{"id":165,"date":"2024-03-12T09:55:22","date_gmt":"2024-03-12T09:55:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=165"},"modified":"2025-06-17T08:51:37","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T08:51:37","slug":"bekarligi-kucaklamak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/embracing-singleness\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kucaklamak: Bekar Olman\u0131n Keyfini \u00c7\u0131karmak \u0130\u00e7in 3 \u0130pucu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kucaklamak kolay de\u011fildir. Bazen bekar olmak yaln\u0131z ve i\u00e7 karart\u0131c\u0131 olabilir. Bu yaz\u0131da bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karman\u0131z i\u00e7in 3 ipucu veriyoruz - bu hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\"><strong>TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tarihsel olarak, hem edebiyatta, hem d\u00fcnya k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde hem de kilise k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde, bek\u00e2rl\u0131k genellikle olumsuz alg\u0131larla kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Bu bir eksiklik, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k ve tamamlanmam\u0131\u015fl\u0131k i\u015faretidir. \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nlar\u0131n 'rafa kald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131', 's\u00fcrelerinin doldu\u011fu' d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr, ancak topluma bilerek veya bilmeyerek ekilen anlat\u0131 bu olsa da, sizin i\u00e7in hikayenin sonu bu olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Bu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/resources\/living-love-and-faith\/living-love-and-faith-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Sevgi ve \u0130nan\u00e7 \u0130\u00e7inde Ya\u015famak<\/a> Kursun, PDF olarak indirilebilen kitab\u0131n\u0131n 5. b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde bu konuda harika bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blogda, bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan memnun olman\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Bir grup SALT bekar\u0131ndan en \u00fcst d\u00fczey tavsiyeleri derledik ve hepsi burada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kucaklamak bu \u00fc\u00e7 ad\u0131m kadar basittir (s\u00f6ylemesi yapmaktan daha kolay olsa da... \u00fczg\u00fcn\u00fcm!):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-embracing-singleness-tip-1-embrace-jesus\">\u0130sa'y\u0131 Kucakla<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-embracing-singleness-tip-2-embrace-others\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 Kucaklay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-embracing-singleness-tip-3-embrace-the-now\">\u015eimdiyi Kucaklay\u0131n<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu tamamen imk\u00e2ns\u0131z gibi gelebilir, ancak Tanr\u0131 ile her \u015fey m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda Nas\u0131l Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Olursunuz?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZdH-OQJ2LTA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Nora, bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l \u015e\u00dcKREDECE\u011e\u0130N\u0130Z konusunda tavsiyelerde bulunuyor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">POV: Hala bekars\u0131n\u0131z ve bu zor bir durum. Cesaretiniz k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmak gerekirse Tanr\u0131'ya k\u00fcsm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndan en iyi hikayelerinizi payla\u015fmay\u0131, evli arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmay\u0131 ve \"nerede bu bekar Hristiyanlar?\" diye s\u00f6ylenmeyi umarak o bekar arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla kahve i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in bulu\u015fmaya karar veriyorsunuz. Ama sonra garip bir \u015fey oluyor. Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z gelir ve <strong>Geli\u015fen<\/strong>. G\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 derecede me\u015fguller, kiliselerini seviyorlar ve onlar\u0131 ne kadar zorlarsan\u0131z zorlay\u0131n, bir e\u015f i\u00e7in \u00f6zlem duyduklar\u0131na dair hi\u00e7bir i\u015faret g\u00f6stermiyorlar. Bunu nas\u0131l yap\u0131yorlar? S\u0131rlar\u0131 ne?