{"id":1360,"date":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","date_gmt":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=1360"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","slug":"hristiyan-randevularinin-nesi-yanlis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/whats-wrong-with-christian-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Hristiyan Randevular\u0131n\u0131n Nesi YANLI\u015e?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ge\u00e7enlerde yanl\u0131\u015f giden bir randevu hikayesi duydum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte gen\u00e7 bir \u00e7ift birlikte bir g\u00fcnl\u00fck gezi planl\u0131yordu. O zamanlar otob\u00fcs g\u00fczerg\u00e2h\u0131n\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in bas\u0131l\u0131 bir zaman \u00e7izelgesi kullanmak zorundayd\u0131n\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131z zamanlamay\u0131 ayarlamak i\u00e7in y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 harcad\u0131, rotay\u0131 \u00f6zenle planlad\u0131. Adam planlar\u0131 kabul etti - sabah 6.10'da otob\u00fcs dura\u011f\u0131nda, orada g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ertesi sabah gelir, do\u011frusu biraz erkendir. Bekliyor ve \u00e7ocuk ortada yok.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde bir sonraki otob\u00fcse atlay\u0131p onun evine gider ve sabah 6'y\u0131 biraz ge\u00e7e \u00f6n kap\u0131y\u0131 yumruklar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kimse cevap vermiyor, herkes h\u00e2l\u00e2 uyuyor. K\u0131z en hafif tabirle memnun de\u011fil, g\u00fcn\u00fcn bu kadar erken saatinde ekilmek iyi bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonunda huysuz bir k\u0131zla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r ve gecikmeye ra\u011fmen yine de yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kmaya karar verirler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y\u0131llar sonra bu hataya ra\u011fmen evlendiler. Ama kad\u0131n h\u00e2l\u00e2 unutmam\u0131\u015f. Adam, \"Kendimi savunmam gerekirse, beni tan\u0131yan herhangi birine sorsayd\u0131n\u0131z, o zamana kadar d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131n imkan\u0131 yoktu\" der. G\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar ama kad\u0131n h\u00e2l\u00e2 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sall\u0131yor...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Randevular\u0131n sorunu da bu, hi\u00e7bir zaman her \u015fey yolunda gitmiyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan randevular\u0131 da bir istisna de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k planlar, beklenmedik hastal\u0131klar, kedi av\u0131, hayalet av\u0131 ve daha fazlas\u0131, \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i veya \u00e7evrimd\u0131\u015f\u0131 bulu\u015fma, ini\u015f ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flarla dolu b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7antad\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pek \u00e7ok ki\u015finin Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn sadece m\u00fckemmel e\u015fle\u015fmeler ve av t\u00fcfe\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerinden olu\u015fan bir ta\u015f\u0131ma band\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir d\u00fcnyada, ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt sahnesi her zaman Hristiyan bekarlar\u0131n bekledi\u011fi gibi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt ederken genellikle iyi haberlere ve ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yk\u00fclerine bakmay\u0131 severiz, ba\u015fka bir \u015fey olmasa bile umut i\u00e7in!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bazen d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir \u015fekilde bak\u0131p sormak iyidir - Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn nesi var?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hadi ke\u015ffedelim...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtleri nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Kar\u0131\u015fanlar.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\"B\u00fcy\u00fck toplama\".<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ayn\u0131 ilahi sayfas\u0131ndan \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Y\u00fczey seviyesinde arama.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Neden bu kadar ciddisin?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Fl\u00f6rt ve Tanr\u0131.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Hristiyanlarla \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n en zor yan\u0131.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Hristiyan Randevular\u0131n\u0131n Nesi YANLI\u015e?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7VfiQ6IesUU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-christian-dating-should-be-like\">Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtleri nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n Hristiyan bir erkek ya da kad\u0131n olarak fl\u00f6rt etmenin b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131n\u0131 bekledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TEK ADAM<\/strong>: Ben bekar\u0131m. Seni kilisede g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ve senden etkilendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TEK KADIN<\/strong>: Bu \u00e7ok iyi. Ben de bekar\u0131m ve seni \u00e7ekici buluyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>BEKAR YAKI\u015eIKLI<\/strong> <strong>MAN: <\/strong>Nispeten k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>G\u00dcZEL<\/strong> <strong>KADIN<\/strong>: Kula\u011fa ho\u015f geliyor, Haziran d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TEK ADAM: <\/strong>Hadi yapal\u0131m \u015fu i\u015fi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>KADIN<\/strong>: Art\u0131k evliyiz, bu kolay oldu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u015fke do\u011fru olsayd\u0131?!