{"id":118,"date":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=118"},"modified":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","slug":"pozelenje-proti-privlacnosti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/lust-vs-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti: Ali sem prestopil mejo?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kot kristjani, ki \u017eivimo v letu 2026, moramo poznati razliko med po\u017eelenjem in privla\u010dnostjo.<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/razlika-med-naklonjenostjo-in-pozelenjem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">: kako ugotovimo, ali smo prestopili mejo<\/a>? Kako lahko dose\u017eemo to iskrico v na\u0161ih odnosih in hkrati spo\u0161tujemo Boga?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\"><strong>TL;DR: Povzetek<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Vsi smo dobili svoje <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/kako-lahko-samski-kristjani-obvladujejo-svoj-spolni-nagon\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u017eelja po spolnosti in intimnosti<\/a> po Bogu. Za dobro upravljanje tega je potreben trud in odprto srce.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dober kr\u0161\u010danski nasvet za zmenke je, da smo iskreni do sebe in svojih dejanj.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V tem blogu bomo pogledali, kje se kon\u010da resni\u010dnost privla\u010dnosti in za\u010dne ozemlje po\u017eelenja.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-and-its-lies\">Pohlep in njegove la\u017ei.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\">Fantazija in fikcija.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#Lust vs. Attraction: Responding to attraction\">Odziv na privla\u010dnost.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">Spopadanje s sku\u0161njavo.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\">Ali sem prestopil mejo?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Po\u017eelenje proti vzburjenosti: Kako se izogniti spolnemu grehu #shorts\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zCOlqp0c4ko?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/smr.fm\/about\/\">Dr. Corey<\/a> pogovori s samskimi SALT o seksu in po\u017eelenju<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-or-attraction\"><strong>\u017delja ali privla\u010dnost?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Zac Efron mi je \u017ee od nekdaj v\u0161e\u010d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je bilo razlog njegovo pomanjkanje pevskih sposobnosti leta 2006? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/874198\/high-school-musical-2-turns-10-so-let-s-revisit-zac-efron-s-bet-on-it-sequence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Njegov ikoni\u010dni \"ples\" na igri\u0161\u010du za golf?<\/a> Ali dejstvo, da se je neverjetno dobro postaral?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne glede na to o 'zaljubljenosti v zvezdnike' nisem nikoli veliko razmi\u0161ljala.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pred kratkim pa sem bil opozorjen, da moja naklonjenost gospodu Efronu morda ni tako ne\u0161kodljiva, kot se zdi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sre\u010danje ali zmenek s slavnim igralcem o\u010ditno ni uresni\u010dljiv. Ali nekaj, kar sem si kdajkoli \u017eelel. Zato so se mi moje misli o omenjenem igralcu zdele nepomembne. Malce zabave, na\u010din za kraj\u0161anje \u010dasa (in samskosti).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Druga\u010den pogled nanj je razkril nekaj pere\u010dih vpra\u0161anj.