{"id":2883,"date":"2025-04-16T10:59:36","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T10:59:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2883"},"modified":"2025-07-24T09:07:38","modified_gmt":"2025-07-24T09:07:38","slug":"napake-pri-zmenkih-ki-se-jim-je-treba-izogniti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/dating-mistakes-to-avoid\/","title":{"rendered":"Napake, ki se jim je treba izogibati pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kristjani niso dobri v zmenkih - povsod se pojavljajo napake pri zmenkih.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vidim, da kr\u0161\u010danska skupnost zdaj cveti na podro\u010dju vrnitve k resni\u010dnemu \u010da\u0161\u010denju Boga.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spomnili smo se na veliko naro\u010dilo in si upamo deliti svojo vero na podro\u010djih, na katera imamo vpliv.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na\u0161a prizadevanja, da bi slu\u017eili na\u0161im lokalnim obmo\u010djem in zadovoljili potrebe ljudi okoli nas, so vedno ve\u010dja.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vendar pa zmenki niso na\u0161a mo\u010dna stran.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V nekaterih pogledih je smiselno. Cerkve so odli\u010dne pri spodbujanju poroke, manj koristno pa je vodenje samskih ljudi k iskanju zakonca. Prav tako bi v Svetem pismu te\u017eko na\u0161li konkretne in jasne nasvete za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To je kr\u0161\u010danske samske na poti zmenkov pripeljalo do \u0161tevilnih napak na tej poti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Smo nerodni, razdvojeni, imamo skrivnosti in v\u010dasih lahko naredimo pravo staro zmedo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zagotovo \u017ee obstaja kak\u0161en dober nasvet, kako se izogniti nekaterim od teh pasti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Povzetek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>V vseh na\u0161ih dobrih namenih, da bi na\u0161li \u017eivljenjskega partnerja, je za kristjane samske, ki i\u0161\u010dejo zmenke, v\u010dasih prav tako koristno vedeti, \u010desa ne smemo storiti, kot vedeti, kaj moramo storiti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zato se bomo z napakami pri zmenkih soo\u010dili naravnost.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u010dasih je to lahko bole\u010de. Toda \u010de si \u017eelimo uspeha (in prave ljubezni!), je najbolje, da pogledamo trdo resnico, tudi \u010de jo je te\u017eko pogoltniti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Upam, da bo ta blog \"\u017elica, polna sladkorja\", ki vam bo pomagala, da bodo va\u0161a prizadevanja za zmenke potekala na \"najbolj prijeten na\u010din\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne izogibajmo se in ne zapravljajmo \u010dasa, temve\u010d se lotimo zadeve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kak\u0161ne so<strong> napake pri zmenkih, ki se jim moramo kot kristjani izogibati?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Opredelitev s samskostjo<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ne veste, kaj i\u0161\u010dete.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Potapljanje pregloboko<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pospe\u0161eno premikanje razmerja naprej&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Sku\u0161njava s \"\u010drto<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u010cakanje na Boga, da opravi delo<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Napake, ki se jih je treba izogibati pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih: Naredil sem jih, a vam jih ni treba\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VYURmB7mFb4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-being-defined-by-singleness\">Opredelitev s samskostjo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Toliko o <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/stvari-ki-jih-sovrazim-ko-sem-samski-kristjan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">boj samskega kristjana<\/a> i\u0161\u010demo zmenke, ni v tem, koga spoznamo ali ne, temve\u010d v na\u0161ih ob\u010dutkih glede samskosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-being-a-single-christian-be-like\">Biti samski kristjan je kot...<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tako lahko se prepustimo ob\u010dutkom ali pri\u010dakovanjem, zaradi katerih se po\u010dutimo manj kot dovolj dobri samo zato, ker smo samski.