{"id":1307,"date":"2025-03-13T13:41:55","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T13:41:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=1307"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:34:10","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:34:10","slug":"randevulari-asiri-ruhanilestirmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/over-spiritualize-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Hristiyanlar Randevular\u0131 A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Manevile\u015ftiriyor mu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u015feyi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ruhanile\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz \u00e7ok nadirdir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman hayattaki \u015feylerin ruhani oldu\u011funu unuturuz. Peki Hristiyan fl\u00f6rtleri neden bu kadar zor? Randevular\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ruhanile\u015ftirdik mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131n bekledi\u011fine inan\u0131yorum. Hepimizin Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gelecekteki e\u015flerimiz vard\u0131r, bu y\u00fczden beklemeniz gerekir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131 ge\u00e7 kalmaz, gelecekteki e\u015finiz do\u011fru zamanda gelecektir. Beklerken gelecekteki e\u015finiz i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanman\u0131z (kendinize bakman\u0131z, istikrarl\u0131 bir i\u015finizin olmas\u0131, fiziksel ve duygusal olarak haz\u0131r olman\u0131z) gerekir. Anl\u0131k tatminlerle dolu bu d\u00fcnyada, bekleme mevsiminin m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi ki\u015fi olun.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Jackie<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-do-you-believe-in-this\">Buna inan\u0131yor musunuz?\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi bekleme\" fikri kilisede yayg\u0131n olan bir kavramd\u0131r.  Bunun arkas\u0131ndaki kalp do\u011fru yerde gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor - Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in m\u00fckemmel birini buldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorsan\u0131z \u00f6d\u00fcn vermek istemezsiniz ve kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fczle bunun pe\u015finden giderseniz, ka\u00e7\u0131rabilirsiniz!  Bu, pek \u00e7ok H\u0131ristiyan'\u0131n pe\u015fini b\u0131rakmayan bir korkudur ve imanl\u0131lar\u0131n evlili\u011fi bu kadar uzun s\u00fcre erteledi\u011fini g\u00f6rmemizin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir nedenidir.  Peki bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarz\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru olan birini bulman\u0131n en iyi yolu mu, yoksa potansiyel olarak harika partnerleri ka\u00e7\u0131rman\u0131za m\u0131 neden olacak?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-real-question-is-do-we-over-spiritualize-dating\">As\u0131l soru \u015fu: Randevular\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u0131 ruhsalla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>SALT Sosyal toplulu\u011funun \u00f6zellikle ilgin\u00e7 buldu\u011fum baz\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri var.  \u0130\u015fte buna meydan okuyan bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"\u00d6zg\u00fcr iradeye ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n egemen oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum ama yanl\u0131\u015f insanlarla evlenirsek Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in do\u011fru e\u015fi buldu\u011funa nas\u0131l inanabiliriz? Do\u011fru e\u015f de yanl\u0131\u015f ki\u015fiyle evlenmi\u015f olabilir ve o zaman ne olur?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Amanda<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu \u00f6nemli bir soru, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bence insanlar Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n y\u00f6nlendirmesinden \u00f6nce evlenirlerse do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi ka\u00e7\u0131racaklar\u0131na ve mutsuz bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fayacaklar\u0131na inan\u0131yorlar.  Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarz\u0131n\u0131n nereden geldi\u011fini bilmiyorum, ama buna ger\u00e7ekten inan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, o zaman \"do\u011fru ki\u015fi\" i\u00e7in (g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte s\u00fcresiz olarak) beklemek hakl\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kim mutsuz bir evlilik yapmak ister?  Bu t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 mahveder ve sadece kendinizi su\u00e7lars\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-next-question\">S\u0131radaki Soru<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>San\u0131r\u0131m o zaman \"do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi buldu\u011fumuzu nas\u0131l anlar\u0131z?