{"id":12,"date":"2025-03-10T11:06:17","date_gmt":"2025-03-10T11:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=12"},"modified":"2026-07-02T11:24:24","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T11:24:24","slug":"krscanski-nasveti-za-zmenke-ki-gredo-narobe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/christian-dating-advice-gone-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"Kr\u0161\u010danski nasveti za zmenke, ki so postali napa\u010dni!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group has-base-background-color has-background has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:600\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V tem prispevku navajamo 6 primerov kr\u0161\u010danskih nasvetov za zmenke, ki jih leta 2026 ne bi smeli izre\u010di samskemu kristjanu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR - Povzetek<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne glede na to, ali to berete kot samska oseba, ki je prejela nekaj teh neza\u017eelenih nasvetov za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke, ali imate prijatelja, ki mu \u017eelite modro svetovati v njegovi sezoni samskosti, je ta prispevek namenjen vam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V nadaljevanju si preberite \u0161est najslab\u0161ih nasvetov, ki jih lahko daste samski osebi. Poleg tega pa tudi, kako se boriti proti temu, da bi bili dele\u017eni tak\u0161nih nasvetov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-1-you-re-not-trying-praying-hard-enough\">Premalo se trudite, moli bolj.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-you-re-being-too-picky-lower-your-standards\">Ste preve\u010d izbir\u010dni, zni\u017eajte svoje standarde<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-god-has-got-someone-for-you-just-hold-on\">Bog ima nekoga zate, dr\u017ei se<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-2-marriage-isn-t-all-it-s-cracked-up-to-be\">Poroka ni vse, kar si predstavlja\u0161, raje bi bila samska kot ti.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-3-insert-classic-anecdote-of-someone-you-know-who-stopped-looking-for-the-one-and-immediately-found-the-one\">*Vstavi klasi\u010dno anekdoto o nekom, ki ga pozna\u0161, ki je nehal iskati tistega pravega in ga takoj na\u0161el*<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-christian-dating-advice-4-you-re-not-getting-any-younger-you-re-so-young\">Ne postajate ni\u010d mlaj\u0161i, \u010das je, da se ustalite. Ali pa ste tako mladi, da vam za to ni treba skrbeti.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Nekoristne stvari, ki jih poro\u010deni ljudje pravijo samskim\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1FenXduIgWA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Oglejte si tole zabavno predstavitev te teme. <a href=\"https:\/\/laurenwindle.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Windle<\/a> ima v svoji knjigi povedati \u0161e veliko drugih stvari. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Notes-Love-Single-Marriage-Obsessed\/dp\/0281085552\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Zapiski o ljubezni<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-794e3cfa wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-vertical is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-e4606f40 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Uvod<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left has-base-background-color has-background has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ali poznate nekoga, ki <em>ljubi <\/em>vas zasli\u0161ati o va\u0161em ljubezenskem \u017eivljenju? Ali izkoristijo vsako prilo\u017enost, da vas zasujejo s kr\u0161\u010danskimi nasveti za zmenke, za katere niste prosili? Kadarkoli se pozornost usmeri name in vem, da me \u010dakajo vpra\u0161anja o zmenkih, me preplavi groza. Vem, da me bodo nasveti napolnili z jezo in sramom. Ne bom vedel, kako naj se odzovem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"prijatelj, ki daje nasvete za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke\" class=\"wp-image-64\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/friends-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pomirjujo\u010da roka na rami!