{"id":3148,"date":"2026-01-08T12:00:16","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T12:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=3148"},"modified":"2026-03-05T11:15:52","modified_gmt":"2026-03-05T11:15:52","slug":"dont-fancy-them-straight-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/dont-fancy-them-straight-away\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00f4\u017ee pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165 vybudova\u0165: \u010co ak sa mi nep\u00e1\u010di hne\u010f?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c\u010co ak sa mi hne\u010f nep\u00e1\u010dia?\u201d Toto je probl\u00e9m mnoh\u00fdch nezadan\u00fdch kres\u0165anov, preto\u017ee svet kladie tak\u00fd ve\u013ek\u00fd d\u00f4raz na pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165, iskrenie a ch\u00e9miu. Predpoklad\u00e1me, \u017ee ak n\u00e1s neoh\u00fari ako Matthew McConaughey Jennifer Lopezov\u00fa vo filme <em>Svadobn\u00fd pl\u00e1nova\u010d<\/em>, potom to nie je skuto\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska. Alebo ak sa mu\u017e nezastav\u00ed, ke\u010f vid\u00ed \u017eenu kr\u00e1\u010da\u0165 po ulici s vetrom vej\u00facim vo vlasoch a \u017eiariv\u00fdm \u00fasmevom, asi nestoj\u00ed za jeho \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tu je pr\u00edbeh man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho p\u00e1ru, ktor\u00fd nec\u00edtil t\u00fa po\u010diato\u010dn\u00fa iskru:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Riskovali na rande naslepo\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AA4yfFPhRuo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-where-christians-go-wrong\">Kde sa kres\u0165ania m\u00fdlia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zatia\u013e \u010do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\">zoznamovacie aplik\u00e1cie pom\u00e1haj\u00fa kres\u0165ansk\u00fdm singles stretn\u00fa\u0165<\/a> \u013eud\u00ed z r\u00f4znych \u010dast\u00ed sveta sa \u010dasto kladie pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ek\u00fd d\u00f4raz na vzh\u013ead. Ak sa v\u00e1m hne\u010f nep\u00e1\u010dia, potiahnite prstom do\u013eava. Na t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed predsa len prist\u00fapia k prv\u00e9mu rande, sa pri tomto jedinom stretnut\u00ed vyv\u00edja ve\u013ek\u00fd tlak. O\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa mot\u00fdle a hviezdy tancuj\u00face v ich o\u010diach. Ak na prvom rande nedostan\u00fa potvrdenie, \u017ee ide o ich partnera, pova\u017euj\u00fa to za straten\u00fd pr\u00edpad. Mnoh\u00ed kres\u0165ansk\u00ed slobodn\u00ed sa ob\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee str\u00e1caj\u00fa \u010das stret\u00e1van\u00edm sa s \u201cnespr\u00e1vnym \u010dlovekom\u201d, ak hne\u010f nevedia, \u010di je niekto pre nich ten prav\u00fd. Neuvedomuj\u00fa si v\u0161ak, \u017ee Boh vie vyk\u00fapi\u0165 \u010das, aj ke\u010f si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee je nie\u010do nadobro straten\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Existuje aj \u010fal\u0161ia skupina slobodn\u00fdch kres\u0165anov, ktor\u00ed sa ob\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee bud\u00fa musie\u0165 by\u0165 s niek\u00fdm, kto sa im v skuto\u010dnosti nep\u00e1\u010di alebo ich nepri\u0165ahuje. Pri to\u013ek\u00fdch re\u010diach o cieli a povolan\u00ed sa mnoh\u00ed domnievaj\u00fa, \u017ee Bohu na ch\u00e9mii v skuto\u010dnosti nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Kv\u00f4li tomuto u\u010deniu sa ob\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee si vezm\u00fa niekoho, s k\u00fdm sa im ani nep\u00e1\u010di by\u0165. Predstavuj\u00fa si man\u017eelstvo, v ktorom sa zo d\u0148a na de\u0148 c\u00edtia mizerne, ale pokia\u013e sa pln\u00ed Bo\u017eia v\u00f4\u013ea, je im povedan\u00e9, \u017ee stoj\u00ed za to obetova\u0165 z\u00e1bavu a ch\u00e9miu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story\">M\u00f4j pr\u00edbeh<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f sme s man\u017eelom prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t za\u010dali videochatova\u0165 cez Zoom, neprebehla medzi nami okam\u017eit\u00e1 \u201ciskra\u201d. Nebolo to preto, \u017ee by ma nepri\u0165ahoval, ale rozhodla som sa z\u00e1merne spomali\u0165, aby som sa pr\u00edli\u0161 skoro citovo neprip\u00fatala. T\u00fato chybu som u\u017e raz urobila, a preto\u017ee som sa nechala vies\u0165 svojimi pocitmi, zahmlilo to m\u00f4j \u00fasudok a zabr\u00e1nilo mi to skuto\u010dne spozna\u0165 t\u00fato osobu. Ke\u010f sme sa teda s man\u017eelom za\u010dali rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, osvojila som si fr\u00e1zu: \u201cJeden de\u0148 po druhom. Jeden rozhovor za druh\u00fdm.