{"id":1360,"date":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","date_gmt":"2025-03-12T13:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=1360"},"modified":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:33:46","slug":"kaj-je-narobe-s-krscanskimi-zmenki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/whats-wrong-with-christian-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj je narobe s kr\u0161\u010danskimi zmenki"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pred kratkim sem sli\u0161ala zgodbo o \"zmenku, ki je \u0161el narobe\"...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mlad par je neko\u010d na\u010drtoval enodnevni izlet. To je bilo v \u010dasu, ko je bilo treba za dolo\u010ditev avtobusne poti uporabiti natisnjen vozni red.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dekle je celo ve\u010dnost urejalo \u010das in skrbno na\u010drtovalo pot. Fant se je strinjal z na\u010drti - ob 6.10 na avtobusni postaji, vidimo se tam.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pride naslednje jutro, malo prezgodaj, \u010de smo po\u0161teni. \u010caka in fant se ne pojavi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V razo\u010daranju sko\u010di na naslednji avtobus do njegove hi\u0161e in malo po \u0161esti uri zjutraj potrka na vhodna vrata.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nih\u010de ne odgovori, vsi \u0161e spijo. Dekle ni zadovoljno, da ne re\u010dem ni\u010d dobrega, saj tako zgodnje vstajanje ni dober za\u010detek dneva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na koncu ga pri\u010daka nejevoljno dekle, s katerim se kljub zamudi odlo\u010dita, da bosta vseeno odpotovala.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Leta pozneje se kljub temu zapletu poro\u010dita. Toda ona \u0161e vedno ni pozabila. Mo\u0161ki pravi: \"V svoj zagovor naj povem, da \u010de bi vpra\u0161ali kogarkoli, ki me pozna, ni bilo mo\u017enosti, da bi se takrat re\u0161il.\" Smejeta se, ona pa \u0161e vedno nekoliko zmajuje z glavo...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Povzetek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je te\u017eava pri zmenkih, saj nikoli ne gre vse gladko.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki niso nobena izjema.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Od zme\u0161anih na\u010drtov, nepri\u010dakovanih bolezni, lovljenja ma\u010dk, iskanja duhov in \u0161e \u010desa - zmenki na spletu ali brez njega so velika vre\u010da vzponov in padcev.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V svetu, kjer mnogi mislijo, da so kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki le teko\u010di trak popolnih ujemanj in porok, je resni\u010dnost tak\u0161na, da kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki niso vedno tak\u0161ni, kot jih kristjani pri\u010dakujejo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na zmenkih se pogosto radi ozremo po dobrih novicah in zgodbah o uspehu, \u010de ne druga\u010de, pa zaradi upanja!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toda v\u010dasih je dobro, da se iskreno ozremo in vpra\u0161amo: \"Kaj je narobe s kr\u0161\u010danskimi zmenki?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Raziskujmo...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Kak\u0161ni bi morali biti kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki?<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vme\u0161avalci.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\"Veliko izbiranje\".<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Prepevate iz iste pesmarice.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Iskanje na povr\u0161ini.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Zakaj tako resno?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Datiranje in Bog.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Najte\u017eja stvar pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kaj je narobe s kr\u0161\u010danskimi zmenki?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7VfiQ6IesUU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-christian-dating-should-be-like\">Kak\u0161ni bi morali biti kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mislim, da drugi ljudje pri\u010dakujejo, da bodo zmenki kr\u0161\u010danskega mo\u0161kega ali \u017eenske tak\u0161ni, kot so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>SAMSKI MO\u0160KI<\/strong>: Sem samski. Videl sem te v cerkvi in privla\u010di\u0161 me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>SAMSKA \u017dENSKA<\/strong>: To je dobro. Tudi jaz sem samska in me privla\u010di\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>SAMSKI LEPOTEC<\/strong> <strong>MAN: <\/strong>Hodimo na zmenke za razmeroma kratek \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>LEPO<\/strong> <strong>\u017dENSKA<\/strong>: To mi je v\u0161e\u010d, junijska poroka?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>SAMSKI MO\u0160KI: <\/strong>Naredimo to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u017dENSKA<\/strong>: Zdaj sva poro\u010dena, to je bilo enostavno!