{"id":274,"date":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T13:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=274"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:50:04","slug":"saflik-kulturu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/purity-culture\/","title":{"rendered":"Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc Hristiyan Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc Mahvetti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc mahvetti. Peki gen\u00e7lere dayat\u0131lan bir dizi inan\u00e7 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc nas\u0131l bu kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirebildi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Babam tiramisuya bay\u0131l\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asl\u0131nda tiramisu uzman\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi seviyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve o da 'ger\u00e7ek' tiramisu istiyor,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kinishiiii\/video\/7330778124503813377?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> Bunun gibi.<\/a> (muhtemelen t\u00fcm kase!) suland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00e7\u00f6plerin hi\u00e7biri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne \u00e7ok \u0131slak ve kremsi, ne de \u00e7ok kuru ve \u00e7\u0131t\u0131r \u00e7\u0131t\u0131r bir s\u00fcnger istiyor. E\u011fer i\u00e7ki yoksa, onun i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Ve e\u011fer kahvenin tad\u0131n\u0131 alam\u0131yorsan\u0131z, hi\u00e7 ba\u015flamay\u0131n bile.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne zaman bir restorana gitsek, tabii ki \u0130talyan restoran\u0131, ve men\u00fcde tiramisu g\u00f6rse heyecanlan\u0131yor ve hemen ard\u0131ndan \u015f\u00fcpheye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Ger\u00e7ek olacak m\u0131?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hatta o kadar ileri gitti ki (utanc\u0131mdan) bekleme personeline sordu, \"bu <em>ger\u00e7ek <\/em>tiramisu?\" diye sorar ve bu da zavall\u0131 sunucunun kafas\u0131n\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u00f6zelli\u011fi ne kadar sinir bozucu olsa da ne demek istedi\u011fini anl\u0131yorum. Saf, m\u00fckemmel haliyle ger\u00e7ek tiramisunun pe\u015finde.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Espresso kahvenin sert oldu\u011fu bir yer. Yo\u011fun krema var ama \u00e7ok fazla de\u011fil, yani sadece krema. Bir par\u00e7a tatl\u0131 alkol. S\u00fcngeri biraz daha yumu\u015fak...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tiramisu'nun en iyisi, i\u015fte beklemeye de\u011fer olan bu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, di\u011ferlerinin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-hristiyanlar-icin-20-flort-mucadelesi\/\">Hristiyanlar i\u00e7in fl\u00f6rt zorluklar\u0131<\/a>babam\u0131n m\u00fckemmel tiramisuyu beklemesi gibi \u00f6rnekleri, cinselli\u011fi evlili\u011fe saklamak i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 bir takviye olarak kullanarak Chrisian toplulu\u011funa damgas\u0131n\u0131 vurmu\u015ftur.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bu gibi yanl\u0131\u015f metaforlar, Hristiyan nesillerin fl\u00f6rt d\u00fcnyas\u0131na y\u00f6nden \u00e7ok zararla ad\u0131m atmas\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunmu\u015ftur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r bir Hristiyan olarak fl\u00f6rt etmek zaten yeterince zorken, safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ve onun bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 mesajlar\u0131 kendi sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z engellerini eklemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn H\u0131ristiyanlar \u00fczerindeki etkilerini iyi biliyorsunuz, belki de bu sizin i\u00e7in yeni bir \u015fey.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak, seks, bek\u00e2rl\u0131k ve bek\u00e2rl\u0131k hakk\u0131ndaki kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in bu zaman\u0131 ay\u0131r\u0131n. <strong>Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn Hristiyan Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc Mahvetmesinin 5 Yolu<\/strong>...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Utan\u00e7 ve Korku ile Fl\u00f6rt.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Yarg\u0131lama ve Affetmeme ile Fl\u00f6rt.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Cehaletle Fl\u00f6rt.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Bagajla Fl\u00f6rt.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Hyperfixation ile Fl\u00f6rt.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ile \u0130lgili Sorun\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/melquFBJGV4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/delphinediscusses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Delphine<\/a> Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc hakk\u0131nda kendi perspektifinden konu\u015fuyor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-purity-culture\">Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc Nedir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Safl\u0131k K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\" genellikle Amerikan Evanjelik H\u0131ristiyanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na atfedilir ve en \u00fcnl\u00fc patlamas\u0131 90'l\u0131 y\u0131llarda gen\u00e7lerin safl\u0131k s\u00f6z\u00fc vermeleri ve safl\u0131k balolar\u0131na kat\u0131lmalar\u0131 ile g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/jonas-brothers-purity-rings-b2339533.