{"id":2870,"date":"2025-03-26T14:05:19","date_gmt":"2025-03-26T14:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2870"},"modified":"2025-03-26T14:05:21","modified_gmt":"2025-03-26T14:05:21","slug":"bekar-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yanlari-bulmak-i%cc%87ci%cc%87n-ki%cc%87li%cc%87seleri%cc%87-tasiyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/move-churches-to-find-single-christians\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekar Hristiyanlar Bulmak \u0130\u00e7in Kilise De\u011fi\u015ftirmeli miyim?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilise al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finden korkuyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc \u00f6\u011frenciyken oldu. Yeni bir \u015fehirde ve tek ba\u015f\u0131ma 'evim' diyebilece\u011fim yeni bir kilise bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130badet \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131nda \u015f\u00fcpheli s\u00f6zlerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m, tamamen yanl\u0131\u015f k\u0131yafet se\u00e7imleriyle geldim, sunu taba\u011f\u0131 dola\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rken ayin durma noktas\u0131na geldi\u011finde i\u00e7imden \u00f6lmek istedim ve \u00f6\u011frenci bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kilisenin bulundu\u011fu yerden \u015fehrin di\u011fer taraf\u0131nda oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her hafta ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7abalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hissediyordum, uyum sa\u011flayabilece\u011fimi ve Tanr\u0131 ile ba\u011flant\u0131 kurabilece\u011fimi hissetti\u011fim bir kilise ar\u0131yordum. Ama bu ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmiyordu ve ben de sinirleniyordum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6yle ki, kendime bunu asla yapmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6ylememe ra\u011fmen ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m yerden bir saat uzakl\u0131ktaki bir ak\u015fam ayinine \u00f6fkeyle gittim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve her \u015fey yerli yerine oturdu. En sevdi\u011fim ibadet \u015fark\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nd\u0131. Baz\u0131 dost canl\u0131s\u0131 insanlarla konu\u015ftum. Bana bedava \u00e7\u00f6rek verdiler. \u00d6\u011fretiden ilham ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ve meydan okundu\u011funu hissettim. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bana buran\u0131n do\u011fru yer oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011fini biliyordum.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve eve d\u00f6nerken d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Belki kocamla burada tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilise al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi \/ kilise 'atlama' d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinde, bir\u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan bekar, bulunduklar\u0131 kilisede di\u011fer bekar insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p tan\u0131\u015fmayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 merak ediyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve bekar bir H\u0131ristiyan i\u00e7in kilisedeyken ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 mant\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Bu insanlardan hi\u00e7biriyle \u00e7\u0131kamam.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu bize \u015fu soruyu getiriyor: Pazar s\u0131ralar\u0131nda uygun bir e\u015f bulunamazsa, alternatif kilise se\u00e7eneklerini de\u011ferlendirmeye ba\u015flamak mant\u0131kl\u0131 m\u0131? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc nas\u0131l bir e\u015f bulabiliriz, de\u011fil mi?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu soruyu biraz daha derinlemesine inceleyelim, bence bekar olan bir\u00e7ok Chrisitan erkek ve kad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ama belki de y\u00fcksek sesle s\u00f6ylemiyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hristiyan Bekarlar Bulmak \u0130\u00e7in Kiliseleri Ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ta\u015f\u0131nman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6steren i\u015faretler:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gitmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ben buraya ait de\u011filim.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O kadar da 'normal' de\u011fil.\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hareket etmemeniz gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6steren i\u015faretler:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tek(ler) odakl\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Manevi ev \/ Birden fazla ta\u015f\u0131nma.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kilise randevular\u0131n\u0131n tuzaklar\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yapabilirsin.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>De\u011fi\u015ftirin.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sosyalle\u015fin.