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hitro lahko dovolimo, da na\u0161 samski status postane del nas samih in doda negativne konotacije temu, kako se vidimo. Zaradi tega smo lahko celo <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/prijatelji-ki-se-porocajo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ljubosumje na prijatelje, ki se zapletajo v razmerja.<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To se lahko zgodi zaradi tega, kako se po\u010dutimo v dru\u017eini ali cerkvi, zaradi neuspelih odnosov iz preteklosti, izgubljenega upanja, tega, da nas nih\u010de ne povabi na zmenek, ali zaradi boja z resni\u010dnostjo osamljenosti. Lahko je kot po teko\u010dem traku, ko se odlo\u010dimo, da se bomo dr\u017eali dobrih stvari, ki jih imamo, in ko nas potegne v jamo samske \u017ealosti. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Rrj1gORhyfo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Nekako takole.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-know-your-worth\">Spoznajte svojo vrednost<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce dovolimo, da nas ti ob\u010dutki vodijo na zmenkih, obstaja nevarnost, da bomo o sebi mislili, da nismo vredni ni\u010desar dobrega. To bo vodilo v \u0161e ve\u010d napak na zmenkih.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pomembno je, da verjamete, da ste vredni sre\u010de, ljubezni in spo\u0161tovanja. \u010ce ne verjamete, da ste vredni biti v dobrem razmerju, potem obstaja verjetnost, da ne boste na\u0161li sre\u010dnega razmerja. Namesto tega si vzemite \u010das in razmislite, koliko ste vredni, ter poskrbite, da boste iskali partnerja in razmerje, ki vas cenita.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.christiancafe.com\/blog\/7714\/dating-mistakes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Polly, kr\u0161\u010danska kavarna&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Namesto da \u010dakamo, da nas nekdo izpolni, in \u010dakamo na praznino, ki je morda v na\u0161em srcu, moramo delati na svojem samospo\u0161tovanju, da se bomo na zmenke podali v najbolj\u0161i lu\u010di. To pa nam pomaga, da se ne bomo opredeljevali do svoje samskosti in dovolili, da na\u0161e odlo\u010ditve vodijo na\u0161i ob\u010dutki. Poleg tega bo manj verjetno, da bomo v svoje srce spustili nekoga, ki nam tudi ne bo dal vsega, kar je najbolj\u0161e.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zato se hitro dr\u017eite ljubezni in vrednosti, ki ju ima Bog za vas, in se izogibajte temu, da bi vas opredeljeval va\u0161 samski status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-not-knowing-what-you-re-looking-for\">Ne veste, kaj i\u0161\u010dete<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Veliko nas ve, da ne \u017eelimo biti samski. Toda imamo <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/seznam-zakoncev\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">brez podrobnosti o tem, kaj dejansko i\u0161\u010demo pri partnerju.<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-do-your-research\">Opravite raziskavo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kot samski kristjani in kristjanke se moramo, preden za\u010dnemo aktivno hoditi na zmenke, izogniti tej napaki in se dobro pripraviti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pomislite: hi\u0161e ali avtomobila ne bi za\u010deli kupovati, preden se ne bi usedli in razmislili, kaj i\u0161\u010dete. Prav tako ne smete za\u010deti hoditi na zmenke, dokler ne veste, kaj i\u0161\u010dete pri zakoncu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.growingfathers.com\/9-common-pitfalls-in-christian-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Kristopher Schaal, Rasto\u010di o\u010detje<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Navsezadnje je iskanje \u017eivljenjskega partnerja ena najve\u010djih, \u010de ne celo najve\u010dja odlo\u010ditev, ki jo boste sprejeli. Kar moramo vedeti sami, je, kako poiskati osebo. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@profgalloway\/video\/7398922343369805086\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">ki bo na\u0161 pravi partner.<\/a>, pravi profesor Scott Galloway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-give-yourself-a-guide\">Dajte si vodnik<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kot vemo, kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki niso vedno enostavni in vstopanje na slepo ni pametna poteza. Pripraviti se moramo na to, da bomo hodili na zmenke z namenom in jasnostjo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O tem, kaj iskati pri potencialnem partnerju, lahko razmi\u0161ljate z ve\u010d vidikov: zna\u010dajske lastnosti, predanost veri, \u017eivljenjski slog, prihodnji cilji. Tudi mi lahko s pomo\u010djo teh misli razberemo, kaj bi bilo za nas najbolj\u0161e, in sicer z molitvijo in pogovori s tistimi, ki nas dobro poznajo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To ni seznam, ki bi nas omejeval, temve\u010d nas usmerja k uspe\u0161nemu zmenku, da se ne bi ujeli v napa\u010dno razmerje ali da nas \u010dustva ne bi zlahka zapeljala na napa\u010dno pot. Spoznajte svoje neodlo\u017eljive zahteve!