{"id":1303,"date":"2025-03-13T13:24:27","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T13:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=1303"},"modified":"2025-11-12T14:26:00","modified_gmt":"2025-11-12T14:26:00","slug":"birden-fazla-kisiyle-cikmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/dating-multiple-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Birden Fazla Ki\u015fiyle \u00c7\u0131kmak Yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ge\u00e7enlerde 2003 (!) yap\u0131m\u0131 klasi\u011fi yeniden izledim<em> Bruce Almighty<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha gen\u00e7 izleyiciler i\u00e7in, \u00f6ncelikle bir izleyin. Film, ba\u015fta Tanr\u0131 olmak \u00fczere t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kendisine kar\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen hevesli haber sunucusu Bruce Nolan'\u0131 (Jim Carrey) anlat\u0131yor. Hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7indeyken Tanr\u0131'yla (Morgan Freeman - ba\u015fka kim olabilir ki) tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve Bruce'a t\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7lerini verir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Bruce zaten daha iyi bir i\u015f yapabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektedir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130lk ba\u015fta bu yeni g\u00fc\u00e7ler Bruce'un hayat\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirir. Baz\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 d\u00fczeltir, hayalindeki i\u015fi al\u0131r ve <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@clip_inator\/video\/7367960631858842913\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bir kase domates \u00e7orbas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131l deniz gibi<\/a>\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak k\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra ili\u015fkisi da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ve g\u00fc\u00e7leri bunu d\u00fczeltmeye yetmedi\u011finde Bruce, Tanr\u0131 olman\u0131n herkese istedi\u011fini vermek kadar kolay olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zor yoldan \u00f6\u011frenir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O zaman neden g\u00fc\u00e7leri k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n onu tekrar sevmesini sa\u011flamaktan aciz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zg\u00fcr irade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt etmenin sorunu da bu. \u00c7ok zor! Hepimiz sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek ya da kendi kendimize Tanr\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k oynayarak arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015fiyi bulmak isteriz. E\u011fer \u00f6yle olsayd\u0131 emin olun her \u015feyi kendi zaman\u0131m\u0131zda ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirdik. Ama \u00f6zg\u00fcr irade devreye girer.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepimiz kiminle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u00e7\u0131kmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 se\u00e7mekte \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcz. Ve ayn\u0131 anda istedi\u011fimiz kadar insanla \u00e7\u0131kmakta da \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcz. De\u011fil mi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/birden-fazla-kisiyle-cikmak-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak<\/a> \u00f6zellikle Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt \u00e7evrelerinde baharatl\u0131 bir konu olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n se\u00e7imlerini kontrol edebilir miyiz? Ayn\u0131 anda birden fazla ki\u015fiyle mesajla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in kendimizi su\u00e7lu hissetmeli miyiz? Ayn\u0131 hafta i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 ki\u015filerle 3 randevuya evet diyebilir miyiz?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde neyin do\u011fru neyin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bulmak bazen \u00e7ok basitken, di\u011ferleri i\u00e7in daha bulan\u0131k olabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00fczden gri alanda y\u00fczece\u011fiz ve \u015fu soruyu ele alaca\u011f\u0131z - Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0131?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>'Tarih'i tan\u0131mlay\u0131n&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Kurabiye k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na giden yol&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Faydalar\u0131&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Dezavantajlar<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Sorular<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Hristiyan Olarak Birden Fazla Ki\u015fiyle \u00c7\u0131kmak\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/atcREXoma8o?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-define-date\">'Tarih'i tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce en \u00f6nemlisi, birden fazla ki\u015fiyle '\u00e7\u0131kmaktan' bahsederken ayn\u0131 \u015feyden bahsetti\u011fimizden emin olmakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Randevular\u0131 fl\u00f6rtten ay\u0131ran \u015feyin ne oldu\u011funa dair her birimizin kendi tan\u0131m\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. Bu nedenle, bu Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt blogunda '\u00e7oklu fl\u00f6rt' s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda ne t\u00fcr bir 'fl\u00f6rt'ten bahsetti\u011fimi a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011fa kavu\u015fturaca\u011f\u0131m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n (hem H\u0131ristiyanlar hem de H\u0131ristiyan olmayanlar i\u00e7in), zaten kararl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7indeyken ba\u015fka insanlarla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011finin a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011funu umuyorum. Bu aldatmakt\u0131r. Umar\u0131m bunun daha fazla a\u00e7\u0131klamaya ihtiyac\u0131 yoktur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey, ba\u011flant\u0131n\u0131n erken a\u015famalar\u0131nda farkl\u0131 insanlarla randevulara \u00e7\u0131kmakt\u0131r. Bu, e\u015fle\u015fme\/tan\u0131\u015fma ve ilk (birka\u00e7) randevu t\u00fcr\u00fcnde bir aland\u0131r. \u0130\u015fler yeniyse ve insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, '\u00e7oklu randevu' se\u00e7ece\u011finiz bir yakla\u015f\u0131m olabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-is-it-important-that-we-define-this\">Bunu tan\u0131mlamam\u0131z neden \u00f6nemlidir?