{"id":2910,"date":"2025-05-15T10:27:58","date_gmt":"2025-05-15T10:27:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2910"},"modified":"2025-05-15T10:27:59","modified_gmt":"2025-05-15T10:27:59","slug":"esit-olmayan-boyunduruk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/unequally-yoked\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015fit Olmayan Boyunduruk: Ruhen Uyumsuz Oldu\u011funuza Dair 5 \u0130\u015faret"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\"E\u015fit olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nereden bilece\u011fim?\" E\u011fer bu soruyu soruyorsan\u0131z, ili\u015fkinizde bir gerginlik hissediyor olabilirsiniz. Bu yaz\u0131da, partnerinizle ruhsal olarak uyumsuz olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan i\u015faretleri inceleyece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR:\u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015fit olmayan bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirlemenin baz\u0131 pratik yollar\u0131 nelerdir? \u0130\u015fte birka\u00e7\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-faith-priorities-don-t-match\">\u0130nan\u00e7 \u00f6ncelikleri uyu\u015fmuyor<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-church-conflict-or-worship\">Kilise ibadeti veya \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-differing-moral-compass\">Farkl\u0131 ahlaki pusula<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-lack-of-respect-for-your-beliefs\">\u0130nan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131za sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmemesi<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-negative-influences-on-your-faith\">\u0130nanc\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczerindeki olumsuz etkiler<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu kapsaml\u0131 bir liste de\u011fildir, ancak nerede durdu\u011funuzu de\u011ferlendirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak iyi bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 noktas\u0131d\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n, Tanr\u0131 ili\u015fkileriniz de dahil olmak \u00fczere sizin i\u00e7in en iyisini ister. Bir keresinde bir past\u00f6r\u00fcn \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini duymu\u015ftum: \"Tanr\u0131 sizi kendisinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131ran biriyle kutsamayacakt\u0131r.\" Bu sizin i\u015faretiniz olsun. Sizi \u0130sa'ya yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlar m\u0131, yoksa yakla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yorlar m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"5 E\u015fit Olmayan \u015eekilde Boyunduruk Alt\u0131nda Oldu\u011funuzu G\u00f6steren \u0130\u015faretler #shorts\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/80EvM2f5yNs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-a-non-christian\">Hristiyan Olmayan Biriyle \u00c7\u0131kmak<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hristiyan bekarlar\u0131n ka\u00e7 kez, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n bir erkekle evlenmesinin do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordu\u011funu duydum, sayam\u0131yorum. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yanlar-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yan-olmayanlarla-cikabi%cc%87li%cc%87r-mi%cc%87\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyan inanc\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak<\/a>. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n di\u011fer ki\u015fiyi Mesih'e g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilece\u011fine inan\u0131r. Tanr\u0131 kesinlikle sizin arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla sevgilinizi Kendisine yakla\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir, ancak bu bir norm de\u011fildir; bunlar istisnad\u0131r. Hatta tam da bu senaryoda bir kad\u0131nla evlenen bir past\u00f6r\u00fcn tan\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dinledim. Onun durumunda, Rab kad\u0131n\u0131 ilk bulu\u015fmalar\u0131ndan sonraki gece kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin Rab'bi tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilerek bir ili\u015fkiye girmek ak\u0131ll\u0131ca de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-but-they-re-christian\">Ama onlar Hristiyan.