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce je le prav?!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zgornji stavek je bil sicer malce zlajnan, a mnogim kr\u0161\u010danskim samskim bi morala zamisel o sre\u010danju z osebo iste vere precej olaj\u0161ati zmenke.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To mora biti izku\u0161nja, ki \u010dasti Boga in je polna vere. V njej naj bodo trenutki duhovne povezanosti in veliko molitve. V odnosu bi se morali po\u010dutiti samozavestno, kot da je Bog blagoslovil vsako sekundo tega odnosa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da, vse te stvari so ob pravem na\u010dinu razmi\u0161ljanja in v pravem kontekstu \u010dudoviti elementi zmenkov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toda navsezadnje smo vsi ljudje, ki \u017eivimo z enakimi te\u017eavami in te\u017eavami kot vsi drugi, tudi ko sledimo Jezusu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na spletnih zmenkih, v aplikacijah ali v \u017eivo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Lahko do\u017eivimo nespo\u0161tovanje ali zablodo.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Morda poznamo zlomljeno srce in bole\u010dino.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lahko se po\u010dutimo zmedeni ali zavedeni.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In v elementih zmenkovanja, na\u0161i <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/prevec-spiritualizirati-zmenke\/\">Kr\u0161\u010danska kultura je stvari nekoliko spremenila.<\/a>. Ko si bomo ogledali nekaj stvari, ki jih kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki morda narobe, razmislite o svojih izku\u0161njah in o tem, katere nasvete za zmenke morda osvetljuje Bog in nas usmerja k temu, kaj je kr\u0161\u010danski zmenek. <em>. <\/em>je bila vendarle tak\u0161na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"par na vrtiljaku\" class=\"wp-image-784\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/sept-commercial-EnrusDZBZBc-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-meddlers\">Vme\u0161avalci<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kristjani naj ne bi bili spletkarji, to je jasno razvidno iz Stare in Nove zaveze.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Ne \u0161iri obrekovanja med svojim ljudstvom. Ne delaj ni\u010desar, kar ogro\u017ea \u017eivljenje tvojega bli\u017enjega. Jaz sem Gospod.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>3. Mojzesova knjiga 19,6<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iz va\u0161ih ust naj ne prihaja ni\u010d slabega, ampak le tisto, kar je koristno za gradnjo drugih v skladu z njihovimi potrebami, da bo koristilo tistim, ki ga poslu\u0161ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Efe\u017eanom 4,29<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne vem, kako je z vami, ampak jaz \u0161e nikoli nisem bil v cerkvi, kjer ne bi bilo govoric. Kdo s kom hodi na zmenke, je pogosto vro\u010da tema. Mala dobra novica samo \u0161e pove\u010da upanje in veselje nedeljskega bogoslu\u017eja, kajne?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tveganje za samske je, da bo njihova cerkvena skupnost prej ovirala kot pomagala pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih. Od prevelike vpletenosti v iskanje partnerjev, spremljanja parov, pritiska na samske ali <a href=\"https:\/\/www.singlefriendlychurch.com\/news-and-resources\/singleness-in-uk-church-2012-research\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">zaradi \u010desar se po\u010dutijo izklju\u010dene zaradi svoje enotne resni\u010dnosti.<\/a>. Ta pogovor, ne glede na to, ali poteka zasebno ali javno, ima lahko negativne posledice.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mislim, da je sre\u010danje z nekom v va\u0161i cerkvi \u010dudovita stvar, saj ima veliko smisla. Toda \u010de se po\u010dutite, kot da vas kot samsko osebo ali nov par opazujejo, kritizirajo ali komentirajo, se vam lahko zdi, da ste po nepotrebnem pod pritiskom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Od javnega razkritja nove ljubezni do prikritih pogovorov ali pregledovanja sumljivih zgodb na Instagramu - ena od stvari, ki je lahko narobe pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih, je, da se vsi vtikajo v posle ljudi, ki se zmenkujejo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To ne pomeni, da svojih cerkvenih prijateljev sploh ne smete vklju\u010diti v svoje zmenkarsko \u017eivljenje. Pravzaprav Lauren dobro in premi\u0161ljeno utemelji nasprotno. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8m0H0mGFduI\">Videoposnetek dru\u017ebe SALT na YouTubu.