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak d\u00fcnyaya iyi birer tan\u0131k olmak gibi \u00f6nemli bir g\u00f6revimiz var. \u00c7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filer de dahil olmak \u00fczere t\u00fcm insanlar\u0131n onurunu korumak. Birka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n hangi noktalarda sorun te\u015fkil etmeyece\u011fini ve hangi noktalarda \u00e7izgiyi a\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek, ili\u015fkimiz ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ve evlilikle sonu\u00e7lanmasa bile sayg\u0131 ve nezaket \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan emin olmak i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir husustur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa gibi ya\u015famam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini, O'nun bize olan sevgisinin ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l sevip sayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da etkileyen bir sevgi oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Mesih'le birlikte \u00e7arm\u0131ha gerildim. Art\u0131k ya\u015fayan ben de\u011filim, i\u00e7imde ya\u015fayan Mesih'tir. Ve \u015fimdi bedende ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ya\u015fam\u0131, beni seven ve benim i\u00e7in kendini feda eden Tanr\u0131 O\u011flu'na iman ederek ya\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Galatyal\u0131lar 2:20<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-way-the-cookie-crumbles\">Kurabiyenin K\u0131r\u0131lma \u015eekli<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mesele \u015fu ki, \u00f6zellikle \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i bulu\u015fma birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kma f\u0131rsat\u0131 sunuyor. Bu, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ve \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7\u0131kma \u015feklimizin bir ger\u00e7e\u011fidir ve bunun H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak yapmam\u0131z gereken bir \u015fey olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 konusunda hepimizin farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri olsa da, bir dereceye kadar bunun sadece bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu kabul etmemiz gerekir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7ta, bir uygulamada olmak ve kayd\u0131rmak muhtemelen ayn\u0131 anda birden fazla ki\u015fiyle e\u015fle\u015fmenize yol a\u00e7acakt\u0131r. Bu, bir dereceye kadar, bir say\u0131 oyunudur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7evrimi\u00e7i bulu\u015fma Hristiyan bulu\u015fma yolculu\u011funuzun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olacaksa, uygulamadakilerin \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i e\u015fle\u015firken di\u011fer insanlarla konu\u015facaklar\u0131 fikrine al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gerekir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama bu iyi bir \u015fey. Size farkl\u0131 insanlarla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurma \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de verir. E\u011fer ilk e\u015fle\u015fmenizi Tanr\u0131'dan gelen bir i\u015faret olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrseniz, \u00e7ok erken yat\u0131r\u0131m yaparak hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bek\u00e2r Hristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlar olarak, \u00f6zellikle internet \u00fczerinden fl\u00f6rt etmeye yakla\u015f\u0131rken, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ve kontrol gibi \u015feylerin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerimizi g\u00f6lgelemesine izin vermeden, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn iyi fl\u00f6rt etmemize ve bulu\u015fabilece\u011fimiz Hristiyan havuzunu geni\u015fletmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan y\u00f6nlerini benimseyebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"kahveli \u00e7ift\" class=\"wp-image-709\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/jonathan-j-castellon-be8AmxavYp8-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-benefits\">Faydalar\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak yanl\u0131\u015f olmayabilirse, bunu bizim i\u00e7in do\u011fru yapan nedir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-perspective\">Perspektif<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak, \u00e7\u0131karken daha iyi bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hristiyan bekarlar i\u00e7in en yayg\u0131n fl\u00f6rt \u015fikayetlerinden biri, \u00e7\u0131kacak ba\u015fka bir Hristiyan bulamamalar\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0131\u015far\u0131da uygun Hristiyan erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n endi\u015fe verici bir k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r ve bu nedenle birini bulursak, \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n artmas\u0131ndan korktu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in o ki\u015fiye olmas\u0131 gerekenden daha fazla \u015fans verebiliriz. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">di\u011fer bekar Hristiyanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak<\/a> \u00e7ok ince.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak dostlar, korkuyla motive olmamal\u0131y\u0131z (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm%2027%3A1&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Mezmur 27:1<\/a>). Havuz daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck olsa da, ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\">d\u0131\u015far\u0131da bekar Hristiyanlar var<\/a>bir\u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7\u0131kmaya haz\u0131r ve istekli!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak, 'Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131' konusundaki bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmenize ve kendinizi bir ili\u015fkinin i\u00e7inde bulmak i\u00e7in umutsuzca hareket etmenize veya \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nca tavizler vermenize gerek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. Bu da sizi \u00e7\u0131karken biraz daha rahatlatacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-personality\">Ki\u015filik<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Randevula\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a farkl\u0131 insanlarla tan\u0131\u015farak ve onlar\u0131 tan\u0131yarak, bu ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin ho\u015funa gitmesi i\u00e7in dua etti\u011finiz bir ki\u015fili\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnmek yerine otantik benli\u011finizi, ger\u00e7ek ki\u015fili\u011finizi ortaya koyman\u0131za olanak tan\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu da fl\u00f6rt ederken \u00fczerimizdeki bask\u0131y\u0131 azalt\u0131r. Art\u0131k ne kadar kutsal oldu\u011fumuzu kan\u0131tlamak i\u00e7in her etkinlikte boy g\u00f6stererek ya da s\u0131rf onunla konu\u015facak bir \u015feylerimiz olsun diye en sevdi\u011fi kahve tedarik\u00e7isini \u00f6\u011frenerek H\u0131ristiyan a\u015fk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l cezbedebilece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda de\u011filiz. Biraz gev\u015feyebilir ve kendimiz olabiliriz. Bu bizi, tan\u0131maya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlarda neleri sevdi\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok daha iyi bir kafa yap\u0131s\u0131na sokar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-perfect-partner\">M\u00fckemmel Ortak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Daha fazla insana maruz kalmak, bir partnerde ne isteyip istemedi\u011finizi g\u00f6rmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur - bu, \u00f6zellikle fl\u00f6rt etmek sizin i\u00e7in yeniyse veya bir s\u00fcre sonra tekrar fl\u00f6rt etmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorsan\u0131z yararl\u0131d\u0131r. Bir bak\u0131ma, zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nleri hakk\u0131nda nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finizi farkl\u0131 randevularla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rabilmek size \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilece\u011finiz bir \u015fey verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyen randevular\u0131 ya da ili\u015fkileri oldu\u011funda hep \u015f\u00f6yle derdim: \"Art\u0131k bilmedi\u011fin baz\u0131 \u015feyleri biliyorsun ve <em>o <\/em>bir ili\u015fkide sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlidir\". Bu, fl\u00f6rt etmenin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve normal bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r; ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla etkile\u015fime girdik\u00e7e ne istedi\u011fimizi \u00f6\u011freniriz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elbette ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fte a\u015fk masal\u0131 kula\u011fa harika ve zaman kazand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 geliyor, ancak bence filmlerin jeneri\u011finden sonra 'sonsuza dek mutlu' ibaresini g\u00f6rmememizin bir nedeni var.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle '\u00e7oklu randevu', insanlar\u0131 sizin lehinize kazanmak i\u00e7in rekabete sokmak de\u011fil, bunun yerine size farkl\u0131 insan t\u00fcrlerine ba\u011flanman\u0131n gelece\u011finiz i\u00e7in ne anlama gelebilece\u011fini ve bunun istedi\u011finiz bir \u015fey olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeniz i\u00e7in alan sa\u011flar!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-drawbacks\">Dezavantajlar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n bu kadar \u00e7ok faydas\u0131 varsa, bu yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na m\u0131 gelir? Bu da tam olarak do\u011fru de\u011fil...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-paradox-of-choice\">Se\u00e7im Paradoksu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zg\u00fcr iradenin \u00f6teki y\u00fcz\u00fc ise, bunun bizi isteklerimizin pe\u015finde ko\u015farken olduk\u00e7a karars\u0131z ve benmerkezci yapabilmesidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hem y\u00fcz y\u00fcze hem de online randevularda \u00e7ok fazla se\u00e7enek ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bu, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n geri kalan\u0131 i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu kadar H\u0131ristiyanlar i\u00e7in de bir sorundur. Biz de bundan muaf de\u011filiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se\u00e7im paradoksu, insanlar\u0131n uzun zaman \u00f6nce sona ermesi gereken fl\u00f6rt senaryolar\u0131na ya da haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\/bilgelik sahibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanlarda fl\u00f6rt etmeye y\u00f6nlendirilmesine yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pulled-in-different-directions\">Farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nlere \u00e7ekildi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayn\u0131 anda birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n pratik bir ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi de vard\u0131r. Yeni ba\u015flayanlar i\u00e7in takip etmeniz ve yan\u0131tlamay\u0131 hat\u0131rlaman\u0131z gereken birden fazla konu\u015fman\u0131z olacak, baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in buna ayak uydurmak kolay de\u011fil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">'\u00c7oklu randevu' ayn\u0131 zamanda zaman\u0131n\u0131z, enerjiniz ve mali durumunuz \u00fczerinde de bir etkiye sahip olacakt\u0131r. Fl\u00f6rt etmek her zaman ucuz de\u011fildir. Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmaya evet diyorsan\u0131z, onlar\u0131 tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in takviminizde zamana, belki y\u00fcz y\u00fcze randevular ayarlamaya, ayn\u0131 'sizi tan\u0131ma konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131' yapmaya istekli olmaya ve bu insanlarla birlikte olmak i\u00e7in paran\u0131z\u0131 harcamaya ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eahsen ben, ayn\u0131 anda \u00e7ok fazla ki\u015fiyle konu\u015ftu\u011fumda duygular\u0131m\u0131n kar\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131ndan ya da o anda dikkatimi kime verdi\u011fimi takip etmekten dolay\u0131 duygular\u0131ma yeterince odaklanamayaca\u011f\u0131mdan endi\u015fe ederim. Ama bu sadece benim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-personal-reasons\">Ki\u015fisel Nedenler<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu da beni baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu noktas\u0131na getiriyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu bize do\u011fru gelmiyor. Bunun ki\u015fisel, pratik ya da tarihi sebepleri olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu size rahats\u0131zl\u0131k veriyorsa, hayat\u0131 kendiniz i\u00e7in zorla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n ve \u00e7\u0131karken bunu akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde bulundurun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyanl\u0131kta fl\u00f6rt etmenin siyah beyaz kurallar\u0131 yoktur. Ancak \u00f6zg\u00fcr iradeniz, size en uygun olan buysa tek tek \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131za izin verir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de farkl\u0131 insanlarla \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sizi yarg\u0131lamas\u0131ndan endi\u015fe etti\u011finiz i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle hissediyorsunuz. Bu duygu anla\u015f\u0131labilir olsa da, meydan okumaya de\u011fer olabilir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kiminle birlikte oldu\u011funuz veya nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc konusunda endi\u015feleniyorsan\u0131z, fl\u00f6rt ederken kendiniz olamazs\u0131n\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bilgelikle \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131y\u0131z ve en \u00f6nemli olmas\u0131 gereken g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcd\u00fcr, bu nedenle bu konuda O'nunla konu\u015fun ve sonra nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finize bak\u0131n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>E\u011fer i\u00e7inizden birinin bilgelikte eksi\u011fi varsa, kusur bulmadan herkese c\u00f6mert\u00e7e veren Tanr\u0131'dan istemelidir; o da size verecektir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yakup 1:5<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-questions\">Sorular<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru mu yoksa yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0131 oldu\u011funu ay\u0131rt ederken, cevap bulmas\u0131 zor baz\u0131 zor sorular ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeniz i\u00e7in birka\u00e7 tane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-dating-multiple-people-for-everyone\">Birden Fazla Ki\u015fiyle \u00c7\u0131kmak Herkese Uygun mu?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa cevap: Hay\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Benim gibi \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biriyseniz, olduk\u00e7a me\u015fgul biriyseniz ya da hen\u00fcz size tanr\u0131sal bir erkek ya da kad\u0131n getirmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131'ya biraz k\u0131zg\u0131nsan\u0131z - ayn\u0131 anda farkl\u0131 insanlarla \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak en iyi hareketiniz olmayabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak ge\u00e7mi\u015fte fl\u00f6rt ederken derinlere dalmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 davranm\u0131\u015f ve sonu\u00e7lar pek de olumlu olmam\u0131\u015f olanlar i\u00e7in, birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak yava\u015flaman\u0131za, se\u00e7eneklerinizi tartman\u0131za ve belki de daha bilgece kararlar vermenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/shorts\/CfL-11yDwMA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">E\u011fer her \u015feye \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 girme e\u011filiminiz varsa<\/a>\u00e7oklu randevu sizin i\u00e7in bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-manage-dating-multiple-people-is-there-a-maximum-number\">Birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131yorsunuz? Maksimum bir say\u0131 var m\u0131?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu ger\u00e7ekten size ba\u011fl\u0131. Hafta i\u00e7i gecelerinizin arka arkaya randevularla dolu olmas\u0131 sizi rahatlatabilir veya bir uygulamada konu\u015facak 5 ki\u015finiz oldu\u011funda kayd\u0131rmay\u0131 b\u0131rakabilirsiniz.