{"id":2974,"date":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2974"},"modified":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T08:13:10","slug":"situacijska-razmerja-in-kako-se-jim-izogniti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/situationships-and-how-to-avoid-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Situacije in kako se jim izogniti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta prispevek kristjanom pomaga prepoznati in se izogniti situacijam - ko so s partnerjem brez zavezanosti ali jasnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Povzetek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Upam, da se zavedate svoje vrednosti in se nikoli ne zadovoljite z drobtinicami od drugih. Nekateri kr\u0161\u010danski samski padejo v razmerja zaradi strahu in razmi\u0161ljanja, <em>\"To je bolje kot biti sam.\"<\/em> Tak\u0161nemu razmi\u0161ljanju naredimo konec! Zaslu\u017eite si najbolj\u0161e od Boga in vredno je po\u010dakati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kako se torej kot kristjani izogibamo situacijam? Tukaj je nekaj nasvetov:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarify-intentions-early\">Zgodaj razjasnite svoje namere<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Ne zadovoljite se s \"skoraj<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Varujte svoje srce in \u010dustva<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Dolo\u010danje in uveljavljanje meja<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Zaupajte Bogu namesto svojim ob\u010dutkom<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vem, da \u017eelite v svojem \u017eivljenju na zmenkih spo\u0161tovati Boga, in razumem, da je \u010dakanje na pravo osebo lahko te\u017eavno. Oseba pred vami se morda zdi privla\u010dna, a ko pogledate pod povr\u0161je, ugotovite, da ni to, kar si resni\u010dno \u017eelite. Morda se vam zdaj ne zdi smiselno, vendar je zaupanje v Bo\u017eji \u010das najbolj\u0161a stvar, ki jo lahko naredite. Da, izpostavite se in spoznavajte nove ljudi, vendar uporabite razlo\u010devanje, da prepoznate, kdaj zapravljate svoj \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kako se spopasti s situacijo?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4Vd8hU5XAR8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Uvod<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ste bili kdaj v situacijskem razmerju ali poznate koga, ki je bil v takem razmerju? Morda ste bili zunaj in ste opazovali, kako va\u0161 prijatelj od nekoga sprejema drobtinice, ter si mislili, <em>\"Zaslu\u017eijo si veliko ve\u010d.\"<\/em> Ali pa ste se morda zna\u0161li v situacijskem odnosu in ostali, ker ste mislili, da lahko <em>\"spremenite osebo.\"<\/em> Verjeli ste, da boste v njihovih o\u010deh druga\u010dni in da se vam bodo kon\u010dno posvetili. Toda na koncu sta vam zaradi te odlo\u010ditve ostala le zlomljeno srce in verjetno ob\u010dutek neumnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaj to\u010dno je situacijsko razmerje? Tega izraza sem se nau\u010dil \u0161ele pred nekaj leti in mislim, da je lahko tesno povezan s \"prijateljstvom\". Situacijska zveza je, ko si z nekom deli\u0161 romanti\u010dno zvezo, vendar brez obveznosti. Pogovarjata se globoko, pre\u017eivljata \u010das skupaj, vendar ni nobene jasnosti. Morda celo prestopite meje in spite s to osebo, vendar ni varnosti pravega odnosa. Vedno se spra\u0161ujete, <em>\"Kaj smo?