{"id":2867,"date":"2025-03-26T13:41:37","date_gmt":"2025-03-26T13:41:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2867"},"modified":"2025-11-12T14:10:18","modified_gmt":"2025-11-12T14:10:18","slug":"seks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex At Its Best: Sexual Boundaries in Christian Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sli\u0161im vas, kako govorite, saj veste... spra\u0161ujete: \u201cZakaj sploh govoriti o tem, mar ni jasno, da so kristjani <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/so-imeli-spolne-odnose-pred-poroko\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pomeni, da je treba s seksom po\u010dakati do poroke.<\/a>?\u201d  Dragi bralec, \u010de bi bilo to tako preprosto, v Cerkvi ne bi bilo toliko te\u017eav s spolno deviantnostjo in nemoralnostjo.  V SALT-u nam je zelo pomembno omogo\u010danje odnosov in \u017eelimo, da se ljudje ne le spoznavajo, ampak da to tudi dobro po\u010dnejo.  Zato se pogovorimo o pomenu spolnih meja v odnosih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kristjani verjetno mislijo, da njihovo razumevanje spolnosti in tega, kaj je v redu in kaj ne, izhaja iz enega samega vira - Svetega pisma.  Mislim, da boste morda presene\u010deni, ko boste izvedeli, da na na\u0161e pojmovanje spolnosti v resnici mo\u010dno vpliva ne le na\u0161a vzgoja, ampak tudi kultura in na\u0161a osebna prepri\u010danja.  To je lahko pravo minsko polje, po katerem je treba krmariti!  Cerkev pogosto u\u010di o \u010distosti, kar se zdi pravi namen, vendar se je izkazalo, da je zaradi sramu in nerealnih pri\u010dakovanj, ki so s tem povezana, v\u010dasih \u0161kodljiva.  \u010ce to primerjamo z brezbri\u017enim pristopom sveta do spolnosti, ki je povsod okoli nas, ni \u010dudno, da kristjani te\u017eko krmarijo po vsem tem!  Zato se bom potrudil, da na podlagi lastnih izku\u0161enj in razumevanja Svetega pisma v to temo vnesem nekaj perspektive in, upam, nekaj pomembnih razodetij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kako sprejeti svojo spolnost in ostati \u010dist\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kHzNUgy_jKM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-sex-is-good\"><strong>Seks je dober<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Najprej je treba ugotoviti (in upam, da se s tem vsi strinjajo), da spolnost sama po sebi ni gre\u0161na ali slaba.  Rodimo se z bo\u017ejimi \u017eeljami po spolnosti, razmno\u017eevanju, intimnosti s partnerjem in tudi zabavi!  Vendar je pomembno, da razumemo ne le, kak\u0161na je Bo\u017eja volja za nas glede spolnosti, ampak tudi <em>zakaj<\/em> da bi morali delati stvari po njegovem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morda bi se lahko za nekaj namigov obrnili na Sveto pismo, kajne?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1 Tesaloni\u010danom 4,3-8:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bo\u017eja volja je, da bi bili posve\u010deni: da bi se izogibali spolni nemoralnosti; da bi se vsak od vas nau\u010dil obvladovati svoje telo na svet in \u010dasten na\u010din, ne v strastnem po\u017eelenju kot pogani, ki ne poznajo Boga; in da v tej stvari nih\u010de ne bi krivil svojega brata ali ga izkori\u0161\u010dal. Gospod bo kaznoval ljudi za vse take grehe, kot smo vam \u017ee povedali in vas opozorili. Bog nas namre\u010d ni poklical, da bi bili ne\u010disti, ampak da bi \u017eiveli sveto \u017eivljenje. Zato tisti, ki zavra\u010da to navodilo, ne zavra\u010da \u010dloveka, ampak Boga, ki vam daje svojega svetega Duha.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-is-bad\"><strong>Po\u017eelenje je slabo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zdi se, da je Sveto pismo zaradi tega zelo zaskrbljujo\u010de. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/pozelenje-proti-privlacnosti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">koncept <em>po\u017eelenje<\/em><\/a> in kako kr\u0161i ljubezen in je podobna <em>spolna nemoralnost<\/em>.  Oxfordov slovar definira po\u017eelenje kot \u201cmo\u010dno spolno po\u017eelenje\u201d ali \u201cmo\u010dno spolno po\u017eelenje po nekom\u201d.  Toda Matt, boste morda vpra\u0161ali, ali niste pravkar rekli, da so te \u017eelje, ki jih imamo, naravne in izvirajo od Boga?  Ja, so!  Zato moramo razumeti, kaj ima Sveto pismo v mislih, ko pravi \u201cpo\u017eelenje\u201d, in po \u010dem se razlikuje od preproste spolne \u017eelje, ki je prirojena na\u0161i \u010dlove\u0161kosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-history-lesson\">U\u010dna ura zgodovine<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Najprej moramo razumeti, da je bila spolnost v rimski kulturi, v kateri je bil napisan ve\u010dji del Nove zaveze, obravnavana povsem druga\u010de kot v dana\u0161nji kulturi.  