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vendar se mora vsak od nas kot \u010dlan Kristusovega telesa odre\u010di svojemu mesu podobnim na\u010dinom in posku\u0161ati preusmeriti svoje \u017eelje po klevetanju (Pregovori 16,28) ali vsaj ohraniti nekatere od njih bolj notranje za dobro zbora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-great-picking\">\"Veliko nabiranje<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih lahko obstaja neizre\u010deno pravilo, nenavadna dinamika med mo\u0161kimi in \u017eenskami, ki bi lahko veljala za napa\u010dno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za kr\u0161\u010dansko \u017eensko se zmenki pogosto zdijo kot \u010dakanje, da bo izbrana. In \u010de niste sve\u017ee kr\u0161\u010dansko dekle, ki je pravkar dopolnilo dvajset let, potem je va\u0161a ladja odplula.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hatty Calbus v<a href=\"https:\/\/www.womanalive.co.uk\/opinion\/no-one-talks-about-being-single-in-the-church-after-your-50s-but-the-church-has-a-lot-to-work-on\/16103.article\"> \u017denske \u017eivijo<\/a> trdi, da,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"V britanski Cerkvi je \u017eensk na splo\u0161no dva proti ena ve\u010d kot mo\u0161kih, razmerje med samskimi \u017eenskami in samskimi mo\u0161kimi pa je celo osem proti ena.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Razkorak je nesorazmeren, saj zaradi \"pomanjkanja\" mo\u0161kih obupane \u017eenske sedijo v klopeh in \u010dakajo, da bodo izbrane.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toda ta nesmisel o \"odli\u010dnem izbiranju\" me res spravlja ob \u017eivce. Noben dober odnos se ne zgodi kar tako.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekaj je narobe, \u010de so kr\u0161\u010danske \u017eenske, ki i\u0161\u010dejo ljubezen, prepu\u0161\u010dene \u010dakanju z ob\u010dutkom nemo\u010di in brezupa. To ne bo privedlo do dobrega odlo\u010danja, \u010de jim bo v bli\u017enji prihodnosti pot prekri\u017eal kak\u0161en samski mo\u0161ki.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na drugi strani pa so \u017eenske razo\u010darane in jezne na mo\u0161ke, ki jim ne uspeva. Ve\u010d o tem kasneje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spomnim se, da je bil najbolj nadle\u017een del dating izku\u0161nje, ki se je kon\u010dala kot kristjan, spoznanje, da ko sva se oba premaknila naprej in spoznala druge ljudi, obstaja verjetnost, da bo poro\u010den pred mano.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je bila neumna skrb in \u0161epet sovra\u017enika, ki me je \u017eelel zatreti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne moremo pri\u010darati ve\u010d mo\u0161kih v na\u0161e cerkve, ki se bodo po naklju\u010dju zaljubili v nas. Lahko pa se kot \u017eenske posku\u0161amo osredoto\u010diti na druge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Manj se ukvarjajmo s tem, kje je na\u0161 Boaz, in bodimo bolj podobni <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Esther%201&amp;version=NLT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Esther <\/a>- ne na lepotnem tekmovanju, ampak kot \u017eenska, ki je spregovorila, ko je bilo to pomembno, ki se je zbirala z drugimi, da bi molila, in ki je bila trdna v svoji veri, zlasti v te\u017ekih trenutkih. Pri zmenkih je veliko ve\u010d kot \u010dakanje na povabilo na zmenek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"odprta knjiga\" class=\"wp-image-791\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/snigdha-malhotra-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-singing-from-the-same-hymn-sheet\">Petje iz iste himne<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta te\u017eava je pogostej\u0161a, kot si mislite. Ko hodite s kristjanom, mnogi domnevajo, da se bosta glede vpra\u0161anj vere strinjala.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toda samo zato, ker so kristjani, to ne pomeni, da so <em>va\u0161 <\/em>vrsta Chirstian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ljudje se lahko opredelijo za kristjane, vendar to lahko pomeni veliko razli\u010dnih stvari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pri nekaterih je ta razlika morda v osnovni teologiji ali tradiciji njihove denominacije. Oglejte si na\u0161o<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/poimenovanje-in-datiranje\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ali naj hodim na zmenke zunaj svoje veroizpovedi<\/a>' blog za ve\u010d misli in nasvetov o razlo\u010devanju.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrednote iz Svetega pisma se ne razlagajo vedno enako in \u017eal, morda celo napa\u010dno, se ne moremo po\u010dutiti varni, da bi vse na\u0161e kr\u0161\u010danske vrednote delili z na\u0161im bodo\u010dim partnerjem. Za nekatere lahko neprijetna pripomba: \"Torej ne bova seksala?\" privede do uni\u010dujo\u010dih posledic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izkazalo se je, da je biti kristjan lahko \u0161irok pojem, kar povzro\u010da zmedo glede tega, kako je videti zmenek z drugo kr\u0161\u010dansko osebo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zdaj ni ni\u010d narobe z <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/zmenki-z-vec-ljudmi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">razlike med kristjani, ki se nekoliko razlikujejo v tem, kaj si \u017eelijo v svojem \u017eivljenju na zmenkih.