{"id":2290,"date":"2025-02-04T11:33:35","date_gmt":"2025-02-04T11:33:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2290"},"modified":"2025-02-04T11:33:37","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T11:33:37","slug":"partnerleri%cc%87-kotu-davraniyorsa-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yanlar-ne-yapmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/what-should-christians-do-if-their-partner-is-abusive\/","title":{"rendered":"Hristiyanlar partnerleri istismarc\u0131 ise ne yapmal\u0131d\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi\u00e7 kimse bir ili\u015fkiye istismar beklentisiyle girmez. Hristiyanlar olarak, Mesih'in karakterini yans\u0131tan sevgi i\u00e7in \u00e7abalar\u0131z - nazik, sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve \u00f6zverili. Ancak size de\u011fer vermesi ve korumas\u0131 gereken ki\u015fi, size zarar veren ki\u015fi oldu\u011funda ne olur? Taciz i\u00e7eren bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7indeyseniz, kendinizi kapana k\u0131s\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, kafan\u0131z kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve hatta su\u00e7lu hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak \u015funu a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011fa kavu\u015ftural\u0131m: Tanr\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 istismara katlanmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaz. O bizi bilgeli\u011fe, \u015fifaya ve b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011fe \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir \u0130li\u015fkide \u0130stismar Nedir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0130stismar sadece fiziksel \u015fiddet de\u011fildir. Duygusal, s\u00f6zl\u00fc, finansal, cinsel veya ruhsal olabilir. Partneriniz sizi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcms\u00fcyor, izole ediyor, kararlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kontrol ediyor veya kendinizi de\u011fersiz hissetmenize neden oluyorsa, bunlar ciddi tehlike i\u015faretleridir. \u0130stismar, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in tasarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sevgiyi bozar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir keresinde inanc\u0131 ve taciz i\u00e7eren ili\u015fkisinin ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi aras\u0131nda kalan gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131na dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken \u015feyin \"Hristiyan\" olarak kalmak oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yordu. Ancak Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar bize asla zarar g\u00f6rebilece\u011fimiz bir yerde kalmam\u0131z\u0131 emretmez. Tanr\u0131 adalet, sevgi ve koruma Tanr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. E\u011fer istismara u\u011fruyorsan\u0131z, harekete ge\u00e7meniz gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partnerleri Tacizde Bulunan Hristiyanlar Ne Yapmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fte bu ac\u0131 verici durumun \u00fcstesinden gelmek i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131k, Kutsal Kitap'a dayal\u0131 ve pratik bir rehber.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u0130stismar\u0131n Sevgi Olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Kabul Edin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sevgi incitmez, manip\u00fcle etmez ya da kontrol etmez. 1. Korintliler 13:4-7 sevgiyi bask\u0131c\u0131 ya da korkutucu olarak de\u011fil, sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve nazik olarak tan\u0131mlar. E\u011fer e\u015finizin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 Kutsal Kitap'taki sevgiyle \u00e7eli\u015fiyorsa, bu sevgi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Kalman\u0131z\u0131 \u0130stedi\u011fi Yalan\u0131n\u0131 Reddedin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar\u0131n hi\u00e7bir yerinde Tanr\u0131 size bir istismarc\u0131yla birlikte kalman\u0131z\u0131 emretmez. Evlilik kutsal olsa da, istismar bu antla\u015fman\u0131n ihlalidir. Tanr\u0131 sizi sessizlik i\u00e7inde ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u0130stismar\u0131n G\u00fcnah Oldu\u011funu Kabul Edin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tacizciler davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar\u0131 s\u0131k s\u0131k \u00e7arp\u0131t\u0131rlar. Sak\u0131n aldanmay\u0131n. \u0130stismar g\u00fcnaht\u0131r ve Tanr\u0131 buna kar\u015f\u0131d\u0131r (Mezmur 11:5, Koloseliler 3:19).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. G\u00fc\u00e7 ve Netlik i\u00e7in dua edin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Dua \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr. Tanr\u0131'dan do\u011fru ad\u0131mlar\u0131 atmak i\u00e7in bilgelik ve cesaret isteyin. O ac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve size yol g\u00f6sterecektir (Yakup 1:5).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. G\u00fcvenilir Bir Hristiyan Ak\u0131l Hocas\u0131 veya Liderle Konu\u015fun<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Bunu tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yapmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Bu konunun a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayan olgun bir imanl\u0131dan dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k al\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Kendinizi Korumak i\u00e7in S\u0131n\u0131rlar Belirleyin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tacizcinizi d\u00fczeltmekten siz sorumlu de\u011filsiniz. E\u011fer t\u00f6vbe etmeyi ve de\u011fi\u015fmeyi reddederse, kendinizi korumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Kesin s\u0131n\u0131rlar olu\u015fturun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Profesyonel Hristiyan Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Aray\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u0130stismar kalbi ve zihni derinden yaralar. E\u011fitimli bir Hristiyan dan\u0131\u015fman, deneyiminizi i\u015flemenize ve iyile\u015fmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Her \u015eeyi Belgeleyin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Kendinizi g\u00fcvende hissetmiyorsan\u0131z, taciz olaylar\u0131n\u0131n kayd\u0131n\u0131 tutun. Bu, yasal i\u015flem veya koruma emirlerinin gerekli olmas\u0131 durumunda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Utan\u00e7 veya Korkunun Sizi Sessiz Tutmas\u0131na \u0130zin Vermeyin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u0130stismar gizlilik i\u00e7inde geli\u015fir. G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za, ailenize veya bir destek grubuna ula\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. G\u00fcvenli \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f Plan\u0131n\u0131 De\u011ferlendirin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

