{"id":2966,"date":"2025-06-26T09:48:23","date_gmt":"2025-06-26T09:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2966"},"modified":"2025-06-26T09:48:25","modified_gmt":"2025-06-26T09:48:25","slug":"seznam-zakoncev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/spouse-list\/","title":{"rendered":"5 nasvetov za pisanje seznama zakoncev"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V tem prispevku govorimo o sestavljanju seznama zakoncev, ki vam bo pomagal najti popolnega partnerja, in o tem, ali je to dobra ideja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Povzetek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ali bi morali imeti sezname, kaj si \u017eelimo od partnerja? Verjamem, da je pomembno, da jasno poveste, kaj si \u017eelite, ne zato, da bi se zaprli in ljudem ne bi dali prilo\u017enosti, ampak zato, da se prepri\u010date, da se z morebitnim partnerjem ujemate. Na primer, \u010de vas je Bog poklical, da postanete misijonar na Kitajskem, boste potrebovali zakonca, ki vas bo podpiral ali \u010dutil enak klic. Ni nujno, da po\u010dneta popolnoma isto stvar, vendar mora zakonec spodbujati to, k \u010demur te je Bog poklical. Mislim na Billyja in Ruth Graham - on je potoval po svetu in oznanjal in u\u010dil evangelij, to, da mu je \u017eena stala ob strani, pa je bilo zelo pomembno. \u017drtvovala se je prav toliko kot on, \u010deprav je bil Billy Graham kot evangelist bolj v prvih vrstah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce boste sestavili seznam, mislim, da moramo vedeti, zakaj ste ga sestavili. To ni seznam o preferencah, kot je, koliko denarja zaslu\u017eijo ali kako so videti. Namesto tega mora biti va\u0161 seznam sestavljen iz neodlo\u017eljivih stvari. Tukaj je nekaj razlogov, zakaj je dobro imeti seznam zakoncev:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-clarity-on-your-values\">Jasnost glede va\u0161ih vrednot<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-eliminate-time-wasting-relationships\">Odpravite odnose, ki zapravljajo \u010das<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-strengthen-your-intentions\">Okrepite svoje namere<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-boost-self-awareness\">Pove\u010dajte samozavedanje<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-keep-you-grounded-despite-emotions\">Kljub \u010dustvom vas prizemljuje.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne bom vam govoril, kaj morate imeti na seznamu. Vsak si \u017eeli nekaj drugega. Ponovno vas \u017eelim usmeriti, da na va\u0161em seznamu ne bo povr\u0161inskih stvari in da ne boste zamudili tistega, kar ima morda Bog za vas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ali naj napi\u0161em seznam zakoncev?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pjmjjeT8NF0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Uvod<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Naredite seznam tega, kar si \u017eelite od svojega zakonca. Verjetno ste ta nasvet \u017ee sli\u0161ali. Morda ste ga sli\u0161ali v intervjuju s kak\u0161no znano osebnostjo, ki je trdila, da je pred poroko sestavila seznam. Morda ste ga sli\u0161ali od prijatelja, ki je dejal, da je vsak ve\u010der molil nad seznamom zakoncev in kmalu spoznal ljubezen svojega \u017eivljenja. Kakorkoli se je ta 'koncept seznama' \u017ee pojavil, se ve\u010dina kr\u0161\u010danskih samskih spra\u0161uje: \"Naj naredim seznam tega, kar si \u017eelim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ceprav ni ni\u010d narobe s sestavljanjem seznama, moramo paziti, da pri tem ne postanemo preve\u010d togi. Razlog za to je, da boste tako osredoto\u010deni na poroko z nekom, ki bo izpolnil vse pogoje na va\u0161em seznamu, da boste morda zamudili tisto, kar ima Bog za vas. Naj navedem primer: Ve\u010dina \u017eensk si \u017eeli, da bi bil njihov mo\u017e dolo\u010dene vi\u0161ine, obi\u010dajno ve\u010d kot 180 cm. Vendar pa je povpre\u010dna vi\u0161ina mo\u0161kega v Zdru\u017eenih dr\u017eavah Amerike pribli\u017eno pet metrov osem centimetrov ali pet metrov devet centimetrov. To pomeni, da ve\u010dina \u017eensk spregleda odli\u010dne potencialne partnerje, ker ne izpolnjujejo zahtev glede vi\u0161ine. \u010ce bi bila neomajna glede vi\u0161ine, bi zamudila svojega mo\u017ea, ki je visok pet \u010devljev in sedem centimetrov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clarity-on-your-values\">Jasnost glede va\u0161ih vrednot<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V Pregovorih 31,30 pi\u0161e: \"O\u010darljivost je prevarantska in lepota minljiva, a \u017eenska, ki se boji Gospoda, bo dele\u017ena hvale.