\u00e7ek bir ba\u011f olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in bunlar\u0131 bilmeniz gerekir. Size s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum, evlilikte hayat ve d\u00fc\u015fman e\u015finizle aran\u0131zdaki ba\u011f\u0131 yok etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer sahip oldu\u011funuz tek \u015fey \u00f6z\u00fc olmayan y\u00fczeysel ortak noktalarsa, hayat\u0131n f\u0131rt\u0131nalar\u0131 geldi\u011finde ayakta kalamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Bir dostluk kurman\u0131n ve bunun daha da geli\u015fmesine izin vermenin yanl\u0131\u015f bir taraf\u0131 yoktur. \u00c7o\u011fu Hristiyan bek\u00e2r arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n zonlanmas\u0131ndan korkar ama arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n her \u015feyin ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer oldu\u011funu g\u00f6remezler. Tutku harikad\u0131r ama hayat devam eder ve bir evlili\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc tutmak i\u00e7in tutkudan daha fazlas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"775\" height=\"775\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe.jpeg\" alt=\"erkek ve k\u0131z sar\u0131l\u0131yor\" class=\"wp-image-2181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe.jpeg 775w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/ro-ricci-dupe-12x12.jpeg 12w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 775px) 100vw, 775px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-personal-growth\"><strong>Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biliyorum bu da \u00e7o\u011fu H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2r\u0131n duymaktan ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ba\u015fka konu. Her zaman \"bekarl\u0131k, b\u00fcy\u00fcmek ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feye odaklanmak i\u00e7in bir zamand\u0131r\" s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duyar\u0131z. Baz\u0131 Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar bu zaman\u0131 kendi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131rken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 da terapi ve dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yoluyla duygusal yaralar\u0131n\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 \"Kendim \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, daha ne yapmam gerekiyor?\" diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-does-the-work-stop\">\u0130\u015f duracak m\u0131?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlendi\u011finizde \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gereken ba\u015fka bir \u015fey olmadan m\u00fckemmel mi olacaks\u0131n\u0131z? Hay\u0131r, evlilikte de kendiniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gerekecek. Asl\u0131nda, b\u00fcy\u00fcme y\u00fcksek vitese ge\u00e7er \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k e\u015finiz sizi kendinize geri yans\u0131t\u0131r. Sizdeki iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015feyleri g\u00f6stereceklerdir, bu nedenle \u015fimdi bekarken kendiniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n tam zaman\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 bana bunu dua ederken g\u00f6sterdi. 2015'ten bahsetti\u011fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? Yan\u0131t almadan dua etmedim. Tanr\u0131 bana baz\u0131 \u015feyler \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam ve iyile\u015fmem gerekti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6yledi. \u0130yi oldu\u011fumu san\u0131yordum ama Kutsal Ruh katmanlar\u0131m\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131. Utan\u00e7 duydu\u011fum baz\u0131 \u015feyler vard\u0131, ama O'nun sevgi dolu \u015fefkati bana bu \"y\u00fck\u00fc\" gelecekteki evlili\u011fime ta\u015f\u0131mak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2023'te evlendi\u011fimde tamamen olgunla\u015fm\u0131\u015f m\u0131yd\u0131m? Hay\u0131r, ama kocam i\u00e7in \u00e7ok daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve duygusal olarak daha olgun bir yerdeyim. Ona nas\u0131l daha fazla l\u00fctuf ve \u015fefkat g\u00f6sterece\u011fimi biliyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 bana bunu kendime nas\u0131l g\u00f6sterece\u011fimi g\u00f6sterdi. Ben iyile\u015fmekte olan bir m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7iyim ve kocamla tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bunu bana g\u00f6stermesine \u00e7ok sevindim. O \u00f6zg\u00fcn olmakta \u00f6zg\u00fcr \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir zamanlar kendime yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi ona da ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan beklentiler y\u00fcklemiyorum. Bu d\u00f6nemde Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na izin verin. E\u015finiz size te\u015fekk\u00fcr edecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-avoid-heartache\"><strong>Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131ndan Ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha \u00f6nce de belirtti\u011fim gibi, kocamla 2015'te ya da daha \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olsayd\u0131m, bu i\u015f y\u00fcr\u00fcmezdi. Kendini Rab'be tam olarak adamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve ben de incinirdim. Ayr\u0131ca ba\u015fka bir ili\u015fkisi vard\u0131 ve i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e verimli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmesine ra\u011fmen eski k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmaya haz\u0131r de\u011fildi. Sizi bilmem ama ben arada kalmaktan ho\u015flanmam ve se\u00e7ilmeye lay\u0131k oldu\u011fumu kan\u0131tlamaya niyetim yoktu. Bir erke\u011fi beni se\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in ikna etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayacak kadar kendime sayg\u0131m vard\u0131. \u015eimdi, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kalbimi korudu\u011funu biliyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-rejection-is-god-s-protection\">Reddedilme Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n korumas\u0131d\u0131r<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kalbinizi koruyor olmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? Bu ki\u015fiyi istedi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz, ama Tanr\u0131 bu i\u015fin y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyece\u011fini biliyor. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u015fimdi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011framay\u0131 m\u0131 tercih edersiniz, yoksa amac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yava\u015flatmaktan ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe yaramayacak birine kalbinizi kapt\u0131rmay\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hazmetmesi zor olabilir ama \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131z ve amac\u0131n\u0131z Tanr\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlidir ve sizi herhangi birine vermeyecektir. Kalbiniz O'nun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok de\u011ferlidir. \"Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklemeliydim\" ya da \"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n beni uyard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordum ama g\u00f6rmezden geldim\" diyen H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2rlardan ka\u00e7 hik\u00e2ye dinledi\u011fimi size anlatamam. Evet, Tanr\u0131 iyile\u015ftirecek ve onaracakt\u0131r, ancak Kutsal Ruh'un uyar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 dinlersek baz\u0131 \u015feylerin olmas\u0131 gerekmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-follow-peace\">Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 takip edin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne demek istedi\u011fimi anl\u0131yorsunuz. Biriyle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsunuz ama huzurunuz yok. Zorlanm\u0131\u015f hissediyorsunuz. Umutsuzca bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde olmak istiyorsunuz ama i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e onunla bir gelecek g\u00f6remiyorsunuz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in bunu istedi\u011fini ger\u00e7ekten d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz? Gelecekteki e\u015finizle aran\u0131zda bir uyum olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in buraday\u0131m. Bu Tanr\u0131 oldu\u011funda, onu zorlamak zorunda kalmazs\u0131n\u0131z. Nereden mi biliyorum? Ben bunu deneyimliyorum. Kolay m\u0131 peki? Hay\u0131r, ama bir gelgit ve ak\u0131\u015f var ve en \u00f6nemlisi Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n huzuru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sevgi istedi\u011fini biliyorum. Bu her insan\u0131n arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feydir. Ama unutmay\u0131n, ger\u00e7ek sevgi arzunuz yaln\u0131zca \u0130sa Mesih'te yerine gelebilir. Sizi tamamlayacak ba\u015fka birini ar\u0131yorsan\u0131z, do\u011fru ki\u015fiyle bile tatmin olmazs\u0131n\u0131z. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n zamanlamas\u0131na g\u00fcvenebilir misiniz? Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n uzun zamand\u0131r bekledi\u011fini biliyorum. Bir\u00e7o\u011funuz bir randevuya bile \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131, ama bu Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi unuttu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. Siz hasarl\u0131 mal de\u011filsiniz. Sevilmeye de\u011fer birisiniz ve do\u011fru ki\u015fi bunu g\u00f6recektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-compromise\">Uzla\u015fma yok<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yerle\u015fmek istemedi\u011fini biliyorum. Sizinle bir gelecek g\u00f6ren biriyle ger\u00e7ek bir ba\u011f kurmak istiyorsunuz. Onlar sizi se\u00e7iyor ve bu beklemeye de\u011fer. Evet, \u00fczerinize d\u00fc\u015feni yap\u0131n ve kendinizi ortaya koyun, ama unutmay\u0131n, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n kontrol\u00fc yaln\u0131zca Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n elindedir. Bu arada, kendiniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam edin. Her zaman geli\u015febilece\u011fimiz bir \u015feyler vard\u0131r, bu y\u00fczden asla ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyin. Ya Tanr\u0131 \u015fimdi, bir e\u015f ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce t\u00fcm dikkatinizi size vermek istiyorsa? Gelece\u011finiz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilerek ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bu b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc O'na teslim edebilir misiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O'na g\u00fcvenin. Tanr\u0131 kalbinize sizden daha \u00e7ok de\u011fer verir. Yanl\u0131\u015f ki\u015finin onu k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanmas\u0131n\u0131 istemez. Sizce Tanr\u0131 kalbinizin k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 ister mi? Hi\u00e7 de bile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rab kalbi k\u0131r\u0131k olanlara yak\u0131nd\u0131r ve ruhu ezilmi\u015f olanlar\u0131 kurtar\u0131r. (Mezmur 34:18, NIV)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 ezilmenizi istemez, bu y\u00fczden O'nun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ip kalbinizi O'ndan olmayan birine ba\u011flamay\u0131n. Asl\u0131nda Tanr\u0131 evlili\u011finiz arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla insanlar\u0131 \u0130sa'ya geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istiyor. Bu ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fey? A\u015fk hikayenizin insanlar\u0131 M\u00fcjde'ye y\u00f6nlendirebilece\u011fini bilmek. \u00c7o\u011fu H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2r a\u015fk\u0131 bulmaya o kadar odaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bundan nas\u0131l y\u00fccelik elde edebilece\u011fini g\u00f6remezler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-kingdom-marriage\">Krall\u0131k evlili\u011fi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fkiniz Tanr\u0131'ya y\u00fccelik kazand\u0131rabilir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na cesaret verebilir ve krall\u0131k ili\u015fkisini beklemeleri i\u00e7in onlara esin kayna\u011f\u0131 olabilir. \u00d6zellikle de hem d\u00fcnya hem de kilise sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkilere dair umudunu yitirmi\u015fken, yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde bunlardan daha fazlas\u0131na ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. Umudunuzu kaybetmemeniz i\u00e7in dua ediyorum. Vazge\u00e7meyin ve Tanr\u0131'ya inanmaya devam edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mesih merkezli ili\u015fki<\/a>? SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 \u015fimdi indirin ve <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ger\u00e7ek Hristiyan bekarlarla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurun<\/a> Bug\u00fcn!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the blog post, we explore what it means to &#8216;wait on God&#8217; when it comes to finding a spouse. TL;DR: The Summary Waiting is not easy, especially as you get older. Many Christian singles are approaching thirty, forty, or even fifty, with no spouse in sight. 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