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu bir ad\u0131m daha ileri g\u00f6t\u00fcrece\u011fim: H\u0131ristiyanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul eden biriyle e\u015fit olmayan bir \u015fekilde boyunduruk alt\u0131na girebilirsiniz. Nas\u0131l? Bedensel olabilirler. \u0130sa fikrini severler ve hatta kiliseye bile gidebilirler, ama yine de hayat\u0131 kendi \u015fartlar\u0131na g\u00f6re ya\u015farlar. H\u0131ristiyan erkeklerle tan\u0131\u015fan, ancak ili\u015fkinin ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerinde seks teklifleri alan kad\u0131nlardan y\u00fcrek par\u00e7alay\u0131c\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler dinledim. Bahaneleri ne? \"\u0130sa'y\u0131 seviyorum ama O ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m oldu\u011funu biliyor ve beni anl\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131ca, biz l\u00fctuf alt\u0131nday\u0131z, bu y\u00fczden Tanr\u0131 bizi affedecektir.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu nas\u0131l bir yorum b\u00f6yle? E\u011fer Rab'bi ger\u00e7ekten sevmi\u015f olsalard\u0131, sizi yoldan \u00e7\u0131karmazlard\u0131. E\u015finiz sizi \u0130sa'ya yakla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 arzulamal\u0131d\u0131r. Hatalar\u0131 i\u00e7in t\u00f6vbe edecekler ve ya\u015famlar\u0131nda Ruh'un meyvesini g\u00f6receksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peki, e\u015fitsiz boyunduruk alt\u0131nda olabilece\u011finizi g\u00f6steren i\u015faretler nelerdir? Bunlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda ili\u015fkinizde huzur eksikli\u011fi gelir. Derin bir huzursuzluk hissedersiniz ve ne kadar u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rsan\u0131z u\u011fra\u015f\u0131n bunu \u00fczerinizden atamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Bunu g\u00f6rmezden gelmeyin. Bu Kutsal Ruh'un sizi uzakla\u015fman\u0131z i\u00e7in uyarmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu o ki\u015finin k\u00f6t\u00fc oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi olmayabilir. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, bir\u00e7ok Hristiyan bekar bu uyar\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geliyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc yaln\u0131z kalmaktan korkuyor ve yeni biriyle yeniden ba\u015flamak istemiyorlar. E\u015fit olmayan bir \u015fekilde boyunduruk alt\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6steren a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki i\u015faretler g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-faith-priorities-don-t-match\">\u0130nan\u00e7 \u00f6ncelikleri uyu\u015fmuyor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u0131ristiyanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak a\u00e7\u0131k bir uyumsuzluk olsa da, \u0130sa'y\u0131 kabul eden ancak O'nun \u00f6\u011fretilerine g\u00f6re ya\u015famayan biriyle de uyumsuz olabilece\u011finizi anlamak \u00f6nemlidir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, t\u00fcm kararlar\u0131n\u0131zda Rab'bin rehberli\u011fini arayabilirsiniz. Oru\u00e7 tutar, dua eder ve tanr\u0131sal \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Rab olmadan bir yere gitmeyi reddedersiniz, ancak \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi Tanr\u0131'ya ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6ncelik vermeyebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kiliseye gittiklerini ama yine de k\u00fcfretmenin sorun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerini hayal edin. Krall\u0131kta bir e\u015f istediklerini iddia ediyorlar ama \"Tanr\u0131 d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimi ve seks yapma ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131 anl\u0131yor. Daha sonra t\u00f6vbe ederim.\" Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 sevdiklerini s\u00f6ylemelerine ra\u011fmen, Tanr\u0131 sonradan akla gelen bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-man-after-god-s-heart\">Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcndeki adam m\u0131?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Yuhanna 14:15'te \u0130sa \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Beni seviyorsan\u0131z, buyruklar\u0131m\u0131 yerine getirin.\" Yine Luka 6:46'da, \"Ama neden Bana \"Rab, Rab\" diyorsunuz da s\u00f6ylediklerimi yapm\u0131yorsunuz?\" diye sorar. Evini kaya \u00fczerine kuran bir ki\u015fi ile kum \u00fczerine kuran bir ki\u015fi aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamaya devam eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"\u00dc\u00e7 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Domuzcuk\" hikayesini hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? \u00c7ocukken en sevdiklerimden biriydi. Bildi\u011finiz gibi, ilk iki domuz evlerini saman ve tahtadan in\u015fa etmi\u015flerdi. Kurt geldi\u011finde evlerini yerle bir etmi\u015f. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc domuzun evine ula\u015fana kadar e\u015fiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131\u015f. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc domuz evini tu\u011flalarla in\u015fa etmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u011fer ger\u00e7ekten Rab'le birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, evinizi kayan\u0131n \u00fczerine in\u015fa ediyorsunuz demektir. Bu \u015fekilde, ya\u015fam\u0131n f\u0131rt\u0131nalar\u0131 geldi\u011finde y\u0131k\u0131lmazs\u0131n\u0131z. Ancak evini kum \u00fczerine in\u015fa edenler kolayca y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131p giderler. K\u00f6kleri yoktur ve bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kayg\u0131lar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sallan\u0131rlar. B\u00f6yle biriyle mi evlenmek istiyorsunuz? Temeli olmayan, d\u00fcnya taraf\u0131ndan kolayca y\u00f6nlendirilen biriyle mi? Hi\u00e7 sanm\u0131yorum. Unutmay\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015fman evlili\u011finize sald\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-spiritual-partner\">Ruhani bir ortak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eeytani olana kar\u015f\u0131 sizinle birlikte sava\u015facak bir e\u015f istiyorsunuz. Evet, evlili\u011finizde e\u011flence ve romantizm olacakt\u0131r ama unutmay\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015fman anla\u015fmadan nefret eder. Adil bir \u015fekilde sava\u015fmaz ve her ikinize de sald\u0131r\u0131r. Instagram'da bir kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir meme g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Kad\u0131n gelinli\u011fini, erkek de smokinini giymi\u015fti. S\u0131rt s\u0131rta durmu\u015flard\u0131 ama bir kilisede de\u011fil, bir sava\u015f alan\u0131nda. \u0130kisinin de elinde sava\u015fmaya haz\u0131r k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 ve kalkanlar vard\u0131. Ba\u015fl\u0131kta \u015f\u00f6yle yaz\u0131yordu: \"E\u015finizi sadece sevimli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in se\u00e7meyin. Birlikte Ruh'ta sava\u015fa girebilece\u011finiz birini se\u00e7in.\" Biri \"mikrofon d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\" diyebilir mi? \u0130stedi\u011finiz \u015fey bu. Aksi takdirde evlili\u011finizde kaybedeceksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\u00e7ift\" class=\"wp-image-2731\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-1536x1023.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/A2-1-1.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-church-conflict-or-worship\">Kilise \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 veya ibadet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunun ilk maddeyle ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum ama daha derine inelim. Baz\u0131 H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131n kiliseye gitmediklerini s\u00f6ylediklerini duydum. \u00c7o\u011fu i\u00e7in bu, kat\u0131 dindar bir evde b\u00fcy\u00fcmekten ya da kiliseden zarar g\u00f6rmekten kaynaklan\u0131yor. Her iki durumda da, Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 sevdiklerini iddia ediyorlar ama sonu\u00e7ta O'nun bedenini reddediyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn: \u0130sa'y\u0131 seviyorsunuz ama bedenini reddediyorsunuz. O'nu seviyorsunuz ama kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sevmiyorsunuz. Unutmay\u0131n, kilise Mesih'in gelinidir. Hatalar yapar m\u0131? Yap\u0131yor. Ama \u0130sa onu seviyor ve onun i\u00e7in can\u0131n\u0131 verdi. Kilise bazen O'nu yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile fikrini de\u011fi\u015ftirmez. Bunun yerine ona ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, merhametini ve l\u00fctfunu g\u00f6stermeye devam eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kilise ve topluluk arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla Tanr\u0131'yla ili\u015fkinizi geli\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ancak sevgiliniz bunu engelliyorsa, e\u015fitsiz boyunduruk alt\u0131ndas\u0131n\u0131z demektir. Kat\u0131lmamak i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli nedenleri olabilir, ancak bu Kutsal Kitap'a uygun de\u011fildir. \u0130braniler 10:25 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi bir araya gelmekten vazge\u00e7meyin, birbirinize \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verin; G\u00fcn'\u00fcn yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e daha da \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verin.