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Jonas Karde\u015fler<\/a> \u00d6rne\u011fin safl\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fckleriyle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc sadece Amerikal\u0131lara \u00f6zg\u00fc ya da sadece H\u0131ristiyanlara uygulanabilir olmasa da, mesaj\u0131n\u0131n etkileri bug\u00fcn H\u0131ristiyan toplumunda hala yayg\u0131nd\u0131r, ancak muhtemelen daha az kamusal ve daha fazla konu\u015fulmayan bir norm olarak.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6z\u00fcnde safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Yoksunluk yoluyla cinsel safl\u0131\u011f\u0131 te\u015fvik eder.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Evlilik \u00f6ncesi her t\u00fcrl\u00fc cinsel ili\u015fkiyi engeller.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle - evlilikten \u00f6nce seks yok. Bu \u00e7o\u011fu H\u0131ristiyan i\u00e7in tan\u0131d\u0131k bir kavramd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Geni\u015fletilmi\u015f tan\u0131m\u0131yla safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc de bunu \u00f6\u011fretme e\u011filimindedir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Erkeklerin cinsel g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131n nedeni kad\u0131n bedenleridir.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Erkeklerin cinsel arzular\u0131 o kadar kontrolden \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, onlar\u0131 tetiklememek i\u00e7in ellerinden gelen her \u015feyi yapmalar\u0131 gerekir.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cinsel a\u00e7\u0131dan saf olmamak genellikle Tanr\u0131'ya ve inanc\u0131n\u0131za itaatsizlik etmek olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asl\u0131nda Hannah Mayderry (LMHC) ile konu\u015furken<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/purity-culture-impacts-mental-health-7564315\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> VeryWellMind<\/a> safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn insanlara bunu \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"(...) cinsellikleri i\u00e7lerine at\u0131lmas\u0131 ve bast\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir \u015feydir. Bu, giyim tarzlar\u0131ndan, (...) kendi bedenlerini nas\u0131l g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerine ve kendi cinsel d\u00fcrt\u00fclerine kadar her \u015feyi kapsar.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunlar\u0131 okurken bile baz\u0131 uyar\u0131 bayraklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n y\u00fckselmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan eminim ve bunun iyi bir nedeni var.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cinselli\u011fi evlili\u011fe saklamak H\u0131ristiyan ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n yayg\u0131n ve genel kabul g\u00f6ren bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olsa da, safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc \u00f6\u011fretilerinin daha geni\u015f \u00e7apl\u0131 etkisi, bug\u00fcn H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rtlerinde hala yayg\u0131n olan baz\u0131 zehirli sonu\u00e7lara yol a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi bu etkilerden baz\u0131lar\u0131na bir g\u00f6z atal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-shame-and-fear\">Utan\u00e7 ve Korkuyla Fl\u00f6rt Etmek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc evli olmayan H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131 utan\u00e7 ve korkuyla doldurmu\u015ftur ve doldurmaya devam etmektedir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsan\u0131n evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ba\u011flamda seks arzusu kilise i\u00e7in yeni bir 'sorun' de\u011fildir. Yine de 'seksi evlili\u011fe saklay\u0131n' \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n H\u0131ristiyan d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda dalga dalga yay\u0131lmas\u0131yla birlikte, bu insani 'd\u00fcrt\u00fcleri' durdurmak i\u00e7in kelimelerin yeterli oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor gibiyiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu iffet \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, gen\u00e7 H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131n bedenleri, duygular\u0131 ve baz\u0131 durumlarda kararlar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda derin bir utan\u00e7 duygusuyla b\u00fcy\u00fcmelerine yol a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-body-shame\">V\u00fccut Utanc\u0131<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Diyet k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, s\u0131f\u0131r beden modeller, yeme bozukluklar\u0131n\u0131n cazip hale getirilmesi ve sosyal medyada s\u00fcrekli olarak '\u00e7ekici ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131' insanlara maruz kalmam\u0131z yetmiyormu\u015f gibi, safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc mesaj\u0131 da bedenlerimizin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcnden ve bunun bizi olmamam\u0131z gereken bir duruma nas\u0131l sokabilece\u011finden utanmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu yazarken, \u00f6zellikle ergenli\u011fin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 