<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u017eave lahko zmanj\u0161ate, \u010de se odkrito izjasnite o tem, kje se nahajate. \u010ce ste kristjan, ki i\u0161\u010de zmenke, je vedno koristno, \u010de ste jasni in razlo\u017eite, kako je va\u0161a vera videti za vas v prakti\u010dnem in osebnem smislu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-surface-level-searching\">Iskanje na ravni povr\u0161ine<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ste \u017ee sli\u0161ali za besedno zvezo slog nad vsebino? Mislim, da gre pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih v\u010dasih narobe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vedno znova sli\u0161im dolge sezname 'obveznih' stvari, ki jih morajo izpolnjevati samski kr\u0161\u010danski mo\u0161ki in \u017eenske.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaj iskati pri kr\u0161\u010danskem fantu ali dekletu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Dvajsetkrat na leto mora prebrati Sveto pismo.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mora\u0161 si \u017eeleti iti na ve\u010d misijonskih potovanj.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Slu\u017eiti mora\u0161 v nedeljo.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In vodite majhno skupino.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seveda molijo na glas.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In cerkvi dajte veliko denarja.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Skrbi me, da se nekateri ljudje tako zelo osredoto\u010dajo na zunanji izraz vere nekoga kot dokaz, da je dovolj 'kr\u0161\u010danski', da bi lahko razmi\u0161ljali o tem, da bi se mu zavezali. Tako zelo, da pozabijo pomisliti na osebo, ki<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poslu\u0161ajte me, vse te kreposti so dobre, \u010de je na\u0161 namen dobro ljubiti Boga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odnosi pa niso samo o tem, kako nekdo deluje kot kristjan. Ne pozabite, da i\u0161\u010dete osebo, ki bo <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@explorerssaurus\/video\/7166239265242778886\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">z vami poje pribli\u017eno 40.000 obrokov,<\/a> kdo se bo ukvarjal z va\u0161o dru\u017eino za bo\u017ei\u010d, s kom boste po\u010ditnikovali in podobno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kot samski kristjani, ki se sre\u010dujemo in hodimo z drugimi kristjani, si lahko postavimo ideal in se osredoto\u010dimo na zunanje \"bo\u017eje stvari\". Pri tem pozabimo na iskanje povezave z osebo in spoznavanje osebe, kakr\u0161na je v resnici, ne le njene nedeljske podobe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-so-serious\">Zakaj tako resno?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seveda je pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih tvegano prehitro skakati vanje. Mnogi so osredoto\u010deni na poroko, zato se pogosto pozabijo ustaviti in vonjati vrtnice.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za nekatere je to lahko neprijetno - sre\u010danje z osebo, ki preve\u010d intenzivno razmi\u0161lja o prihodnosti, \u010deprav bi si prav tak\u0161no prihodnost \u017eeleli.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tudi \u010de ste kristjani, ki hodite na zmenke za poroko, to ne pomeni, da se morate 24 ur na dan, 7 dni v tednu osredoto\u010diti na poroko.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To ni izgovor za igranje z ob\u010dutki ljudi. To naj bi nas osvobodilo, da bomo lahko ob spoznavanju pobo\u017enega mo\u0161kega ali \u017eenske, s katero smo na zmenku, postali pravi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Veste, morda se boste lahko ozrli nazaj na nekatere zmenke ali celo razmerja in vedeli, da ste se imeli dobro, \u010deprav se romanca ni iz\u0161la. To se sli\u0161i nekoliko bolje kot bole\u010dina v srcu ob izgubi (\u0161e enega) potencialnega kr\u0161\u010danskega mo\u017ea ali \u017eene.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poudarek zakona je na odprtosti za to, kam bi vas lahko vodil Bog, ne pa na strogem nadzoru nad tem, \u010desar vam Bog \u0161e ni prinesel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na zmenkih poi\u0161\u010dite ravnovesje s to resnico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"par na gori\" class=\"wp-image-763\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/nathan-mcbride-YLkBly2HVHY-unsplash-1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-and-god\">Datiranje in Bog<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Najti moram nekoga, ki mi bo pomagal pri iskanju Boga, in ne nekoga, ki me bo odvrnil od njega.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Resni\u010dni pogovor - to je odkrito nerealno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Navsezadnje je apostol Pavel dejal,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vendar si \u017eelim, da bi bili vsi samski, tako kot sem jaz. Vendar ima vsak \u010dlovek poseben bo\u017eji dar, tak\u0161en ali druga\u010den.