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dijitale ge\u00e7in.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bekar Hristiyanlar Bulmak \u0130\u00e7in Kilise De\u011fi\u015ftirmeli miyim? | SALT S\u00f6yle\u015fisi\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/D_TNxkfWrFo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-that-you-should-move-thinking-of-leaving\">Ta\u015f\u0131nman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fini G\u00f6steren \u0130\u015faretler: Ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bence kiliseden ayr\u0131lmakla ilgili \u00e7ok fazla tabu var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elbette baz\u0131 mezheplerde, \u00fcyeliklerini nas\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fckleri nedeniyle bunu yapmak di\u011ferlerine g\u00f6re daha zordur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiliselerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmek isteyen ancak bunu yapamayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, kurallar\u0131 bilmeyen ya da bu t\u00fcr bir karar verirken kilise taraf\u0131ndan desteklenmeyen pek \u00e7ok insan tan\u0131yorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bir s\u00fcredir bulundu\u011funuz kiliseden ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z ya da yerle\u015febilece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcyseniz ancak \u015fimdi \u00e7ok emin de\u011filseniz - bence gelecekteki bir kilisede daha fazla bekarla tan\u0131\u015fma fakt\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc eklemek \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir anla\u015fma de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun tek motivasyonunuz olmas\u0131 konusunda dikkatli olun, bu konuda daha sonra bilgi verece\u011fiz. Ancak di\u011fer 'sorunlar' bir ki\u015fiyi bir kiliseden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p ba\u015fka bir aray\u0131\u015fa y\u00f6nlendirebilir ve bu sorun de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne yaz\u0131k ki hi\u00e7bir kilise m\u00fckemmel de\u011fildir. Kilise k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z y\u00f6nleriyle, ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ta\u015f\u0131yamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fisel \u015feylerle, teolojik anla\u015fmazl\u0131klarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilir ya da ko\u015fullardaki bir de\u011fi\u015fiklik nedeniyle yine de ta\u015f\u0131nmak zorunda kalabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiliseyi ta\u015f\u0131mak do\u011fal olarak daha fazla Chrisitan bekar bulman\u0131za yol a\u00e7abilir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc farkl\u0131 bir kilisedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bryanstoudt.com\/no-singles-church-leave\/#:~:text=If%20that%27s%20the%20space%20we,red%2Dflag%20relationship%20or%20marriage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Bryan Stoudt<\/a> Notlar:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>(...) Kiliseler, yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fe de\u011fer veren insanlar\u0131 kendilerine \u00e7ekme e\u011filimindedir; dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kilise \u00f6nemli alanlarda sa\u011flam de\u011filse, orada dindar bir e\u015fle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaten d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fka nedenlerle (belki de birden fazla) yolunuza devam etmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, bir sonraki gidece\u011finiz kilisenin yeni 'ideal' unsuru olarak farkl\u0131 bir kilisede bekar arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla tan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 dahil etmek ahlaki a\u00e7\u0131dan yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Umar\u0131m, kiliselerin olmas\u0131 gereken sevgi dolu H\u0131ristiyan topluluklar\u0131 olarak, yoluna devam etmeyi se\u00e7enleri destekleme ve kap\u0131dan ilk kez girmeyi tercih edenleri e\u015fit \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kar\u015f\u0131lama konusunda l\u00fctuf odakl\u0131 olabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-that-you-should-move-i-don-t-belong\">Ta\u015f\u0131nman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fini G\u00f6steren \u0130\u015faretler: Ait De\u011filim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mesih'in bedeninde herkes \u00f6nemlidir (1. Korintliler 12:12-27). Ancak bir kiliseye ait olmaman\u0131n verdi\u011fi rahats\u0131z edici duyguyu bilirim. Tek bekar ki\u015fi oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bundan daha fazlas\u0131 olabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Belki de bekar oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ya da ba\u015fka bir nedenle kendinizi yarg\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f hissediyorsunuz.\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ya da hizmet edebilece\u011finiz yeteneklere a\u00e7\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Belki de oradaki insanlarla konu\u015fman\u0131n ger\u00e7ek temellerini a\u015fmakta zorlan\u0131yorsunuz ya da sizinle hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmuyorlar.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ya da ayinden sonra etrafta daha fazla kalma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine katlanam\u0131yorsunuz.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunlar\u0131n hepsi, \u00f6zellikle ilk ziyaretlerinizden sonra, kiliseleri ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterebilecek i\u015faretlerdir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2rl\u0131k genellikle 'gen\u00e7lik' anlam\u0131na gelir ve daha ya\u015fl\u0131 olanlar kendilerini kilisede daha da yersiz hissedebilirler. Hatty Calbus'un kitab\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a belirtti\u011fi gibi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womanalive.co.uk\/opinion\/no-one-talks-about-being-single-in-the-church-after-your-50s-but-the-church-has-a-lot-to-work-on\/16103.article\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Ya\u015fayan Kad\u0131nlar:<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ellili ya\u015flar ve \u00f6tesindeki bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyan kad\u0131nlar, haklar\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey duyulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in var da olmayabilirler.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kendinizi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez hissetmek veya bir kilise alan\u0131nda sizin gibi ba\u015fka kimseyi g\u00f6rmemek inan\u0131lmaz derecede izole edici olabilir ve ibadet etmek i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 bir yer bulmak i\u00e7in (iyi) bir nedene katk\u0131da bulunabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-that-you-should-move-not-so-regular\">Ta\u015f\u0131nman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fini G\u00f6steren \u0130\u015faretler: O kadar da 'normal' de\u011fil<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k olabilir, ancak kiliseleri ger\u00e7ekten ta\u015f\u0131mak ancak oraya d\u00fczenli olarak gidiyorsan\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, belirli bir kilisede d\u00fczenli olarak bulunuyorsan\u0131z asla kiliseleri de\u011fi\u015ftirmemeniz gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez, ancak bir kiliseye d\u00fczenli olarak kat\u0131lmayarak, kilise toplulu\u011fu i\u00e7in ba\u015fka bir yere bakma kararlar\u0131nda kesinlikle daha rahat hissedebilirsiniz, bu ister \u00e7\u0131kacak birini aramakla ilgili olsun ister olmas\u0131n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki ne d\u00fczenli say\u0131l\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Farkl\u0131 kiliseler i\u00e7in bu farkl\u0131 anlamlara gelecektir, ancak a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakilerden biri veya daha fazlas\u0131 ile nitelendirilebilir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Birden fazla ki\u015fi sizi isminizle tan\u0131yor.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ayda iki kez ayn\u0131 kiliseye gidiyorsunuz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kilise faaliyetlerine bir dereceye kadar kat\u0131l\u0131m (\u00f6rne\u011fin hafta ortas\u0131 grubu, hizmet ve benzeri).\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>D\u00fczenli ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\/onay veya \u00fcyelik gibi kiliseye y\u00f6nelik bir taahh\u00fct.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer \u015fu anki kiliseye gitme \u015fekliniz size uymuyorsa, ba\u015fka yerlerdeki bekar erkek ve k\u0131zlar\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in acele etmeden \u00f6nce kendinize bir soru sorman\u0131z faydal\u0131 olabilir...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neden bu kilisenin m\u00fcdavimi olam\u0131yorum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cevaplar\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fi\u015febilir; burada asla bekar insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m, kilise evime \u00e7ok uzak, ayin zaman\u0131 her zaman i\u015f vardiyalar\u0131ma uymuyor, vb.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fka bir yere bakmadan \u00f6nce cevab\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek, yeni bir kilise aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda nelere \u00f6ncelik vermek istedi\u011finizi veya (bekar olmama ihtimaline ra\u011fmen) bulundu\u011funuz yere yat\u0131r\u0131m yapma f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in ak\u0131ll\u0131ca bir hareket olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"ya\u011fmurda y\u00fcr\u00fcmek\" class=\"wp-image-2527\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/taby-ls-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-that-you-shouldn-t-move-single-s-focus\">Ta\u015f\u0131nmaman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fini G\u00f6steren \u0130\u015faretler: Bekar(lar) Oda\u011f\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiliseye ta\u015f\u0131nmak istemenizin tek nedeni sadece \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011finiz di\u011fer bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmaksa, bu yanl\u0131\u015f bir odak noktas\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne de olsa kilise, yeni \u00e7iftleri ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan ve kiliseyi sadece \u00fcreme yoluyla b\u00fcy\u00fcten bir randevu merkezi olarak yarat\u0131lmad\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiliseler \u0130yi Haber'i yaymak, \u0130sa'y\u0131 izleyen insanlar\u0131n O'nunla vakit ge\u00e7irmeleri, Tanr\u0131'ya ibadet etmeleri ve kilisenin kap\u0131s\u0131ndan i\u00e7eri girenleri zamanlar\u0131, yetenekleri ve hazineleriyle kutsamalar\u0131 i\u00e7in tutarl\u0131 bir alan olmak i\u00e7in vard\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte size, bulundu\u011funuz kilisedeki bekarl\u0131k pani\u011fi sizi gemiden atlama iste\u011fine sevk etti\u011finde bizi temellendirmeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak zorlay\u0131c\u0131 bir soru.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kiliseye kiminle tan\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in gidiyorum?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Kilise bana ne sunabilir?\" d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesiyle kiliseye gitmek yerine, Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 sevmeyi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 sevmeyi ama\u00e7layan insanlar olarak, kiliseye her \u015feyden \u00f6nce Tanr\u0131'yla bulu\u015fmak i\u00e7in gitti\u011fimizi bilmeliyiz. Bunun yerine tutumumuz \"Rab'be nas\u0131l tap\u0131nmaya ve hizmet etmeye geliyorum?\" \u015feklinde olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'ya iyi bir \u015fekilde ibadet etmenize, \u00f6\u011frenmenize ve hizmet etmenize olanak tan\u0131yan iyi ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir topluluk i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funuzda, fl\u00f6rt konusundaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriniz ve dualar\u0131n\u0131z Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 daha \u00e7ok onurland\u0131racak \u015fekilde y\u00f6nlendirilecektir. 'Tanr\u0131 k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131' bir kenara b\u0131rakmak ve kiliseyi bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sona erdirmek i\u00e7in bir ara\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6rmek sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir tutum de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilisenizin m\u00fcdavimi ya da \u00fcyesiyseniz, baz\u0131 \u015feyleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeniz \u00f6zellikle \u00f6nemlidir. Bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funuz iyi bir kiliseden ayr\u0131lmak, s\u0131rf di\u011fer bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak istedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in h\u0131zl\u0131 veya kolay bir karar olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve buraya getirdiklerinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve ayr\u0131l\u0131rken kendi isteklerinizi kilisenin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde tutuyor olabilece\u011finiz fikriyle biraz m\u00fccadele edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-you-shouldn-t-move-spiritual-home-multiple-moves\">Ta\u015f\u0131nmaman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fine Dair \u0130\u015faretler: Manevi Ev \/ \u00c7oklu Ta\u015f\u0131nmalar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir saniye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn -&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kiliseyi ilk etapta neden se\u00e7tiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00f6\u011frenci olarak benim \u00f6rne\u011fimde oldu\u011fu gibi, bir kilise se\u00e7tim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bana olmam gereken yerin oras\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011fini biliyordum. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bana 'i\u015fte buras\u0131' dedi\u011fini hissettim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ruhani bir 'yuva' gibi hissettiren bir kilise bulmak, kilisenin kap\u0131s\u0131ndan her girdi\u011finizde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmez. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n insanlar\u0131 belirli zamanlarda belirli nedenlerle belirli kiliselere yerle\u015ftirdi\u011fine inan\u0131yorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer nerede oldu\u011funuza dair bir hissiniz ya da Tanr\u0131'dan gelen bir onay\u0131n\u0131z varsa, s\u0131rf 'uygun' biri yok diye bunu bir kenara atmay\u0131n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc di\u011fer bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131rsan\u0131z ve bir e\u015f bulamazsan\u0131z, kiliseleri ta\u015f\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 ne zaman sona erer?