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-diving-in-too-deep\">Potapljanje pregloboko!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko se pogovarjamo z nekom novim ali po nekaj zmenkih, smo kot kristjani lahko nagnjeni k temu, da prehitro izdamo preve\u010d o sebi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feeling-familiar\">Ob\u010dutek poznanosti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>V upanju in v\u010dasih obupu, da bi na\u0161li \"tistega pravega\", nas lahko prevzameta navdu\u0161enje in intenzivnost ne\u010desa novega in se po\u010dutimo preve\u010d doma\u010de nekomu, ki ga v resnici komaj poznamo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To je razumljivo. Mnogi med nami \u017ee dolgo upajo, da bodo na\u0161li osebo, s katero se bodo povezali. Ko dobimo uvid, da se to morda dejansko dogaja, je to lahko vstopna to\u010dka, da odpremo jeklena vrata okoli svojega srca in pustimo, da se vse izlije ven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-too-much-too-soon\">Preve\u010d in prehitro<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Vendar je potopitev v globino in izpostavljanje zelo ranljivih delov na\u0161e preteklosti in sedanjosti na\u0161emu spremljevalcu obi\u010dajno napaka. \u010ce se \u017ee na za\u010detku znebimo prtljage, to ni prava pot...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Obstaja verjetnost, da jih boste na koncu preobremenili, ker vas \u0161e ne poznajo dovolj dobro. Ne vedo, kdo ste zunaj teh bojev.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prav tako se vam lahko zgodi, da se na nekoga prehitro nave\u017eete, ker ste razkrili veliko svoje notranjosti, preden ste zgradili temelje prijateljstva in zaupanja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kako varovati svoje srce na zmenkih\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8H-NYeXDyHI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pressing-fast-forward-on-a-relationship\">Hitro naprej v odnosu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>To je napaka, ki se je ve\u010dina od nas \u017ee zaveda in si misli \"a ne, to ne bom jaz\". Presene\u010deni boste, kako enostavno je stvari prenagliti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-proceed-with-caution\">Ravnajte previdno<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kot kristjani, ki hodimo na zmenke, bomo seveda o velikih stvareh razmi\u0161ljali veliko prej kot mnogi na\u0161i vrstniki, ki niso kristjani. Na\u0161 kon\u010dni cilj je poroka in ne le zabava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pogosto pa se to spremeni v pritiskanje na gumb \"hitro naprej\" v razmerju, zaradi \u010desar se nekateri ljudje obna\u0161ajo, kot da so poro\u010deni, \u0161e preden so v resnici poro\u010deni.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Predvsem v zgodnjih fazah moramo biti previdni in se osredoto\u010diti na to, da a) u\u017eivamo v zmenkih s to osebo in b) se potrudimo, da jo resni\u010dno spoznamo, preden vklju\u010dimo druge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-global-news\">Globalne novice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Eden od opozorilnih znakov, da se stvari premikajo hitro, je, da objavite razmerje, ki je \u0161e v povojih.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spomnim se prijateljice, ki se je navdu\u0161evala nad nekim fantom, in lahko bi rekla, da sta bila ravno v fazi, ko sta bila \"zaljubljena do u\u0161es\" in \"nista videla lesa od dreves\", kar je bilo lepo videti, ko sta bila tako sre\u010dna. Vendar je to, da sem o tem vedela toliko \u017ee tako zgodaj, spro\u017eilo moj opozorilni radar. Na \u017ealost in pri\u010dakovano to ni trajalo dolgo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bodite previdni pri zgodnjem vklju\u010devanju prijateljev in \u0161e bolj previdni pri seznanjanju dru\u017eine s svojim izbrancem, ko so stvari \u0161e sve\u017ee.