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi yukar\u0131daki biraz dil ve yanakt\u0131 ama bir\u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan bekar i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 inan\u00e7tan biriyle tan\u0131\u015fma fikri fl\u00f6rt etmeyi \u00e7ok daha kolay hale getirmelidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131ran ve inan\u00e7 dolu bir deneyim olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ruhani ba\u011flant\u0131 anlar\u0131 ve bol bol dua olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n her saniyesini kutsad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu ili\u015fkide kendimizi g\u00fcvende hissetmeliyiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet, do\u011fru zihniyet ve ba\u011flamda bunlar\u0131n hepsi fl\u00f6rt etmenin g\u00fczel unsurlar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama sonu\u00e7ta hepimiz insan\u0131z, \u0130sa'y\u0131 izledi\u011fimizde bile herkesle ayn\u0131 sorunlarla ve tak\u0131nt\u0131larla ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nternette, uygulamalarda veya y\u00fcz y\u00fcze bulu\u015furken:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k veya yan\u0131lsama ya\u015fayabiliriz.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve ac\u0131lar\u0131 bilebiliriz.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kafam\u0131z kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f veya yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendirilmi\u015f hissedebiliriz.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve fl\u00f6rt unsurlar\u0131nda, bizim <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/randevulari-asiri-ruhanilestirmek\/\">Hristiyan k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc i\u015fleri biraz \u015fekilden \u015fekle soktu<\/a>. Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn yanl\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011fi baz\u0131 \u015feylere g\u00f6z atarken, kendi deneyimlerinizi ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n hangi fl\u00f6rt tavsiyelerine \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutarak bizi Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcne y\u00f6nlendiriyor olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. <em>gerekir <\/em>her \u015feyden sonra oldu\u011fu gibi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"atl\u0131kar\u0131ncadaki \u00e7ift\" class=\"wp-image-784\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-meddlers\">The Meddlers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyanlar dedikoducu olmamal\u0131d\u0131r, bu Eski Ahit'ten Yeni Ahit'e kadar a\u00e7\u0131k bir ger\u00e7ektir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"'Halk\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131nda iftira yaymay\u0131n. Kom\u015funuzun ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 tehlikeye atacak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmay\u0131n. Ben Tanr\u0131'y\u0131m.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Levililer 19:6<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6zler \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n; yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na g\u00f6re geli\u015ftirmeye yarayacak s\u00f6zler \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n ki, dinleyenlerin yarar\u0131na olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Efesliler 4:29<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sizi bilmem ama ben hi\u00e7 dedikodunun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir kilisede bulunmad\u0131m. Kimin kiminle \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 genellikle g\u00fcndemde olan bir konudur. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir iyi haber hikayesi Pazar ayinlerinin umut ve ne\u015fesini art\u0131r\u0131yor, de\u011fil mi?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada bekarlar i\u00e7in risk, kilise topluluklar\u0131n\u0131n Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt deneyimine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak yerine engel olabilece\u011fidir. \u00c7\u00f6p\u00e7atanl\u0131k i\u015flerine fazla kar\u0131\u015fmak, \u00e7iftleri takip etmek, bekarlara bask\u0131 yapmak ya da <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singlefriendlychurch.com\/news-and-resources\/singleness-in-uk-church-2012-research\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">tek ger\u00e7ekliklerinden dolay\u0131 kendilerini d\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f hissetmelerine neden olmak<\/a>. Bu konu\u015fma ister '\u00f6zel' ister kamusal alanda yap\u0131ls\u0131n, olumsuz bir etki yaratabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bence kilisenizde biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fey, \u00e7ok da mant\u0131kl\u0131. Ancak bekar bir ki\u015fi ya da yeni bir \u00e7ift olarak izlendi\u011finizi, ele\u015ftirildi\u011finizi ya da hakk\u0131n\u0131zda yorum yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissederseniz, kendinizi gereksiz yere bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hissedebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yeni bir a\u015fk\u0131n filizlendi\u011fine dair halka a\u00e7\u0131k gezilerden, gizlice yap\u0131lan sohbetlere veya \u015f\u00fcpheli Instagram hikayelerini incelemeye kadar - Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde yanl\u0131\u015f olabilecek bir \u015fey, herkesin fl\u00f6rt eden insanlar\u0131n i\u015fine kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi bu, kilise arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fl\u00f6rt hayat\u0131n\u0131za hi\u00e7 dahil etmemeniz gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmiyor. Asl\u0131nda Lauren bunun tam tersi i\u00e7in iyi ve \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc bir durum ortaya koyuyor <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8m0H0mGFduI\">SALT'\u0131n YouTube videosu.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bununla birlikte, Mesih'in bedeninin \u00fcyeleri olarak her birimizin bedene benzeyen yollar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131z ve dedikodu arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yeniden ayarlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z (S\u00fcleyman'\u0131n \u00d6zdeyi\u015fleri 16:28) ya da en az\u0131ndan cemaatin iyili\u011fi i\u00e7in bunun bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 daha i\u00e7sel tutmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-great-picking\">'B\u00fcy\u00fck Toplama'<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hrisitan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde dile getirilmeyen bir kural, erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f say\u0131labilecek garip bir dinamik olabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan bir kad\u0131n olarak fl\u00f6rt etmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman se\u00e7ilmeyi beklemek gibi gelebilir. Ve e\u011fer yirmisine yeni basm\u0131\u015f taze y\u00fczl\u00fc bir H\u0131ristiyan k\u0131z de\u011filseniz, o zaman geminiz batm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hatty Calbus in<a href=\"https:\/\/www.womanalive.co.uk\/opinion\/no-one-talks-about-being-single-in-the-church-after-your-50s-but-the-church-has-a-lot-to-work-on\/16103.article\"> Women Alive<\/a> iddia ediyor,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Birle\u015fik Krall\u0131k Kilisesi genelinde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 erkeklerden iki kat daha fazlad\u0131r ve bekar kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bekar erkeklere oran\u0131 sekize bire kadar \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00f6l\u00fcnme orant\u0131s\u0131zd\u0131r; erkek 'k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131', \u00e7aresiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u0131ralarda oturup se\u00e7ilme s\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131 beklemelerine yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama bu 'harika se\u00e7im' sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten can\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131yor. Hi\u00e7bir iyi ili\u015fki kendili\u011finden olu\u015fmaz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u015fk\u0131 arayan H\u0131ristiyan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7aresiz ve umutsuz hissederek beklemeye b\u0131rak\u0131lmalar\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015feyler var. Bu durum, yak\u0131n gelecekte yollar\u0131n\u0131n herhangi bir bekar erkekle kesi\u015fmesi halinde iyi kararlar vermelerine yol a\u00e7mayacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ya da di\u011fer tarafta, yetersiz kalan erkeklere kar\u015f\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fram\u0131\u015f ve \u00f6fkeli kad\u0131nlar var. Bu konuya daha sonra de\u011finece\u011fim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak biten bir fl\u00f6rt deneyiminin en can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n, ikimiz de yolumuza devam edip ba\u015fka insanlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, onun benden \u00f6nce evlenme ihtimalinin oldu\u011funu fark etmek oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu aptalca bir endi\u015feydi ve d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n beni a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feydi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kiliselerimizde bize a\u015f\u0131k olacak daha fazla erke\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fcleyemeyiz. Ancak kad\u0131nlar olarak oda\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boaz'\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n nerede oldu\u011fu konusunda daha az endi\u015felenelim ve daha \u00e7ok <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Esther%201&amp;version=NLT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Esther <\/a>- G\u00fczellik yar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndaki kad\u0131n de\u011fil, \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funda sesini y\u00fckselten, dua etmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla bir araya gelen, \u00f6zellikle zor anlarda inanc\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya ba\u011fl\u0131 olan kad\u0131n. Biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak, \u00e7\u0131kma teklif edilmesini beklemekten \u00e7ok daha