\" \u017dalostno je, da \u017eivimo v svetu, ki se tako zelo osredoto\u010da na videz. \u017denske morajo biti dolo\u010dene velikosti, mo\u0161ki pa dolo\u010dene vi\u0161ine. \u010ce ni \u010dudovit, ni vreden tega. \u010ce \u017eenska ni videti kot model, kak\u0161en smisel ima, da jo gledamo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne razumite me narobe. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-naj-prezremo-privlacnost-v-krscanskih-zmenkih\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Privla\u010dnost je pomembna<\/a>. Morda bo kdo temu oporekal, vendar verjamem, da Bog ve, kaj vam je v\u0161e\u010d, in to upo\u0161teva. Vendar pa privla\u010dnost ne bi smela biti tisto, na kar se osredoto\u010damo. Sveto pismo pravi, da lepota zbledi. Kako ste videti pri dvajsetih, ne boste videti pri \u0161estdesetih. Da, poskrbite zase, vendar nas bo s\u010dasoma \u010das vse postaral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-character-counts-for-more\">\u0160tevilo znakov za ve\u010d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pri iskanju zakonca morajo biti klju\u010dnega pomena vrednote. Nisem dolgo poro\u010den, vendar vam povem, da vas bodo mo\u010dni temelji ohranili v te\u017ekih \u017eivljenjskih \u010dasih. Vrednote va\u0161ega zakonca bodo pomembne, ko boste \u0161li skozi te\u017eko obdobje. Vi morate biti zasidrani v Kristusu, prav tako pa tudi va\u0161 zakonec. Videz ni pomemben, ko sovra\u017enik napade. Pomembno je, ali vas lahko zakonec prime za roko in re\u010de: \"Ne glede na vse, zaupava Bogu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zvestobo jim bosta ohranila integriteta in strah pred Gospodom. Lahko ima\u0161 najlep\u0161ega mo\u017ea na svetu, a \u010de ne zna moliti zate, si v izgubi. Mo\u0161ki, lahko imate \u017eeno vzornega videza, a \u010de je prepirljiva, Sveto pismo pravi, da je bolje, da mo\u0161ki spi na strehi, kot da je v istem prostoru s prepirljivo \u017eeno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ali poznate svoje vrednote? Katere lastnosti, ki niso povr\u0161inske, potrebujete? Pomemben je va\u0161 temelj v Jezusu. Neko\u010d sem sli\u0161al pastorja re\u010di: \"Poro\u010dite se zaradi namena, ne zaradi strasti. \u010ce se poro\u010dite z namenom, bo strast pri\u0161la sama. Ne, to ne pomeni, da se poro\u010dite z nekom, ki ga ne ljubite ali med njima ni kemije, le ne pozabite, da je zakon veliko globlji od romantike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-eliminate-time-wasting-relationships\">Odpravite odnose, ki zapravljajo \u010das<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne vem, kako je z vami, ampak jaz sem zapravil nekaj \u010dasa za zmenke. Ker nisem bil prepri\u010dan o svojih temeljnih vrednotah, sem se sprijaznil z razmerji, ki mi niso bila naklonjena. Spomnim se, da sem si tako zelo \u017eelela, da bi me imel fant rad, da se nisem zavzela zase. Nisem \u017eelela razburkati \u010dolna in deliti svojega mnenja, ker sem mislila, da ga bom s tem odvrnila. Velika napaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce poznate svoje temeljne vrednote, ne boste zapravljali \u010dasa. \u010ce ste na primer odlo\u010deni, da boste s spolnostjo po\u010dakali do poroke, se ne boste zabavali z nekom, ki \u017eeli dogovor \"prijatelj z ugodnostmi\", ali z nekom, ki meni, da je seks pred poroko v redu. Zakaj? S svojim telesom \u017eelite ugajati Bogu, a ne zaradi vere, temve\u010d zaradi ljubezni do njega.