\" diye sormam\u0131z gerekiyor.  Hepimiz Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 \u00e7ok net duyabildi\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek isteriz, ama ger\u00e7ekten duyabiliyor muyuz?  1. Korintliler 13:9 ayeti k\u0131smen bildi\u011fimizi ve k\u0131smen peygamberlik etti\u011fimizi s\u00f6yler ki, \u00e7o\u011fu insan bunu Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 duyma yetene\u011fimizin bu ya\u015famda sadece k\u0131smi oldu\u011fu \u015feklinde yorumlar.  Bu mant\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131'yla ili\u015fkimiz \u00e7o\u011funlukla \"g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezdir\" ve onu kafam\u0131zda, y\u00fcre\u011fimizde duyar\u0131z ama Tanr\u0131 nadiren bulutlar\u0131 yararak \"Sonia'yla evlenmelisin!\" der.  Ve bence bu muhtemelen kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak b\u00f6yle \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizim de dahil olmam\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"Bence e\u011fer biri 'do\u011fru ki\u015fi' ise, bu do\u011fru hissettirecektir, 'ama'lar olmayacakt\u0131r.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Rita<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-so-is-that-what-we-re-waiting-for\">Bekledi\u011fimiz \u015fey bu mu yani?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Ama \"s\u0131 olmayan biri mi?  Siz neyi 'ama' olarak s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?  'Amas\u0131 olmayan' bir ili\u015fki var m\u0131d\u0131r ki?  Bana bekledi\u011fimiz \u015fey m\u00fckemmellikmi\u015f gibi geliyor, ki siz de hayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca bunu bekliyor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"San\u0131r\u0131m randevula\u015fmay\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ruhsalla\u015ft\u0131rabiliyorsak, az ruhsalla\u015ft\u0131rabiliriz de! Yani Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 ve onun bu s\u00fcre\u00e7teki rol\u00fcn\u00fc hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden fl\u00f6rt etmeye devam ediyoruz. Her ikisiyle de su\u00e7land\u0131m (ayn\u0131 sohbette ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan) ama \u015fahsen dengeyi do\u011fru kurdu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum \ud83d\udc4c\ud83d\ude1c\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Adam<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-balance\">Denge<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Adam muhtemelen hakl\u0131 - Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n rehberli\u011fini aramak ile size kim iyi geliyorsa onun pe\u015finden gitmek aras\u0131nda bir denge var.  Acaba Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 tan\u0131mak ve kendini tan\u0131mak, bunlar\u0131n \u00e7eli\u015fmek zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir t\u00fcr sezgiye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir mi?  Bu muhtemelen insan\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131yla ilgili daha derin bir ruhani ve teolojik soru ve i\u00e7imizdeki Kutsal Ruh'un o kadar a\u015fina olup olamayaca\u011f\u0131 ve do\u011fal olarak onun hareket etti\u011fi gibi hareket edip edemeyece\u011fimiz... en az\u0131ndan ka\u011f\u0131t \u00fczerinde kula\u011fa ho\u015f geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"\u0130nsanlar\u0131n kendi kalplerindeki g\u00fcvensizlikleri, endi\u015feleri ve mant\u0131ks\u0131z korkular\u0131, dua ya da dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yoluyla herhangi bir netlik aramadan Tanr\u0131'dan gelen bir cevap olarak yorumlad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Bu benim g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Sonia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu, en az\u0131ndan benim i\u00e7in, \"do\u011fru\" hissedene kadar beklemenin korkusudur.  Tanr\u0131 kavram\u0131m\u0131z duygular\u0131m\u0131za o kadar kap\u0131labilir ki, harika birini ka\u00e7\u0131rabiliriz.  Ne yapmal\u0131, ne yapmal\u0131!?  Analiz felci bizi ger\u00e7ekten mahvedebilir ve H\u0131ristiyan ruhanili\u011fi bunun i\u00e7in bir may\u0131n tarlas\u0131 olabilir!  Kimin do\u011fru cevab\u0131 var?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iradesine uymak son derece \u00f6nemlidir, ancak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n her insandaki g\u00fczel eserini g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in harekete ge\u00e7memiz ve insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131mam\u0131z gerekir. M\u00fckemmel insan\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 bekleriz, ancak bunu yaparken \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde duran her bir hazineye de\u011fer vermek yerine listelerimize odaklanarak insanlar\u0131n i\u00e7indeki de\u011feri ka\u00e7\u0131rabiliriz.