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zato pravim tistim, ki niso poro\u010deni, in vdovam - bolje je, da ostanejo neporo\u010deni, tako kot sem jaz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>1 Korin\u010danom 7,7-8<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da, v tem kontekstu govori o poroki in seksu, vendar se na enak na\u010din nana\u0161a tudi na zmenke. Ljubezenski interes bo odvra\u010dal pozornost od Boga, tudi \u010de se z njim poro\u010dite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ko spoznate nekoga novega in raziskujete za\u010detek romanti\u010dne zveze, vsaj za ve\u010dino tistih, ki niso tako pobo\u017eni kot ostali, ni zdravo pri\u010dakovati, da bi bili ves \u010das osredoto\u010deni na Boga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zmotilo vas bo - dejstvo!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za to ni kriv va\u0161 zmenek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kot kristjani, ki hodite na zmenke, je seveda dobro, da vam oseba, s katero ste, pomaga pri krepitvi vere. \u010ce pa to postane va\u0161 edini cilj, lahko izgubite druge radosti, ki jih ima Bog pripravljene za va\u0161e \u017eivljenje na zmenkih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-hardest-thing-about-christian-dating\">Najte\u017eja stvar o kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nekatere te\u017eke dele sem \u017ee preletela in prepri\u010dana sem, da jih je \u0161e veliko ve\u010d. Kr\u0161\u010danski zmenki \u0161e zdale\u010d niso popolna slika.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morda je za vas najte\u017eje:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Izklju\u010ditev <\/strong>- naj bo to va\u0161a starost, videz, premo\u017enost ali \"stopnja vere\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tlak <\/strong>- Neizre\u010dena pri\u010dakovanja v sebi ali od drugih.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Zmeda <\/strong>- Pomanjkanje jasnosti, ob\u010dutkov ali usmeritve lahko ote\u017euje napredek.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pot<\/strong> vpra\u0161al Christian, kaj so mislili, da <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thewayuk\/video\/7131766767654915334\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">najte\u017eja stvar pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih<\/a> bil, - morda imate tudi vi nekaj misli, ki jih lahko dodate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mislim, da je v redu, da so te\u017eki deli.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prav tako je v redu, da pokli\u010de, kar je narobe.Ko hodi s komer koli, vklju\u010dno z drugimi kristjani, moramo biti ljudje, ki:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cenite druge kot Bo\u017eje stvarstvo.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>so po\u0161teni in prijazni.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Delujte po\u0161teno in velikodu\u0161no.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Spo\u0161tujte meje drugih ljudi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce se bomo dr\u017eali teh vrednot, bomo morda namesto nekaterih nepravilnosti, ki se pogosto dogajajo, do\u017eiveli zmenke tak\u0161ne, kakr\u0161ni bi morali biti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Zaklju\u010dimo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nisem prepri\u010dan, da sem kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke prikazal v najbolj\u0161i lu\u010di, vendar je dobro narediti korak nazaj in se zavedati, da vsi zmenki vklju\u010dujejo pomanjkljive ljudi, ki bodo na \u017ealost sprejemali napa\u010dne odlo\u010ditve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u010dasih se vme\u0161ajo ljudje, v\u010dasih na\u0161 zmenek ne bo izpolnil pri\u010dakovanj, v\u010dasih nas bodo ovirali lastni ideali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce ste Christian in samski obstaja upanje, \u010deprav, \u0161e posebej, \u010de poznamo Jezusa. To, kar do\u017eivljamo, ni ni\u010d takega, \u010desar On ne bi mogel razumeti. Lahko se obrnemo nanj in ga prosimo za pomo\u010d, da <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">razli\u010dno datiranje.<\/a>in tako prina\u0161amo lu\u010d v svet, kot nas prosi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In \u010de \u017eelite <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pozitivna izku\u0161nja na zmenkih<\/a>, preizkusite SALT \u0161e danes!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently heard a story of a \u2018date gone wrong\u2019&#8230; A young couple, back in the day, were planning a day trip together. This was when you had to use a printed timetable to figure out your bus route.&nbsp; The girl spent ages sorting the timings, painstakingly planning the route. 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