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-embracing-singleness-tip-1-embrace-jesus\"><strong>Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kucaklamak \u0130pucu #1: \u0130sa'y\u0131 Kucaklay\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kucaklamak i\u00e7in bir numaral\u0131 cevab\u0131n \u0130sa olmas\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r. G\u00f6zlerinizi devirme d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne direnin. Bu pratik bir tavsiye. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek. S\u0131k\u0131 durun, okumaya devam edin ve \u0130sa'n\u0131n alayc\u0131 bek\u00e2r kalbinizi nas\u0131l eritti\u011fini izleyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa'yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, Rabbiniz ve Kurtar\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fman\u0131n tarifsiz duygusuyla ona do\u011fru ko\u015ftu\u011funuzu hayal edin. Onu kucaklamak i\u00e7in ona do\u011fru uzan\u0131yorsunuz ama kollar\u0131n\u0131z zaten dolu. Kollar\u0131n\u0131zda pek \u00e7ok d\u00fcnyevi kayg\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yorsunuz: kendinizi \u00e7ekici k\u0131lmak, evlilik i\u00e7in finansal haz\u0131rl\u0131k yapmak ve tabii ki ideal e\u015finizi bulmak. Onlar\u0131 bir kenara atman\u0131n zaman\u0131 geldi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ikisini birden ta\u015f\u0131yamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Hem evlilik putuna sar\u0131l\u0131p hem de \u0130sa'y\u0131 kucaklayamazs\u0131n\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-shedding-the-idol\"><strong>\u0130dolden Kurtulmak<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama bu putu nas\u0131l bir kenara atabilirim? Evlili\u011fi istemekten nas\u0131l vazge\u00e7ebilirim? Yan\u0131t \u00e7ok daha basit: evlili\u011fi putla\u015ft\u0131rmadan da isteyebilirsiniz. \u0130sa'yla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkiniz oldu\u011funda, do\u011fal olarak daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir evlilik kavram\u0131na da sahip olursunuz. \u00d6ncelikle evlili\u011fi neden bu kadar \u00e7ok arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 bize, daha Aden'den itibaren, insanlar olarak ili\u015fkisel olmak \u00fczere tasarland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretir. Yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f 2:18'de Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \"insan\u0131n yaln\u0131z kalmas\u0131 iyi de\u011fildir\" \u015feklindeki muazzam iddias\u0131n\u0131 okuruz. Tanr\u0131 asl\u0131nda y\u00fcreklerimizi kendimizden ba\u015fka birini sevmek ve arzulamak \u00fczere programlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 1. Yuhanna 4:19'da \u015fu g\u00fczel c\u00fcmleyi okuruz: \"Seviyoruz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6nce o bizi sevdi\". Y\u00fcreklerimiz yaln\u0131zca sevmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, tap\u0131nmak i\u00e7in de programlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, bu \u00e7ift tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, nihai kurtar\u0131c\u0131m\u0131z olarak evlili\u011fe tapmaya ba\u015flamam\u0131z \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kalbimizdeki \u0130sa \u015feklindeki bo\u015flu\u011fu ba\u015fka bir insanla doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz: umutsuzca her partiyi ve kilise toplant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \"o ki\u015fi\" i\u00e7in ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz. Sonra da H\u0131ristiyan arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamalar\u0131nda y\u00fczlerce profil aras\u0131nda gezinerek ilk kayd\u0131rmada a\u015fk\u0131 bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Hatta bek\u00e2r kalmaktan \u00e7ok korktu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in ili\u015fkilerdeki k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 bayraklar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geliyoruz. Ama dostum, d\u00fcnyadaki en harika e\u015f bile \u0130sa'yla boy \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc\u015femez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-steps-to-embrace-jesus\"><strong>\u0130sa'y\u0131 kucaklamak i\u00e7in ad\u0131mlar<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa'y\u0131 kucaklamak i\u00e7in ilk ad\u0131m onun y\u00fcre\u011finizde hak etti\u011fi yeri almas\u0131na izin vermektir. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlaman\u0131z i\u00e7in size bu bekarl\u0131k d\u00f6nemini vermi\u015f olmas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck bir arma\u011fand\u0131r. Bu \u015fekilde, insanlar\u0131n \u0130sa gibi sevemeyece\u011fini kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n neden oldu\u011fu bir g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 havuzunda ke\u015ffetmekten \u00e7ok daha kolayd\u0131r. Bu, sizin zaten \"ki\u015finizi\" buldu\u011funuz ya da daha a\u00e7\u0131k bir ifadeyle, onun sizi buldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelir. Siz \u0130sa'ya aitsiniz, siz O'nsunuz ve O sizi l\u00fctfu ve sevgisiyle donatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa'y\u0131 kucaklamak, ya\u015fam\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi kabul etmek demektir: O, ho\u015fnutlu\u011fun tek kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Tekrar okuyun: O <strong>sadece kaynak <\/strong>memnuniyetin. Para de\u011fil, g\u00fczellik de\u011fil, seks de\u011fil, evlilik de\u011fil. Ho\u015fnutlu\u011fu bulmak ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 (\u00f6rne\u011fin ili\u015fki durumumuzu) de\u011fi\u015ftirmek anlam\u0131na gelmez, kalplerimizin duru\u015funu ayarlamak anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-transformation\"><strong>D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar\u0131n birlikte en \u00e7ok zaman ge\u00e7irdikleri ki\u015fiden \u00e7ok kolay etkilendiklerini fark etmi\u015fsinizdir. O zehirli \u00e7ocuk\/k\u0131z arkada\u015fla \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ki\u015fili\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fen en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? Evet... ama bu olumlu y\u00f6nde de i\u015fe yarar! Kalbinizin \u0130sa'ya do\u011fru hareket etmesine izin verin: yeni bir ili\u015fkide oldu\u011fu gibi onunla bilin\u00e7li olarak zaman ge\u00e7irmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. Onun s\u00f6zlerini okuyun, onunla konu\u015fun, ona \u00f6vg\u00fcler s\u00f6yleyin (kelimenin tam anlam\u0131yla!). Balay\u0131 d\u00f6nemini ba\u015flat\u0131n ve size kendiniz hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6yledi\u011fi derin ya\u015fam veren ger\u00e7eklere inanmaya ba\u015flayacaks\u0131n\u0131z: bir b\u00fct\u00fcns\u00fcn\u00fcz, seviliyorsunuz, sizin i\u00e7in g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 gelecekte g\u00fcvendesiniz. Bu yeni ili\u015fkinin en b\u00fcy\u00fck ger\u00e7ek bombas\u0131 m\u0131? 100% \u00f6zeldir, asl\u0131nda bu bir antla\u015fmad\u0131r, yani s\u00fcper resmidir, Tanr\u0131 d\u00fczeyinde resmidir. \u0130sa'y\u0131 kucaklad\u0131n\u0131z, bu da t\u00fcm o can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ve kayg\u0131 uyand\u0131ran e\u015f bulma arzular\u0131n\u0131n bir kenara \u00e7ekilebilece\u011fi anlam\u0131na geliyor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Bekarl\u0131k\" utan\u00e7, sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k ve karamsarl\u0131k duygular\u0131 uyand\u0131rmak zorunda de\u011fildir. \"Bekarl\u0131k\" = \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, zenginlik ve zaman. Ya\u015fas\u0131n \u0130sa'n\u0131n sizi bu harika bekarl\u0131k arma\u011fan\u0131yla kutsamas\u0131!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hints-for-you\"><strong>Sizin i\u00e7in ipu\u00e7lar\u0131<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kutsal yaz\u0131larla m\u00fcdahaleci d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle sava\u015fmaya ba\u015flay\u0131n ve kendinize zaten \u0130sa'ya ait oldu\u011funuzu hat\u0131rlat\u0131n (her hal\u00fckarda bir e\u015ften \u00e7ok daha iyi).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kendinizi di\u011fer insanlarla k\u0131yaslamay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n: insta uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 silin, Jess &amp; Gabe'i izlemeyi b\u0131rak\u0131n (bunu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biliyoruz).