Danes na spolnost ve\u010dinoma gledamo kot na odnos med dvema odraslima osebama (obi\u010dajno mo\u0161kim in \u017eensko), ki se ukvarjata s kakr\u0161nimi koli dejanji, da bi izpolnila svoje \u017eelje in potrebe (in upajmo, da tudi potrebe drugih!).  V rimski kulturi pri spolnosti ni \u0161lo za vzajemno zadovoljitev, ampak bolj za mo\u010d - mo\u0161ki so spolnost pogosto uporabljali za uveljavljanje svoje prevlade.  Danes bi se nad tak\u0161no miselnostjo zgra\u017eali, saj \u017eenske obravnavamo kot enakovredna \u010dlove\u0161ka bitja mo\u0161kim in niso namenjene le uporabi za mo\u0161ko zadovoljitev, vendar takrat \u017eenske niso veljale niti za polnopravna \u010dlove\u0161ka bitja, kaj \u0161ele za spolno avtonomne posameznice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ko torej Sveto pismo govori o po\u017eelenju, moramo razumeti, da govori vsaj o sebi\u010dni uporabi spolnosti, namesto da bi jo uporabljali kot izraz ljubezni.  Zato zgornji verz pravi, da ne smemo spolno izkori\u0161\u010dati nekoga drugega ali se pustiti prevzeti strasti, ampak moramo nadzorovati sebe.  Jezus je pri\u0161el in umrl za vse in ljubi vsakogar - mo\u0161kega, \u017eensko, otroka - vsakogar.  Ta notranja ljubezen do vseh ljudi je temelj svetopisemskih meja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-distortions-of-god-s-best\">Izkrivljanje Bo\u017ejega najbolj\u0161ega<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zato je tudi vsako odstopanje od Bo\u017ejega na\u010drta za spolnost med mo\u0161kim in \u017eensko v zakonu gre\u0161no in sebi\u010dno. Niso najbolj\u0161e, kar je Bogu po volji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/kaj-pravi-sveto-pismo-o-seksu-pred-poroko\/\">Predporo\u010dni seks<\/a> <\/strong>pravi, da je seks brez obveznosti v redu. Toda Bog je ustvaril spolnost za zakon, da bi odra\u017eala njegovo ljubezen, ne pa da bi jo uporabljali prilo\u017enostno.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-je-masturbacija-greh\/\">Masturbacija<\/a><\/strong> je usmerjena v takoj\u0161njo zadovoljitev in osebno korist, ki slu\u017ei posamezniku, ne pa odnosu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-naj-hodim-na-zmenke-ce-sem-zasvojen-s-pornografijo\/\">Pornografija<\/a> <\/strong>iz seksa naredi predmet za dobi\u010dek in izkori\u0161\u010danje. To poni\u017euje ljudi in spodbuja nevarno spolno vedenje.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/ali-me-bodo-ljudje-videli-kot-necistega-ce-sem-bil-zlorabljen\/\">Posilstvo<\/a> <\/strong>pravi, da je spolnost mogo\u010de vzeti ali jo je treba pla\u010dati. Ko se privolitev ne upo\u0161teva in pride do manipulacije, seks postane zloraba.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bog spolnosti ni ustvaril za to. Seks je ustvaril za dobro, prijetno, povezovalno, samo-dajalno in \u017eivljenjsko izku\u0161njo - v zakonu. To je najbolj\u0161i seks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-marriage-matters\"><strong>Zakonske zadeve<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zdaj se pojavi vpra\u0161anje - razumemo, da naj bi bil seks bolj nesebi\u010dno in ljube\u010de dejanje kot pa izraz mo\u010di ali odvzemanje nekoga drugi osebi, vendar <em>ko<\/em> je seks v redu?  Sveto pismo veliko govori o tem, da je zakonska zveza - dve osebi, ki sta si zavezani za vse \u017eivljenje - najbolj\u0161i in najsvetej\u0161i prostor za spolnost.  To je smiselno tudi z logi\u010dnega vidika, saj odlo\u010ditev za spolne odnose zunaj zakonske zveze povzro\u010da tri glavne te\u017eave, ki nimajo preprostih re\u0161itev:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ne\u017eelena nose\u010dnost<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Spolno prenosljive bolezni<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u010custvena \u0161koda<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-unwanted-pregnancy\"><em>Ne\u017eelena nose\u010dnost<\/em><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spolni odnosi zunaj zakonske zveze, tudi \u010de uporabljate za\u0161\u010dito, \u0161e vedno lahko privedejo do nose\u010dnosti.  \u0160okantno, vem.  Svet je poln ljudi, ki morajo otroka vzgajati kot najstniki ali sami, in \u010deprav imajo svojega otroka neizmerno radi, se morajo pogosto odpovedati nekaterim svojim sanjam in \u017eeljam v \u017eivljenju, opustiti vse in postati star\u0161i, \u0161e preden so pripravljeni.  Tudi \u010de ste v razmerju, verjetno ne \u017eelite razmi\u0161ljati o otrocih, dokler niste poro\u010deni in predani drug drugemu, sicer se lahko znajdete v podobnem scenariju.  Edina prava re\u0161itev, da bi to ustavili, je spolna vzdr\u017enost zunaj zakonske zveze.  