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-compatibility\">Zdru\u017eljivost<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi pa \u017eelite spoznati nekoga, ki je enako prepri\u010dan. Ko sem spoznala svojega mo\u017ea, je dolo\u010dil ton za najine meje. \u017de prej sem vedela, da \u017eelim po\u010dakati do poroke, a ko je on povedal isto, je bilo veliko zmede in kompromisov odpravljenih. Na za\u010detku sva celo dolo\u010dila \u010das, ko sva se pogovarjala po telefonu, tako da se pogovori pozno zve\u010der niso mogli spremeniti v neprimerne. Vidi\u0161, kaj mislim? On je poznal svoje vrednote, jaz pa svoje, tako da nisva zapravljala \u010dasa drug za drugega.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drug primer je, \u010de si ne \u017eelite otrok - nima smisla hoditi z nekom, ki si \u017eeli veliko dru\u017eino. V tem ni nobene sramote in nobenega razloga, da bi se po\u010dutili slabo. \u010ce niste poklicani, da bi imeli otroke, je bolje, da spoznate nekoga, ki si \u017eeli enako in se z njim strinjate. Kot lahko vidite, gre z jasnostjo dale\u010d in prihrani \u010das. Povedal bom, da \u010de na poti zmenkov dela\u0161 napake, lahko Bog ta \u010das odkupi. Pri tem ne gre za to, da bi stvari delali popolno, ampak da bi jih delali namerno in na tej poti ugajali Bogu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"zaro\u010dna fotografija\" class=\"wp-image-2184\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-9x12.jpeg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/danielle-connolly-dupe-1-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-strengthen-your-intentions\">Okrepite svoje namere<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce imate seznam zakoncev, ste lahko tudi osredoto\u010deni in namerni. Ko re\u010dem namerno, s tem ne mislim, da boste hodili na zmenke, na katerih boste osebo zasli\u0161evali z ve\u010d kot petdesetimi vpra\u0161anji. Ne, ste spro\u0161\u010deni in se dobro zabavate. Odprti ste za mo\u017enosti, vendar so va\u0161i standardi v ospredju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Koliko \u010dasa morate dati datumom, preden se premaknete naprej? Imam prijatelja, ki ima pravilo treh zmenkov. Ko je na za\u010detku spoznala svojega mo\u017ea, je bil zelo \u017eiv\u010den. Namesto da bi jo to odvrnilo, je poskusila \u0161e enkrat. Poro\u010dila sta se dva meseca po poroki mojega mo\u017ea in mene leta 2023. \u010ceprav si vsi \u017eelimo pokazati najbolj\u0161e, se na prvem zmenku lahko zgodi marsikaj, zato bodite odprti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-communicate-intentions\">Sporo\u010danje namenov<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seveda lahko svoje namere izrazite \u017ee na za\u010detku. Ne toliko, da se \u017eelite poro\u010diti, ampak da hodite na zmenke z namenom, da se neko\u010d poro\u010dite. Tako bodo vedeli, da ne hodite na zmenke samo zato, da bi hodili na zmenke. Pred vami je jasna ciljna \u010drta, in \u010de \u017eelite z njima \u0161e naprej nekaj po\u010deti, da bi to ugotovili, je to v redu. \u010ce ne, to nima nobene zveze z va\u0161o vrednostjo. Preprosto ni pravi za vas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To naj bi prineslo svobodo \u0161tevilnim kr\u0161\u010danskim samskim. Cilj zmenkov ni takoj ugotoviti, ali je ta oseba va\u0161 zakonec. Da, Bog lahko to resnico razkrije \u017ee zgodaj, vendar se to obi\u010dajno ne zgodi takoj. Sprostite se in u\u017eivajte v procesu spoznavanja nekoga posebnega. Da, bodite namerni, vendar se zabavajte in bodite sami s seboj. Nikoli vam ne bo treba posku\u0161ati narediti vtisa na pravo osebo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-boost-self-awareness\">Pove\u010dajte samozavedanje<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verjeli ali ne, seznam zakoncev ni namenjen samo vam. Ali lahko pogledate na ta seznam in re\u010dete: \"Jaz sem vse to? Sli\u0161al sem drugega pastorja, ki je rekel: \"Ali ste oseba, ki jo i\u0161\u010dete? \u010ce na primer \u017eelite, da je va\u0161 zakonec finan\u010dno odgovoren, ali ste to vi? \u017delite, da je \u010dustveno stabilen - kaj pa vi? \u017delite, da je dober sogovornik - kako komunicirate vi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nima smisla, da vsa pri\u010dakovanja nalagamo bodo\u010dim zakoncem, sami pa se za to ne potrudimo. To ni po\u0161teno. Zakonec ni nekdo, ki bo pri\u0161el v na\u0161e \u017eivljenje in re\u0161il vse na\u0161e te\u017eave. Je za to, da z njim \u017eivimo in