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ali se to razlikuje od ob\u010dutkov privla\u010dnosti do nekoga, ki ga poznam? Ali moja otro\u0161ka zaljubljenost v resnici skriva greh v mojem srcu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce se osredoto\u010dim na privla\u010dnega mo\u0161kega, ki je \"nedosegljiv\", se znajdem v nekoliko sivem obmo\u010dju. To je po\u017eelenje proti privla\u010dnosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spra\u0161evala sem se, ali sem prestopila mejo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne glede na to, ali ste samski kristjan ali hodite na zmenke (ali ste celo poro\u010deni), je meja lahko nekoliko nejasna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ljubim Boga in \u017eelim postati bolj podoben Jezusu. Toda ko se v to vme\u0161ajo ob\u010dutki navdu\u0161enja in privla\u010dnosti, zlahka odvrnemo pogled od Boga in se posvetimo svojim \u010dlove\u0161kim \u017eeljam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da bi kot kristjani v svojem ljubezenskem \u017eivljenju hodili po Bo\u017eji volji, moramo razlikovati med tistim, kar nam je dano od Boga, in tistim, kar je gre\u0161no.  Vemo, da <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/zakaj-je-seks-namenjen-poroki\/\">seks je za poroko<\/a> in se \u017eelimo pribli\u017eati Bogu s \u010disto zavestjo.  Zato si bomo ogledali <strong>\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-is-a-sin\"><strong>Po\u017eelenje je greh<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nedvomno je po\u017eelenje greh in ni greh, ki bi izginil tudi, ko hodite na zmenke (morate ga <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/20-nacinov-kako-se-upreti-spolni-skusnjavi-na-zmenkih\/\">premagovanje spolne sku\u0161njave pri zmenkih<\/a> tudi!). V Svetem pismu je to zelo jasno zapisano. Trdim, da je to tudi greh, saj vidimo, da se \u010dlove\u0161tvo z njim spopada skozi zgodovino.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/GEN.39.NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Fotifarjeva \u017eena in njene po\u017eeljive zahteve zapletejo Jo\u017eefa.<\/a>. Znana je zgodba o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/2SA.11.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">David in Befeba.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apostoli so pisali \u0161tevilnim cerkvam in jih pozivali, naj se odvrnejo od spolnega greha. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/1TH.4.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Kot Tesaloni\u010dani.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Danes imamo na voljo \u0161tevilne televizijske oddaje, od tekmovanj, resni\u010dnostnih oddaj, fantazijskih oddaj do dramskih oddaj iz obdobja. Vse te oddaje senzacionalisti\u010dno prikazujejo po\u017eelenje za zabavo in pobeg.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pogosto pa se zmotimo pri ustvarjanju hierarhije za greh. Nekateri grehi so ve\u010dji ali huj\u0161i od drugih. Pohlep je eden od teh 'velikih' grehov.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Razumem, zakaj. Posledice so velike. Ne samo na odnose, ampak tudi v duhovnem smislu. Po\u017eelenje izrinja prostor za na\u0161o ljubezen do Boga. Ne upo\u0161teva njegove zasnove in na\u010drta za ljubezen, ki jo \u017eivimo tudi na tej strani ve\u010dnosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toda Jezus je umrl na kri\u017eu zaradi vseh na\u0161ih grehov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...kajti vsi so gre\u0161ili in niso dorasli Bo\u017eji slavi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Pismo Rimljanom 3,23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mnogi \u010dutijo te\u017eo greha in sramu, zlasti na podro\u010dju po\u017eelenja. Zaradi tega se ljudje skrivajo, ponavljajo svoje vedenje in se oddaljujejo od Boga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jezus nas je pri\u0161el osvobodit greha in sramote. Vsak greh je moral biti premagan z Jezusovo krvjo, prelito na kri\u017eu. Naj gre za klevetanje ali pre\u0161u\u0161tvo. On je premagal greh in nas vabi, da \u017eivimo v svobodi, ki nam jo je kupil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pri razlikovanju med po\u017eelenjem in privla\u010dnostjo bodite previdni. Ne uporabljajte tega kot palico, s katero bi se pretepali. Niti si ne dovolite, da bi se odvezali odgovornosti. Pridi pred Boga, priznaj, kaj te\u017ei tvoje srce, in naredi korake, da bo\u0161 hodil v Njegovi svobodi in mu sledil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ob\u010dutek ujetosti v po\u017eelenju\" class=\"wp-image-91\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-and-its-lies\"><strong>Po\u017eelenje in njegove la\u017ei<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Pogosto domnevamo, da je po\u017eelenje zgolj dejanje, ki ga povzro\u010di ob\u010dutek privla\u010dnosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toda po\u017eelenje je lo\u010deno tudi od privla\u010dnosti. Da, na\u0161 ob\u010dutek spolne privla\u010dnosti se lahko spremeni v po\u017eelenje. Toda po\u017eelenje je tako dale\u010d od tega, kar je Bog ustvaril kot privla\u010dnost. To mora biti nekaj drugega.