{"id":2872,"date":"2025-04-02T10:36:28","date_gmt":"2025-04-02T10:36:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2872"},"modified":"2026-09-23T10:39:32","modified_gmt":"2026-09-23T10:39:32","slug":"krscanski-dejavniki-ki-preprecujejo-zvezo-in-ki-bi-jih-morali-opustiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/christian-dating-dealbreakers-we-should-drop\/","title":{"rendered":"Dejavniki, ki prepre\u010dujejo kr\u0161\u010dansko spoznavanje in jih moramo opustiti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kriteriji, ki so pri kr\u0161\u010danskem spoznavanju odlo\u010dilni, vas lahko bodisi za\u0161\u010ditijo bodisi ovirajo. Tisti, ki jih je vredno opustiti, izklju\u010dujejo ljudi, \u0161e preden smo jih sploh spoznali. Nekdo preteklost. Njihova verska pripadnost. Vi\u0161ina, navedena v profilu. Imeti merila je pametno, in vsak kristjan bi moral vedeti, kaj je zanj pomembno. A nekatera na\u0161a nepogajljiva merila povedo ve\u010d o strahu, cerkveni kulturi ali starem miselnem seznamu kot o tem, kaj ustvarja pobo\u017eno, trajno razmerje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TL;DR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Dobri razlogi za prekinitev kr\u0161\u010danskega zmenka \u0161\u010ditijo tvojo vero, tvoje vrednote in tvojo varnost. Ne bi smeli brez utemeljenega razloga omejevati izbire.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O \u0161tirih stvareh se spla\u010da \u0161e enkrat premisliti: o razvezi, spolni preteklosti, verski pripadnosti ter vi\u0161ini ali te\u017ei.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vsak si zaslu\u017ei iskren pogovor, ne pa samodejnega \u201cne\u201d.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nekatere stvari je vredno ohraniti: skupna vera, temeljne vrednote in vse, kar vpliva na va\u0161o varnost.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Dejavniki, zaradi katerih je treba opustiti sklepanje posla: verska pripadnost, vzdr\u017eevani dru\u017einski \u010dlani, invalidnost\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Zek1E9vWQwg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-what-are-christian-dating-dealbreakers\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kaj so za kristjane razlogi za prekinitev zveze?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenkarje so \u00bbdealbreakers\u00ab lastnosti ali okoli\u0161\u010dine, ki prekinejo razmerje, \u0161e preden se sploh za\u010dne. Razlikujejo se od osebnih \u017eelja. Osebna \u017eelja je nekaj, kar si \u017eeli\u0161. A <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/rdece-zastave\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"147\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00bbdealbreaker\u00ab je nekaj, zaradi \u010desar ne bo\u0161 mogel iti naprej<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekateri odlo\u010dilni dejavniki so upravi\u010deni. \u010ce si kristjan, ki i\u0161\u010de partnerja za poroko, je pomembno, da se dru\u017ei\u0161 z nekom, ki deli tvojo vero. Prav tako je pomembno, da se po\u010duti\u0161 varno in spo\u0161tovano. Te\u017eava nastane, ko se preference neopazno spremenijo v pravila, ki izlo\u010dajo ljudi, s katerimi bi te Bog morda \u017eelel spoznati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Dealbreakers so v redu. Vpra\u0161anje je, ali tvoji \u0161\u010ditijo tisto, kar je pomembno, ali pa le odvra\u010dajo dobre ljudi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-why-do-some-christian-dating-dealbreakers-hold-us-back\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Zakaj nas nekateri dejavniki, ki so za kristjane pri iskanju partnerja odlo\u010dilni, ovirajo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za ve\u010dino razlogov za prekinitev zveze se skriva neka zgodba. Nekateri izhajajo iz preteklih bole\u010dih izku\u0161enj. Drugi izhajajo iz tega, kar smo se nau\u010dili v mladinski skupini, iz pri\u010dakovanj na\u0161ih prijateljev ali iz primerjanja z pari, ki jih ob\u010dudujemo. Aplikacije za spoznavanje lahko stanje \u0161e poslab\u0161ajo. Ko lahko podrobnosti vidi\u0161 na prvi pogled, je sku\u0161njava, da ljudi izklju\u010di\u0161 v nekaj sekundah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sveto pismo nam v zvezi s tem ponuja koristen opomin. Ko je Samuel od\u0161el iskat naslednjega izraelskega kralja, mu je Bog rekel, naj ne sodi po videzu, saj Bog gleda na srce (1. Samuelova knjiga 16:7). To ne pomeni, da privla\u010dnost ali okoli\u0161\u010dine niso pomembne. Pomeni pa, da ne smemo preve\u010d zana\u0161ati se na prve vtise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Mnogi razlogi za prekinitev odnosa izhajajo iz strahu, navade ali kulture, ne pa iz prepri\u010danja. Vredno je vpra\u0161ati, od kod izvirajo va\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-1-i-won-t-date-someone-who-s-divorced\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. \u201cNe bom hodila z nikomer, ki je razvezan.