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">Moja zgodba<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve\u010dina kr\u0161\u010danskih samskih ne vstopa v tovrstna razmerja namenoma. Ne zavedajo se, da jih lahko prav majhni kompromisi pripeljejo do ne\u010desa, \u010desar si nikoli niso \u017eeleli. Preden sem leta 2019 spoznala svojega mo\u017ea, sem se zna\u0161la v podobnem polo\u017eaju. Mislila sem, da je ta mo\u0161ki ulov, a ko sva se pogovarjala o napredovanju, je ves \u010das govoril, da je razdalja prevelika. Naj pojasnim - oba sva \u017eivela v istem mestu, med nama je bilo le pribli\u017eno petin\u0161tirideset minut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po svojih najbolj\u0161ih mo\u010deh sem se trudil spo\u0161tovati njegove \u017eelje, vendar bi moral oditi. Namesto tega sem se \u0161e naprej pogovarjal z njim in domneval, da si bo premislil. Sledili so globoki pogovori, in \u010deprav se je zdelo, da gre za razmerje, to ni bilo. S\u010dasoma mi je Bog rekel, naj neham sprejemati njegove klice. Kljub temu, da sem \u0161e vedno \u010dutila nekaj do njega, sem ga ubogala. Dve leti pozneje sem spoznala svojega mo\u017ea, ki je \u017eivel v New Yorku. Oddaljenost zanj ni bila pomembna, saj sem bila vredna, da me vidi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarify-intentions-early\">Zgodaj razjasnite svoje namere<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce hodite na zmenke s ciljem poroke, nima smisla iskati nekoga, ki se ne \u017eeli zavezati. To ne pomeni, da je slaba oseba - pomeni le, da ne deli va\u0161ih ciljev. Vi si \u017eelite poroke in otrok, oni pa bi raje ostali brez vezi. Neko\u010d sem videl \u017eensko, ki je voditelja pogovorne oddaje vpra\u0161ala, kaj naj stori s svojim enoletnim fantom, ki je ni zaprosil za roko. Preselila sta se skupaj, vendar je \u0161e vedno ni zaprosil za roko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u0161ki se je odzval z besedami, ki sem jih opazil, drugi pa so jih o\u010ditno spregledali, da je videl veliko neuspe\u0161nih razmerij okoli sebe in da se boji, da bo kon\u010dal na enak na\u010din. Ni \u017eelel tvegati, \u010de se stvari ne bi iz\u0161le. \u010ceprav je \u0161lo za posvetno oddajo, se tudi kr\u0161\u010danski samski znajdejo v podobnih situacijah. Zgodnje dolo\u010danje svojih namenov pomaga odpraviti zmedo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-be-intense-about-it\">Ne bodite intenzivni glede tega<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To ne pomeni, da morate na prvem zmenku deliti svoje \u017eivljenjske cilje. \u010ce pa po nekaj zmenkih in smiselnih pogovorih za\u010dutite, da sta vajini poti razli\u010dni, zaupajte temu ob\u010dutku in pojdite naprej. Nekoga ne morete prepri\u010dati, da ste prava izbira. Samo Bog lahko spremeni srce osebe, zato ne izgubljajte \u010dasa s poskusi. Prava oseba bo takoj uvidela va\u0161o vrednost in naredila vse, kar je potrebno, da osvoji va\u0161e srce. Ne bo vam je treba prepri\u010devati, naj vas izbere ali ljubi - preprosto bo vedela in tako boste vedeli tudi vi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne pozabite, da ste <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/zmenki-za-poroko\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">jasno izrazi svoje namene.<\/a> je povezano s tveganjem, da nekoga izgubite. Ste pripravljeni oditi, \u010de je to potrebno? To ni enostavno, vendar vam lahko na dolgi rok prihrani bole\u010dino v srcu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-settle-for-almost\">Ne zadovoljite se s \"skoraj<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce pomislim, da sem se skoraj odlo\u010dila za mo\u0161kega, ki ni bil pripravljen na petin\u0161tiridesetminutno potovanje. Skoraj v vsakem pogovoru je omenil to vpra\u0161anje, reko\u010d, <em>\"To bi lahko delovalo, vendar si tako dale\u010d.