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Po\u017eelenje vzame misel, ob\u010dutek, dejanje ali osebo in iz nje naredi predmet. Iz \"nekoga\" naredi \"nekaj\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pohlep spodbuja samega sebe. \"To ho\u010dem.\" \"To potrebujem.\" \"Brez tega ne morem.\" Ne misli na drugega. Prizadeva si za sebi\u010dne namene.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pohlep uporablja obsedenost, da bi spodbudil na\u0161o \u017eeljo po posedovanju.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Zato je po\u017eelenje la\u017e. Bo\u017eja stvaritev ni predmet, ki ga je treba uporabiti. Bog nas ni ustvaril zato, da bi se nam prilizovali v lastnem interesu. Bog nam ni dal svobodne volje zato, da bi si sami zagotovili slavo ali mo\u010d.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zaradi teh izkrivljanj je jasno, da sovra\u017enik uporablja po\u017eelenje, da bi nas oddaljil od Boga in nam \u0161kodoval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko prepoznate nekatere od zgornjih namenov, lahko prepoznate, kdaj je v igri po\u017eelenje. Prav tako je po\u017eelenje o\u010ditno, ko:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u010cutite, da vas obvladuje.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Verjamete la\u017eem namesto Bo\u017eji resnici.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Menite, da ni druge mo\u017enosti.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Vem, to je te\u017eka tema. Vendar pa po\u017eelenje ne prihaja vedno v velikih valovih ali dramati\u010dnih okoli\u0161\u010dinah. Tudi majhne misli in dejanja lahko vnesejo po\u017eelenje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\"><strong>\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti:<\/strong> <strong>Fantazija in fikcija<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Najbolj spodbuja po\u017eelenje, ko se v mislih prepustimo fantaziji ali fikciji.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u017eelenje je iskanje u\u017eitka in veselja iz tistega, kar nam ne pripada. To je lahko zelo zapleteno, ko vstopite na sceno zmenkov kot samski kristjan ali \u010de ste se odlo\u010dili, da boste spolnost prihranili za poroko. Toda ljudje se s po\u017eelenjem spopadajo v razli\u010dnih scenarijih.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Predvsem zato, ker na\u0161 svet to ves \u010das spodbuja!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Svet nam govori, naj si \u0161e naprej prizadevamo za to, kar si \u017eelimo. Da je vse, kar si \u017eelimo, lahko na\u0161e. To vidimo v filmih, medijih, revijah in \u0161e kje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na \u017ealost so \u017eenske \u017ee leta v romanti\u010dnih komedijah in romanih dele\u017ene tak\u0161nega prepri\u010danja. Prepri\u010dane so bile, da je nekje zunaj popoln, \u010deden, seksualno atletski mo\u0161ki. Da se bo zelo potrudil, da bo z njimi. Zato so moji mo\u017egani \u017ee od \u010dasov njegovega srednje\u0161olskega muzikala usmerjeni na misli o Zacu Efronu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Te zgodbe skoraj vedno poveli\u010dujejo nezvestobo. To je prisotno v celotni kinematografiji. Par, za katerega se zavzemamo - eden ali oba v resnici varata. <em>Ima\u0161 po\u0161to, Za\u010darani, Pisma Juliji<\/em> in \u0161e ve\u010d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obi\u010dajno mo\u0161ke k uresni\u010devanju te fantazije spodbuja pornografija (ve\u010d o tem pozneje).