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\u0130li\u015fki Durumunuzla Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k Olman\u0131n 3 Yolu\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OIjzb3uMQHY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Gaz, ili\u015fki durumunuzdan nas\u0131l memnun olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131yor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-embracing-singleness-tip-2-embrace-others\"><strong>Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kucaklamak \u0130pucu #2: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 Kucaklay\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tamam, bu bekarl\u0131k d\u00f6neminin size sundu\u011fu b\u00fcy\u00fck potansiyelin fark\u0131na vard\u0131n\u0131z: zaman, para ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck. Bununla ne yapabilirsiniz? Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 tam olarak kucaklamak i\u00e7in bir numaral\u0131 tavsiyem, daha \u00f6nce yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00fczg\u00fcn \u00fczg\u00fcn izleyerek ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz o saatleri doldurmaya ba\u015flamak olacakt\u0131r <em>Not Defteri<\/em> ile <strong>krall\u0131k kurma faaliyetleri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Galatyal\u0131lar 5:13'te okuruz: \"Karde\u015flerim, sizler \u00f6zg\u00fcr olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131ld\u0131n\u0131z. Ama \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc benli\u011finizi \u015f\u0131martmak i\u00e7in kullanmay\u0131n; bunun yerine birbirinize al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fckle, sevgiyle hizmet edin.\" Pavlus bek\u00e2rl\u0131kta buldu\u011fumuz \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck hakk\u0131nda yazmasa da, bu talimat\u0131n bek\u00e2r olan bizler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli olmas\u0131 harika bir \u015feydir. Pavlus'un bu a\u00e7\u0131k talimat\u0131, bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda sahip oldu\u011fumuz \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc nas\u0131l kullanmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fi konusunda bize yol g\u00f6sterir. Benli\u011fimizi \u015f\u0131martmak yerine, birbirimize al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fckle ve sevgiyle hizmet etmeliyiz. Sizi bilmem ama ben bunu, 'Heyecan ve e\u015f pe\u015finde ko\u015fmak yerine, zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ayn\u0131 ayr\u0131cal\u0131\u011fa sahip olmayanlara ay\u0131r\u0131n' \u015feklinde okuyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ideas\"><strong>Fikirler<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Memnuniyet, di\u011fer insanlara yap\u0131lan bu yat\u0131r\u0131mdan kaynaklan\u0131r. \u0130lham bulmak zor de\u011fil. Sadece \u0130sa'ya bak\u0131n, her zaman kimsenin yakla\u015fmak istemedi\u011fi ki\u015filere hizmet etmi\u015ftir. Herkesin bir a\u015fevi i\u015fletmesi ya da hayat de\u011fi\u015ftiren misyonerlik \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 yapmak i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00f6b\u00fcr ucuna u\u00e7mas\u0131 gerekmez (yapabiliyorsan\u0131z mutlaka yap\u0131n!). Kilisenizin proaktif bir \u00fcyesi olun, farkl\u0131 ekiplerde g\u00f6rev al\u0131n, ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan her zaman ve her yerde yard\u0131m sunmaya cesaret edin. Bir ailenin evini ta\u015f\u0131mas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in bir Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ay\u0131r\u0131n, bir haftad\u0131r uyumayan yeni ebeveynler i\u00e7in yemek pi\u015firin, bebek bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 teklif edin, arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011fa ihtiyac\u0131 olan bir birinci s\u0131n\u0131f \u00f6\u011frencisiyle arkada\u015f olun. Bunlar kilise ailenizi birbirine daha s\u0131k\u0131 ba\u011flayacakt\u0131r ve bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in gerekli kaynaklara sahipsiniz. Peki sizi durduran nedir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hints-for-you-0\"><strong>Sizin i\u00e7in ipu\u00e7lar\u0131<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kilisenizden bir anne\/baba ile arkada\u015f olun, onlara elinizden gelen yard\u0131m\u0131 sunun ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n onlara verdi\u011fi rollerin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlayarak b\u00fcy\u00fcmenin \u00f6d\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Takviminize bir g\u00f6z at\u0131n - faaliyetleriniz krall\u0131\u011f\u0131 in\u015fa ediyor mu? Program\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 krall\u0131k in\u015fas\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ve dinlenmenin iyi bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131na sahip olacak \u015fekilde ayarlamak i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li bir karar verin<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bu videoyu izleyin: Nas\u0131l Yaln\u0131z De\u011fil de Bekar Olunur?  