\"<\/em> Dve leti pozneje sem spoznala svojega mo\u017ea, ki je brez oklevanja kupil letalsko vozovnico iz New Yorka v Teksas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ko gledam nazaj, se zdaj zavedam, da mo\u0161ki iz leta 2019 v resnici ni vedel, kaj ho\u010de. \u010ceprav je bil kristjan, je \u0161e vedno delal na sebi. Imel je te\u017eave z zapu\u0161\u010denostjo, in \u010deprav je ljubil Boga, ni bil pripravljen na predano razmerje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naredil sem napako, ker sem ostal naokoli. Globoko v sebi sem \u010dutil, da ni dobra ideja, da bi se \u0161e naprej pogovarjal z njim, vendar sem v najinih pogovorih resni\u010dno u\u017eival. Nisem se zavedala - dokler mi Gospod ni jasno pokazal, da me ta mo\u0161ki uporablja kot medicinsko sestro. Imel je veliko travm iz preteklosti in namesto k Bogu se je zatekal k meni po \u010dustveno podporo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-aware\">Bodite pozorni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Veliko ljudi, zlasti \u017eensk, se v to zaplete, ker smo po naravi vzgojiteljice. Bog nas je ustvaril za pomo\u010d in podporo, vendar \u010de nismo previdne, lahko na koncu postanemo mo\u0161ke medicinske sestre. Prav to se je zgodilo tudi meni. V mnogih pogledih sem postala idol v njegovem \u017eivljenju. Nikoli ne bom pozabila, ko me je poklical in mi povedal, da se je zgodilo nekaj hudega. Ni mi zaupal podrobnosti, vendar sem domnevala, da se je vrnil k starim navadam. Potem me je neko no\u010d poklical ob dveh zjutraj: <em>\"Ne dvigujte telefona in ga ne kli\u010dite nazaj.\"<\/em> Bilo je te\u017eko, a sem ubogal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lahko bi se umirila in razmi\u0161ljala, <em>\"Tak\u0161ni so pa\u010d odnosi. Nih\u010de ni popoln.\"<\/em> In \u010deprav je res, da noben zakonec ni brez napak, je razlika med tem, da si nekomu negovalec, in tem, da ga podpira\u0161, ko sam re\u0161uje stvari z Bogom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zdaj sem poro\u010dena z mo\u0161kim, ki se vsako jutro zbudi pred son\u010dnim vzhodom, da bi molil in iskal Boga v Svetem pismu. \u010ceprav ga podpiram, najprej i\u0161\u010de Gospoda, preden pride k meni. Pokriva me z molitvijo in si prizadeva, da bi me ljubil, kot Kristus ljubi Cerkev. Ni vam treba sprejeti manj iz strahu ali verjeti, da je to vse, kar si zaslu\u017eite. Nekateri kr\u0161\u010danski samski se zadovoljijo, ker mislijo, da jih pretekle napake diskvalificirajo od Bo\u017ejega najbolj\u0161ega. Toda manj od Bo\u017ejega najbolj\u0161ega ni nikoli va\u0161 dele\u017e. On ima za vas pripravljene neverjetne stvari - \u010de zaupate Njemu in Njegovemu \u010dasu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"725\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg\" alt=\"sedenje s psom\" class=\"wp-image-2528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-725x1024.jpg 725w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-768x1085.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-1087x1536.jpg 1087w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/shan-w-dupe-2.jpg 1415w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-guard-your-heart-and-emotions\">Varujte svoje srce in \u010dustva<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eden od razlogov, zakaj se nekateri ljudje ujamejo v situacijska razmerja, je, da so se v mislih \u017ee \"poro\u010dili\" z osebo. Nekateri kr\u0161\u010danski samski, ki niso bili nikoli na zmenku ali pa so \u017ee dolgo samski, lahko sko\u010dijo na prvo osebo, ki jim nameni pozornost. Prepri\u010dujejo se, da za\u010deti znova ni mogo\u010de, ker so presegli trideset, \u0161tirideset ali se bli\u017eajo petdesetim. Verjamejo v la\u017e, da jim \"zmanjkuje \u010dasa\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je velika napaka. Randi so le dogodek, ne gre za zavezo ali predlog za poroko. Namen zmenka je zbrati informacije o drugi osebi. Po zmenku ne bi smelo biti vpra\u0161anje, <em>\"Ali se ho\u010dem poro\u010diti z njima?