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kot kristjane nas Bog kli\u010de k temu, da;<em>Usmerite svoje misli na zgornje, ne na zemeljske stvari. <\/em>(Kolo\u0161anom 3,2). To je zelo te\u017eko storiti, \u010de pustimo domi\u0161ljiji, da v na\u0161ih mislih divja in svobodno deluje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\u010custvene meje v kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih: 5 nasvetov za \u010dustveno \u010distost: 5 nasvetov za \u010dustveno \u010distost\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SNNNfrBvq2c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Delphine se ve\u010d ukvarja z na\u0161imi fantazijami o zmenkih tukaj<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-responding-to-attraction\"><strong>\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti: Odziv na privla\u010dnost<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Privla\u010dnost (v tem kontekstu spolna privla\u010dnost) prihaja od Boga. On nas je ustvaril za odnos in na\u0161i ob\u010dutki privla\u010dnosti nas vodijo k temu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eden od klju\u010dnih dejavnikov, ki prispevajo k na\u0161emu do\u017eivljanju privla\u010dnosti, so \u010dutila. Pogled na bolj\u0161o ko\u017eo, vonj parfuma ali kolonjske vode, zvok njihovega glasu. Ko se nam nekdo zdi privla\u010den, se v na\u0161em telesu v ozadju dogaja marsikaj. Videoposnetek TED-Ed o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=SNNNfrBvq2c\">Znanost o privla\u010dnosti<\/a> je zanimiva informacija o tem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ceprav se morda zdi, da znanstveni pristop odpravlja zabavo ali romantiko, je zelo smiseln. Bog je ustvaril spolnost z namenom, da bi na svet prinesel novo \u017eivljenje. Zato se zdi pametno, da si poi\u0161\u010demo dobrega partnerja za razmno\u017eevanje. \u0160e posebej, \u010de to po\u010dnemo, ne da bi to sploh opazili.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pojasnjuje tudi, zakaj so lahko ti fizi\u010dni ob\u010dutki ali \u010duti za spolno privla\u010dnost tako mo\u010dni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feelings\">Ob\u010dutki<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Poleg tega pa privla\u010dnost vklju\u010duje \u0161e dva pomembna dejavnika. Veliko vlogo igrajo na\u0161i ob\u010dutki. Ko nas nekdo privla\u010di, se v nas prebudijo \u0161tevilna \u010dustva. Vznemirjenje, adrenalin, u\u017eitek, sre\u010da, varnost ali potrditev. Ti nas spodbujajo, da \u0161e naprej i\u0161\u010demo ta ob\u010dutek za ve\u010dje zadovoljstvo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Potem je tu \u0161e na\u0161a \u017eelja. Vsi globoko v sebi hrepenimo po tem, da bi bili ljubljeni. Bog je to hrepenenje polo\u017eil v na\u0161a srca, da bi se mu pribli\u017eali. Na\u0161a \u017eelja, da bi bili intimno povezani z nekom drugim, je del na\u0161e zasnove.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spolna privla\u010dnost je torej velika stvar. Nekdo se nam lahko zdi privla\u010den tudi zaradi \u0161tevilnih drugih stvari. O\u010ditne fizi\u010dne lastnosti, pa tudi osebnost, lastnosti, status ali vera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kako se odzovemo na to privla\u010dnost, je vpra\u0161anje \"meje\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na svetu so privla\u010dni ljudje in najverjetneje boste v \u017eivljenju izkusili te ob\u010dutke privla\u010dnosti. \u010ce i\u0161\u010dete zmenke kot samski kristjani ali ste v razmerju s kr\u0161\u010danskimi zmenkarji, ste s tem verjetno \u017ee seznanjeni.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bog \u017eeli, da bi v svojem \u017eivljenju do\u017eivljali sre\u010do, veselje in zadovoljstvo. To vklju\u010duje tudi spolnost! Po Bo\u017ejem na\u010drtu naj bi to do\u017eivljali v zakonu z eno samo osebo. Klju\u010dno pa je, da s pravim namenom.