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-we-can-t-do-it-alone\">Bunu tek ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za yapamay\u0131z<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6zellikle \u0130sa'n\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc bekledi\u011fimiz bu son g\u00fcnlerde toplulu\u011fa ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. Topluluk sadece cesaretlendirmekle kalmaz, ayn\u0131 zamanda hesap verebilirlik de sa\u011flar. \u00c7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi kiliseyi reddederse, onu kim sorumlu tutar? \"Kutsal Ruh beni ikna ediyor\" diyebilirler ve bu do\u011fru olsa da, tek ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za ya\u015famaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lmad\u0131k. Bu, kilisedeki herkesle yak\u0131n olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak Tanr\u0131 bizi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ya\u015famda birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcyece\u011fimiz ve ger\u00e7e\u011fi sevgiyle s\u00f6yleyece\u011fimiz \u00f6zel bir yak\u0131n \u00e7evreyle kutsar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130sa'n\u0131n bile bir yak\u0131n \u00e7evresi vard\u0131-Peter, Yakup ve Yuhanna. Kendisini takip etmeleri ve O'ndan bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frenmeleri i\u00e7in on iki \u00f6\u011frencisini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Tanr\u0131 olmas\u0131na ve hizmetini tek ba\u015f\u0131na yapabilecek olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da dahil etmeyi se\u00e7ti ve onlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla kilise do\u011fdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kiliseyi reddeden birinden hemen ayr\u0131lman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemiyorum. Dua edebilir ve Tanr\u0131'dan kalplerini yumu\u015fatmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyebilirsiniz. Ancak, de\u011fi\u015fmeyi reddediyorsa ve farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nlere gitti\u011finiz i\u00e7in onunla bir gelecek g\u00f6remiyorsan\u0131z, yolunuza devam etmenin zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir. Zor oldu\u011funu biliyorum, ama hangisi daha \u00f6nemli - Tanr\u0131'ya itaat etmek mi yoksa kalbinizin sesini dinlemek mi? D\u00fcnya bize \"y\u00fcre\u011finizin sesini dinleyin\" der ama Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar bize y\u00fcre\u011fin aldat\u0131c\u0131 olabilece\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bunun yerine, y\u00fcre\u011fimizi Kutsal Ruh'un y\u00f6nlendirmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-differing-moral-compass\">Farkl\u0131 ahlaki pusula<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u011ferler ve ahlak, ili\u015fkilerde \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-money\">Para<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu ki\u015fi mali durumu nas\u0131l idare ediyor? Zengin olmak zorunda m\u0131? Hay\u0131r, ancak pervas\u0131z harcama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 ve k\u00f6t\u00fc finansal kararlar\u0131 varsa, bu bir sorun olabilir, \u00f6zellikle de emeklili\u011finiz i\u00e7in birikim yapmay\u0131 planl\u0131yorsan\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-relationships\">\u0130li\u015fkiler<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ebeveynlerine ve akrabalar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyuyorlar m\u0131? Her aile dinami\u011fi farkl\u0131d\u0131r, ancak s\u00fcrekli olarak babalar\u0131ndan nefret ettiklerinden veya annelerine katlanamad\u0131klar\u0131ndan bahsediyorlarsa, bu endi\u015fe vericidir. E\u011fer bu \u00f6fke ile ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmazsa, kendinizi hedef tahtas\u0131nda bulursunuz. Affetmeye inanm\u0131yorlarsa, ama siz Kutsal Kitap'\u0131n bize affetmeyi \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fini biliyorsan\u0131z, duygular\u0131n\u0131 Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n S\u00f6z\u00fc'nden \u00fcst\u00fcn tutuyor olabilirler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-can-t-change-them\">Onlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Evet, onlar i\u00e7in dua edebilirsiniz ama sonu\u00e7ta onlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsiniz; bu Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n i\u015fidir. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, Hristiyan bek\u00e2rlar genellikle \"Tanr\u0131'ya yard\u0131m edebileceklerini\" d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme hatas\u0131na d\u00fc\u015ferler. E\u011fer Tanr\u0131 sizi yard\u0131m etmeye y\u00f6nlendirirse, bu farkl\u0131 bir \u015feydir, ancak \u00e7o\u011fumuz bu rol\u00fc \u00fcstlenme e\u011filimindeyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kocamla tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce konu\u015ftu\u011fum bir adam\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Koruyucu aile yan\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc ve bir\u00e7ok duygusal yara ta\u015f\u0131yordu. Ona yard\u0131m etti\u011fimi ve onu cesaretlendirdi\u011fimi san\u0131yordum, ama dibe do\u011fru gitti\u011finin fark\u0131nda de\u011fildim. Bir gece beni arad\u0131 ve b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itiraf etti. Tanr\u0131'yla g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ba\u011f kurduktan sonra, tekrar dinden d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 payla\u015fmad\u0131 ama ruhumda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin ciddi ve yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu hissettim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131 bana bu adam\u0131n bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 haline geldi\u011fimi g\u00f6sterdi. Uzakla\u015fmak zordu ama Tanr\u0131 bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a belirtti: \"Onun Bana gelmesi gerekiyor, sana de\u011fil.\" Tanr\u0131 bana onun telefonlar\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmamam\u0131 bile s\u00f6yledi. Ona kar\u015f\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 bir \u015feyler hissetmeme ra\u011fmen bunu yapt\u0131m. O bir H\u0131ristiyan m\u0131yd\u0131? Oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi ama de\u011ferlerimiz uyu\u015fmuyordu. De\u011ferlerinizden \u00f6d\u00fcn vermeyin. Karakter \u00f6nemlidir ve uzun vadede \u00f6nemli olan bir ki\u015finin kalbinde ne oldu\u011fudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-respect-for-your-beliefs\">\u0130nan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131za sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmemesi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir adam\u0131n bana \"\u00c7ok fazla \u015fey istiyorsun\" ve \"Standartlar\u0131n \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek\" dedi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Seks i\u00e7in evlenene kadar beklemek istedi\u011fimi biliyordum ama o ayn\u0131 fikirde de\u011fildi. Bu konu\u015fmadan sonra ili\u015fkimiz fazla uzun s\u00fcrmedi. Ne yaz\u0131k ki pek \u00e7ok Hristiyan bek\u00e2r, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildikleri ili\u015fkilerden uzakla\u015fmaktan korkuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neden? Yeniden ba\u015flamak istemiyorlar. Bu ki\u015fiyi tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in bir ya da iki y\u0131l harcad\u0131lar ve neredeyse k\u0131rk ya\u015f\u0131nda olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in, yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n sadece evlilik olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 uzataca\u011f\u0131ndan korkuyorlar. Bu t\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin temelinde korku oldu\u011funu g\u00f6remiyor musunuz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. Timoteos 1:7 \u015f\u00f6yle der: \"\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 bize korku ruhu de\u011fil, g\u00fc\u00e7, sevgi ve sa\u011flam bir ak\u0131l vermi\u015ftir.\" \u0130li\u015fki kararlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korkuya dayal\u0131 olarak veriyorsan\u0131z, tehlikeli bir yerdesiniz demektir. Tanr\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve y\u00fcre\u011finizin arzular\u0131n\u0131 bilir. Tanr\u0131 neden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 daha gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta, baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ise daha ge\u00e7 ya\u015fta evlendiriyor? Bilmiyorum ama konu\u015ftu\u011fum k\u0131rk\u0131ndan sonra evlenen insanlar\u0131n hepsi \"Bekledi\u011fime de\u011fdi\" diyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131za ve kanaatlerinize sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermiyorsa, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/ayrilmaniz-gerekti%cc%87gi%cc%87ni%cc%87n-i%cc%87saretleri%cc%87\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00e7ekip gitme zaman\u0131<\/a>. Fikirlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyeceksiniz ve onlar\u0131 sevilmeye de\u011fer oldu\u011funuza ikna etmek zorunda kalmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Sizin de\u011ferinizi ve k\u0131ymetinizi hemen anlayacaklard\u0131r. Sizi Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi g\u00f6recekler ve sizinle birlikte olmak isteyeceklerdir. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/partner-degerlerden-odun-vermeleri-icin-baski-yapar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00d6d\u00fcn vermeyin<\/a> S\u0131rf biriyle birlikte olmak i\u00e7in. Pi\u015fman olursun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-negative-influences-on-your-faith\">\u0130nanc\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczerindeki olumsuz etkiler\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>San\u0131r\u0131m bu son noktayla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131: E\u011fer ili\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in \u00f6d\u00fcn veriyorsan\u0131z, k\u00f6t\u00fc bir yerdesiniz demektir. Bunu nas\u0131l anlayabilirsiniz? Benim en \u00f6nemli sorum \u015fu: Sizi \u0130sa'ya yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlar m\u0131? Past\u00f6r Sarah Jakes Roberts'\u0131n, kocas\u0131na a\u015f\u0131k olman\u0131n onu Rab'be yakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Bunu ilk kez bekar bir kad\u0131n olarak duymu\u015ftum ve \u015fimdi evli oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in bunu daha iyi anl\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-inspiration\">\u0130lham kayna\u011f\u0131<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kocam genellikle sabahlar\u0131 ilk kalkan ki\u015fidir. Okumak, ibadet etmek ve dua etmek i\u00e7in sabah 5 gibi (hatta daha erken) kalkar. Ben pek sabah insan\u0131 de\u011filimdir ama onun \u0130sa ile vakit ge\u00e7irme konusundaki niyetini g\u00f6rmek bana ilham veriyor. Daha \u00f6nce niyetli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan de\u011fil ve hay\u0131r, e\u015fimizin y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc taklit etmemiz gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak daha bilin\u00e7li olmaya karar verdim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sessiz zaman\u0131m\u0131 aceleye getirme e\u011filimindeyim. Bunu bilerek yapm\u0131yorum - beynim g\u00fcn\u00fcn yap\u0131lacaklar listesiyle dolup ta\u015f\u0131yor. Kocam\u0131 izlemek beni yava\u015flamaya ve Tanr\u0131'yla ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim o de\u011ferli zaman\u0131n k\u0131ymetini bilmeye zorluyor. Ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki, o zaman\u0131 ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00fcn\u00fcm daha sorunsuz ge\u00e7iyor ve \u00e7ok daha \u00fcretken oluyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin hayat\u0131na bak\u0131p \u0130sa'yla olan y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnden ilham alabiliyor musunuz? Yoksa onlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan beri yoldan m\u0131 sapt\u0131n\u0131z? Spontane bir Pazar randevusu \u00f6nerdikleri i\u00e7in kiliseyi ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? \u0130ncil \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda ne \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finizden her bahsetti\u011finizde konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftiriyorlar m\u0131? Onlarla \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan beri Tanr\u0131'ya daha m\u0131 yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z? E\u011fer bu sorulara olumlu yan\u0131t veremiyorsan\u0131z, e\u015fit boyunduruk alt\u0131nda de\u011filsiniz demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek bir krall\u0131k e\u015fini bulmak imk\u00e2ns\u0131z gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir, ama onlar vard\u0131r. \u0130sa'y\u0131 seven ve O'nu ya\u015famlar\u0131nda ilk s\u0131raya koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insanlar vard\u0131r. Bayanlar, do\u011fru erke\u011fi bulmaktan vazge\u00e7meyin ve erkekler de do\u011fru kad\u0131n\u0131 bulmaktan vazge\u00e7meyin. Tanr\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015finin kim oldu\u011funu bilir ve onu bulmak i\u00e7in standartlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeniz gerekmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bulu\u015fmaya haz\u0131r <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">krall\u0131k d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bekarlar<\/a>? SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn indirin ve<a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Muhte\u015fem Hristiyanlarla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurun<\/a>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHow do I know that we\u2019re unequally yoked?\u201d If you\u2019re asking this question, it\u2019s possible you\u2019re feeling some tension in your relationship. In this post, we&#8217;ll be exploring the signs that reveal if you&#8217;re spiritually incompatible with your partner. TL;DR:The Summary What are some practical ways to determine if you\u2019re in an unequally yoked relationship? 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