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Svetovati in tola\u017eiti prijatelja, ki se bori v svoji samskosti, je zahtevna stvar. Na\u0161a dru\u017eba je osredoto\u010dena na re\u0161itve in si prizadeva, da bi jih hitro na\u0161la. \u010ce nas boli glava, lahko vzamemo paracetamol. \u010ce smo nezadovoljni s svojim videzom, se lahko lotimo diete, kupimo nova obla\u010dila ali celo plasti\u010dne operacije. \u010ce pogre\u0161amo nekoga na drugem koncu sveta, ga lahko pokli\u010demo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za nekatere stvari pa ni re\u0161itve, ki bi jo ustvaril \u010dlovek. Ena od teh stvari je obupna \u017eelja po ljubezni. Ne glede na to, kako navdu\u0161eno se spu\u0161\u010damo v svet kr\u0161\u010danskih aplikacij za zmenke in zmenkov na slepo, ne moremo ustvariti povezave, ki se med dvema \u010dlovekoma iskri. Dajanje nasvetov za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke se lahko zdi kot naslednja najbolj\u0161a re\u0161itev za sr\u010dno bole\u010dino nekoga, vendar to ni vedno najbolj pobo\u017eno ravnanje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-worst-advice-to-give-single-christians\"><strong>Najslab\u0161i nasvet za samske kristjane<\/strong><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-1-you-re-not-trying-praying-hard-enough\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #1: Ne trudi\u0161 se dovolj\/ne moli\u0161 dovolj<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sli\u0161ali ste \u017ee vse: \"Poskusite s kr\u0161\u010dansko aplikacijo za zmenke (<a href=\"https:\/\/be-salt.com\/\">SOL?!<\/a>), poskusite prestaviti cerkev, v\u010dlaniti se v kak\u0161en klub.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario\"><strong>Scenarij:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cudovit prijatelj, ki je videl vse profile SALT v svoji okolici, bil na 100 prvih zmenkih in se je pripravljen dobiti z vsakim, ki mu ga predlagajo njegovi prijatelji, vendar nih\u010de ni dovolj dober zanj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izbira zakonca je druga najve\u010dja odlo\u010ditev poleg odlo\u010ditve, da sledimo Kristusu. Gre za veliko stvar. Klju\u010dno je, da va\u0161 prijatelj ugotovi, kak\u0161ne standarde postavlja pred vsakega potencialnega fanta\/dekle. \u010ce so njihovi standardi bo\u017eanske lastnosti, ki jih podpira Sveto pismo, potem jih ne bi smeli zni\u017eati. Bolje je biti samski, kot pa zni\u017eati svoja merila in se poro\u010diti z nekom, ki jih odvrne od pobo\u017enega \u017eivljenja. <em>Vendar,<\/em> morda je v va\u0161em nasvetu za zmenke nekaj resnice, \u010de se va\u0161 prijatelj dr\u017ei lastnosti, ki nimajo svetopisemske te\u017ee. \u010ce prisega, da bo hodil samo z nekom, ki ima ve\u010d kot 180 cm, ali z nekom, ki bi prav tako prihranil tiso\u010de, da bi kupil prvo izdajo knjige <em>Hobit<\/em> potem je va\u0161 nasvet morda upravi\u010den.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Najprej molite za lastno razlo\u010devanje, da bi presodili, ali standardi, ki jih postavljajo, sledijo svetopisemskim naukom. Prebrskajte pismo Efe\u017eanom 5,22-33, ki opisuje vlogi mo\u017ea in \u017eene, kot ju je dolo\u010dil Bog. To so lastnosti, ki bi jih morali iskati pri zakoncih. Tu je veliko stvari, ki jih je treba razvozlati, in veliko napa\u010dnih predstav o tem odlomku, ki jih bo morda treba razvozlati. Morda predlagajte, da bi o tem lahko razmi\u0161ljali skupaj? Tukaj je nekaj dobrih knjig, ki so v pomo\u010d: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female\/dp\/0310337267\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"><em>Zastarele spletne strani <\/em>Jonathan Pokluda<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Loveology-Love-Marriage-Never-Ending-Female\/dp\/0310337267\"><em>Loveology <\/em>John Mark Comer<\/a> in . <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Meaning-Marriage-Facing-Complexities-Commitment\/dp\/1594631875\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"><em>Pomen poroke<\/em> Timothy Keller in Kathy Keller<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Molite in razmislite o tem, ali postavljate prava merila za bodo\u010dega zakonca? Bodite prepri\u010dani, da morate imeti visoke standarde, saj gre za veliko stvar.  