{"id":118,"date":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=118"},"modified":"2026-06-18T11:28:59","modified_gmt":"2026-06-18T11:28:59","slug":"sehvet-vs-cazibe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/lust-vs-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eehvet mi, Yoksa Sadece \u00c7ekicilik mi: S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131m m\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2026'da ya\u015fayan H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak \u015fehvet ile cazibe aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 bilmemiz gerekir<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/sevgi%cc%87-ve-sehvet-arasindaki%cc%87-fark\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00c7izgiyi a\u015f\u0131p a\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/a>? Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 onurland\u0131r\u0131rken fl\u00f6rt ili\u015fkilerimizde bu k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131ma nas\u0131l sahip olabiliriz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepimize kendi <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yanlar-ci%cc%87nsel-durtuleri%cc%87ni%cc%87-nasil-yonetebi%cc%87li%cc%87r\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">seks ve yak\u0131nl\u0131k arzusu<\/a> Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan. Bunu iyi y\u00f6netmek \u00e7aba ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir kalp gerektirir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130yi bir Hristiyan fl\u00f6rt tavsiyesi, kendimize ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu blogda cazibe ger\u00e7e\u011finin nerede bitip \u015fehvet alan\u0131n\u0131n nerede ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131na bakaca\u011f\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-and-its-lies\">\u015eehvet ve onun yalanlar\u0131.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\">Fantezi ve kurgu.&nbsp;<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#Lust vs. Attraction: Responding to attraction\">Cazibeye kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">G\u00fcnaha girme ile ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\">S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131m m\u0131?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\u015eehvet ve Uyar\u0131lma: Cinsel G\u00fcnahtan Nas\u0131l Ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m #shorts\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zCOlqp0c4ko?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/smr.fm\/about\/\">Dr. Corey<\/a> SALT bekarlar\u0131yla seks ve \u015fehvet hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fuyor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-or-attraction\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet mi, Cazibe mi?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zac Efron'a kar\u015f\u0131 hep bir \u015feyler hissetmi\u015fimdir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2006'da \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleme yetene\u011finden yoksun olmas\u0131 m\u0131yd\u0131? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/874198\/high-school-musical-2-turns-10-so-let-s-revisit-zac-efron-s-bet-on-it-sequence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Golf sahas\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ikonik 'dans' m\u0131?<\/a> Ya da inan\u0131lmaz derecede iyi ya\u015flanm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 m\u0131?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne olursa olsun, bu '\u00fcnl\u00fc a\u015fk\u0131' \u00fczerinde hi\u00e7 bu kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftim.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak son zamanlarda, Bay Efron'a olan d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kadar zarars\u0131z olmayabilece\u011fi dikkatimi \u00e7ekti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dcnl\u00fc bir akt\u00f6rle tan\u0131\u015fmak ya da \u00e7\u0131kmak a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 ula\u015f\u0131labilir bir ger\u00e7eklik de\u011fil. Ya da ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011fim bir \u015fey. Bu nedenle s\u00f6z konusu akt\u00f6r hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerim \u00f6nemsizdi. Biraz e\u011flence, zaman ge\u00e7irmenin (ve bekarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n) bir yolu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Olaya farkl\u0131 bir a\u00e7\u0131dan bak\u0131nca baz\u0131 dokunakl\u0131 sorular ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m birine kar\u015f\u0131 hissetti\u011fim \u00e7ekimden bir fark\u0131 var m\u0131? \u00c7ocukluk a\u015fk\u0131m asl\u0131nda kalbimde g\u00fcnah m\u0131 bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dikkatimi 'ula\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131m kadar uzakta' olan \u00e7ekici bir erke\u011fe sabitlemek biraz gri bir alana giriyor. Bu \u015fehvet ve cazibe.