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bu yeni kiliseye giderseniz ve orada hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmazsa, tekrar ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Bu sizi hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 e\u015f aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 etraf\u0131nda tan\u0131mlamak gibi sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bir duruma sokar m\u0131? <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/interviews\/if-my-church-lacks-available-singles-should-i-leave\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">(John Piper)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her zaman kilisede hareket halinde olmak, imandaki d\u00fczenli y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcze istikrars\u0131zl\u0131k getirecektir. S\u0131rf evlenece\u011finiz biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak umuduyla bunu feda etmeyin. Sonu\u00e7ta, bekar insanlarla dolu bir kilise bulabilirsiniz ve yine de onlar sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi olmayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-you-shouldn-t-move-pitfalls-of-church-dating\">Ta\u015f\u0131nmaman\u0131z Gerekti\u011fine Dair \u0130\u015faretler: Kilise Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn Tuzaklar\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u015f\u0131k olmak i\u00e7in kilisede ba\u015fka alt\u0131n gibi bekar erkek veya kad\u0131nlarla tan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 umarken, kilisenizde fl\u00f6rt etmenin her zaman sorunsuz bir yelken olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutabiliriz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durum kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu kadar erkekler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. <a href=\"https:\/\/justinmcampbell.net\/2013\/11\/20\/the-danger-of-church-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Justin Campbell <\/a>yans\u0131t\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Kilisede bir erkek olarak hi\u00e7 kimseye yakla\u015fmazsan\u0131z, o zaman a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a pasifsiniz ve ger\u00e7ek bir H\u0131ristiyan lider de\u011filsiniz demektir.  Ancak \u00e7ok fazla insana yakla\u015f\u0131rsan\u0131z \"o adam\" olursunuz.  Ve i\u015fte bunun en iyi yan\u0131.  \u0130ki tane \"o adam\" vard\u0131r.  Yakla\u015fan ve herkes taraf\u0131ndan reddedilen ve yakla\u015fmada ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan ama sonra ikinci bir randevu istemedi\u011fine karar veren (ya da \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc, ya da d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc, ya da o k\u0131zla evlenmek istemeyen).  Bir anda ya s\u00fcr\u00fcngen ya da oyuncu olursunuz.  Bir erkek olarak kilisede \u00e7\u0131kmaya ho\u015f geldiniz.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0131rf ikiniz de H\u0131ristiyan oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rtleri her zaman iyi gitmez. Ve bu, kilise toplulu\u011funuzdaki di\u011fer ki\u015filerin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini (ve m\u00fcdahalelerini) eklemeden \u00f6nce.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilise meralar\u0131nda yeni bekarlar aramadan \u00f6nce, SALT'\u0131n blogundaki baz\u0131 alternatif ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i fl\u00f6rt tavsiyeleriyle kendinizi h\u0131zland\u0131rmaya de\u011fer olabilir '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/hristiyan-randevularinin-nesi-yanlis\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyan Randevular\u0131n\u0131n Nesi Yanl\u0131\u015f?!<\/a>'<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"ayaklar\" class=\"wp-image-2466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/andrea-loeza-dupe-4-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-could\">Yapabilirsin...<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z \u015fu anda muhtemelen \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor: \u015eimdi ne olacak? Kilisemi seviyorsam ama orada biriyle \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorsam ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte kilisenizin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki bekar H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in araman\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l geni\u015fletebilece\u011finize dair birka\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-change-it-up\">De\u011fi\u015ftirin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ziyaret\u00e7i olun!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilisenizin sad\u0131k bir \u00fcyesi olmaya devam edebilir ve ara s\u0131ra di\u011fer kiliseleri ziyaret edebilirsiniz. Bunu yapmak i\u00e7in pek \u00e7ok nedeniniz olabilir, hatta ge\u00e7mi\u015fte yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tatildeyken, ailenizi ziyaret ederken veya i\u015f i\u00e7in seyahat ederken farkl\u0131 bir kiliseye gitmek.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kendi kilisesini bulurken desteklemek veya kiliselerinde onlar i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli olan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir etkinli\u011fe kat\u0131lmak (\u00f6rne\u011fin vaftiz t\u00f6renleri).