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo\u010ditev je bole\u010da in povsem naravno je, da ste previdni. A \u010de izklju\u010dite vse, ki so se lo\u010dili, to pomeni, da ljudi izklju\u010dujete zaradi razlogov, o katerih ne veste ni\u010desar. Nekateri si lo\u010ditve niso izbrali. Njihov partner jih je zapustil, jim je bil nezvest ali jih je zlorabljal. Mnogi so od takrat opravili globoko delo na podro\u010dju zdravljenja in v novo razmerje pogosto prina\u0161ajo resni\u010dno modrost in skromnost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kristjani imajo razli\u010dna stali\u0161\u010da glede ponovne poroke po razvezi. To je resna teolo\u0161ka razprava, ki jo je treba jemati resno. Zato si raje kot da avtomati\u010dno re\u010de\u0161 \u201cne\u201d, vzemi \u010das, da razume\u0161 svoja lastna prepri\u010danja in njihovo ozadje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekaj vpra\u0161anj, ki lahko pomagajo, ko se \u017ee bolje spoznata:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kaj se je zgodilo in kako o tem govorijo danes?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kaj so spoznali o sebi?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kak\u0161no podporo so imeli pri okrevanju, na primer svetovanje ali cerkvena skupnost?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ali imata otroke in kako poteka skupno star\u0161evstvo?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce nisi prepri\u010dan, kaj u\u010di tvoja tradicija, se posvetuj s pastorjem ali cerkvenim voditeljem, ki mu zaupa\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve\u010d o tem si preberite v <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-naj-hodim-na-zmenke-po-locitvi\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1630\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ali naj se po razvezi spet za\u010dnem zmenkovati?<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Lo\u010ditev je le del nekoga \u017eivljenjske zgodbe, ne pa njena celota. Preden se odlo\u010dite, se seznanite z okoli\u0161\u010dinami in svojimi lastnimi prepri\u010danji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-2-i-won-t-date-someone-who-isn-t-a-virgin\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. \u201cNe bom hodila z nekom, ki ni devi\u010dnik.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cakanje na poroko je lepa zaveza. \u010ce si se zanjo odlo\u010dil, je povsem razumljivo, da upa\u0161, da se je za to odlo\u010dil tudi tvoj bodo\u010di zakonec. A \u010de postavi\u0161 nedol\u017enost kot pogoj za zvezo, lahko s tem zapre\u0161 vrata ljudem, ki danes ljubijo Jezusa in delijo tvoja prepri\u010danja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evangelij je dobra novica za ljudi s preteklostjo. Milost pomeni, da nas na\u0161a preteklost ne opredeljuje. Prav tako je vredno spomniti se, da nekateri ljudje niso sami izbrali svoje spolne preteklosti. Splo\u0161no pravilo lahko zelo bole\u010de prizadene nekoga, ki je \u017ee tako ali tako nosil veliko breme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pomembnej\u0161e je, kje se nekdo nahaja zdaj. Vpra\u0161aj se:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ali danes delijo tvoja prepri\u010danja o spolnosti in poroki?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ali spo\u0161tujejo meje, ki ste jih skupaj postavili?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ali lahko oba odkrito govorita o preteklosti, ne da bi se sramovala?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce nekdo trenutno ne deli tvojega mnenja o seksu pred poroko, je to pravi pogovor o vrednotah. Ne gre za njegovo preteklost. Gre za vajino skupno prihodnost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To ni tema za prvo zmenko. To je pogovor za trenutek, ko se stvari za\u010dnejo resno razvijati in se oba po\u010dutita dovolj varna, da se odprete. \u010ce se ti zdi to te\u017eko, je v redu, da se o tem najprej pogovori\u0161 z zaupanja vrednim prijateljem, mentorjem ali duhovnikom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morda vam bodo koristne tudi naslednje informacije: <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/fizicne-meje-v-krscanskih-odnosih\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"262\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fizi\u010dne meje v kr\u0161\u010danskih odnosih: kdaj je preve\u010d?<\/a> in . <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/seks-v-krscanskih-razmerjih\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"498\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Seks v kr\u0161\u010danskih odnosih: zakaj je namenjen zakonu.