\u201d Aj ke\u010f som nec\u00edtila okam\u017eit\u00fa iskru, moje city k nemu \u010dasom zdravo r\u00e1stli. Teraz, takmer o p\u00e4\u0165 rokov nesk\u00f4r, sa m\u00f4j man\u017eel stal podstatnou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou m\u00f4jho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-slow-down\">Spomalenie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ako sme u\u017e uviedli, mnoh\u00ed kres\u0165ansk\u00ed nezadan\u00ed sa ob\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee bud\u00fa str\u00e1ca\u0165 \u010das s nespr\u00e1vnou osobou, ak sa im od za\u010diatku nep\u00e1\u010di. Vyz\u00fdvam v\u0161ak ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z nich, aby jednoducho spomalil. Aj ke\u010f dan\u00e1 osoba nie je va\u0161\u00edm man\u017eelsk\u00fdm partnerom, neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee nie je \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdm \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00fd miluje P\u00e1na. Nie ka\u017ed\u00fd, koho stretnete, sa m\u00e1 sta\u0165 va\u0161\u00edm man\u017eelsk\u00fdm partnerom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Op\u00e4\u0165 si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ako veriaci si mus\u00edme uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee Bohu z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na ka\u017edom detaile n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota. Je \u013eahk\u00e9 predstavi\u0165 si Boha ako vzdialen\u00e9ho na svojom tr\u00f3ne v nebi a zab\u00fadame, \u017ee jeho Duch je s nami ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148. On vie, \u010do sa n\u00e1m p\u00e1\u010di a \u010do nie. Pozn\u00e1 na\u0161e osobnosti a vie, s k\u00fdm sa najlep\u0161ie spoj\u00edme. Ak to vie, pre\u010do by to nezoh\u013eadnil, ke\u010f sa to t\u00fdka v\u00e1s a v\u00e1\u0161ho potenci\u00e1lneho man\u017eelstva? \u00c1no, Boh chce poslu\u0161nos\u0165 a sv\u00e4tos\u0165. Chce, aby ste boli v s\u00falade s Jeho z\u00e1merom a v\u00f4\u013eou. Ale myslie\u0165 si, \u017ee Bohu v\u00f4bec nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na va\u0161om \u0161\u0165ast\u00ed, je myln\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-do-single-christians-think\">\u010co si myslia slobodn\u00ed kres\u0165ania?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tento rozhovor sme preniesli do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/social\">Soci\u00e1lna komunita SALT<\/a> aby ste zistili, \u010do povedali. Ke\u010f si pre\u010d\u00edtate ich postrehy, urobte si preh\u013ead o tom, ako sa pohybujete vo svojom \u017eivote. Samozrejme, neexistuje \u017eiadne stanoven\u00e9 pravidlo, \u010do robi\u0165, ale m\u00f4\u017eeme od seba navz\u00e1jom \u010derpa\u0165 m\u00fadros\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010co rob\u00edte, ke\u010f sa v\u00e1m hne\u010f nep\u00e1\u010di? \u010co ak je prv\u00e9 rande tr\u00e1pne kv\u00f4li nervozite - va\u0161ej alebo ich? Mali by ste da\u0165 danej osobe \u010fal\u0161iu \u0161ancu, alebo ju odp\u00edsa\u0165, ke\u010f\u017ee cit nebol okam\u017eit\u00fd? V\u010faka romantick\u00fdm filmom si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee l\u00e1ska by mala by\u0165 okam\u017eit\u00e1. Ale \u010do ak je to pomal\u00e9 vzplanutie? To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by ste si mali city k niekomu vyn\u00fati\u0165 alebo vyrobi\u0165. To by nebolo f\u00e9r. Ak s danou osobou naozaj nevid\u00edte bud\u00facnos\u0165 po tom, \u010do ste jej venovali \u010das na spoznanie, l\u00e1skavo od\u00ed\u010fte a zanechajte ju lep\u0161iu, ne\u017e ste ju na\u0161li.