\"<\/em> temve\u010d, <em>\"Ali \u017eelim iti na drugi zmenek?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-guard-your-heart\">Kako varovati svoje srce<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pregovori 4,23 pravijo, <em>\"Skrbno varujte svoje srce, kajti iz njega izvirajo vpra\u0161anja \u017eivljenja.\"<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavel kasneje pi\u0161e v Pismu Filipljanom 4,7, <em>\"Bo\u017eji mir, ki presega vsak razum, pa bo varoval va\u0161a srca in misli v Kristusu Jezusu.\"<\/em> Vendar pa varovanje srca ne pomeni gradnje zidov. Nekateri kr\u0161\u010danski samski to zavle\u010dejo v skrajnost in vse dr\u017eijo na razdalji, da bi se za\u0161\u010ditili. Vendar to ni zdravo, saj je v jedru zakoreninjeno v strahu, da bi bili prizadeti ali prevarani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sveto pismo nam naro\u010da, naj varujemo svoja srca, kar pomeni, da moramo ostati pozorni in preudarni. Pozorni moramo biti na to, koga spustimo v svoje \u017eivljenje, saj se na\u0161a \u010dustva spremenijo, ko se na\u0161e srce na nekoga nave\u017ee. \u010ce namerno nadzorujemo svoja \u010dustva, je manj verjetno, da bomo prevarani. Boga lahko prosimo za razlo\u010devanje in za razkritje resni\u010dnih namenov osebe, ki nas zanima. Odgovor morda ne bo vedno tak\u0161en, kot si ga \u017eelimo sli\u0161ati, toda ko Boga povabimo v ta proces, nas ne bo nikoli zapeljal na kriva pota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kako varovati svoje srce na zmenkih\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8H-NYeXDyHI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-establish-and-enforce-boundaries\">Dolo\u010danje in uveljavljanje meja<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce nekdo ne spo\u0161tuje va\u0161ih meja ali se vas zaradi njih sramuje, je to jasen znak, da ni prava oseba za vas. Predstavljajte si, da mu re\u010dete: <em>\"Ne moti me, da se pogovarjam s teboj, vendar so ti globoki pogovori preve\u010d - \u0161e posebej, \u010de si izrazila, da ne \u017eeli\u0161 obveznosti. To prina\u0161a le zmedo. Obna\u0161a\u0161 se do mene, kot da sva skupaj, a nisva. \u010ce se bo to nadaljevalo, se bom morala umakniti.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morda se sli\u0161i kruto, vendar se vpra\u0161ajte, kaj je pomembnej\u0161e? To, da od vas dobijo, kar \u017eelijo, ali za\u0161\u010dita va\u0161ega dobrega po\u010dutja? Da, tvegate, da jih boste izgubili, a resnica je, da jih v resnici nikoli niste imeli. Vedno znova vam govorijo, <em>\"Nisem pripravljena na razmerje,\"<\/em> vendar vas \u0161e vedno vabijo na dru\u017eenje. Ne vidijo prihodnosti z vami, vendar ob\u010dasno re\u010dejo stvari, kot so, <em>\"\u017delim si, da bi se lahko poro\u010dila z nekom, kot si ti.\"<\/em> Nerad govorim, a va\u0161a \u010dustva so izigrana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-recognise-manipulation\">Prepoznavanje manipulacije<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne ujemite se v past njihovih besed, ampak bodite pozorni na njihova dejanja. To bo razkrilo resnico. Preve\u010d \u017eensk govori, <em>\"Vem, da sem mu v\u0161e\u010d, vendar ni rekel, da sem njegovo dekle,\"<\/em> ali, <em>\"\u017de ve\u010d let se ne vidimo in ne sli\u0161imo.