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Osredoto\u010dite se zdaj na prepri\u010danja posameznika, ne na njegovo preteklost. Skupne vrednote glede prihodnosti so pomembnej\u0161e od neopore\u010dne preteklosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-3-i-won-t-date-someone-from-a-different-denomination\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. \u201cNe bom hodil z nekom, ki pripada drugi veroizpovedi\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verska pripadnost ima velik vpliv. Lahko vpliva na to, kako \u010dastite Boga, kako razumete krst in obhajilo ter kam bi kot par hodili v cerkev. Te razlike si zaslu\u017eijo odkrit pogovor, nekateri pari pa jih dojemajo kot pomembne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A \u010de izklju\u010dimo cele tradicije, lahko spregledamo nekoga, ki Jezusa globoko ljubi in si \u017eeli iste stvari kot ti. Pomaga, \u010de lo\u010dimo temeljna prepri\u010danja od drugotnih. Kdo je Jezus, evangelij in avtoriteta Svetega pisma so za ve\u010dino kristjanov v sredi\u0161\u010du. Na\u010din bogoslu\u017eja ali cerkvena struktura sta pogosto bolj na obrobju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekaj pogovorov, ki jih je vredno opraviti, ko se bodo razmere razvijale:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kje bi se skupaj udele\u017eevali bogoslu\u017eja?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kako bi vzgajali otroke v veri?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kateri razliki se zdijo kot osebne preference, kateri pa kot trdna prepri\u010danja?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekatere tradicije vsebujejo posebna navodila glede porok med pripadniki razli\u010dnih veroizpovedi. \u010ce to velja tudi za vas, se \u010dim prej posvetujte s svojim cerkvenim voditeljem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve\u010d o tem si preberite v <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/medkonfesionalni-odnosi\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"345\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Medkonfesionalni odnosi: spopadanje z dejanskimi razlikami<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Razlikujte med tem, kar je bistveno za va\u0161o vero, in tem, kar je drugotnega pomena. Mnogi pari iz razli\u010dnih verskih skupnosti gradijo trdne, z vero pre\u017eete zakonske zveze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-4-they-have-to-be-a-certain-height-or-weight\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. \u201cMorajo imeti dolo\u010deno vi\u0161ino ali te\u017eo\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bodimo iskreni: privla\u010dnost je pomembna. Ni povr\u0161no, \u010de si \u017eeli\u0161, da te oseba, s katero se sre\u010duje\u0161, privla\u010di. A \u0161tevilka na profilu ti ne more veliko povedati o tem, kako se bo\u0161 po\u010dutil, ko bo\u0161 sedel nasproti nekoga. Ne more zajeti njegovega smeha, njegove prijaznosti ali na\u010dina, kako se mu zasvetijo o\u010di, ko govori o ne\u010dem, kar ima rad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za mnoge ljudi se privla\u010dnost pove\u010duje, ko nekoga bolje spoznajo. Telo pa se skozi \u017eivljenje spreminja zaradi staranja, bolezni, nose\u010dnosti in preprosto zaradi samega \u017eivljenja. Stroga pravila glede vi\u0161ine ali te\u017ee lahko izlo\u010dijo ljudi, s katerimi bi se resni\u010dno dobro razumeli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na platformi SALT je vi\u0161ina navedena skupaj z drugimi osnovnimi informacijskimi oznakami, kot je verska pripadnost. Poskusi, da ti ena sama oznaka ne bo narekovala odlo\u010ditve. Preberi celoten profil in odgovore na vpra\u0161anja v profilu. Tako bo\u0161 izvedel veliko ve\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Preprost preizkus: bi \u017eeleli, da vam nekdo da prilo\u017enost zgolj na podlagi ene same podrobnosti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve\u010d o tem si preberite v <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/privlacnost\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"363\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Privla\u010dnost: Ali je pomembna pri kr\u0161\u010danskem spoznavanju?<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Privla\u010dnost je resni\u010dna in je pomembna. Vendar se pogosto gradi prek vezi, ne pa na podlagi \u0161tevilke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-other-dealbreakers-worth-a-second-look\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Drugi dejavniki, ki lahko prepre\u010dijo sklenitev posla in si jih je vredno \u0161e enkrat ogledati<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ti \u0161tirje niso edini. \u0160e nekaj drugih je vredno ponovno preu\u010diti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Imajo \u017ee otroke.<\/strong> Enostar\u0161evske dru\u017eine pogosto prina\u0161ajo zrelost, potrpe\u017eljivost in jasen ob\u010dutek za prednostne naloge. Preberite <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/kako-lahko-kot-krscanski-stars-samohranilec-hodim-na-zmenke\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1323\">Kr\u0161\u010dansko spoznavanje partnerjev kot samohranilec: prakti\u010dni nasveti<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Razlika v starosti se mi zdi prevelika.