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu beni merakland\u0131rd\u0131 - \u00e7izgiyi a\u015ft\u0131m m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130ster bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan olun, ister fl\u00f6rt ediyor olun (hatta evli olun), aradaki \u00e7izgi biraz bulan\u0131kla\u015fabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 seviyorum ve \u0130sa'ya daha \u00e7ok benzemek istiyorum. Ancak heyecan ve cazibe duygular\u0131 i\u015fin i\u00e7ine girdi\u011finde, g\u00f6zlerimizi Tanr\u0131'dan ay\u0131r\u0131p insani isteklerimize \u00e7evirmek kolayd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak sevgi ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131zda Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011finde y\u00fcr\u00fcmek i\u00e7in, Tanr\u0131 vergisi olanla g\u00fcnahk\u00e2r olan\u0131 birbirinden ay\u0131rmam\u0131z gerekir.  Biliyoruz ki <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/seks-neden-evlilik-icindir\/\">seks evlilik i\u00e7indir<\/a> Ve Tanr\u0131'ya temiz bir bilin\u00e7le yakla\u015fmak istiyoruz.  Bu y\u00fczden de <strong>\u015eehvet ve Cazibe<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-is-a-sin\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet bir g\u00fcnaht\u0131r<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015e\u00fcphesiz, \u015fehvet bir g\u00fcnaht\u0131r ve biriyle \u00e7\u0131karken de ortadan kalkan bir g\u00fcnah de\u011fildir. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/flortte-cinsel-ayartmaya-karsi-koymanin-20-yolu\/\">fl\u00f6rtte cinsel ayartman\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmek<\/a> \u00e7ok!). Kutsal Kitap bunu \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde ifade eder. Bunun ayn\u0131 zamanda bir g\u00fcnah oldu\u011funu iddia ediyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n tarih boyunca bununla m\u00fccadele etti\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/GEN.39.NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Fotifar'\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131 ve onun \u015fehvet dolu istekleri Yusuf i\u00e7in i\u015fleri zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r<\/a>. \u00dcnl\u00fc bir hikaye vard\u0131r. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/2SA.11.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">David ve Bethsheba.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve el\u00e7iler bir\u00e7ok kiliseye mektup yazarak onlar\u0131 cinsel g\u00fcnahtan uzakla\u015fmaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131lar. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/1TH.4.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Selanikliler kilisesi gibi.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcn yar\u0131\u015fmalardan reality TV'ye, fanteziden d\u00f6nem dramas\u0131na kadar \u00e7ok say\u0131da TV program\u0131m\u0131z var. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi e\u011flence ve ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f i\u00e7in \u015fehveti sansasyonelle\u015ftiriyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak s\u0131kl\u0131kla yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir \u015fey, g\u00fcnah i\u00e7in bir hiyerar\u015fi yaratmakt\u0131r. Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnahlar di\u011ferlerinden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck ya da daha k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u015eehvet bu 'b\u00fcy\u00fck' g\u00fcnahlardan biridir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nedenini anlayabiliyorum. Yans\u0131malar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Sadece ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerinde de\u011fil, ruhani anlamda da. \u015eehvet, Tanr\u0131'ya olan sevgimize yer b\u0131rakmaz. O'nun sonsuzlu\u011fun bu taraf\u0131nda da ya\u015fanan sevgiye y\u00f6nelik tasar\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ve plan\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fakat \u0130sa \u00e7arm\u0131hta t\u00fcm g\u00fcnahlar\u0131m\u0131z u\u011fruna \u00f6ld\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes g\u00fcnah i\u015fledi ve Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n y\u00fcceli\u011finden yoksun kald\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(Romal\u0131lar 3:23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi \u00f6zellikle \u015fehvet konusunda g\u00fcnah\u0131n ve utanc\u0131n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder. Bu da insanlar\u0131n saklanmas\u0131na, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tekrarlamas\u0131na ve Tanr\u0131'dan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131na neden olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130sa bizi g\u00fcnahtan ve utan\u00e7tan \u00f6zg\u00fcr k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in geldi. Her g\u00fcnah \u0130sa'n\u0131n \u00e7arm\u0131hta d\u00f6k\u00fclen kan\u0131yla yenilmeliydi. \u0130ster dedikodu ister zina olsun. \u0130sa g\u00fcnah\u0131 yendi ve bizi sat\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck i\u00e7inde ya\u015famaya davet ediyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eehvet ile cazibe aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 ay\u0131rt ederken dikkatli olun. Bunu kendinizi d\u00f6vmek i\u00e7in bir sopa olarak kullanmay\u0131n. Ne de kendinizi kancadan kurtarman\u0131n bir yolu olarak. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n huzuruna \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n, y\u00fcre\u011finizde neyin a\u011f\u0131r bast\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itiraf edin ve O'nu izleyerek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde y\u00fcr\u00fcmek i\u00e7in ad\u0131mlar at\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u015eehvet i\u00e7inde kapana k\u0131s\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hissetmek\" class=\"wp-image-91\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-and-its-lies\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet ve yalanlar\u0131<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Genellikle \u015fehvetin yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ekim hissi \u00fczerine yap\u0131lan bir eylem oldu\u011funu varsayar\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak \u015fehvet de \u00e7ekicilikten ayr\u0131d\u0131r. Evet, cinsel \u00e7ekim duygumuz \u015fehvete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Ancak \u015fehvet Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n cazibe olarak yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyden \u00e7ok uzakt\u0131r. Ba\u015fka bir \u015fey olmal\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u015eehvet bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi, duyguyu, eylemi ya da ki\u015fiyi al\u0131r ve onu bir nesne haline getirir. 'Birini' bir '\u015feye' d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u015eehvet benli\u011fi te\u015fvik eder. \"Bunu istiyorum.\" \"Buna ihtiyac\u0131m var.\" \"Bu olmadan ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kamam.\" Di\u011ferini hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez. Bencilce ama\u00e7lar pe\u015finde ko\u015far.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u015eehvet, sahip olma arzumuzu y\u00f6nlendirmek i\u00e7in saplant\u0131y\u0131 kullan\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden \u015fehvet bir yaland\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n yaratt\u0131klar\u0131 kullan\u0131lacak bir nesne de\u011fildir. Tanr\u0131 bizi kendi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in yaratmad\u0131. Tanr\u0131 bize kendimize \u015fan ya da g\u00fc\u00e7 vermemiz i\u00e7in \u00f6zg\u00fcr irade vermedi.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u00e7arp\u0131tmalar, \u015fehvetin d\u00fc\u015fman taraf\u0131ndan bizi Tanr\u0131'dan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmak ve zarar vermek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortaya koymaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, yukar\u0131daki niyetlerden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011finizde \u015fehvetin resme ne zaman girdi\u011fini anlayabilirsiniz. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u015fehvet \u015fu durumlarda da belirgindir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Onun taraf\u0131ndan kontrol edildi\u011fini hissediyorsun.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ger\u00e7e\u011fi yerine yalanlara inan\u0131yorsunuz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ba\u015fka bir se\u00e7ene\u011finiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissediyorsunuz.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biliyorum, bunlar a\u011f\u0131r \u015feyler. \u015eehvet her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck dalgalar halinde ya da dramatik durumlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler ve eylemler de \u015fehvetin i\u00e7eri girmesine izin verebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet ve Cazibe:<\/strong> <strong>Fantezi ve kurgu<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eehveti en \u00e7ok te\u015fvik eden \u015fey zihnimizdeki fantezi ya da kurgu d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eehvet, bize ait olmayan \u015feylerden zevk ve ne\u015fe elde etme aray\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Bek\u00e2r bir H\u0131ristiyan olarak fl\u00f6rt ortam\u0131na girdi\u011finizde ya da seksi evlili\u011fe saklamay\u0131 se\u00e7tiyseniz bu durumla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ger\u00e7ekten zor olabilir. Ancak insanlar \u00e7e\u015fitli senaryolarda \u015fehvetle m\u00fccadele ederler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun nedeni \u00e7o\u011funlukla d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n bunu her zaman te\u015fvik etmesidir!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcnya bize istedi\u011fimiz \u015fey i\u00e7in \u00e7abalamaya devam etmemizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Arzu etti\u011fimiz her \u015fey kesinlikle bizim olabilir. Bunu filmlerde, medyada, dergilerde ve daha pek \u00e7ok yerde g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne yaz\u0131k ki kad\u0131nlar y\u0131llard\u0131r romantik komediler ve romanlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bu \u015fekilde besleniyor. Onlara m\u00fckemmel, g\u00f6steri\u015fli, cinsel a\u00e7\u0131dan atletik bir erke\u011fin d\u0131\u015far\u0131da bir yerde oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylendi. Onlarla birlikte olmak i\u00e7in her \u015feyi yapacakt\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla benim beynim de High School Musical g\u00fcnlerinden beri Zac Efron'u d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekle me\u015fgul.