Ve bu konudaki blog yaz\u0131m\u0131za da g\u00f6z at\u0131n: <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-bir-hiristiyan-olarak-yalnizligin-ustesinden-gelmenin-20-yolu\/\">Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00fcstesinden nas\u0131l gelinir?<\/a>!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Nas\u0131l bekar olunur ve yaln\u0131z olunmaz?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5TXDj5InciI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Delphine bekarl\u0131kta daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olma konusundaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini payla\u015f\u0131yor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-embracing-singleness-tip-3-embrace-the-now\"><strong>Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kucaklamak \u0130pucu #3: \u015eimdiyi Kucaklay\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Son ve belki de en sevdi\u011fim tavsiyem, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi iyi ve hayat veren bir ama\u00e7 i\u00e7in e\u015f, koca, anne, baba rollerinden uzak tuttu\u011fudur. S\u0131rf bu s\u0131fatlardan ar\u0131nm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in <strong>m\u00fcmk\u00fcn <\/strong>Yapman\u0131z ve olman\u0131z gereken pek \u00e7ok \u015fey, evlendi\u011finizde y\u00fcz kat daha zor hale gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'ya hizmet etmek i\u00e7in h\u0131rsl\u0131 olmak iyi bir \u015feydir. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l hareket edebilece\u011fi konusunda h\u0131rsl\u0131 olmak iyi bir \u015feydir. Bu \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fey! Bu y\u00fczden d\u00fcnyadaki yerinizi birinin sevgilisi olmakla s\u0131n\u0131rlamay\u0131n. Y\u0131llard\u0131r yan g\u00f6zle bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir kariyer de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi var m\u0131? Her zaman Edinburgh'a ta\u015f\u0131nmak istediniz ama bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc cesaretinizi toplayamad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? Belki de yazmay\u0131 erteledi\u011finiz o kitap. Ya da okumaktan kesinlikle ho\u015flanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bildi\u011finiz o y\u00fcksek lisans? Terfi i\u00e7in kendinizi \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n. Konfor alan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki o i\u015fe ba\u015fvurun. Podcast'e ba\u015flay\u0131n. Maratona kaydolun. O ger\u00e7ekten haval\u0131 arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za sizinle \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n bir projede i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmak isteyip istemedi\u011fini sorun. Tanr\u0131'ya daha iyi hizmet etmek i\u00e7in kendinizi donat\u0131n. H\u0131rsl\u0131 olun! Ve \u015fu an\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 en iyi \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendirin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-investing-in-the-future\"><strong>Gelece\u011fe yat\u0131r\u0131m yapmak<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili bir ba\u015fka b\u00fcy\u00fck bonus da, gelecekteki e\u015finize kas\u0131tl\u0131 ve ak\u0131ll\u0131ca yat\u0131r\u0131m yapmaya ba\u015flayabilmenizdir. <em>sen <\/em>olacak. Belki de hayalinizdeki e\u015fte olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011finiz niteliklerin listesini \u00e7oktan yazd\u0131n\u0131z, belki de her g\u00fcn bunun \u00fczerine dua ediyorsunuz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n size verdi\u011fi zaman, aynaya bakmak ve yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z nitelikleri g\u00f6r\u00fcp g\u00f6rmedi\u011finizi kendinize sormak i\u00e7in harika bir f\u0131rsatt\u0131r. Ne kadar uzun s\u00fcre evli olmazsan\u0131z, b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in o kadar \u00e7ok zaman\u0131n\u0131z olur ve Tanr\u0131 size bir e\u015f g\u00f6nderirse o kadar haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olursunuz. S\u00f6z'de zaman ge\u00e7irin, evlilikle ilgili kitaplar okuyun, kad\u0131nl\u0131k ve erkeklikle ilgili kitaplar okuyun, tanr\u0131sal bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmekle ilgili kurslara ve konferanslara kat\u0131l\u0131n. Sadece M\u00fcjde'den gelebilecek esin duygusunu aray\u0131n, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu ruhunuzu besleyecek ve sizi b\u00fcy\u00fctecektir. Bu ne kadar \u00e7ekici?