Tukaj je 20 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/20-spodbudnih-svetopisemskih-verzov-za-samske\/\">Spodbudni svetopisemski verzi<\/a> za pomo\u010d na poti na zmenke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-2-you-re-being-too-picky-lower-your-standards\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #2: <strong>Ste preve\u010d izbir\u010dni, zni\u017eajte svoje standarde<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-0\"><strong>Scenarij:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cudovit prijatelj, ki je videl vse profile SALT v svoji okolici, bil na 100 prvih zmenkih in se je pripravljen dobiti z vsakim, ki mu ga predlagajo njegovi prijatelji, vendar nih\u010de ni dovolj dober zanj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izbira zakonca je druga najve\u010dja odlo\u010ditev, ki jo lahko sprejmemo, poleg odlo\u010ditve, da sledimo Kristusu. Iskanje zakonca ni proces, ki bi ga bilo treba jemati zlahka. Klju\u010dno je, da va\u0161 prijatelj ugotovi, kak\u0161ne standarde postavlja pred vsakega potencialnega mo\u0161kega ali dekle. \u010ce so njihovi standardi bo\u017eji in jih podpira Sveto pismo, potem jih ne bi smeli zni\u017eati. Bolje je biti samski in \u017eiveti za Jezusa, kot pa zni\u017eati standarde in se poro\u010diti z nekom, ki jih odvrne od pobo\u017enega \u017eivljenja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Vendar,<\/em> morda je v va\u0161em nasvetu nekaj resnice, \u010de se va\u0161 prijatelj dr\u017ei lastnosti, ki nimajo svetopisemske te\u017ee. \u010ce prisega, da bo hodil samo z nekom, ki ima ve\u010d kot 180 cm, ali z nekom, ki bi prihranil tiso\u010dake, da bi kupil prvo izdajo knjige <em>Hobit<\/em> potem je va\u0161 nasvet morda upravi\u010den.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-0\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Najprej molite za lastno razlo\u010devanje v tej situaciji, da bi presodili, ali standardi, ki jih postavljajo, sledijo svetopisemskim naukom. Prelistajte Ef 5,22-33, kjer so opisane vloge mo\u017ea in \u017eene, kot jih je dolo\u010dil Bog; to so lastnosti, ki bi jih morali iskati pri zakoncih. Tu je veliko stvari, ki jih je treba razvozlati, in veliko napa\u010dnih predstav o tem odlomku, ki jih je morda treba razvozlati. Morda predlagajte, da bi o tem lahko razmi\u0161ljali skupaj? Tukaj je nekaj dobrih knjig, ki so v pomo\u010d: <em>Zastarele spletne strani <\/em>Jonathan Pokluda, <em>Loveology <\/em>John Mark Comer in <em>Pomen poroke<\/em> Timothy Keller in Kathy Keller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-0\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Molite in razmislite, ali je v tem komentarju kaj resnice: ali postavljate prava merila za bodo\u010dega zakonca? Bodite prepri\u010dani, da morate imeti visoke standarde, saj gre za veliko stvar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-3-god-has-got-someone-for-you-just-hold-on\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #3: <strong>Bog ima nekoga zate, samo dr\u017ei se<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-1\"><strong>Scenarij:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sre\u010dali ste se s prijateljem, ki je obupal nad svojo samskostjo. Ali morda prijatelja, ki je pravkar do\u017eivel uni\u010dujo\u010d zlom srca. \u010cutite obupno \u017eeljo, da bi ga potola\u017eili in mu zagotovili, da se bo neko\u010d poro\u010dil, le vztrajati mora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this-0\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u017eava, ko nekomu re\u010demo, da ima Bog nekoga, ki ga \u010daka za vogalom, je v tem, da ga morda ne bo. To je te\u017eko prebrati, kajne? \u0160e te\u017eje je to sprejeti. Nekateri med nami so poklicani k \u017eivljenju v samskosti in va\u0161 prijatelj je morda eden izmed njih. Zato ne moremo re\u010di, da ga nekdo \u010daka. Najte\u017eje je to re\u010di zato, ker si oseba, s katero se pogovarjate, \u017eeli to sli\u0161ati. Vsi si to \u017eelimo. To je lahko <em>ob\u010dutek <\/em>kot najbolj prijazna stvar, ki jo lahko re\u010de\u0161, vendar je \u017eal res ravno nasprotno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-1\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ko za\u010dutite \u017eeljo, da bi izrekli besede, ki jih \u017eeli sli\u0161ati va\u0161 prijatelj, zadihajte. Ustavite se in opomnite sebe in njega, da ima Bog nadzor in da ima za to osebo dober na\u010drt (le da nih\u010de od vaju ne pozna podrobnosti). Z njimi delite ta verz: \"Gospod je tisti, ki gre pred vami. On bo z vami; ne bo vas zapustil in ne bo vas zapustil. Ne bojte se in se ne vznemirjajte.