{"id":2877,"date":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T11:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2877"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T11:07:26","slug":"veci-ktore-neznasam-na-tom-ze-som-slobodny-krestan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/things-i-hate-about-being-a-single-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"Veci, ktor\u00e9 nen\u00e1vid\u00edm na tom, \u017ee som slobodn\u00fd kres\u0165an"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vyrastal som s rodi\u010dmi svojho otca. Pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, ako star\u00ed rodi\u010dia chodili na moje divadeln\u00e9 predstavenia, ako sa cez niektor\u00e9 v\u00edkendy starali o m\u0148a a m\u00f4jho brata a ako v\u017edy, ke\u010f sme ich nav\u0161t\u00edvili, priniesli obrovsk\u00e9 mno\u017estvo jedla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Potom m\u00f4j star\u00fd otec bohu\u017eia\u013e zomrel, ke\u010f som bola v ranom veku, a zostala len moja star\u00e1 mama. Pr\u00e1ve ona ma nau\u010dila, ako si spr\u00e1vne prezlieka\u0165 poste\u013en\u00fa bielize\u0148, ako dosta\u0165 perinu a\u017e do rohov prestieradla.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi rokmi ochorela. \u017dil som ove\u013ea \u010falej, takmer som ju nevidel. Na ceste domov som po\u010dul, \u017ee pri n\u00e1vrate z nemocnice prech\u00e1dza cez na\u0161e mesto. Nemala ve\u013ea energie, tak sme ju vy\u0161li r\u00fdchlo pozdravi\u0165, ke\u010f sedela v aute.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rozpr\u00e1vali sme sa a potom sa op\u00fdtala, a to by som mal doda\u0165, \u017ee l\u00e1skavo: \"M\u00e1\u0161 u\u017e pekn\u00e9ho chlapca?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Potom odi\u0161li a to bolo naposledy, \u010do som ju videl. Spomienka na jej ot\u00e1zku mi zost\u00e1vala v mysli, ke\u010f som spracov\u00e1val svoj sm\u00fatok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: Zhrnutie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nen\u00e1videla som ten pocit, viem, \u017ee moja star\u00e1 mama chcela len vedie\u0165, \u017ee som \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, \u010do som aj bola. Viem, \u017ee sa s moj\u00edm star\u00fdm otcom mali ve\u013emi radi, aj ja som to chcela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ale t\u00e1to ot\u00e1zka ma na chv\u00ed\u013eu nahnevala. T\u00e1 ve\u010dn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka pre nezadan\u00fdch: \"U\u017e si niekoho na\u0161iel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toto a mnoho \u010fal\u0161\u00edch mali\u010dkost\u00ed m\u00f4\u017ee sp\u00f4sobi\u0165, \u017ee by\u0165 slobodn\u00fdm kres\u0165anom je naozaj \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 obdobie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Existuj\u00fa <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/vyzvy-slobodneho-zivota\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u010dasti slobodn\u00e9ho \u017eivota, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa na ni\u010d<\/a> a budeme o nich hovori\u0165.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tak sa na to pozrime a bu\u010fme \u00faprimn\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu s\u00fa <strong>Veci, ktor\u00e9 nen\u00e1vid\u00edm na tom, \u017ee som slobodn\u00fd kres\u0165an.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Samostatn\u00fd let<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u017diadny plus jeden&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Finan\u010dn\u00e1 frustr\u00e1cia&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nedostatok dotyku&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>T\u00fa\u017eba randi\u0165<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Single blues<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-flying-solo\">Samostatn\u00e9 lietanie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Miloval som telev\u00edzny program BBC <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=v3ZgFUSAAGQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Miranda<\/a>. Miranda pochopila, \u010do znamen\u00e1 by\u0165 slobodn\u00e1. Vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eala sp\u00f4soby, ako \u010do najlep\u0161ie vyu\u017ei\u0165 to, \u017ee je sama, \u010dasto s komick\u00fdmi v\u00fdsledkami. Ako napr\u00edklad stolovanie. Jej snaha zapadn\u00fa\u0165 do spolo\u010dnosti predstieran\u00edm, \u017ee je obchodn\u00ed\u010dka, ktor\u00e1 sa nejako vystup\u0148ovala do vedenia konferencie a obvinenia z kr\u00e1de\u017ee identity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je z\u00e1bavn\u00e9, \u010do v\u0161etko rob\u00edme, aby sme zakryli to, \u017ee sme sami. Ale robi\u0165 veci s\u00e1m niekedy nie je z\u00e1bava. Pre slobodn\u00e9ho kres\u0165ana je to n\u00e1\u0161 ka\u017edodenn\u00fd de\u0148!