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na\u0161 namen pri spolni privla\u010dnosti mora biti vedno spo\u0161tovanje, spo\u0161tovanje in ljubezen do druge osebe. Vse, kar temu nasprotuje, ni Bo\u017eji na\u010drt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To pogosto pomeni, da moramo odlo\u017eiti svoje trenutne \u017eelje in hotenja ter po\u010dakati, da vas Bog postavi v pravi kontekst za izra\u017eanje te privla\u010dnosti. Poklicani smo, da delujemo z namero in ne z reakcijo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce se odlo\u010dimo za spolno privla\u010dnost, \u0161e preden nastopi pravi \u010das, se zdrava privla\u010dnost spremeni v sebi\u010dnost in nas pripelje do po\u017eelenja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-wary\"><strong>Bodite previdni<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Zlahka verjamemo, da so po\u017eeljive misli v redu, dokler jih ne izvajamo. Ali so misli v redu? Toda sveti Pavel nas opominja, naj <em>'vsako misel ujeti, da bo poslu\u0161na Kristusu'. <\/em>(2 Korin\u010danom 10,5). Po\u017eeljive misli vam svetujejo, da pozabite na Bo\u017eji na\u010drt. Ob\u010dutke spolne privla\u010dnosti pa je mogo\u010de nadzorovati in obvladovati s poslu\u0161nostjo Bogu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"po\u017eelenje vs. privla\u010dnost strast\" class=\"wp-image-81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Strast nas je pripeljala sem<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti: <strong>Spopadanje s spolno sku\u0161njavo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Jasno je, da je po\u017eelenje resni\u010dnost, s katero se lahko mnogi soo\u010dajo ali pa se \u017ee soo\u010dajo. Svet, ljudje, s katerimi hodimo na zmenke, ali pa mi sami se zlahka pustimo zapeljati na to pot.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko to opazimo, se moramo prednostno lotiti sku\u0161njave.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-come-to-god-nbsp\"><strong>Pridite k Bogu&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Jakobova knjiga nam pravi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>...<\/em><\/strong><em>poni\u017eajte se pred Bogom. Upirajte se hudi\u010du, pa se bo umaknil od vas. Pribli\u017eajte se Bogu in Bog se bo pribli\u017eal vam. Umijte si roke, gre\u0161niki, o\u010distite svoja srca, saj je va\u0161a zvestoba razdeljena med Boga in svet.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Jakob 4,7-8)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko se zavemo sku\u0161njav, ki nas obkro\u017eajo, imamo dve mo\u017enosti. Ali ostanemo na tej poti ali se obrnemo nazaj k Bogu. V slednji vidimo veliko obljubo. Bog se vam bo pribli\u017eal.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ni\u010d, kar ste mislili, rekli ali storili, vas ne bo lo\u010dilo od Boga zaradi tega, kar je Jezus storil na kri\u017eu! Tudi \u010de vas le skrbi, da bi po\u017eelenje lahko postalo va\u0161a te\u017eava, se pokorite pred Bogom. Molite in prosite za njegovo milost.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko pridemo k Bogu, dobimo mo\u010d, da se upremo sovra\u017enikovim na\u010drtom!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-remove-the-source-nbsp\"><strong>Odstranitev vira&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To je zapleteno. Te\u017eko je izbrati \u017eivljenjski slog, ki spo\u0161tuje Bo\u017ejo voljo pred svetom. \u010ce \u010dutite, da vas obvladuje po\u017eelenje, je pomembno, da odstranite tisto, kar vas spro\u017ea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Razmislite o prekinitvi uporabe aplikacij za zmenke, \u010de vam trenutno ne pomagajo. Vemo, da so lahko kamen spotike. Preberite ve\u010d na '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/aplikacije-za-zmenke-greh\/\">Greh aplikacij za zmenke<\/a>\u2018.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce vas Bog prosi, da v svojem \u017eivljenju opustite po\u017eelenje, ali vam stvari v va\u0161em \u017eivljenju (misli, dejanja, vsebina, ljudje itd.) pomagajo ali ote\u017eujejo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-heal-the-heart\"><strong>Ozdravite srce<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Verjetno bo potreben tudi nadzor \u0161kode. Greh nam jemlje veselje du\u0161e, ovira na\u0161 odnos z Bogom in lahko vpliva tudi na na\u0161e po\u010dutje.