hala ya\u015famakta olan ya da bunlarla y\u00fczle\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in bunun ne kadar zarar verici olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. \u00c7alkant\u0131l\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fimlerin ve hormon dalgalanmalar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bili\u015fsel kontrol\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda duygulara yol a\u00e7an bir d\u00f6nemde, 'safl\u0131k ve al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck' ad\u0131na bedenlerimizin cinsel ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini gizleme bask\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 \u00e7ok da sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bir \u015fey olamaz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bekarlar, muhtemelen hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok daha erken d\u00f6nemlerinde olu\u015fmu\u015f bir s\u00fcr\u00fc v\u00fccut tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 olan Hristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durum insanlar\u0131 fl\u00f6rt ederken ve Tanr\u0131 ile y\u00fcr\u00fcrken etkiliyor, bu ruhani bir mesele. Cheryl blogunda <a href=\"http:\/\/twentysixletters.org\/dear-christians-we-need-to-talk-about-body-image\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">'Sevgili Hristiyanlar, Beden \u0130maj\u0131 Hakk\u0131nda Konu\u015fmam\u0131z Gerekiyor' <\/a>bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bedenimizle ili\u015fkimiz, onu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemek i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok \u00e7abalamak kadar basit de\u011fildir. Kimli\u011fimizin temel bir par\u00e7as\u0131 gibi hissedebilir ve maneviyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 etkileyebilir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feeling-shame\">Utan\u00e7 Hissetmek<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130ster cazibe ister uyar\u0131lma olsun, hissetti\u011fimiz \u015feylerin utanc\u0131n\u0131 randevular\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Bu \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f davran\u0131\u015f, insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini 'yanl\u0131\u015f' ya da yanl\u0131\u015f ba\u011flamda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyor diye kapatmalar\u0131na neden olur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Saf kalabilmek i\u00e7in, bir\u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt \u00e7iftinin, fl\u00f6rtlerine\/e\u015flerine kar\u015f\u0131 hissettikleri duygularla ne yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 bilemediklerini tahmin ediyorum.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sahip olmak safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne g\u00f6re 'yanl\u0131\u015f' ise, o zaman ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde s\u00fcrekli olarak konu\u015fulmayan bir deneyim ya\u015fan\u0131yor demektir. Ki\u015fi ne yapmal\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu utan\u00e7 duygusu yeni bir ili\u015fkide d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 en aza indirecektir ve bu kesinlikle iyi bir \u015fey olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-continued-shame\">Devam Eden Utan\u00e7<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve bekarlar '\u00e7izgiyi a\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131' zaman utan\u00e7 duyabilir ve fl\u00f6rt ettikleri ki\u015fiye ge\u00e7mi\u015flerini anlatma konusunda endi\u015feler ta\u015f\u0131yabilirler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sadece k\u0131sa bir teselli s\u00f6z\u00fc - cinsel 'safl\u0131k' ve \u015fehvet herkesin sorunu olmayabilir ama l\u00fctfen kendinize biraz l\u00fctuf g\u00f6sterin. Hi\u00e7 kimse m\u00fckemmel de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunlar\u0131n hepsi korkuyu besliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-fear-factor\">Korku Fakt\u00f6r\u00fc<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc H\u0131ristiyanlara, yapt\u0131klar\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, duygu ya da eylem y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sevgi dolu bir ili\u015fkiye sahip olamamaktan korkmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha da k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc, 'iffet' s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n kendi se\u00e7imleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filer i\u00e7in izole edici bir korku yarat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yanl\u0131\u015f, <a href=\"https:\/\/shilohproject.blog\/sexual-abuse-in-the-context-of-christian-purity-culture-in-britain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 seks yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda su\u00e7un bireyin \u00fczerinde oldu\u011funu ima eder. <\/a>Bu, istismar travmas\u0131 ya\u015fayan biri i\u00e7in korkutucu derecede zarar vericidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc her zaman kontrol\u00fcn bizde oldu\u011funu, safl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirleyenin yaln\u0131zca bizim se\u00e7imlerimiz oldu\u011funu iddia eder. Bunlar zararl\u0131 yalanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dahas\u0131, hi\u00e7 kimse cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131 ma\u011fduru oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in su\u00e7lanmamal\u0131d\u0131r, nokta. Dahas\u0131, b\u00f6ylesi korkun\u00e7 bir durumda \u0130sa'n\u0131n ilk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin \"Seni affedece\u011fim\" de\u011fil, \"Bana gel, seni seviyorum\" oldu\u011funu iddia ediyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin i\u015fareti\" class=\"wp-image-44\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boundaries-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-judgement-and-unforgiveness\">Yarg\u0131lama ve Affetmeme ile Fl\u00f6rt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130ffet s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bir \u015fekilde a\u015fm\u0131\u015f olabilecek ki\u015filerin daha sonra 'lekelenmesi' ise H\u0131ristiyanlar aras\u0131nda sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bir yarg\u0131lama ve affetmeme k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Joshua Harris'in Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship adl\u0131 kitab\u0131 \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, <a href=\"https:\/\/calvarychapel.com\/posts\/purity-culture-its-a-different-gospel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Karissa Valadez <\/a>Bu yarg\u0131lamay\u0131 ve affetmemeyi kendisi de fark eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Tanr\u0131'ya Shannon'da ve Shannon arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in ve onu \u00f6n\u00fcnde oturan kad\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckredebilirdi.... Joshua bunun yerine Shannon bakire olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in a\u011flad\u0131.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fka H\u0131ristiyanlarla \u00e7\u0131kan bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak, safl\u0131\u011fa odaklanmak ili\u015fkinin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131n\u0131 mahvetme riskini ta\u015f\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6zellikle de seks konusunda, yarg\u0131lama hakk\u0131na sahip oldu\u011fumuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-carrying-the-burden\">Y\u00fck\u00fc Ta\u015f\u0131mak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, cinsel suiistimalin affedilemez oldu\u011funa dair bir anlay\u0131\u015f yarat\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmektedir - bu y\u00fck\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131 kad\u0131nlara y\u00fcklenmi\u015ftir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin, gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fte pornografi kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve ilk noktalar\u0131m\u0131zda inceledi\u011fimiz su\u00e7luluk ve utanca ra\u011fmen, ge\u00e7mi\u015fini sevgilisiyle\/yeni partneriyle konu\u015facak kadar cesur oldu\u011funu varsayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Muhtemelen, bu yanl\u0131\u015f ad\u0131m\u0131n ne kadar yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu vurguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in Shannon gibi i\u011frenme ve affetmeme ile kar\u015f\u0131lanacakt\u0131r. Muhtemelen kendisi de pornografi kullanm\u0131\u015f bir adamdan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ready-and-willing\">Haz\u0131r ve \u0130stekli<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa'y\u0131 tan\u0131yan ve seven insanlar olarak, bu ideallerin ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama eksikli\u011fi ile H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc mahvetmesine izin veremeyiz. Asl\u0131nda bu, yapmaya haz\u0131r oldu\u011fumuz ve bekledi\u011fimiz bir \u015fey olmal\u0131d\u0131r (bu ister seks ister ba\u015fka bir \u015feyle ilgili olsun).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bizim i\u00e7in affedilemez de\u011fildir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/103229-to-be-a-christian-means-to-forgive-the-inexcusable-because\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> C.S. Lewis<\/a> koy: <em>\"H\u0131ristiyan olmak, ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanamaz olan\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamak demektir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 sizdeki ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanamaz olan\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"O zaman Petrus \u0130sa'ya gelip, 'Rab, bana kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnah i\u015fleyen karde\u015fimi ka\u00e7 kez ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamal\u0131y\u0131m? Yedi kereye kadar m\u0131? \u0130sa, 'Sana s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum, yedi kez de\u011fil, yetmi\u015f yedi kez' diye yan\u0131tlad\u0131.