\" Peta Mojzesova knjiga 31,8. Spomnite jih, da je Bog \u0161el pred njimi in na\u010drtoval pot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-1\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Molite, da bi vam Bog prinesel mir v svojem popolnem na\u010drtu za vas. Zaupajte, da je va\u0161a identiteta Bo\u017ejega otroka veliko ve\u010dja od vsake zemeljske vloge fanta, dekleta, \u017eene ali mo\u017ea. V Kristusu ste svobodni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-4-marriage-isn-t-all-it-s-cracked-up-to-be\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #4: Poroka ni vse, kar se zdi, da je<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-2\"><strong>Scenarij:<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi ste poro\u010deni, va\u0161a samska prijateljica pa o\u010ditno ni. Ko ju vidi\u0161, se po\u010duti\u0161 slabo, ker ima\u0161 nekaj, \u010desar oni nimajo, in kar je \u0161e huje, oni si to \u017eelijo. Zdi se ti, da bi jih potola\u017eilo, \u010de bi svoj zakon razvrednotil tako, da bi jim \"odprl o\u010di\" za njegove te\u017eave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-problem-with-this-1\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce samski osebi povemo, da poroka ni popolna, to ne bo zmanj\u0161alo njene \u017eelje po poroki, je v tem nekaj iskrenosti. Z omalova\u017eevanjem daru svojega zakona jih lahko spravite v slabo voljo, ko boste dajali vtis, da niste hvale\u017eni za blagoslov zakonca. (Seveda zaupanje prijatelju, ko imate resni\u010dne zakonske te\u017eave, ne sodi v to kategorijo).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-2\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izogibajte se neposrednim primerjavam med va\u0161imi \u017eivljenji. \u010ce je to neizogibno, poskusite pogovor usmeriti na razli\u010dna podro\u010dja vajinega \u017eivljenja, ki so vama skupna. Pogovorite se o slu\u017ebi, o tem, kaj ste v zadnjem \u010dasu poslu\u0161ali, ali o cerkvi. Z vsakim kristjanom imate skupna izhodi\u0161\u010da, zato ga na podlagi tega nadgradite. Spomnite se Janezovega evangelija po Janezu 6,35: \"Tedaj je Jezus izjavil: 'Jaz sem kruh \u017eivljenja. Kdor pride k meni, ne bo nikoli la\u010den, in kdor veruje vame, ne bo nikoli \u017eejen.\" Bog je izpolnil najgloblje potrebe obeh vajinih src in status vajinega razmerja s tem nima nobene zveze!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-2\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne pozabite, da je vsak \u010dlovek, ki ga je ustvaril Bog, edinstven, kar pomeni, da je edinstven tudi vsak zakon. Noben par ni enak. Karkoli vam prijatelj pove o svojem zakonu, nima nobene te\u017ee za vas, va\u0161o samskost ali va\u0161 morebitni prihodnji zakon. Ni treba skrbeti zaradi primerjave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zakaj se ne bi raje osredoto\u010dili na <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/20-nacinov-kako-lahko-kristjani-najdejo-veselje-v-samskosti\/\">prednosti samskosti<\/a> ko ste \u0161e vedno v tej sezoni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske prijatelje\" class=\"wp-image-47\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-1536x1026.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-2048x1368.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/christian-festival-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-5-insert-classic-anecdote-of-someone-you-know-who-stopped-looking-for-the-one-and-immediately-found-the-one\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #5: *Vstavi klasi\u010dno anekdoto o nekom, ki ga pozna\u0161 in ki je prenehal iskati tistega pravega in ga takoj na\u0161el*<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-3\"><strong>Scenarij: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Va\u0161 prijatelj ne more nehati govoriti o svoji samskosti. Posku\u0161a <em>zelo te\u017eko <\/em>in moli <em>zelo te\u017eko <\/em>za zakonca. Spomnite se nore zgodbe o mo\u017eu sestre prijatelja va\u0161ega brata in mislite, da bi lahko veljala tudi zanje, zato jo delite, kot da gre za odli\u010den kr\u0161\u010danski nasvet za zmenke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this-0\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uporaba ljubezenske zgodbe ene osebe za nekoga drugega je normativna. Bog za oblikovanje na\u0161ih \u017eivljenj ne uporablja modela za pi\u0161kote. \u010ce predlagamo, da bi to lahko storil, lahko pri ljudeh vzbudimo napa\u010dna pri\u010dakovanja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-3\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seveda je z dobrimi prijatelji dobro deliti anekdote, vendar preudarno presodite trenutek, da jih ne boste podali kot nasvet, kako naj <em>. <\/em>i\u0161\u010dejo zakonca. Namesto tega si vzemite mo\u010d iz Tesaloni\u010danom 5,11. \"Spodbujajte drug drugega in se medsebojno krepite, kot to po\u010dnete v obrazu.