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu hikayeler neredeyse her zaman sadakatsizli\u011fi y\u00fcceltir. Bu sineman\u0131n her yerinde var. Bizim pe\u015finden ko\u015ftu\u011fumuz \u00e7iftlerden biri ya da her ikisi de asl\u0131nda aldat\u0131yor. <em>Mesaj\u0131n\u0131z Var, B\u00fcy\u00fcl\u00fc, Juliet'e Mektuplar<\/em> art\u0131 daha fazlas\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tipik olarak erkekler pornografi yoluyla bu fantezinin pe\u015finden gitmeye te\u015fvik edilmi\u015flerdir (bu konuya daha sonra de\u011finece\u011fiz).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak Tanr\u0131 bizi \u015f\u00f6yle \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r; '<em>Akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcnyevi \u015feylere de\u011fil, yukar\u0131daki \u015feylere verin' <\/em>(Koloseliler 3:2). Zihnimizde fantezilerin serbest\u00e7e dola\u015fmas\u0131na izin verdi\u011fimizde bunu yapmak ger\u00e7ekten zordur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Hristiyan Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde Duygusal S\u0131n\u0131rlar: Duygusal \u0130ffet i\u00e7in 5 \u0130pucu\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SNNNfrBvq2c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Delphine burada fl\u00f6rt fantezilerimize daha fazla giriyor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-responding-to-attraction\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet ve Cazibe: \u00c7ekime kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ekim (bu ba\u011flamda cinsel \u00e7ekim) Tanr\u0131'dan gelir. O bizi ili\u015fki i\u00e7in yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve \u00e7ekim duygular\u0131m\u0131z bizi buna y\u00f6nlendirir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cazibe deneyimimize katk\u0131da bulunan en \u00f6nemli unsurlardan biri duyular\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Daha fazla ten g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc, parf\u00fcm ya da kolonya kokusu, ses tonu. Birini \u00e7ekici buldu\u011fumuzda v\u00fccudumuzda perde arkas\u0131nda pek \u00e7ok \u015fey oluyor. TED-Ed'in videosu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=SNNNfrBvq2c\">\u00c7ekim Bilimi<\/a> bu konuda ilgin\u00e7 bir saat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bilimsel bir yakla\u015f\u0131m e\u011flenceyi ya da romantizmi ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok mant\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r. Tanr\u0131 seksi d\u00fcnyaya yeni bir hayat getirmek amac\u0131yla yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, \u00fcremek i\u00e7in iyi bir e\u015f bulmak ak\u0131ll\u0131ca g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. \u00d6zellikle de bunu fark\u0131na bile varmadan yap\u0131yorsak.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayn\u0131 zamanda bu fiziksel duygular\u0131n veya cinsel \u00e7ekim hislerinin neden bu kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilece\u011fini de a\u00e7\u0131klar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-feelings\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Duygular<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bunun \u00f6tesinde, cazibe iki \u00f6nemli fakt\u00f6r daha i\u00e7erir. Duygular\u0131m\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck bir rol oynar. Birinden etkilendi\u011fimizde bir duygu seli ya\u015far\u0131z. Heyecan, adrenalin, zevk, mutluluk, g\u00fcvenlik ya da onaylanma. Bunlar bizi daha fazla tatmin i\u00e7in o duyguyu aramaya devam etmeye iter.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir de arzular\u0131m\u0131z var. Hepimiz sevilmek i\u00e7in derinlerde bir \u00f6zlem duyar\u0131z. Tanr\u0131 bu \u00f6zlemi O'na yakla\u015fabilmemiz i\u00e7in y\u00fcreklerimize yerle\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Ba\u015fka biriyle yak\u0131n olma arzumuz tasar\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla cinsel cazibe harika bir \u015feydir. Birini bir\u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131dan da \u00e7ekici bulabiliriz. Bariz fiziksel \u00f6zelliklerin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra birinin ki\u015fili\u011fi, \u00f6zellikleri, stat\u00fcs\u00fc veya inanc\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u00e7ekime nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdi\u011fimiz, '\u00e7izgi' sorusunun ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerdir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu d\u00fcnyada \u00e7ekici insanlar var ve b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla bunlar\u0131 deneyimleyeceksiniz <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/onlari-hemen-begenme\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"3148\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u00e7ekim duygular\u0131<\/a>. Muhtemelen, bekar bir Hristiyan olarak biriyle \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyorsan\u0131z ya da Hristiyan bir fl\u00f6rt ili\u015fkiniz varsa, buna zaten a\u015finas\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 hayat\u0131n\u0131zda mutluluk, ne\u015fe ve zevk ya\u015faman\u0131z\u0131 ister. Buna seks de dahildir! Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131 bunun evlilikte tek bir ki\u015fiyle ya\u015fanmas\u0131d\u0131r. En \u00f6nemlisi de, do\u011fru niyetle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cinsel \u00e7ekim s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda niyetimiz her zaman kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi onurland\u0131rmak, ona sayg\u0131 duymak ve onu sevmek olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Buna kar\u015f\u0131 olan herhangi bir \u015fey Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131 de\u011fildir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman acil istek ve arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rakarak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizi bu \u00e7ekimi ifade edebilece\u011finiz do\u011fru ba\u011flama yerle\u015ftirmesini beklemek anlam\u0131na gelir. Tepkiden ziyade niyetle hareket etmeye \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131yoruz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do\u011fru zaman gelmeden cinsel \u00e7ekim duygular\u0131m\u0131zla harekete ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizde, bu sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00e7ekimi bencilli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrerek bizi \u015fehvete s\u00fcr\u00fckler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-be-wary\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Dikkatli olun<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O halde, harekete ge\u00e7medi\u011fimiz s\u00fcrece \u015fehvet dolu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sahip olman\u0131n sorun olmayaca\u011f\u0131na inanmak kolayd\u0131r. \u015e\u00fcphesiz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler iyidir? Ama Aziz Pavlus bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r <em>'Mesih'e itaat ettirmek i\u00e7in her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi esir al\u0131n' <\/em>(2. Korintliler 10:5). \u015eehvet dolu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler size Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131n\u0131 hep birlikte unutman\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Ancak cinsel \u00e7ekim duygular\u0131 Tanr\u0131'ya itaat yoluyla kontrol edilebilir ve y\u00f6netilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"\u015fehvet ve cazibe tutku\" class=\"wp-image-81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Tutku bizi buraya getirdi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u015eehvet ve Cazibe: <strong>Cinsel ayartmayla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eehvetin pek \u00e7ok ki\u015finin kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilece\u011fi ya da kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ger\u00e7eklik oldu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. D\u00fcnya, birlikte oldu\u011fumuz ki\u015filer ya da kendimiz taraf\u0131ndan bu yola s\u00fcr\u00fcklenmek \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu fark etti\u011fimizde, ayartmayla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00f6ncelik vermeliyiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-come-to-god-nbsp\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tanr\u0131'ya gelin&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yakup'un kitab\u0131 bize \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>...<\/em><\/strong><em>Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olun. \u015eeytana kar\u015f\u0131 direnin, o da sizden ka\u00e7acakt\u0131r. Tanr\u0131'ya yakla\u015f\u0131n, Tanr\u0131 da size yakla\u015facakt\u0131r. Ey g\u00fcnahk\u00e2rlar, ellerinizi y\u0131kay\u0131n; y\u00fcreklerinizi ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131n, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadakatiniz Tanr\u0131 ile d\u00fcnya aras\u0131nda b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(Yakup 4:7-8)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bizi \u00e7evreleyen ayartmalar\u0131n fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda iki se\u00e7ene\u011fimiz vard\u0131r. Bu yolda kalmak ya da Tanr\u0131'ya geri d\u00f6nmek. Burada ikincisinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir vaat g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Tanr\u0131 size yakla\u015facakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz, s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz ya da yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u0130sa'n\u0131n \u00c7arm\u0131h'ta ba\u015fard\u0131klar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 sizi Tanr\u0131'dan ay\u0131ramaz! Sadece \u015fehvetin sizin i\u00e7in bir sorun haline gelebilece\u011finden endi\u015fe ediyorsan\u0131z bile, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde kendinizi al\u00e7alt\u0131n. Dua edin ve O'ndan l\u00fctuf dileyin.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131'ya geldi\u011fimizde, d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n planlar\u0131na direnmek i\u00e7in bize g\u00fc\u00e7 verilir!