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To se najbolj jasno ka\u017ee pri uporabi pornografije. Mnogi ljudje uporabljajo pornografijo, da bi se spopadli s svojimi po\u017eeljivimi \u017eeljami ali jih iz\u017eiveli. Upajo, da jim bo to prineslo u\u017eitek in spolno zadovoljstvo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vendar je u\u017eivanje pornografije povezano s slab\u0161im du\u0161evnim zdravjem, slab\u0161im samospo\u0161tovanjem, slab\u0161o telesno podobo in ve\u010djo osamljenostjo (glede na <a href=\"https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Boj proti novi drogi<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne glede na to, ali je na\u0161e ranjeno srce posledica uporabe pornografije ali drugih dejanj ali posledic po\u017eeljivega vedenja, moramo ozdraveti. Prvi korak je lo\u010ditev od la\u017ei, v katere smo verjeli in jih \u017eiveli. Bog \u017eeli obnoviti in popraviti na\u0161a srca. Obnovi vsako zlomljeno srce! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=uHz0w-HG4iU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Uporabite to \u010da\u0161\u010denje<\/a> pesem za svoj \u010das z Bogom in mu dovolite, da vam slu\u017ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oglejte si na\u0161 drugi blog o tem, kako <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sl\/spolna-skusnjava-kot-samski-kristjan\/\">premagati spolno sku\u0161njavo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\"><strong>\u017delja proti privla\u010dnosti:<\/strong> <strong>Ali sem prestopil mejo?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Upam, da vam je to, kar smo obravnavali v tem blogu, pomagalo pri odlo\u010ditvi, kje na lestvici po\u017eelenja in privla\u010dnosti pristajate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010ce se zavedate, da ste prestopili mejo, ne mol\u010dite. Morda ste to prebrali in ste ob\u010dutili sram zaradi obsesivnih misli, uporabe pornografije ali celo varanja. Najbolje je, da poi\u0161\u010dete zaupanja vrednega kristjana, s katerim se boste lahko pogovorili. Prijatelj, dru\u017einski \u010dlan ali duhovnik\/pastir\/mentor lahko potuje z vami v molitvi, \u010de se spopadate s te\u017eavami.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vsi imamo prilo\u017enost, da sprejmemo milost. Da bi zmanj\u0161ali strah pri kr\u0161\u010danskih zmenkih. Namesto tega lahko dobro ljubimo druge tako, da sprejmemo, da je greh nekaj, kar do\u017eivljamo vsi. Postanimo bolj podobni Jezusu in recimo ne obsojanju!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Zaklju\u010dimo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Spodbujam vas, da nih\u010de ni popoln. Zapomnite si;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...vsi so gre\u0161ili in niso dorasli Bo\u017eji slavi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Pismo Rimljanom 3,23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da bi se spopadli s po\u017eelenjem, moramo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Odstranite la\u017ei po\u017eelenja in fantazije v na\u0161ih glavah.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sprejmite Bo\u017eji veliki na\u010drt za spolno privla\u010dnost, ki nam ga je dal Bog, in sledite njegovemu na\u010drtu zanjo.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Z Bo\u017ejo pomo\u010djo se zavedajmo sku\u0161njav.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160e bolj\u0161a novica je, da smo brezpla\u010dni!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u010ce vas Sin osvobodi, boste resni\u010dno svobodni.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Janez 8,36)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zato Jezus \u017eeli, da \u017eivite brez po\u017eelenja, da bi vas lahko blagoslovil z \u017eivljenjem v polnosti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na zmenkih se osredoto\u010dite na \u010dast, spo\u0161tovanje in ljubezen ter naj se vam to tudi v celoti povrne.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Christians living in 2026 we need to know the difference between lust vs. attraction: how do we know if we&#8217;ve crossed the line? 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