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hints-for-you-1\"><strong>Sizin i\u00e7in ipu\u00e7lar\u0131<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Dua ederek hayal kurarak biraz zaman ge\u00e7irin - \u015fu anda bekar oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan ne yapabilirsiniz? Bir inan\u00e7 s\u0131\u00e7ramas\u0131 yap\u0131n!&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Elbette m\u00fcstakbel e\u015finiz i\u00e7in dua etmeye devam edin, ancak bu dualara ara verip kendi e\u015finiz i\u00e7in dua etmenizi tavsiye ederim <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/hristiyanlarin-evlilige-hazirlanmalari-icin-20-yol\/\">evlili\u011fe haz\u0131rl\u0131k<\/a>. Zihniyetinizi a\u00e7g\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fck ve \u015fehvetten al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck ve b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrecektir.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ve e\u011fer birka\u00e7 randevuya \u00e7\u0131kma f\u0131rsat\u0131 yakalarsan\u0131z - utanmay\u0131n!  E\u011fer <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/inanc-sicramasi-hristiyanlarin-ilk-bulusmaya-evet-demeleri-icin-20-neden\/\">ilk bulu\u015fmaya evet deyin<\/a>?  Neden olmas\u0131n?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\"><strong>Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kahve i\u00e7ildi, sohbetler edildi ve siz arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yeni bir g\u00f6zle bak\u0131yorsunuz. Ortada b\u00fcy\u00fck bir komplo yok, sadece Tanr\u0131 onlar\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini bu mevsimin muazzam arma\u011fan\u0131na a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ve onlar da bunu ger\u00e7ekten en iyi \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendiriyorlar. Belki de \u015fu anda, t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 okuduktan sonra bile, bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kucaklama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi hala ayak parmaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n biraz k\u0131vr\u0131lmas\u0131na neden oluyor. Sizin de bu ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve mutlu bekarlardan biri olabilece\u011finiz konusunda Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenin ve size yard\u0131m etmesi i\u00e7in dua edin. Edebilece\u011fini biliyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunu benim i\u00e7in yapt\u0131. Bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek bir minnettarl\u0131k, yeni arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za \"evet! Ben bekar\u0131m!\" demekten ger\u00e7ek bir sevin\u00e7 ve aniden kahvede bekar olmaktan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z enerji ve ilhamla parlayan bir arkada\u015f oldu\u011funuzda ger\u00e7ek bir \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k hissedece\u011finiz g\u00fcnler gelecek. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na hayat\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyeceksiniz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu mevsim mutlak bir arma\u011fan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong>Harekete Ge\u00e7me \u00c7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 (\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz bekarlar hareket ederiz!): <\/strong>\u00d6zellikle YouTube kanal\u0131m\u0131zda bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kutlamakla ilgili daha fazla video izleyin <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/jItkpbwT8L0\">bu<\/a>: Bekarl\u0131k bir hediyedir... Ya istemiyorsam?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Embracing Singleness is not easy. Sometimes being single can be lonely and depressing. In this post we give 3 tips to enjoy your singleness &#8211; it can be life-changing. TL;DR: The Summary Historically, both in literature, worldly culture and church culture, singleness is often met with negative perceptions. 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