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seveda na nekatere od teh stvari vplivajo okoli\u0161\u010dine, vendar jih je najbolje pozvati, naj se pridru\u017eijo dru\u017einskemu skupinskemu klepetu ali rezervaciji po\u010ditnic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enako lahko re\u010demo tudi za \"napovedovanje\" razmerja prek spleta. \u010ceprav si morda v srcu \u017eelite, da bi svet vedel, ne pozabite, da je va\u0161e zasebno \u017eivljenje lahko samo to, ko hodite na zmenke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ceprav se zdi, da to ne bo vplivalo na vas, lahko to, kar objavimo v dru\u017eabnih medijih, vpliva na nas v dobrem in slabem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u010dasi posodabljajte informacije za svoj o\u017eji krog, dokler se stvari ne uredijo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Na\u010drti marljivih vodijo do dobi\u010dka<\/em> <em>tako zanesljivo, kot hitenje vodi v rev\u0161\u010dino.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pregovori 21,5 (NIV)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"dva sendvi\u010da\" class=\"wp-image-2474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/amanda-marcolini-dupe-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tempting-yourself-with-the-line\">Sku\u0161njava s \"\u010drto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Za kristjane lahko zmenki in razmerja vsebujejo veliko fizi\u010dnih sku\u0161njav.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Morda bi radi mislili, da je poznavanje meja dovolj, vendar se jih ne dr\u017eimo vedno tako dobro, kot se nam zdi na prvi pogled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-where-is-the-line\">Kje je meja?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pomemben korak pobo\u017enih kristjanov in kristjank je, da se ne pustimo zapeljati v igro s \"prekora\u010ditvijo meje\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce so na\u0161e misli usmerjene v to, kako dale\u010d lahko dejansko gremo, potem verjetno \u0161e niste pripravljeni na zmenke z drugo osebo. Te misli se nana\u0161ajo na zasledovanje lastnega u\u017eitka namesto \u010distosti, h kateri nas kli\u010de Bog.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vsi se bomo te\u017eko izognili sku\u0161njavam, zlasti ko se bodo razvila na\u0161a \u010dustva do osebe, s katero hodimo. Vedite, da niste sami in da obstaja veliko na\u010dinov, kako utrditi svojo odlo\u010ditev, da spo\u0161tujete svoje telo, osebo, s katero hodite, in svojo odlo\u010ditev, da spolnost prihranite za zakon.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zakaj ne bi preverili na\u0161ega bloga '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/meje-krscanskih-zmenkov\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kako dale\u010d je predale\u010d? Meje kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkov<\/a>' za ve\u010d nasvetov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-why\">Zakaj?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko se soo\u010damo s sku\u0161njavami pri zmenkih ali celo pri pripravah na zmenke, je vedno dobro vedeti, zakaj se odlo\u010damo za svojo vero. Kot pi\u0161e . <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wayfm.org.au\/10-donts-of-christian-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Sabrina Peters za Way FM<\/a> pi\u0161e:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Bistvo ni v izogibanju spolnim odnosom, bistvo je v tem, da se \u010dustveno, fizi\u010dno, psiholo\u0161ko in spolno ne pove\u017eete z nekom, s katerim niste poro\u010deni!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vezi, ki jih lahko spletemo z ljudmi, s katerimi se nato razidemo ali ne nadaljujemo z njimi, je te\u017eko opustiti tudi po dalj\u0161em \u010dasu. 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Po\u010divati na lovorikah in \u010dakati, da Bog opravi delo namesto nas, ni dobra taktika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-over-spiritualising\">Preve\u010d duhovnosti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kr\u0161\u010danski samski zlahka pretiravajo z duhovnostjo pri zmenkih. Pogosto pozabimo, kako veliko vlogo igra na\u0161a svobodna volja in svobodna volja drugih.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, odnosi so dobri. Da, Bog \u017eeli, da se ljudje poro\u010dijo in si ustvarijo dru\u017eine. Toda ne, ni nas prisilil, da bi se vsi poro\u010dili, ampak je to na\u0161a izbira. On nam ne dolguje partnerja, to je dar, ki ga lahko prejmemo, vendar ga mnogi ne prejmejo ali se odlo\u010dijo, da ga ne bodo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seveda \u017eelimo na zmenkih iskati Boga in dajati prednost odnosu z njim ne glede na status na\u0161ega razmerja. Vendar moramo imeti na zmenkih bolj odprto srce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce od Boga ne \u010dutite preve\u010d o tem, s kom hodite na zmenke, je to v redu. Ni vam treba \u010dakati na velik utripajo\u010d znak na nebu, da bi vam Gospod povedal, ali je nekdo pravi ali ne. Zaupajte lastnostim, ki vam jih je dal Bog, in svojemu razumnemu umu, da vam bosta pomagala pri dobrem zmenku.