{"id":167,"date":"2025-03-13T10:16:12","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:16:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=167"},"modified":"2026-06-18T11:40:00","modified_gmt":"2026-06-18T11:40:00","slug":"prva-poteza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/first-move\/","title":{"rendered":"Prvi korak: Ali naj fantje naredijo prvi korak?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je staro vpra\u0161anje, ki ga mnogi kr\u0161\u010danski samski \u0161e vedno ne re\u0161ujejo.  Nekatere u\u010dijo, da je mo\u0161ki tisti, ki mora zasledovati in narediti prvi korak, medtem ko drugi menijo, da je to manj preprosto.  Toda kako je to videti v svetu spletnih zmenkov, ki so vse bolj raz\u0161irjeni?  Ali morajo fantje najprej poslati sporo\u010dilo?  Biti prvi, ki bo drugo osebo povabil na zmenek?  Kako je videti zasledovanje v aplikacijah za zmenke, kot je SALT?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zaradi sprememb na podro\u010dju zmenkov je to vpra\u0161anje ponovno v ospredju kr\u0161\u010danske kulture, zato smo se odlo\u010dili, da bomo najbolje izvedeli, kaj si ljudje mislijo o tem, \u010de vpra\u0161amo na\u0161e \u010dudovite uporabnike na SOCIALNEM omre\u017eju!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-crowdsourcing\"><strong>Pridobivanje sredstev s strani mno\u017eice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odgovori, ki smo jih dobili, so zelo zanimivi.  Nekateri so rekli, da bi morali fantje stopiti v ospredje, drugi pa, da je lahko pobudnik vsak od njih.  Nekaj jih je celo dejalo, da bi morale \u017eenske za\u010deti pobudo!  Opazen je bil trend, da so bile predvsem \u017eenske tiste, ki so trdile, da bi morali mo\u0161ki voditi, medtem ko se mo\u0161ki s tem niso strinjali.  Resni\u010dno se spra\u0161uje\u0161, ali se je na\u0161a kultura zmenkov spremenila ali pa ljudje na spletu ravnajo nekoliko druga\u010de?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaj so povedali na\u0161i uporabniki SOCIAL-a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christine\"><strong>Christine<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Menim, da bi morali biti obe strani namerni. Jaz sem bolj tradicionalna in verjamem, da mora mo\u0161ki dati pobudo. Menim tudi, da lahko kot dame mo\u0161kega povabimo, da bo bolj prepri\u010dan, da bodo njegova prizadevanja in \u010dustva obojestranska. Ni\u010d ni bolj\u0161ega kot preganjati \u017eensko, ki ne ve, kaj ho\u010de!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Derek<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Lepo je, \u010de dama naredi prvi korak. Fantje so ves \u010das zavrnjeni in tudi to je lahko naporno.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>George<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Iskreno povedano, zmenki so dovolj te\u017eki, zato o njih ni treba preve\u010d razmi\u0161ljati. Mislim, da bi morali tako mo\u0161ki kot \u017eenske preprosto pristopiti k nekomu, \u010de jih zanima, in se ne sabotirati s samovoljnimi pri\u010dakovanji, kako naj bi se stvari odvijale.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Alison<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Mo\u0161ki, ki prevzame pobudo, je zelo privla\u010den. <\/em><em>\ud83d\udd25<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Juan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Preko spleta je to la\u017eje, v \u017eivo pa lahko veliko izgubite, \u010de \u017eensko povabite na zmenek - \u0161e posebej, \u010de imate \u017ee ute\u010deno skupino prijateljev ali ste v isti cerkvi, kjer lahko postane nerodno. 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Ne pozabite, da pri tem niste nemo\u010dni, tudi \u010de \u017eelite, da mo\u0161ki prevzame vodilno vlogo! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-salt-social\"><strong>Dru\u017eabno omre\u017eje SALT<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u0161ni pogovori nam lahko v vedno bolj osamljenem svetu resni\u010dno pomagajo, da se po\u010dutimo povezane.  Pove\u017eite se z \u017eivahno skupnostjo samskih kristjanov na portalu SOCIAL - skupnostni kanal, ki je vgrajen neposredno v aplikacijo SALT!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">SOCIAL je prostor za povezovanje uporabnikov na zabavni in zanimivi platformi, ki je namenjena skupnemu \u017eivljenju.  Vpra\u0161ajte za nasvet glede odnosov, delite pesem za bogoslu\u017eje ali objavite fotografijo svojega najljub\u0161ega kraja za kavo.  In kdo ve, morda boste na poti spoznali nekoga izjemnega!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pridru\u017eite se pogovoru na dru\u017eabnem omre\u017eju SOCIAL! Potrebujete <a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">prenesite aplikacijo SALT<\/a> da jih ne zamudite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u010dasih kristjani dajejo kli\u0161ejske odgovore pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih. \u010ce se radi nasmejite, preberite vse kli\u0161eje kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkov <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/christian-dating-klise\/\">tukaj<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s the age-old question that a lot of Christian singles still aren\u2019t settled on.&nbsp; Some people are taught that men are meant to pursue and make the first move, while others think it\u2019s less straightforward.&nbsp; But in an increasingly online dating world, what does that look like?&nbsp; Do guys need to message first?&nbsp; Be the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":54,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[30,7,28,29,22],"class_list":["post-167","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","tag-all","tag-christian-dating-advice","tag-crowdsourced","tag-gender-roles","tag-salt-social"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v28.5 (Yoast SEO v28.5) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>First Move: Should Guys Make the First Move? - SALT &amp; Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"First Move, first message, first kiss. 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