skupaj rastemo. To pomeni, da moramo opraviti svoj del naloge. Sta ekipa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-work-on-yourself\">Delajte na sebi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mogo\u010de je, da vam bo seznam odprl o\u010di za stvari, na katerih morate delati sami. To je ena najbolj\u0161ih stvari, ki jih lahko naredite za svojega zakonca - postati najbolj\u0161a razli\u010dica sebe. Da, zakon prina\u0161a \u0161e eno raven zdravljenja in Bog lahko deluje prek va\u0161ega zakonca, da bi vam pomagal, vendar storite, kar je potrebno zdaj v samskosti. Ali je bil moj mo\u017e zame blagoslov in mi je pomagal rasti na nekaterih podro\u010djih? Da, vendar sem delala na sebi, \u0161e preden sem ga spoznala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bog mi je pokazal, da so stvari, ki jih moram pozdraviti, in da je bolje, da to storim zdaj, kot da \u010dakam do poroke. Na\u0161 nebe\u0161ki O\u010de nas tako zelo ljubi, da bo na\u0161ega zakonca za\u0161\u010ditil pred najslab\u0161o razli\u010dico nas samih. Ko sestavljate svoj seznam stvari, o katerih se ne smete pogajati, je to lahko vodilo, da se pogledate v ogledalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-you-grounded-despite-emotions\">Kljub \u010dustvom vas prizemljuje.<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cakanje na zakonca ni lahko in na\u0161a \u010dustva nas lahko spravijo v slabo ali slabo voljo. \u010ce boste imeli zakonca ali seznam stvari, o katerih se ne smete pogajati, vas bo to spomnilo na va\u0161 razlog, \u0161e posebej takrat, ko bo te\u017eko. Sovra\u017enik bo lagal in vas prepri\u010dal, da zahtevate preve\u010d in ali ne bi bilo la\u017eje hoditi z nekom zunaj vere. \u010ce boste imeli svoj seznam, vas bo to spomnilo, kako pomembno je imeti zakonca, ki ljubi Jezusa tako mo\u010dno kot vi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sovra\u017enik vas bo prepri\u010dal, da je \u010dakanje na poroko za spolnost nerealno in arhai\u010den na\u010din \u017eivljenja. \"Nih\u010de drug ne \u010daka, zakaj bi se mu\u010dili? Va\u0161i standardi vas bodo opomnili, da je Bo\u017eji na\u010drt za spolnost neverjeten in da \u017eeli, da bi imeli najbolj\u0161o mo\u017eno izku\u0161njo. Ne \u017eeli, da bi imeli du\u0161no vez z nekom, ki mu ni mar za vas. Ne \u017eeli, da bi zaradi za\u010dasne potrebe razvrednotili svojo vrednost. Verjeli ali ne, Bog \u017eeli od va\u0161ega spolnega \u017eivljenja slavo. Njega lahko poveli\u010dujete v zavezi, zato ne dovolite sovra\u017eniku, da vas oropa in vas prisili, da se odlo\u010dite druga\u010de. Tudi \u010de ste prestopili mejo, Bog odpu\u0161\u010da in obnavlja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Zaklju\u010dimo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pot je lahko te\u017eka, vendar lahko s svojim seznamom stvari ponovno postavite v pravo perspektivo. Videli boste, da ne zahtevate preve\u010d. \u010ce \u017eelite ugajati Bogu, bo to spo\u0161toval, ker ste iskreni v svojih \u017eeljah. Spomnim se, da so mi rekli, da so moja merila 'previsoka'. Nerealno je bilo \u010dakati na pobo\u017enega mo\u0161kega, ki bi resni\u010dno ljubil Jezusa in se ne bi tu in tam zapletel v svet. Ne, nisem iskala popolnosti, vendar sem vedela, da je moja hoja z Bogom pristna, in \u017eelela sem, da bi bila tak\u0161na tudi mo\u017eeva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lahko potrdim, da je Bog izpolnil ve\u010d, kot je bilo treba. Moj mo\u017e se razburi, ko govori o Svetem pismu. Zgodaj vstane, da bere, moli in \u010dasti Boga. Njegova hoja z Gospodom me navdihuje, da se \u0161e bolj pribli\u017eam Jezusu. To je tisto, kar po\u010dne kraljevi zakonec. Usmerja vas bli\u017ee k Jezusu, kar je neprecenljivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-over-to-you\">Za vas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vzemite si nekaj \u010dasa in ponovno ocenite svoj seznam. Ali temelji na standardih ali na vseh \u017eeljah? S preferencami ni ni\u010d narobe, vendar vas bodo povr\u0161inske \u017eelje pripeljale le do tja. Potrebujete nekaj trdnega, to pa se za\u010dne pri odnosu osebe z Gospodom. 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