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-giving-it-a-go\">Preizkusiti se<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pogosto se zgodi, da to, da se 'prepu\u0161\u010damo Bogu', vzamemo kot razlog, da se v kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih umaknemo in po\u010dakamo. Potem se vznemirimo, ko se ni\u010d ne zgodi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce se vam to zdi znano, mislim, da vam Bog govori, naj poskusite. Pojdite ven. Za\u010dnite. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/nacini-spogledovanja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Flirtajte z osebo, ki vam je v\u0161e\u010d<\/a>. Ponudite Bogu nekaj, pri \u010demer bo sodeloval z vami, namesto da \u010dakate, da vas bo na drugi strani ulice opazila popolna oseba.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Za mnoge od nas to pomeni, da se bomo dobro po\u010dutili pri spletnem zmenkarjenju. Zaradi spletnih zmenkov se res ne moremo ve\u010d izgovarjati, da ni ve\u010d prostora, kjer bi lahko na\u0161li samske kr\u0161\u010danske mo\u0161ke in \u017eenske za zmenke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>... tehnologija je omogo\u010dila, da se la\u017eje kot kdaj koli prej pove\u017eete z ljudmi, ki delijo va\u0161o vero. Zdaj je na voljo <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kr\u0161\u010danske aplikacije za zmenke<\/a> in spletna mesta, ki vam omogo\u010dajo, da zlahka najdete druge kr\u0161\u010danske samske, ki i\u0161\u010dejo razmerje.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/goodvibesfaith.com\/biggest-dating-mistakes-christians-make\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Niall, Good Vibes Faith<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Morda se vam bo sprva zdelo neprijetno, vendar aplikacije, kot je SALT, ustvarjajo ljudje, kot ste vi, ki \u017eelijo ustvariti spodbuden in varen prostor za <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kr\u0161\u010danski samski za spoznavanje in zmenke<\/a>. Vredno je poskusiti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Zaklju\u010dimo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Verjemite mi, da je \u0161e veliko drugih napak pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zdaj jih nekaj poznate in upam, da vam bodo pomagali zaupati, da ste vredni dobrega odnosa in da morate imeti predstavo o tem, kak\u0161no osebo i\u0161\u010dete.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce se boste zavedali pasti, ki jih prina\u0161a izlivanje na\u0161ih najglobljih misli, hitenje v novo razmerje ali premikanje meja telesne intimnosti, boste lahko za\u0161\u010ditili svoje srce in srce tistih, ki jih spoznavate in s katerimi hodite na zmenke.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160e ve\u010d, zaupanje, da je Bog za vas pri zmenkih, nas vse opolnomo\u010di, da gremo ven in se ne skrivamo za izgovori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toda bodite opogumljeni, napake so normalne. 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Bo\u017eji Duh je zraven in nam pomaga.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Zato smo lahko tako prepri\u010dani, da je vsaka podrobnost v na\u0161em \u017eivljenju, ki temelji na ljubezni do Boga, ustvarjena v nekaj dobrega.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Rimljanom 8,26-28 (Sporo\u010dilo) skraj\u0161ano<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christians are not good at dating &#8211; there are dating mistakes everywhere.&nbsp; I see the Christian community thriving in the area of getting back to true worship of God right now.&nbsp; We\u2019ve been reminded of the great commission and are being bold to share our faith in our spheres of influence.&nbsp; Our efforts to serve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":2484,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[30,7],"class_list":["post-2883","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-singleness-and-dating","tag-all","tag-christian-dating-advice"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.2 (Yoast SEO v27.3) - 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