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Alison<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sophie-stogdon-dupe-1-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"yemek yiyen k\u0131z\" class=\"wp-image-793\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sophie-stogdon-dupe-1-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sophie-stogdon-dupe-1-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sophie-stogdon-dupe-1-7x12.jpeg 7w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sophie-stogdon-dupe-1.jpeg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-looking-beyond-expectations\">Beklentilerin \u00d6tesine Bakmak<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu inan\u0131lmaz bir duygu.  Tanr\u0131 herkesi g\u00fczel ve harika bir \u015fekilde yaratt\u0131 ve biz burada herkesi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne yarg\u0131l\u0131yoruz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bize \"birini bulmak\" ve \"her insan\u0131 dua ederek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek\" gibi \u015feyler sat\u0131ld\u0131, oysa ger\u00e7ekte belki de biraz yery\u00fcz\u00fcne geri d\u00f6nmeli ve \u0130sa'y\u0131 sadece dua ederken g\u00f6zlerimiz kapal\u0131 de\u011fil, insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6zlerinde g\u00f6rmeliyiz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"Bazen kendi korkular\u0131m\u0131z ve duygular\u0131m\u0131z proaktif olmam\u0131z\u0131 engelleyebilir ve bunun yerine neden pasif oldu\u011fumuzun nedeni olarak maneviyat\u0131 kullan\u0131r\u0131z.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Angela<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben derim ki - d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n ve insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n.  Ne arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yatak odan\u0131zdaki bir listeyle de\u011fil (\u00e7ocuk isteyip istemedikleri gibi pazarl\u0131k konusu olmayanlar d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda), ba\u011flant\u0131 ve ili\u015fki yoluyla bulun.  Her zaman g\u00fcvende olun, ancak baz\u0131 yeni insanlar i\u00e7in birka\u00e7 risk al\u0131n.  Fl\u00f6rt havuzu kulvarda y\u00fczmek de\u011fildir, derin ve geni\u015ftir ve korkular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p i\u00e7ine atlamam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-salt-social\">SALT Sosyal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu gibi sohbetler, giderek yaln\u0131zla\u015fan bir d\u00fcnyada ba\u011flant\u0131da hissetmemize ger\u00e7ekten yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.  Gelin, SALT uygulamas\u0131nda yerle\u015fik bir topluluk ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 olan SOCIAL'da bekar Hristiyanlardan olu\u015fan canl\u0131 bir toplulukla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurun!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>SOCIAL, kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n hayat\u0131 birlikte payla\u015fmakla ilgili e\u011flenceli, ilgi \u00e7ekici bir platformda ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in gidilecek yerdir.  \u0130li\u015fki tavsiyesi isteyin, bir ibadet \u015fark\u0131s\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131n veya en sevdi\u011finiz kahve mekan\u0131n\u0131n foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 yay\u0131nlay\u0131n.  Ve kim bilir, belki bu s\u0131rada harika biriyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn SOCIAL'da sohbete kat\u0131l\u0131n! Yapman\u0131z gerekenler&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SALT uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 indirin<\/a>&nbsp;ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toplulu\u011fumuzun erkeklerin ilk hamleyi yap\u0131p yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi konusunda ne dedi\u011fini duymak ister misiniz? Okuyun\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/ilk-hamle\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Burada<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya da ilk bulu\u015fma i\u00e7in baz\u0131 ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 ve p\u00fcf noktalar\u0131 m\u0131 istiyorsunuz? Onlar\u0131 okuyun\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/ilk-bulusma\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Burada<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s pretty rare that we over-spiritualize something. Most of the time we forget that the things of life are spiritual. So why is Christian dating so hard? 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