\"<\/em> Ne smete biti v <em>izklop in vklop<\/em> razmere. \u010ce si nekdo resni\u010dno \u017eeli biti z vami, se je \u017ee odlo\u010dil. Samo vpra\u0161anje \u010dasa je, kdaj bosta zadevo uradno uredila. Na poti se lahko pojavijo te\u017eave, vendar ne bodo ovirale resni\u010dne predanosti. Spoznali boste njegovo dru\u017eino in prijatelje. Dolo\u010den bo datum poroke. Pogovarjala se bosta o tem, kje bosta \u017eivela skupaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trdno stojte na svojih mejah. Z \u017eeljo po jasnosti in zavezanosti ne zahtevate preve\u010d. \u010ce se ne strinjajo z vami ali se zavla\u010dujejo, jih nima smisla vle\u010di pred oltar. Nekateri bodo ugovarjali, <em>\"Poroka ni za vsakogar,\"<\/em> in razumem to stali\u0161\u010de. Vendar pa smo kot kristjani poklicani k vi\u0161jim standardom. \u017delja po koristih zaveze brez poroke ni v\u0161e\u010d Gospodu. \u010ce se oseba, s katero se pogovarjate, s tem strinja, <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/znaki-da-se-morata-raziti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">morate oditi<\/a>-takoj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-trust-god-over-your-feelings\">Zaupajte Bogu namesto svojim ob\u010dutkom<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne bom vam rekel, da je bilo enostavno blokirati mo\u0161kega, s katerim sem se pogovarjal leta 2019. V nekem trenutku sem resni\u010dno verjela, da je moj mo\u017e. Mislila sem, da povsod vidim potrditve, vendar zdaj vem, da to ni bilo od Gospoda. V\u010dasih si nekaj tako mo\u010dno \u017eelimo, da se prepri\u010damo, da nam Bog govori \"da\", \u010deprav to ni res. Svoje lastne \u017eelje zamenjamo za Njegovo potrditev.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce bi bila ta oseba resni\u010dno Bo\u017eja izbira za vas, se ne bi po\u010dutili zmedeno. 1 Korin\u010danom 14,33a pravi, <em>\"Bog namre\u010d ni povzro\u010ditelj zmede, ampak miru.\"<\/em> Zakaj bi torej v va\u0161e \u017eivljenje pripeljal nekoga, ki namesto jasnosti prina\u0161a le kaos? Odkar ste spoznali to osebo, samo \u0161e razmi\u0161ljate: <em>\"Je danes dan, ko me bodo kon\u010dno izbrali?\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nenehno si prizadevate pridobiti njihovo naklonjenost. Morda se trudite, da bi jim priskrbeli darila. S prijaznimi gestami ni ni\u010d narobe, a \u010de si prizadevate <em>kupi<\/em> njihovo ljubezen, ste v zmoti. Ali so odnosi potrebni dela? Da. Toda razlika je v tem, da <em>situacije<\/em> so enostranski. \u010ce jim dajete vse, kar je v va\u0161i mo\u010di, oni pa vam dajejo le svoje ostanke, je \u010das, da odidete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-trust-god\">Kako zaupati Bogu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vem, da je te\u017eko, ko si \u017ee predstavlja\u0161 prihodnost z njimi. Toda zaupati mora\u0161 Bogu, ne pa svojim ob\u010dutkom. Ti so <em>ne<\/em> si bodo premislili o vas. To ni romanti\u010dna komedija, v kateri bi nenadoma do\u017eivela razsvetljenje in tekla skozi promet, da bi izpovedala svojo ljubezen. Pokojna Maya Angelou je dejala, <em>\"Ko vam nekdo poka\u017ee, kdo je, mu verjemite \u017ee prvi\u010d.\"<\/em> In kot pravi pregovor, <em>\"Enkrat me ogoljufajte, sram naj vas bo. \u010ce me prevarate dvakrat, me je sram.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naj vas \u010dustva ne zavedejo. 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