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yerel b\u00f6lgenizdeki kiliseleri, belki de Noel veya Paskalya'da birle\u015fik kilise ayinleri ile birbirine ba\u011flamak i\u00e7in bir topluluk \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131 desteklemek.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi, bu kiliselere girip 'g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00f6rt a\u00e7\u0131n, burada etkileyebilece\u011finiz tek bir ki\u015fi olabilir' diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyelim, ancak bunlar\u0131n di\u011fer H\u0131ristiyanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak ve olu\u015fabilecek ba\u011flant\u0131lara (romantik veya ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc) a\u00e7\u0131k olmak i\u00e7in iyi f\u0131rsatlar oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kilise b\u00fcy\u00fck bir insan toplulu\u011fu, ama hangi kiliseye gidersem gideyim, o kiliseden biriyle beklenmedik bir ba\u011f kuruyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc H\u0131ristiyanlar... San\u0131r\u0131m bazen d\u00fcnya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck oluyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer farkl\u0131 bir kilisede bekar bir Hristiyan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve anla\u015f\u0131rsan\u0131z, a) harika! b) panik yapmay\u0131n!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayn\u0131 kilisede tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olsan\u0131z bile, bir ili\u015fkinin ilerleyen a\u015famalar\u0131nda, evlilik ger\u00e7ekle\u015firse hangi kiliseye gidece\u011finiz konusunda her zaman bir karar verilecektir. \u0130lk a\u015famalarda bu konuda \u00e7ok fazla endi\u015felenmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-get-social\">Sosyalle\u015fin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi bu kesinlikle daha kas\u0131tl\u0131 ve 'bulu\u015fma' odakl\u0131. Ama bu ille de k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey de\u011fil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Di\u011fer H\u0131ristiyanlarla sosyalle\u015fmek, potansiyel e\u015flere ula\u015fma imkan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 geni\u015fletecektir. Kilisenizden ayr\u0131lmak zorunda kalmadan H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131n olabilece\u011fi sosyal etkinliklere kat\u0131labilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, yerel, ulusal veya k\u00fcresel Hristiyan etkinlikleri, festivaller, seminerler veya \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i alanlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0131\u015far\u0131da bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlar da var, bazen sadece onlar\u0131n bulundu\u011fu yerlere gitmeniz gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-go-digital\">Dijitalle\u015fin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n online randevu yoluyla 'ki\u015fileriyle' tan\u0131\u015fmak istemediklerini biliyorum - ki bu adil. Ancak yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zdaki ya da kilisenizdeki bekar H\u0131ristiyanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z belki de yeniden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek isteyebilirsiniz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00c7evrimi\u00e7i bulu\u015fmay\u0131 deneyin<\/a> ve mesafe ayarlar\u0131n\u0131zda esnek olun. Bir b\u00fct\u00fcn olarak kat\u0131l\u0131n <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bekar Hristiyanlar toplulu\u011fu<\/a> \u00e7\u0131kmaya a\u00e7\u0131k olan.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer size g\u00f6re de\u011filse sorun de\u011fil. Ama belki de bekledi\u011finden daha iyi sonu\u00e7lan\u0131r...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki, Hristiyan bekarlar\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in kiliseleri ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zaten ba\u015fka nedenlerden dolay\u0131 ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, bulundu\u011funuz kilisede genel olarak ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z veya sonu\u00e7ta d\u00fczenli de\u011filseniz - elbette, neden olmas\u0131n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce bir an durun ve kalp motivasyonunuzu, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi koydu\u011fu yerden ayr\u0131l\u0131p ayr\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve kilisede bir Chrisitan olarak \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen fl\u00f6rt tesad\u00fcfen ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir, bazen de ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmez. Di\u011fer kiliseleri, sosyal etkinlikleri ziyaret etmeye ve hatta \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i bir profil olu\u015fturmaya a\u00e7\u0131k olmak, yine de kilisenizden ayr\u0131lmaktan daha fazla ilerleme sa\u011flayabilir.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I dread \u2018church shopping\u2019.&nbsp; The worst was as a student. 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