To velja za \u017eenske, pa tudi za mo\u0161ke, ki morajo \u0161e vedno moralno in pravno prevzeti odgovornost za otroka, ki so ga pomagali spo\u010deti.  Te odlo\u010ditve vplivajo na vse, najbolj pa lahko prizadenejo vpletene otroke!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-sexually-transmitted-diseases\"><em>Spolno prenosljive bolezni<\/em><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekaj, o \u010demer kristjani pogosto neradi govorijo (verjetno zaradi u\u010dinkov kulture \u010distosti), je vpliv potencialno smrtonosnih spolno prenosljivih bolezni, kot sta hepatitis C\/B in HIV\/AIDS.  Spolni odnosi (tudi za\u0161\u010diteni) lahko privedejo do prenosa teh bolezni - celo pri oralnem seksu!  Razi\u0161\u010dite te bolezni in ugotovili boste, da z njimi ne \u017eelite imeti ni\u010desar skupnega.  Raje po\u010dakajte, da boste v predanem \u017eivljenjskem razmerju, saj veste, da nobeden od vaju ne bo imel spolnih odnosov z nikomer drugim.  In \u010de ima kdo od vaju spolno preteklost, ni ni\u010d narobe, \u010de se testirate in se prepri\u010date, da veste, v kaj se spu\u0161\u010date!  Bolje je biti varen kot \u017ealovati in \u0161e en pomemben razlog, zakaj je \u010dakanje na poroko verjetno najbolj\u0161a izbira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-emotional-damage\"><em>\u010custvena \u0161koda<\/em><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ljudje zunaj cerkve to pogosto podcenjujejo, vendar la\u017eejo le sami sebi - seks je neverjetno \u010dustven in zelo intimen.  V spolnosti je nekaj mo\u010dnega in pomembnega, pa naj bo to kulturno, duhovno ali biolo\u0161ko.  Ko se zdru\u017eite z drugo osebo v spolnem dejanju, postavite svoje zidove in ji zaupate ter ji omogo\u010dite dostop do zelo osebne in zelo celostne plati, ki bi morala biti rezervirana le za osebo, s katero delite globine svoje du\u0161e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je razlog, zakaj le redki ljudje lahko prevarajo svojega zakonca ali so prevarani - to je kr\u0161itev zaupanja in izdaja intimnosti, ki si jo delita.  S spolnimi odnosi zunaj zakonske zveze je la\u017eje razviti to intimnost z nekom, \u0161e preden je ta zaveza vzpostavljena, kar pogosto vodi do tega, da je ena ali obe strani na neki na\u010din prizadeta in te\u017eko nadaljujeta.  Zato Pesem pesmi 2,7 priporo\u010da, da \u201cne vzbuja\u0161 in ne prebuja\u0161 ljubezni, dokler si tega ne \u017eeli\u201d - torej ko imata to medsebojno zavezo.  Tako je bolje za vse vpletene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-boundaries-in-dating\"><strong>Meje pri zmenkih<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaj je torej v redu in kaj ne, preden se poro\u010dite?  Nih\u010de ne more postaviti te meje namesto vas ali je opredeliti, ker ne gre za \u201cpravila\u201d in njihovo kr\u0161enje, ampak za razumevanje Bo\u017ejega srca in <em>zakaj<\/em> spolnosti, na podlagi katerih lahko sprejemamo odlo\u010ditve.  Za to morate iskati Gospoda, vedeti, kaj vam ustreza in kaj ne, in kar je najpomembneje. <em>komunicirati<\/em> te \u017eelje s svojim partnerjem.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce \u017eelite <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">poi\u0161\u010dite pobo\u017enega partnerja<\/a> ki se strinja z va\u0161imi stali\u0161\u010di o seksu, poskusite SALT <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Christian dating app<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seks temelji na soglasju in komunikaciji, zato ni v redu, \u010de predvidevamo, da se druga oseba s tem ne strinja.  Svetniki, ne smemo biti nevedni glede vpliva, ki ga ima lahko spolnost zunaj zakonske zveze na na\u0161a \u017eivljenja in \u017eivljenja drugih, ter sprejemati odlo\u010ditve, ki najbolje podpirajo Bo\u017ejo ljubezen.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can hear you talking, you know\u2026 you\u2019re asking \u201cwhy even talk about this, isn\u2019t it obvious that Christians are meant to wait until marriage to have sex?\u201d\u00a0 Dear reader, if it were that simple, we wouldn\u2019t see so many problems in the church with sexual deviancy and immorality.\u00a0 We at SALT care a lot [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":2488,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[30,27],"class_list":["post-2867","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex","tag-all","tag-sexuality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.7 (Yoast SEO v27.8) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Sex At Its Best: Sexual Boundaries in Christian Dating - SALT &amp; Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Sex the way God intended it is quite a way off from where we&#039;ve got to even in Christian dating. 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