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viem, ak\u00e9 to je vyvola\u0165 si k niekomu city. Urobila som to zo zl\u00e9ho \u00fasudku, ke\u010f som nemala \u017eiadne re\u00e1lne vyhliadky, a preto\u017ee mi tento chlap\u00edk venoval pozornos\u0165, rozhodla som sa, \u017ee mu vyhoviem. Skon\u010dilo sa to tak, \u017ee som si ubl\u00ed\u017eila, preto\u017ee som nebola \u00faprimn\u00e1 k druhej osobe. V kres\u0165anskom randen\u00ed by sa to nemalo st\u00e1va\u0165. Mali by sme by\u0165 v tomto procese transparentn\u00ed, aby sme nikoho nenav\u00e1dzali alebo aby si myslel, \u017ee sa n\u00e1m p\u00e1\u010di, ke\u010f sa n\u00e1m v skuto\u010dnosti nep\u00e1\u010di.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-fancy-them-straight-away\">Nechcete ich hne\u010f?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNiekedy m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 \u013eudia nerv\u00f3zni\/nestydliv\u00ed, v\u017edy im dajte druh\u00fa \u0161ancu\/druh\u00e9 rande. Ak sa v\u0161ak hodnoty\/mor\u00e1lne z\u00e1sady nezhoduj\u00fa na 1. rande po\u010das rozhovoru, 2. rande nie je potrebn\u00e9.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-karl\">Karl<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNa fyzickej pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivosti nikdy nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed dlhodobo, ale m\u00f4\u017ee ovplyvni\u0165 to, ako sa c\u00edtite na za\u010diatku. Venujte \u010das tomu, aby ste sa dozvedeli, ak\u00e1 je osobnos\u0165 \u010dloveka. Pokia\u013e je medzi nimi dos\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho na to, aby medzi nimi vzniklo aspo\u0148 priate\u013estvo, potom stoj\u00ed za to sk\u00fasi\u0165 druh\u00e9 rande. Niekedy je potrebn\u00fd \u010das na vybudovanie citov\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-candy\">Candy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNiekedy nem\u00e1te hne\u010f pocity, ale tie \u010dasom rast\u00fa. Moj\u00edm v\u0161eobecn\u00fdm pravidlom je by\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00fd v tom, ako sa veci vyv\u00edjaj\u00fa, a komunikova\u0165, ak sa to jednoducho nedeje do konca 3. rande, aby ste re\u0161pektovali aj ich \u010das.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-leoni\">Leoni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMala by tam by\u0165 nejak\u00e1 rytierska l\u00e1skavos\u0165 alebo cit, aby si \u0165a prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t udr\u017eala. Na prvom dojme z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Iz\u00e1kov sluha si pri prvom stretnut\u00ed vyhliadol slu\u017eobn\u00fa d\u00e1mu. Ja som veci ukon\u010dil na z\u00e1klade kladenia spr\u00e1vnych ot\u00e1zok alebo \u00faplne bez rytierskeho pr\u00edstupu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-kayla\">Kayla<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to z\u00e1vis\u00ed od toho, \u010d\u00edm je pre v\u00e1s \u010dlovek pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017eliv\u00fd. Pre m\u0148a je to inteligencia, l\u00e1skavos\u0165, s\u00facit a to, ako sa spr\u00e1va a ako sa spr\u00e1va k ostatn\u00fdm. Nie je to o tom, ako dobre vyzeraj\u00fa, vonkaj\u0161\u00ed vzh\u013ead nezobrazuje ich osobnos\u0165 a to, ako sa ku mne bud\u00fa spr\u00e1va\u0165. Preto pre m\u0148a trv\u00e1 viac ako jedno stretnutie, aby som zistila, \u010di sa mi niekto \u2018p\u00e1\u010di\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-theresa\">Theresa<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cTo je skvel\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka! Osobne si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165 m\u00f4\u017ee niekedy \u010dasom r\u00e1s\u0165, najm\u00e4 ak ide o skuto\u010dn\u00e9 spojenie a dobr\u00fa konverz\u00e1ciu. Ak by sa mi ich spolo\u010dnos\u0165 p\u00e1\u010dila a c\u00edtila by som iskru zvedavosti, bola by som otvoren\u00e1 druh\u00e9mu rande, aby som zistila, \u010di sa city rozvin\u00fa. Ale ak naozaj c\u00edtim, \u017ee tam nie je v\u00f4bec \u017eiadny romantick\u00fd potenci\u00e1l, asi by som bol \u00faprimn\u00fd a navrhol by som, aby sme zostali priate\u013emi. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee to z\u00e1vis\u00ed od toho, \u010di c\u00edtim nejak\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165 na nie\u010do viac, alebo \u010di je to len pr\u00edjemn\u00e1 priate\u013esk\u00e1 atmosf\u00e9ra.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lucas\">Lucas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPred rokmi som po\u010dul k\u00e1ze\u0148 Grega Laurieho, ktor\u00fd povedal, \u017ee ak ste s niek\u00fdm, ak je to jedno rande, jeden t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148 alebo jeden rok... a vy viete, alebo v\u00e1m Boh uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee to nie je v\u00e1\u0161 \u010dlovek, mus\u00edte to ukon\u010di\u0165... a tu je to najhor\u0161ie... povedal: \u201c... pre\u010do by ste chceli pokra\u010dova\u0165 v randen\u00ed s bud\u00facim man\u017eelom niekoho in\u00e9ho?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-greg\">Greg<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDo istej miery s\u00fahlas\u00edm s Gregom, ale aj po prvom rande alebo videohovore pravdepodobne e\u0161te sotva pozn\u00e1te \u010dloveka alebo to, \u010di sa k v\u00e1m hod\u00ed, no okrem do o\u010d\u00ed bij\u00facich charakterov\u00fdch ch\u00fdb alebo opa\u010dn\u00fdch sveton\u00e1zorov a hodn\u00f4t (nie je zdrav\u00e9 zdie\u013ea\u0165 zranite\u013en\u00e9 miesta pr\u00edli\u0161 skoro) .... S\u00fahlas\u00edm sk\u00f4r s pravidlom troch rande a ide\u00e1lom priate\u013eov, \u017ee sa najprv sna\u017e\u00edme spozna\u0165 ich srdce viac ako okolnosti a da\u0165 im najavo, \u017ee ich nezavrhnete na z\u00e1klade prv\u00e9ho dojmu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-jason\">Jason<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-give-it-time\">Dajte mu \u010das<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na z\u00e1klade t\u00fdchto pripomienok si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee sa zhodneme na tom, \u017ee by sme mu mali da\u0165 aspo\u0148 2-3 term\u00edny. Takto, ak sa v\u00e1m spo\u010diatku nep\u00e1\u010di, d\u00e1te danej osobe \u010fal\u0161iu pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165. S\u00fahlas\u00edm s t\u00fdmto pr\u00edstupom, preto\u017ee svoj\u00edm sp\u00f4sobom predl\u017eujete druh\u00e9mu \u010dloveku milos\u0165. Ak na v\u00e1s po\u010das prv\u00e9ho rande neurobila dojem, t\u00fdm, \u017ee jej d\u00e1te \u010fal\u0161iu \u0161ancu, jej d\u00e1vate najavo, \u017ee stoj\u00ed za to, aby ste s \u0148ou tr\u00e1vili \u010das, a \u017ee si ju v\u00e1\u017eite - aj ke\u010f sa veci neposun\u00fa do v\u00e1\u017eneho vz\u0165ahu. Nakoniec, to je to, \u010do v\u0161etci chceme. V\u0161etci sa chceme c\u00edti\u0165 viden\u00ed niek\u00fdm in\u00fdm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak po druhom alebo dokonca tre\u0165om rande nevid\u00edte posun vpred, l\u00e1skavo to ozn\u00e1mte druhej osobe, aby bola informovan\u00e1. Nie je \u010das presvied\u010da\u0165 sa, \u017ee s n\u00edm m\u00e1te by\u0165 len preto, \u017ee u\u017e nechcete by\u0165 sami. To nie je f\u00e9r vo\u010di nim a nie je to f\u00e9r ani vo\u010di v\u00e1m. Pripom\u00edna mi to pr\u00edbeh o D\u00e1vidovi, ke\u010f bol prorok Samuel poslan\u00fd h\u013eada\u0165 nov\u00e9ho kr\u00e1\u013ea. Pozrel sa na D\u00e1vidov\u00fdch star\u0161\u00edch bratov a predpokladal, \u017ee na z\u00e1klade toho, ako vyzerali, si Boh automaticky vyberie jedn\u00e9ho z nich, aby viedol Izrael po kr\u00e1\u013eovi Saulovi. Boh v\u0161ak Samuela opravil a pripomenul mu, \u017ee k\u00fdm \u010dlovek sa pozer\u00e1 na vonkaj\u0161\u00ed vzh\u013ead, Boh sa pozer\u00e1 na srdce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-look-at-the-heart\">Pozrite sa na srdce<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4\u017eeme v dne\u0161nom svete randenia ako kres\u0165ania \u00faprimne poveda\u0165, \u017ee sa skuto\u010dne pozer\u00e1me \u013eu\u010fom do srdca? Ideme \u010falej ako k tomu, \u010di sa n\u00e1m p\u00e1\u010dia, a berieme do \u00favahy charakter? 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