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Matta 18: 21-22<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7iftleri sert yarg\u0131lar ve affetmeme yoluyla mahvetmek istedi\u011fi yerde, \u0130sa bize derin ve s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z l\u00fctfuna i\u015faret eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-ignorance\">Cehaletle Fl\u00f6rt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc (Tanr\u0131 vergisi) cinselli\u011fimize hay\u0131r demekle ilgili oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, cinsel e\u011fitim almam\u0131\u015f bekar H\u0131ristiyan nesiller yarat\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi, bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan'\u0131n cinsel ili\u015fkinin inceliklerini tak\u0131nt\u0131 haline getirmesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemiyorum; bu, evlenmeden \u00f6nce bek\u00e2r kalmay\u0131 tercih edenler i\u00e7in yararl\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak pek \u00e7ok bekar kendi bedenlerinin nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bile anlam\u0131yor ve bu da safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn zaten te\u015fvik etti\u011fi utan\u00e7 ve su\u00e7luluk duygusunu besliyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu cehalet, cinselli\u011fi evlili\u011fe saklama karar\u0131n\u0131 da zorla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. Partnerinizle cinselli\u011finiz hakk\u0131nda konu\u015famazsan\u0131z veya bekleme karar\u0131n\u0131zda birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z fiziksel ger\u00e7ekleri tart\u0131\u015famazsan\u0131z, bekleme daha kolay olmayacakt\u0131r. Muhtemelen sadece daha garip.   Ve bo\u015f verin e\u011fer <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bosanmis-baska-biriyle-tanismak\/\">bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bekar bir Hristiyan ile tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/a>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu, cehaletin kendi tav\u015fan deli\u011fidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yeni ni\u015fanlanan \u00e7iftler kadar bek\u00e2rlar i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli olan 'Bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak iyi sekse nas\u0131l haz\u0131rlan\u0131l\u0131r' ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 blogumuzda iyi bir cinsel e\u011fitime ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan baz\u0131 alanlar\u0131 ele al\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130yi bir cinsel e\u011fitimin ve bedenlerimizi anlaman\u0131n filmlerden ve pornografiden gelmeyece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. Bunlar yaln\u0131zca ek kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, kendinize ve gelecekteki partnerinize dair sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan beklentiler ekleyecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"577\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"sar\u0131lan yavru kediler\" class=\"wp-image-56\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-577x1024.jpeg 577w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-768x1364.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-865x1536.jpeg 865w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships-1153x2048.jpeg 1153w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/cute-kittens-relationships.jpeg 1081w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 577px) 100vw, 577px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc bagaj\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 duygusal travma<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-baggage\">Bagajla \u00c7\u0131kmak<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc mahvetti\u011fini, en ba\u015fta fl\u00f6rt etmeye getirmemize gerek olmayan bir s\u00fcr\u00fc ekstra y\u00fck \u00fcretti\u011fini iddia ediyorum.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birinci s\u0131n\u0131f haftas\u0131nda bir erkekle \u00f6p\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131na bo\u011fulan gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar tan\u0131yorum. \u015eimdi hepimiz kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirliyoruz ama ayn\u0131 zamanda yanl\u0131\u015f nedenlerle hayat\u0131 kendimiz i\u00e7in zor ve sefil hale mi getiriyoruz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zellikle de bu y\u00fck, kilisenizde size safl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretenler gibi di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilece\u011fine odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman Tanr\u0131 ile bir ilgisi yoktur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bence bu y\u00fck, evlili\u011fin hatalar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bir kefaret tedavisi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemize yol a\u00e7\u0131yor. Cinsel suiistimallerimiz evlilik i\u00e7in yeterince iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlam\u0131na gelir. Ancak evlilik ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011finde Tanr\u0131 bizim hatal\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi telafi etmi\u015f ve bizi saf hale getirmi\u015ftir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ben buna inanm\u0131yorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bu, biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak isteyen bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak getirdi\u011fimiz y\u00fck ve geriye d\u00f6n\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-with-hyper-fixation\">Hiper-Fiksasyon ile Fl\u00f6rt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siz de bazen Hristiyan randevular\u0131n\u0131n tamamen seksle ilgili oldu\u011fu hissine kap\u0131l\u0131yor musunuz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc H\u0131ristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n akl\u0131n\u0131 seksten uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmam\u0131\u015f, tersine tamamen sekse y\u00f6neltmi\u015ftir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. \u0130sa'n\u0131n takip\u00e7ileri olarak en b\u00fcy\u00fck emrimiz sekse a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6nem vermek de\u011fildir. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 sevmektir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"'Tanr\u0131n Rab'bi b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00fcre\u011finle, b\u00fct\u00fcn can\u0131nla ve b\u00fct\u00fcn akl\u0131nla seveceksin'. Bu ilk ve en b\u00fcy\u00fck emirdir. \u0130kinci bir emir de ayn\u0131 derecede \u00f6nemlidir: 'Kom\u015funu kendin gibi sev'.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Matta 22: 37-38<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtlerinde sekse a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tak\u0131lma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Seksi en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnah haline getirdik.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Evlili\u011fi nihai tedavi haline getirdik.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yeni evliler i\u00e7in seksi en b\u00fcy\u00fck bask\u0131 haline getirdik.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck lanet haline getirdik.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc seksi bu 'dokunmama' kaidesine yerle\u015ftirerek, inan\u00e7lar\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken bir\u00e7ok bek\u00e2r\u0131n zihnindeki ana odak noktas\u0131 haline getirmi\u015ftir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de daha fazla zaman ge\u00e7irmeliyiz. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Tanr\u0131'ya ve O'nun karakterine odaklanmak.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Safl\u0131k hareketi bize uymam\u0131z i\u00e7in ahlaki kurallar veren bir Tanr\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretti, ancak O'nun kurtar\u0131c\u0131 do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 yeterince vurgulamad\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ve ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde yanl\u0131\u015f \u015feye odaklan\u0131yoruz. Cinselli\u011fimiz Tanr\u0131 vergisi bir ger\u00e7ekliktir ve fl\u00f6rt etmek bu ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin ba\u011flam\u0131n\u0131 bulmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Ancak onu kapatmak yerine, bizi ne i\u00e7in yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za - Tanr\u0131 ile birlikteli\u011fe, yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa - y\u00f6nlendirmelidir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, utan\u00e7 ve korku gibi yan \u00fcr\u00fcnleriyle safl\u0131k k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, bekarlar\u0131 'hatalar\u0131n\u0131' saklamaya te\u015fvik ederek, ileti\u015fimi kapatarak ve ba\u015fka bir ki\u015finin ge\u00e7mi\u015finizi \u00f6\u011frenmesine dair derin bir korku a\u015f\u0131layarak Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fc mahvetmeye katk\u0131da bulunmu\u015ftur.  Bu bizi merakland\u0131r\u0131yor bile <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yan-erkeklerle-nerede-tanisilir\/\">Bekar Hristiyan erkeklerle nerede tan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r<\/a> veya <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yan-kadinlarla-nerede-tanisilir\/\">Bekar Hristiyan kad\u0131nlarla nerede tan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r<\/a> Bizi bu \u015fekilde yarg\u0131layacak biriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaktan korktu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7o\u011funlukla da bizi Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizimle ili\u015fki kurma arzusundan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131, insan yap\u0131m\u0131 kurallara saplan\u0131p kalmaktan de\u011fil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bundan daha iyi ifade edebilece\u011fimi sanm\u0131yorum. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/purity-culture-lose-the-lies-keep-your-faith\/#:~:text=The%20purity%20movement%20taught%20a,Church%20generation%20must%20be%20aware.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Juli Slattery makalelerinde...<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Kutsal Kitap'\u0131n bu hik\u00e2yesi cinsellik de d\u00e2hil olmak \u00fczere \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fimiz her \u015feyin \u00f6n ve arka plan\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmal\u0131d\u0131r. Safl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve do\u011frulu\u011fumuz nihayetinde cinsel se\u00e7imlerimiz ya da m\u00fccadelelerimizle de\u011fil, Mesih \u0130sa'daki duru\u015fumuzla ilgilidir.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>O'nun Kutsal Ruh arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla i\u00e7imizde s\u00fcrekli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda asla temiz bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrd\u00fcremeyiz. Tanr\u0131 e\u015fcinselleri, papazlar\u0131, bakireleri, bek\u00e2rlar\u0131, evlileri, fahi\u015feleri ve bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sever. Her biri bu sevgiye t\u00f6vbe, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck ve itaatle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verip vermemeyi se\u00e7melidir.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Purity Culture ruined Christian dating. But how could a set of beliefs pushed on young people change culture so much? 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