fazlas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"a\u00e7\u0131k kitap\" class=\"wp-image-791\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-singing-from-the-same-hymn-sheet\">Ayn\u0131 \u0130lahi Sayfas\u0131ndan S\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durum sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan daha yayg\u0131nd\u0131r. Bir H\u0131ristiyanla \u00e7\u0131karken, bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi inan\u00e7 konular\u0131nda ayn\u0131 fikirde olacaklar\u0131n\u0131 varsayar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama s\u0131rf H\u0131ristiyan olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in bu onlar\u0131n <em>senin <\/em>Chirstian t\u00fcr\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar kendilerini H\u0131ristiyan olarak tan\u0131mlayabilirler ancak bu pek \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 anlama gelebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in bu farkl\u0131l\u0131k temel teoloji veya mezheplerinin gelenekleri \u00fczerine olabilir. Bizim '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/mezhep-ve-tarihleme\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mezhebimin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?<\/a>' blogunda bu konuda daha fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve tavsiye bulabilirsiniz.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne yaz\u0131k ki, \u0130ncil'deki de\u011ferler her zaman ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde yorumlanm\u0131yor ve ne yaz\u0131k ki, belki de yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fekilde, Hristiyanl\u0131kla ilgili t\u00fcm de\u011ferlerimizi m\u00fcstakbel e\u015fimizle payla\u015f\u0131rken kendimizi g\u00fcvende hissedemiyoruz. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in \"Yani seks yapmayacak m\u0131y\u0131z?\" \u015feklindeki garip yorum y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 sonu\u00e7lara yol a\u00e7abilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan olman\u0131n geni\u015f bir terim olabilece\u011fi ve ba\u015fka bir Hristiyanla \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n nas\u0131l bir \u015fey oldu\u011fu konusunda baz\u0131 kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131na yol a\u00e7abilece\u011fi ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunda yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yok. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/birden-fazla-kisiyle-cikmak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyanlar\u0131n fl\u00f6rt hayatlar\u0131nda ne istediklerine dair k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck farkl\u0131l\u0131klar<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorunlar\u0131 azaltabilecek \u015fey, nerede oldu\u011funuz konusunda a\u00e7\u0131k olmakt\u0131r. E\u011fer bir Hristiyansan\u0131z ve biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyorsan\u0131z, a\u00e7\u0131k olmak ve inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n size pratik ve ki\u015fisel anlamda nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131klamak her zaman yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-surface-level-searching\">Y\u00fczey Seviyesi Arama<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zden \u00e7ok stil deyimini hi\u00e7 duydunuz mu? Bence bu, Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtlerinde zaman zaman i\u015flerin ters gitti\u011fi bir alan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlardan defalarca uzun bir 'olmazsa olmazlar' listesi duyuyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan bir erkek ya da k\u0131z arkada\u015fta araman\u0131z gerekenler:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0130ncil'i y\u0131lda yirmi kez okumal\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Birden fazla g\u00f6rev gezisine gitmek istiyor olmal\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rev yapmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir gruba liderlik edin.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tabii ki y\u00fcksek sesle dua ediyorlar.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ve kiliseye \u00e7ok para verin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Endi\u015fem odur ki, baz\u0131 insanlar bir ki\u015finin inanc\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa vurumuna o kadar kap\u0131l\u0131yorlar ki, bu da o ki\u015finin kendilerini adamay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilecekleri kadar 'H\u0131ristiyan' oldu\u011funun kan\u0131t\u0131 oluyor. O kadar ki, o ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi unutuyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beni dinleyin, niyetimiz Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 iyi sevmek oldu\u011funda bu erdemli \u015feylerin hepsi iyidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak ili\u015fkiler sadece birinin nas\u0131l bir H\u0131ristiyan gibi davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili de\u011fildir. Unutmay\u0131n, arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi size <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@explorerssaurus\/video\/7166239265242778886\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">seninle yakla\u015f\u0131k 40.000 \u00f6\u011f\u00fcn yemek,<\/a> Noel'de ailenizle kim ilgilenecek, kiminle tatil yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z vb.