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pr\u00edchod na ve\u010dierok na vlastn\u00fa p\u00e4s\u0165, tr\u00e1pne potvrdenie, \u017ee \u00e1no, je to st\u00f4l pre jedn\u00e9ho, z\u00fafal\u00e9 dr\u017eanie lak\u0165ov vo vlaku, preto\u017ee namiesto spolucestuj\u00faceho je teraz ved\u013ea v\u00e1s cudz\u00ed \u010dlovek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ako slobodn\u00ed kres\u0165ania m\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 v \u017eivote s\u00f3lo vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00faci. To n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee odradi\u0165 od vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 chceme robi\u0165. Mo\u017eno sa vyhovor\u00edte na to, \u017ee si pozriete ten film, nav\u0161t\u00edvite m\u00fazeum, p\u00f4jdete na koncert, festival, do telocvi\u010dne...&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aj ke\u010f neradi rob\u00edme veci sami, nem\u00f4\u017eeme dovoli\u0165, aby n\u00e1m to zabr\u00e1nilo \u017ei\u0165 svoj \u017eivot. Vezmite si pr\u00edklad z knihy Haven, ktor\u00e1 sk\u00fa\u0161a veci ako slobodn\u00e1 kres\u0165anka a berie n\u00e1s so sebou na cestu, napr\u00edklad na viano\u010dn\u00e9 trhy a na s\u00f3lo ve\u010deru.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Len preto, \u017ee ste mo\u017eno slobodn\u00ed a <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">h\u013ead\u00e1 zbo\u017en\u00e9ho mu\u017ea alebo \u017eenu<\/a> neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee mus\u00edte \u010daka\u0165, k\u00fdm sa objavia, aby ste za\u010dali \u017ei\u0165! Prijmite rozpaky a robte to, \u010do chcete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Odv\u00e1\u017eny slobodn\u00fd kres\u0165an, urob krok viery\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUg3inUX21Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-no-plus-one\">\u017diadny Plus One<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ak by v\u00e1m nesta\u010dili ka\u017edodenn\u00e9 veci, neza\u010d\u00ednajte s ve\u013ek\u00fdmi udalos\u0165ami.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vianoce, narodeniny, \u010do len chcete - ke\u010f ste slobodn\u00ed, m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 tieto v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9 pr\u00edle\u017eitosti nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ako ke\u010f ide\u0161 s\u00e1m na svadbu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Za\u010diatok nie je a\u017e tak\u00fd zl\u00fd, preto\u017ee samotn\u00e1 \u010das\u0165 sob\u00e1\u0161a je \u0161trukt\u00farovanou \u010das\u0165ou d\u0148a. Ale ke\u010f nastane t\u00e1 recepcia s n\u00e1pojmi a \u013eudia sa fotia so svojou osobou... \u017eel\u00e1te si, aby ste mali ved\u013ea seba niekoho, s k\u00fdm by ste sa mohli porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o v\u0161etk\u00fdch mali\u010dkostiach, ktor\u00e9 ste si po\u010das d\u0148a v\u0161imli, s k\u00fdm by ste mohli prepa\u0161ova\u0165 viac prosecca alebo si n\u00e1js\u0165 pokojnej\u0161ie miesto, kde by ste sa mohli odp\u00fata\u0165 od bl\u00e1zniv\u00e9ho svadobn\u00e9ho ruchu. Potom je tu tanec, s k\u00fdm tancujete???<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nov\u00fd rok je tam, odkia\u013e poch\u00e1dzam, ve\u013ek\u00e1 vec. S prib\u00fadaj\u00facim vekom sa ve\u010dierky nejako zmenili a zdalo sa, \u017ee je to v\u0161etko o tom, \u017ee by to mohla by\u0165 jedna ve\u013ek\u00e1 noc, ktor\u00e1 zmen\u00ed \u017eivot. Moji nekres\u0165ansk\u00ed priatelia tr\u00e1vili ve\u010der vyzn\u00e1van\u00edm l\u00e1sky svojej zamilovanej a bozk\u00e1van\u00edm sa v n\u00e1hradnej sp\u00e1lni, zatia\u013e \u010do ja som sedela sama a len d\u00fafala, \u017ee sa do\u010dk\u00e1m zvonenia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je \u013eahk\u00e9, aby tieto ve\u013ek\u00e9 chv\u00edle vyvolali strach, ke\u010f sa pozriete na pozv\u00e1nku bez toho, kto v\u00e1s poz\u00fdva, alebo si nie ste ist\u00ed, ako zvl\u00e1dnete \u010fal\u0161ie rodinn\u00e9 stretnutie s \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed v\u00e1s otravuj\u00fa s ot\u00e1zkami o va\u0161om milostnom \u017eivote.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aby sme sa mohli te\u0161i\u0165 zo \u017eivota a nepreme\u0161kali tieto veci, mus\u00edme niekedy zmeni\u0165 svoj poh\u013ead.