E\u011fer gitmen gerekiyorsa, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dikkatlice planlay\u0131n<\/a>. Yerel aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet \u00f6rg\u00fctlerinden veya kilise cemaatinizden yard\u0131m isteyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n Kalmak Anlam\u0131na Gelmedi\u011fini Anlay\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaya \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131k, ancak bu g\u00fcnah\u0131 ho\u015f g\u00f6rmek ya da kendimizi tehlikeye atmak anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"DEN\u0130Z<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

13. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Vaatlerine Dayan\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tanr\u0131 sizin s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r (Mezmur 46:1). Sizi asla terk etmeyecek ya da y\u00fcz\u00fcst\u00fc b\u0131rakmayacakt\u0131r (Yasan\u0131n Tekrar\u0131 31:6).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Bir Destek Sistemi Olu\u015fturun<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Etraf\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 iyile\u015fme yolculu\u011funuzda size moral veren ve destek olan insanlarla \u00e7evreleyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u0130li\u015fkileri Destekleyen \u0130nan\u00e7 Temelli Bir Toplulu\u011fa Kat\u0131l\u0131n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

E\u011fer bir Mesih merkezli fl\u00f6rt toplulu\u011fu<\/a>SALT'\u0131 kullanmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015famaya de\u011fer veren, benzer d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen inananlar\u0131 bir araya getirmek i\u00e7in tasarlanm\u0131\u015f k\u00fcresel bir Hristiyan arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamas\u0131d\u0131r, Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131ran ili\u015fkiler<\/a>. SALT taraf\u0131ndan TABLE'da \u00f6zel bir grup bile olu\u015fturulmu\u015ftur.\u00a0canl\u0131 ses etkinli\u011fi<\/a>\u00a0bo\u015fand\u0131ktan sonraki hayatlar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in Karanl\u0131ktan Sonra Fl\u00f6rt adl\u0131 bir konferans d\u00fczenledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Gelece\u011finiz i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Plan\u0131na G\u00fcvenin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

De\u011feriniz ge\u00e7mi\u015finizle ya da tacizcinizin s\u00f6zleriyle tan\u0131mlanmaz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in g\u00fczel bir plan\u0131 var (Yeremya 29:11).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. Ba\u015fka Bir \u0130li\u015fkiye Ba\u015flamadan \u00d6nce \u0130yile\u015fin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tekrar biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce iyile\u015fmek ve Mesih'teki kimli\u011finizi yeniden ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. M\u00fccadele Eden Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 Cesaretlendirin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sizin hikayeniz, ba\u015fka birinin istismarc\u0131 bir durumdan kurtulmak i\u00e7in ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu cesaret olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. Tacizciniz \u0130\u00e7in Dua Edin (Ama Uzaktan)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tacizcinizin t\u00f6vbe etmesi i\u00e7in dua etmek Kutsal Kitap'a uygundur (Matta 5:44), ancak bu uzla\u015fmak veya kendinizi daha fazla zarara maruz b\u0131rakmak anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. Unutmay\u0131n: Yaln\u0131z De\u011filsiniz<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tanr\u0131 sizi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor, sizi seviyor ve sizi terk etmedi. Yard\u0131m i\u00e7in elinizi uzat\u0131n ve O'nun sizin i\u00e7in arzu etti\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckte y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siz veya tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biri istismar i\u00e7eren bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7indeyse, bu ad\u0131mlar\u0131 ciddiye al\u0131n. Ac\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6tesinde umut, iyile\u015fme ve bir gelecek vard\u0131r. Mesih'te derinden seviliyor ve de\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz. Korku ya da su\u00e7luluk duygusunun sizi ba\u011flamas\u0131na izin vermeyin; bug\u00fcn yard\u0131m isteyin.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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