<\/strong> Nekaj let ve\u010d ali manj je lahko manj pomembno kot skupne vrednote in \u017eivljenjska faza. Preberite <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/neprimerna-starostna-razlika\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"3245\">Starostna razlika v kr\u0161\u010danskih odnosih<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u017divijo preve\u010d dale\u010d.<\/strong> Razdalja prina\u0161a resni\u010dne izzive, vendar ni vedno ovira. Preberite <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-lahko-razmerja-na-daljavo-delujejo\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"2049\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kr\u0161\u010danske zveze na daljavo: kako jih ohraniti<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>V politi\u010dnih stali\u0161\u010dih se razlikujeta.<\/strong> Nekatere razlike so globoke, druge pa manj. Preberite <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/politika-dealbreaker\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"365\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Politika in zmenki: Ali so razli\u010dna stali\u0161\u010da razlog za prekinitev zveze?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> O okoli\u0161\u010dinah, kot so otroci, starost ali razdalja, se spla\u010da pogovoriti, ne pa jih kar zavrniti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-which-christian-dating-dealbreakers-should-you-keep\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Katera merila, ki so za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke nepogre\u0161ljiva, bi morali upo\u0161tevati?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce opusti\u0161 nekatere pogojev, ki so za tebe nepogre\u0161ljivi, to \u0161e ne pomeni, da jih mora\u0161 opustiti vse. Nekateri so tam zato, da te za\u0161\u010ditijo, in vredno jih je trdno dr\u017eati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Skupna vera.<\/strong> \u010ce si \u017eeli\u0161 zakonsko zvezo, v kateri je Kristus v sredi\u0161\u010du, je pomembno, da se spozna\u0161 z nekom, ki deli tvojo vero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Temeljne vrednote.<\/strong> Iskrenost, prijaznost in soglasje glede pomembnih \u017eivljenjskih vpra\u0161anj, kot sta poroka in otroci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Varnost in spo\u0161tovanje.<\/strong> Nadzorovalno vedenje, nepo\u0161tenost, pritisk, da prekora\u010di\u0161 svoje meje, ali kakr\u0161na koli oblika zlorabe morajo biti vedno razlog za prekinitev zveze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Ohranite tiste pogoje, ki \u0161\u010ditijo va\u0161o vero, va\u0161e vrednote in va\u0161o varnost. Preostalo pa ponovno premislite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-how-to-rethink-your-christian-dating-dealbreakers\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kako na novo premisliti o svojih odlo\u010dilnih dejavnikih pri kr\u0161\u010danskem spoznavanju<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce \u017eelite pregledati svoj seznam, poskusite naslednje:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Zapi\u0161i si, kaj zate pomeni \u00bbprekri\u017eani \u010drtici\u00ab.<\/strong> Pomaga, \u010de jih vidi\u0161 na papirju.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vpra\u0161aj, od kod prihaja vsak od njih.<\/strong> Je to prepri\u010danje, bole\u010dina iz preteklosti ali nekaj, kar si pridobil med potjo?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Razvrsti jih.<\/strong> Vsako uvrsti v kategorijo \u00bbvera\u00ab, \u00bbvrednote\u00ab, \u00bbvarnost\u00ab ali \u00bbprednost\u00ab.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Molite zanje.<\/strong> Prosi Boga, naj ti poka\u017ee, kje se morda preve\u010d oklepa\u0161.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Pogovori se z nekom, ki mu zaupa\u0161.<\/strong> Dober prijatelj pogosto vidi tisto, \u010desar mi ne vidimo.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u017de zgodaj ostani odprt.<\/strong> En pogovor ali videoklic \u0161e ne pomeni zaveze. Je prilo\u017enost, da izveste ve\u010d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na kratko:<\/strong> Pregledovanje svojih pogojev, brez katerih ne gre, ne pomeni zni\u017eevanja standardov. Pomeni le, da se prepri\u010da\u0161, da so ti pogoji resni\u010dno pravi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-frequently-asked-questions\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pogosta vpra\u0161anja<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-what-are-the-most-common-christian-dating-dealbreakers\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kateri so najpogostej\u0161i razlogi za prekinitev zveze med kristjani?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Med pogostimi razlogi za zavrnitev pri kr\u0161\u010danskem spoznavanju so druga\u010dna vera, pretekla lo\u010ditev, spolna preteklost, verska pripadnost in fizi\u010dne preference, kot je vi\u0161ina. Nekatere, na primer skupna vera, so vredne upo\u0161tevanja. Druge pa je vredno preu\u010diti, preden nekoga izklju\u010di\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-is-it-wrong-to-have-dealbreakers-as-a-christian\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ali je narobe, da ima\u0161 kot kristjan pogoje, zaradi katerih ne more\u0161 skleniti zveze?