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fka H\u0131ristiyanlarla tan\u0131\u015fan ve fl\u00f6rt eden bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak bir ideal belirleyebilir ve d\u0131\u015fsal 'Tanr\u0131 meselelerine' odaklanabiliriz. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, bir ki\u015fiyle ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmay\u0131 ve bir ki\u015fiyi sadece Pazar g\u00fcnk\u00fc en iyi haliyle de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ekte oldu\u011fu gibi tan\u0131may\u0131 unutuyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-so-serious\">Neden Bu Kadar Ciddi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tabii ki H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde riskli bir i\u015f olan \u00e7ok erken atlamak da var. Pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fi evlili\u011fe odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in durup g\u00fclleri koklamay\u0131 unutuyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durum baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in rahats\u0131z edici olabilir - istedikleri t\u00fcrden bir gelecek olsa bile gelecek konusunda biraz fazla yo\u011fun olan biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmak.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlilik i\u00e7in fl\u00f6rt eden bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak bile, bu 7\/24 evlili\u011fe odaklanmak anlam\u0131na gelmek zorunda de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, insanlar\u0131n duygular\u0131yla oynamak i\u00e7in bir bahane de\u011fildir. Bunun \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici olmas\u0131 gerekir, b\u00f6ylece randevula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dindar erkek ya da kad\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131rken ger\u00e7ek benli\u011fimiz olabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biliyor musunuz, baz\u0131 fl\u00f6rt deneyimlerinize, hatta ili\u015fkilerinize d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakabilir ve romantizm y\u00fcr\u00fcmese bile iyi vakit ge\u00e7irdi\u011finizi bilebilirsiniz. Bu, (ba\u015fka bir) potansiyel H\u0131ristiyan e\u015fini ya da kocas\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmenin y\u00fcrek burkan ac\u0131s\u0131ndan biraz daha iyi geliyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlili\u011fin odak noktas\u0131, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilece\u011fine a\u00e7\u0131k olmakt\u0131r, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n size hen\u00fcz getirmedi\u011fi \u015feyler \u00fczerinde s\u0131k\u0131 bir kontrol de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u0131karken bu ger\u00e7ekle zihninizde biraz denge kurun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"da\u011fdaki \u00e7ift\" class=\"wp-image-763\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-and-god\">Fl\u00f6rt ve Tanr\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n pe\u015finden gitmeme yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak birini bulmal\u0131y\u0131m, beni O'ndan uzakla\u015ft\u0131racak birini de\u011fil.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fmak gerekirse bu ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i de\u011fil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne de olsa, el\u00e7i Pavlus \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama ke\u015fke herkes benim gibi bek\u00e2r olsayd\u0131. Yine de her insan\u0131n Tanr\u0131'dan gelen \u015fu ya da bu t\u00fcrden \u00f6zel bir arma\u011fan\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00fczden evli olmayanlara ve dul kad\u0131nlara diyorum ki, benim gibi bek\u00e2r kalmak daha iyidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>1 Korintliler 7:7-8<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet, bu ba\u011flamda evlilikten ve seksten s\u00f6z ediyor, ama ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde fl\u00f6rt etmekle de ilgili. Bir a\u015fk ilgisi, onunla evlenseniz bile Tanr\u0131'dan uzakla\u015fman\u0131za neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yeni biriyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ve romantik bir ba\u011f\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffetti\u011finizde, en az\u0131ndan di\u011ferleri kadar dindar olmayan \u00e7o\u011funluk i\u00e7in, her zaman Tanr\u0131 odakl\u0131 olmak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir beklenti de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dikkatiniz da\u011f\u0131lacak - ger\u00e7ek!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu randevunuzun su\u00e7u de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyan ki\u015filerle \u00e7\u0131karken, birlikte oldu\u011funuz ki\u015finin inanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 geli\u015ftirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmas\u0131 elbette iyidir. Ancak bunu tek hedefiniz haline getirmek, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n fl\u00f6rt hayat\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 di\u011fer sevin\u00e7leri ka\u00e7\u0131rman\u0131za neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-hardest-thing-about-christian-dating\">Hristiyan Arkada\u015fl\u0131k Hakk\u0131nda En Zor \u015eey<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zor k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131ndan zaten ge\u00e7tim ve eminim daha bir s\u00fcr\u00fc \u015fey vard\u0131r. 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