\" Verjemite, da svojemu prijatelju slu\u017eite \u017ee s tem, da z njim pre\u017eivljate \u010das. Ni vam treba imeti vseh odgovorov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-3\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zaupajte, da kadarkoli vas je prijatelj primerjal z nekom drugim, Bog ne dela enako. Zahvalite se Bogu, da vas je ustvaril edinstvene in da ima za vas namen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-christian-dating-advice-6-you-re-not-getting-any-younger-you-re-so-young\"><strong>Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke #6: Ne postaja\u0161 ni\u010d mlaj\u0161i \/ Tako mlad si<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scenario-4\"><strong>Scenarij: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nimate nobenega nasveta za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke, vendar ste obupani, da bi dali nasvet. Najla\u017eji izhod iz tega te\u017ekega pogovora je, da komentirate njihovo starost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-issue-with-this-1\"><strong>Te\u017eava je v tem: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morda se vam ne zdi, da je tako, ko to re\u010dete, vendar je to tako obsojajo\u010da pripomba. Morda ste to rekli le v \u0161ali, vendar je verjetno \u0161e vedno videti kot neob\u010dutljiv komentar. S tem, ko namiguje, da se prijatelj ne bi smel po\u010dutiti tako ali da bi moral ravnati na tak na\u010din, razveljavlja njegova \u010dustva. V resnici starost nima nobene zveze s statusom razmerja. Nekateri pari se spoznajo \u017ee kot najstniki, drugi najdejo \"tistega pravega\" \u0161ele po upokojitvi. Bog odlo\u010da o tem, kak\u0161ne blagoslove bo dobil va\u0161 prijatelj in kdaj jih bo dobil. \u010cas in ljubezen sta dve stvari, nad katerima ima nadzor samo Bog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-say-instead-4\"><strong>Kaj lahko re\u010dete namesto tega: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prijatelja (in sebe!) spomnite, da je Bog avtor stvarstva in vrtilec \u010dasa. Jeremija 29,11 pravi: \"Kajti poznam na\u010drte, ki jih imam z vami,\" izjavlja Gospod, \"na\u010drte, da bi vam uspeli in ne \u0161kodovali, na\u010drte, da bi vam dali upanje in prihodnost.\" Zavedanje, da ima Bog nadzor, prina\u0161a toliko upanja in miru. Skupaj se lahko veselimo te resnice, ki nam daje \u017eivljenje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-re-on-the-receiving-end-4\"><strong>\u010ce ste prejemnik: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ce vam je kdo to rekel, mi je \u017eal. To je nevedna pripomba. Va\u0161i ob\u010dutki niso neveljavni samo zato, ker jih nekdo posku\u0161a izni\u010diti. Odnesite svojo bole\u010dino k Bogu in se spomnite na njegov popoln \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"STOP to re\u010di samskim kristjanom\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mBHaSL319qw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Oglejte si \u0161e nekaj primerov grozljivih stvari, ki jih ljudje govorijo samskim kristjanom.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\"><strong>Zaklju\u010dimo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u017eko je prevzeti vlogo, da prijatelju stoji\u0161 ob strani, ko ga skrbi ali mu\u010di njegova samskost. Vzemite si k srcu, da so va\u0161e prijateljstvo, va\u0161e molitve in ne\u017ena prisotnost, ki jo lahko ponudite, \u017ee sami po sebi blagoslov. V Pregovorih 16,24 pi\u0161e: \"Dobre besede so kot med - sladke za du\u0161o in zdrave za telo.\" Verjemite, da so va\u0161e prijazne besede veliko bolj obnovitvene kot katerakoli <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/nasveti-za-zmenke-za-zenske-od-moskih\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nasveti za kr\u0161\u010danske zmenke<\/a> lahko ponudite. Ni vam treba re\u0161iti situacije, temve\u010d morate prijatelja le voditi k Jezusu. To je zagotovo nekaj, za kar ste usposobljeni.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this post we give 6 examples of Christian dating advice that should never be uttered to a single Christian in 2026. 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