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne. Zdravi razlogi za prekinitev zveze vam pomagajo, da se v razmerja vklju\u010dujete z jasnim namenom in za\u0161\u010ditite tisto, kar je najpomembnej\u0161e. Klju\u010dno je, da temeljijo na veri, vrednotah in varnosti, ne pa na strahu ali navadi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-should-christians-date-someone-who-is-divorced\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ali naj se kristjani spoznavajo z razvezanimi osebami?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mnogi kristjani se ponovno poro\u010dijo in mnogi med njimi zgradijo trdne zakonske zveze. Kristjani imajo razli\u010dna stali\u0161\u010da glede ponovne poroke, zato si vzemi \u010das, da razume\u0161 zgodbo te osebe in svoja lastna prepri\u010danja. Pastor ali cerkveni voditelj, ki mu zaupa\u0161, ti lahko pomaga pri razmisleku o tem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-does-it-matter-if-someone-isn-t-a-virgin\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ali je pomembno, \u010de nekdo ni ve\u010d devica?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Razumljivo je, da te to skrbi, \u0161e posebej \u010de si se odlo\u010dil po\u010dakati. Najpomembnej\u0161e pa je, ali imata zdaj enaka prepri\u010danja o spolnosti in poroki. Milost pomeni, da nekdo preteklost ne dolo\u010da njegove prihodnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-can-christians-from-different-denominations-date\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ali se lahko kristjani iz razli\u010dnih veroizpovedi med seboj spoznavajo?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da. Veliko parov iz razli\u010dnih verskih tradicij se spozna in poro\u010di. Iskreno se pogovorita o bogoslu\u017eju, cerkvenem \u017eivljenju in vzgoji otrok. Nekatere tradicije imajo posebna navodila, zato se posvetuj s svojim cerkvenim voditeljem, \u010de to velja tudi za vaju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-is-it-shallow-to-care-about-height-or-weight\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ali je povr\u0161no, da se nekdo ukvarja z vi\u0161ino ali te\u017eo?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017delja, da te nekdo privla\u010di, ni povr\u0161na. Vendar se privla\u010dnost pogosto okrepi, ko osebo bolje spozna\u0161. Poskusi, da ne izklju\u010di\u0161 nekoga zaradi ene same podrobnosti, preden se z njim sploh pogovori\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-what-s-the-difference-between-a-red-flag-and-a-dealbreaker\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kak\u0161na je razlika med rde\u010do zastavo in dejavnikom, ki onemogo\u010da sklenitev posla?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rde\u010da zastavica je opozorilni znak v nekoga vedenju, na primer nepo\u0161tenost ali nadzor. Razlog za prekinitev zveze je karkoli, kar si se odlo\u010dil, da ne bo\u0161 sprejel. Rde\u010de zastavice je treba vedno jemati resno. Druge razloge za prekinitev zveze pa je vredno ob\u010dasno ponovno preu\u010diti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-meet-christians-who-share-what-matters-most\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Spoznajte kristjane, ki delijo tisto, kar je najpomembnej\u0161e<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pravi kr\u0161\u010danski kriteriji, ki so za zmenke odlo\u010dilni, vam pomagajo, da se osredoto\u010dite na tisto, kar resni\u010dno \u0161teje: vero, vrednote in zna\u010daj. SALT je <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">najve\u010dja neodvisna svetovna kr\u0161\u010danska aplikacija za spoznavanje<\/a>, ki ima ve\u010d kot milijon \u010dlanov v ve\u010d kot 50 dr\u017eavah. Prenos, iskanje ujemanj in klepetanje so brezpla\u010dni, tako da lahko <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">spoznati ljudi, ki presegajo seznam zahtev<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christian dating dealbreakers can either protect you or hold you back. The ones worth dropping rule people out before we&#8217;ve even met them. Someone&#8217;s past. Their denomination. The height listed on their profile. Having standards is wise, and every Christian should know what matters to them. But some of our non-negotiables say more about fear, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":2473,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[30,12,14],"class_list":["post-2872","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-apps","tag-all","tag-break-ups","tag-dating-profile"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v28.8 (Yoast SEO v28.8) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Christian Dating Dealbreakers We Should Drop - SALT &amp; Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Some Christian dating dealbreakers protect you. 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