{"id":2879,"date":"2025-04-10T11:28:46","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:28:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2879"},"modified":"2025-04-10T11:28:48","modified_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:28:48","slug":"uzun-mesafe-flort","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/dating-long-distance\/","title":{"rendered":"Uzun Mesafe Fl\u00f6rtleri: Hristiyanlar Bunu Yapmak \u0130ster mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Bence Tanr\u0131 kaderinizde \u00f6zel biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak varsa, mesafe bir engel te\u015fkil etmeyecektir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Maggy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her zaman \u00e7ekilmez oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmd\u00fcr.  Biraz tuhaf\u0131m, biraz sosyal olarak beceriksiz olabilirim, ama as\u0131l sorun \u015fu ki, bir nedenden dolay\u0131 \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumdan beri beynimde yeterince iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve hi\u00e7bir k\u0131z\u0131n benden ho\u015flanmayaca\u011f\u0131na dair bir solucan vard\u0131.  Hi\u00e7bir terapi neden b\u00f6yle hissetti\u011fimi tam olarak a\u00e7\u0131klayamad\u0131 ama ben hissettim.  Ve bu do\u011fru bile de\u011fildi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilgi g\u00f6steren pek \u00e7ok kad\u0131n vard\u0131 - ama ben asla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermedim, muhtemelen benden ho\u015flan\u0131yorlarsa, onlarda bir sorun olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n e\u015fi bana ger\u00e7ekten ho\u015flanabilece\u011fim bir arkada\u015f\u0131yla ilgilendi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi\u011finde \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m.  Onun karar\u0131na g\u00fcvendim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc beni ve ne arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten biliyordu.  Arkada\u015f\u0131 zekiydi, \u00e7ok sevimliydi, \u0130sa'y\u0131 seviyordu, hem\u015fire olarak iyi bir i\u015fi vard\u0131, politik olarak benimle uyumluydu (sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan daha zor bir ba\u015far\u0131!) ve arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bildi\u011fim do\u011fru ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerine sahipti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tek sorun neydi?  Kansas City, Missouri'de ya\u015f\u0131yordu - Boise, Idaho'daki benden 4 saatlik bir u\u00e7ak yolculu\u011fu (ya da 20 saatlik bir araba yolculu\u011fu) uzakta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-worth-the-risk\">Risk almaya de\u011fer mi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Asl\u0131nda uzun mesafeli ili\u015fkileri tercih ediyorum. Uzla\u015fmac\u0131 durumlardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor, ayr\u0131ca y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden \u00f6nce birini ger\u00e7ekten daha derin bir d\u00fczeyde tan\u0131ma fikrini seviyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Abigail<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk ba\u015fta ben de kabul ettim.  Onunla y\u0131llar \u00f6nce bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ama hi\u00e7 sohbet etmemi\u015ftik, bu y\u00fczden nas\u0131l gidece\u011fini bilmiyordum.  Madem tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k ve hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, neden bu sefer farkl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm ki?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boise'deki arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 ziyarete geldi\u011finde, onunla tan\u0131\u015fmak ve bir k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in heyecanland\u0131m.  Hep birlikte yeme\u011fe \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k ve birka\u00e7 kez onunla sohbet etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ancak bana sadece tek kelimelik cevaplar verdi veya beni tamamen g\u00f6rmezden geldi, bunun yerine sadece arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla sohbet etti.  \u0130lk izlenimlerim pek iyi de\u011fildi ve tabii ki bunu \u00e7ok ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lad\u0131m.  Arkada\u015f\u0131ma bunu sordum ve o da \"evet bana ilgilendi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi...\" dedi ki bu beni \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtt\u0131.  Ben de bir kez daha deneyeyim dedim - belki de sadece utanga\u00e7t\u0131 ve benim de bir kad\u0131ndan \"ilgi \"nin nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne dair hi\u00e7bir fikrim yoktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Bence her \u015fey, uzun mesafeli bir ili\u015fkiyi y\u00fcr\u00fctmek i\u00e7in her bir ki\u015finin \u00e7aba ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00fczeyine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Vanesa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-worth-the-effort\">\u00c7abaya de\u011fer mi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hepimiz ikinci kez bulu\u015ftuk ve sonunda onun z\u0131rh\u0131n\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131m.  Asl\u0131nda olduk\u00e7a tatl\u0131yd\u0131 ve arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n onun hakk\u0131nda do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yledi\u011fini anlayabiliyordum. Arkada\u015f\u0131m bana s\u00f6ylemeseydi onunla ilgilendi\u011fini nereden bilebilirdim ki?  Hayat\u0131ma devam etmeye haz\u0131rd\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben de numaras\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131m ve konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k.  Me\u011fer daha \u00f6nce mesafenin i\u015fe yaramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in so\u011fuk davran\u0131yormu\u015f.  Bu daha mant\u0131kl\u0131yd\u0131, ama benim i\u00e7in neden uzun mesafe oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemiyordum, bu y\u00fczden \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k (mesaj ve Facetime aramalar\u0131yla \"\u00e7\u0131kabildi\u011finiz\" kadar).  