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte \u00e7oklu randevularda dengeyi sa\u011flaman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilecek birka\u00e7 yakla\u015f\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kait Warman (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.heartofdating.com\/podcast\/dating-multiple-people-as-a-christian#section-5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn Kalbi<\/a>) \u00f6nermektedir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Sabit bir tempoda ilerleyin. Zaman en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130deal olarak, onlarla haftada bir randevu s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 belirleyin. Benzer \u015fekilde, arada onlarla ne kadar ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011funuzu da dengeleyin. \u0130nsanlar aras\u0131nda m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca e\u015fit ve adil olun.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">HopefulGirl (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianconnection.com\/dating-advice\/playing-with-numbers-the-thorny-issue-of-multi-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Hristiyan Ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131<\/a>) akl\u0131nda bir politika var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Birka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyle ilk randevular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ayarlaman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim. Ancak birinden ikinci veya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc randevuya \u00e7\u0131kacak kadar ho\u015flan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, bir ili\u015fki olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken di\u011fer bulu\u015fmalar\u0131 beklemeye al\u0131n. \u0130sterseniz 'bir i\u00e7eri, bir d\u0131\u015far\u0131' kap\u0131 politikas\u0131 uygulayabilirsiniz. (E\u011fer bunu istemek \u00e7ok fazlaysa, en az\u0131ndan yanl\u0131\u015f umut vermemek i\u00e7in yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 fl\u00f6rtleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck seviyede tutun).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-do-i-need-to-tell-the-people-i-m-meeting-that-i-m-dating-multiple-people\">Bulu\u015ftu\u011fum ki\u015filere birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6ylemem gerekir mi?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eimdi bu olduk\u00e7a zor bir soru.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131 evet diyebilir, aksi takdirde a\u00e7\u0131k ve \u015feffaf olmam\u0131\u015f olursunuz. Ancak di\u011fer taraftan, biriyle ilk bulu\u015fmada\/e\u015fle\u015fmede, sadece fark\u0131nda olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in, ba\u015fka insanlarla \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 beyan etmek biraz gariptir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu a\u015fman\u0131n en iyi yolu, soruldu\u011funda d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmakt\u0131r. E\u011fer fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz size ba\u015fka insanlarla konu\u015fup konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sorarsa ve cevab\u0131n\u0131z evet ise, bunu s\u00f6yleyin. Fl\u00f6rt ederken (normal bir \u015fekilde) a\u00e7\u0131k olun. E\u011fer birisi bu konuda rahat de\u011filse, sizinle \u00e7\u0131kmaya devam etmemeyi se\u00e7ebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-it-possible-to-find-even-one-person-to-date-let-alone-more\">B\u0131rak\u0131n daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7\u0131kacak bir ki\u015fi bile bulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sizi anl\u0131yorum ve 'Hristiyan k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n' ge\u00e7erli bir korku oldu\u011funu biliyorum. Unutmay\u0131n ki fl\u00f6rt etmek zaman zaman zordur ve bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in deneyimlerimiz ne kolay ne de randevular serbest ak\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmu\u015ftur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7evrimi\u00e7i Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak istiyorsan\u0131z, arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamalar\u0131nda nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dair baz\u0131 tavsiyelerimize g\u00f6z at\u0131n. Muhtemel tarih havuzunuzu geni\u015fletmek i\u00e7in kiliseleri ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131n gerekli olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek isteyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&#039;Birileriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak&#039; aldatmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3dHYz5k6KFI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Sonu\u00e7land\u0131ral\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Benim vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m sonu\u00e7, birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f ya da g\u00fcnah olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer aldat\u0131yorsan\u0131z, bu tamamen farkl\u0131 bir hikaye. Ancak biraz perspektif kazanmak ve bekar H\u0131ristiyanlar\u0131 tan\u0131rken gaz\u0131 hafifletmek isteyen bizler i\u00e7in birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmak do\u011fru yol olabilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak m\u00fckemmel olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131karken karars\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015febilece\u011fimizin fark\u0131nda olmal\u0131y\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En iyi yakla\u015f\u0131m, baz\u0131 zor sorular \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek ve birden fazla ki\u015fiyle \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 (ya da \u00e7\u0131kmamay\u0131) se\u00e7erken kendi 'nedenimizi' bilmektir.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently re-watched the 2003 (!) classic Bruce Almighty.&nbsp; For the younger audience out there, firstly give it a watch. 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