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-remove-the-source-nbsp\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kayna\u011f\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131n&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu biraz zor. D\u00fcnya yerine Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n iste\u011fini onurland\u0131ran bir ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 se\u00e7mek zordur. \u015eehvetin sizi kontrol etti\u011fini hissediyorsan\u0131z, sizi tetikleyen \u015feyleri ortadan kald\u0131rmak \u00f6nemlidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eu anda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmuyorlarsa, fl\u00f6rt uygulamalar\u0131na ara vermeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Engel te\u015fkil edebileceklerini biliyoruz. Daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 okuyun '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/tanisma-uygulamalari-gunah\/\">Arkada\u015fl\u0131k Uygulamalar\u0131n\u0131n G\u00fcnah\u0131<\/a>\u2018.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanr\u0131 sizden ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda \u015fehveti b\u0131rakman\u0131z\u0131 istiyorsa, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u015feyler (d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, eylemler, i\u00e7erik, insanlar vb.) buna yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor mu yoksa zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-heal-the-heart\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kalbi iyile\u015ftirmek<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Muhtemelen biraz hasar kontrol\u00fc de gerekecektir. G\u00fcnah ruhumuzun sevincini al\u0131r, Tanr\u0131'yla ili\u015fkimize engel olur ve sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da etkileyebilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durum en a\u00e7\u0131k \u015fekilde pornografi kullan\u0131m\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir. Bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi pornoyu \u015fehvet dolu arzular\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ya da bunlar\u0131 ya\u015famak i\u00e7in kullanmaktad\u0131r. Bunun onlara zevk ve cinsel tatmin getirece\u011fi umuduyla.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak porno t\u00fcketmek daha k\u00f6t\u00fc ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck benlik sayg\u0131s\u0131, daha zay\u0131f beden imaj\u0131 ve artan yaln\u0131zl\u0131k ile ili\u015fkilidir (g\u00f6re <a href=\"https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Yeni Uyu\u015fturucuyla Sava\u015f\u0131n<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yaral\u0131 kalplerimiz ister porno kullan\u0131m\u0131ndan, ister \u015fehvet dolu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n di\u011fer eylemlerinden veya sonu\u00e7lar\u0131ndan kaynaklans\u0131n - iyile\u015fmemiz gerekir. \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yalanlardan kendimizi ay\u0131rmak ilk ad\u0131md\u0131r. Tanr\u0131 y\u00fcreklerimizi yenilemek ve onarmak ister. O k\u0131r\u0131lan her y\u00fcre\u011fi onar\u0131r! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=uHz0w-HG4iU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Bu ibadeti kullan\u0131n<\/a> Tanr\u0131'yla ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zaman i\u00e7in \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleyin ve O'nun size hizmet etmesine izin verin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nas\u0131l yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 hakk\u0131ndaki di\u011fer blogumuza g\u00f6z at\u0131n <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekar-bi%cc%87r-hiri%cc%87sti%cc%87yan-olarak-ci%cc%87nsel-cazi%cc%87be\/\">cinsel ayartman\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmek<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u015eehvet ve Cazibe:<\/strong> <strong>S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131m m\u0131?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Umar\u0131m bu blogda tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, \u015fehvet ve cazibe \u00f6l\u00e7e\u011finde nereye inece\u011finize karar vermenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmu\u015ftur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7izgiyi a\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131ndaysan\u0131z sessiz kalmay\u0131n. Bunu okumu\u015f ve tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, porno kullan\u0131m\u0131 ve hatta aldatma konusunda utan\u00e7 duymu\u015f olabilirsiniz. Yap\u0131lacak en iyi \u015fey, konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenilir bir Hristiyan bulmakt\u0131r. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, aile \u00fcyeniz ya da rahip\/ papaz\/mentor, zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z durumlarda sizinle birlikte dua edebilir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepimiz i\u00e7in l\u00fctfu kucaklama f\u0131rsat\u0131 vard\u0131r. H\u0131ristiyan fl\u00f6rt\u00fcnde korkuyu azaltmak i\u00e7in. 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