Sonunda ona k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131m olmas\u0131n\u0131 teklif ettim.  Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istedi, ben de Kansas City'ye bir bilet ay\u0131rtt\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Uzun mesafeli bir ili\u015fkiye a\u00e7\u0131k olurum, ancak sonunda aradaki mesafeyi kapatmam\u0131z gerekir. Benim b\u00f6lgemde ya\u015fayan veya ya\u015fayacak birini tercih ederim.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Aya<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk ziyaret \u00e7ok garipti.  Daha \u00f6nce ger\u00e7ek bir ili\u015fkim olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 - ne yapmam gerekti\u011fini bilmiyordum.  Birlikte oldu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in onu hemen \u00f6pmeli miydim yoksa eve gidene kadar beklemeli miydim?  Daha \u00f6nce mesajla\u015farak konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ne vard\u0131 ki?  S\u00fcrekli birbirimizi \u00f6zl\u00fcyormu\u015fuz ve ba\u011flant\u0131 kuram\u0131yormu\u015fuz gibi hissediyordum.  Belki de biraz daha zaman tan\u0131mam gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Uzun mesafe yapmal\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?  Duruma g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmaya istekli misiniz?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Eric<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yine de deniyordum.  Ama kolay de\u011fildi.  Ben Netflix'te komik bir \u015feyler izlemek isterken, o sa\u011fl\u0131kla ilgili belgeseller izlemek istiyordu.  S\u00f6yledi\u011fim hi\u00e7bir \u015fey onu g\u00fcld\u00fcrmedi ve sadece g\u00f6zlerini ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131.  \u0130lk gece hal\u0131s\u0131na k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u015farap d\u00f6kt\u00fcm ve bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7\u0131karamad\u0131k.  Kansas City \u00e7ok r\u00fczgarl\u0131yd\u0131 ve bundan nefret ediyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 a\u015fmaya kararl\u0131yd\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc uzun mesafeden \u00e7ok iyi ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-it-going\">Devam et.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde mesajla\u015fmam\u0131z \u00e7ok daha ciddi bir hal ald\u0131.  O benden daha fazla sohbet etmek istiyordu.  Ayr\u0131ca, gelecek planlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n uyu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan endi\u015feleniyordu (hemen evlenmek ve \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak istiyordu).  Kansas City'ye ta\u015f\u0131nmam\u0131 istiyordu.  Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye dayanamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>E\u011fer bu Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131ysa, o mesafeyi kapatman\u0131z i\u00e7in size kap\u0131lar a\u00e7acakt\u0131r.  De\u011filse, mesafe ya da ba\u015fka bir \u015fey bu i\u015fin y\u00fcr\u00fcmemesine neden olacakt\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca her iki taraf\u0131n da ta\u015f\u0131nmaya muktedir ve istekli olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum ki bu da ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Adam<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunun Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten kendimi alam\u0131yordum.  Ama hen\u00fcz kap\u0131y\u0131 kapatmak istemiyordum, ne de olsa elde edebilece\u011fimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm en g\u00fczel ve en ak\u0131ll\u0131 k\u0131zd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oraya son gidi\u015fimde benden ayr\u0131ld\u0131.  O gece kanepede pek uyuyamad\u0131m.  Eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde ona irtibatta kalaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yledim, ama bir daha aram\u0131zda ge\u00e7en tek kelime e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 geri g\u00f6ndermemi istemesiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 o kadar da \u00fcz\u00fclmedim, her \u015feyden \u00e7ok egoma bir darbe oldu.  Pahal\u0131 bir zaman kayb\u0131yd\u0131, ama en az\u0131ndan bana uzun mesafeli ili\u015fkilerin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 ve hatta daha da fazlas\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru hissetti\u011fim birini beklemeyi g\u00f6sterdi.  Ve \u015fimdi, beni anlayan ve uyum sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m inan\u0131lmaz bir kad\u0131nla 3 y\u0131ld\u0131r evli biri olarak, y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in mutluyum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-salt-social\">SALT Sosyal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu gibi sohbetler, giderek yaln\u0131zla\u015fan bir d\u00fcnyada ba\u011flant\u0131da hissetmemize ger\u00e7ekten yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.  Gelin, SALT uygulamas\u0131nda yerle\u015fik bir topluluk ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 olan SOCIAL'da bekar Hristiyanlardan olu\u015fan canl\u0131 bir toplulukla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurun!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>SOCIAL, kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n hayat\u0131 birlikte payla\u015fmakla ilgili e\u011flenceli, ilgi \u00e7ekici bir platformda ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in gidilecek yerdir.  \u0130li\u015fki tavsiyesi isteyin, bir ibadet \u015fark\u0131s\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131n veya en sevdi\u011finiz kahve mekan\u0131n\u0131n foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 yay\u0131nlay\u0131n.  Ve kim bilir, belki de&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">harika biriyle tan\u0131\u015f<\/a>&nbsp;Yol boyunca!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn SOCIAL'da sohbete kat\u0131l\u0131n! 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