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Napr\u00edklad Valent\u00edn. Mnoh\u00ed ho nen\u00e1vidia, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou slobodn\u00ed, a maj\u00fa na to dobr\u00fd d\u00f4vod. Ale je s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou na\u0161ich kalend\u00e1rov a ako <a href=\"https:\/\/www.boundless.org\/blog\/why-singles-shouldnt-write-off-valentines-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Lauren Dunnov\u00e1 vo svojej knihe T\u00fa\u017eiac po Bohu poukazuje na to, \u017ee<\/a> \u010dl\u00e1nok, pre slobodn\u00fdch kres\u0165anov je to pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 oslavova\u0165 a sved\u010di\u0165 o tom in\u00fdm.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Valent\u00edn m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pre svet pripomienkou, \u017ee kres\u0165ania si cenia skuto\u010dn\u00fa l\u00e1sku a biblick\u00e9 man\u017eelstvo. A \u017ee sa m\u00e1me radi bez oh\u013eadu na to, ak\u00e9 rozdielne s\u00fa na\u0161e \u017eivoty.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Nech je teda Valent\u00edn Valent\u00ednom. Zv\u00e1\u017ete str\u00e1\u017eenie det\u00ed pre vydat\u00fdch priate\u013eov alebo pozvite slobodn\u00e9ho priate\u013ea na ve\u010deru. N\u00e1jdite si svoj ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako osl\u00e1vi\u0165 l\u00e1sku, ktor\u00fa ste pre\u017eili.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oslavova\u0165 m\u00f4\u017eu aj slobodn\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg\" alt=\"diev\u010da s k\u00e1vou\" class=\"wp-image-2495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-801x1024.jpg 801w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-235x300.jpg 235w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-768x982.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1201x1536.jpg 1201w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-1601x2048.jpg 1601w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/kelley-mcquillen-dupe-1-scaled.jpg 2002w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-financial-frustrations\">Finan\u010dn\u00e9 frustr\u00e1cie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>By\u0165 slobodn\u00fd je drah\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017divot s jedn\u00fdm pr\u00edjmom m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pre slobodn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka zlo\u017eit\u00fd, \u010di u\u017e b\u00fdvate v spolo\u010dnom byte, alebo m\u00e1te vlastn\u00fd byt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tieto p\u00e1ry s dvojit\u00fdm pr\u00edjmom a bez det\u00ed (DINK) ani nevedia, ako dobre sa maj\u00fa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aby sme s t\u00fdm bojovali, rie\u0161ime n\u00e1klady na neust\u00e1le spolo\u010densk\u00e9 aktivity, cestovanie a podobne, \u010do m\u00f4\u017ee otestova\u0165 rozpo\u010dtov\u00e9 obmedzenia n\u00e1s slobodn\u00fdch. Chceme by\u0165 s \u013eu\u010fmi, ale to n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee st\u00e1\u0165 peniaze aj \u010das.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A potom je tu d\u00e1vanie dar\u010dekov, ke\u010f c\u00edtime tlak na oslavu partnerov a det\u00ed t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa n\u00e1m najbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nehovoriac o tom, \u017ee v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina vec\u00ed je v\u00fdhodn\u00e1, ak ste p\u00e1r, napr\u00edklad lacnej\u0161ie dovolenkov\u00e9 ubytovanie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Samota m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pr\u00ed\u010dinou mnoh\u00fdch finan\u010dn\u00fdch frustr\u00e1ci\u00ed a ob\u00e1v. St\u00e1le sa v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017eeme rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 by\u0165 dobr\u00fdmi spr\u00e1vcami toho, \u010do n\u00e1m Boh dal, a by\u0165 \u0161tedr\u00fdmi darcami.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Niektor\u00e9 veci treba spomen\u00fa\u0165:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ak m\u00e1te dlhy a potrebujete pomoc, vyh\u013eadajte miestne poradenstvo v oblasti dlhov, napr. <a href=\"https:\/\/capuk.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">CAP <\/a>dlhov\u00e9 centrum alebo sa obr\u00e1\u0165te na niekoho, komu d\u00f4verujete.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zv\u00e1\u017ete, ako spravujete svoje peniaze a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenpastures.co.uk\/resources\/6-ways-to-be-a-good-steward-of-your-money-in-the-current-climate\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">tieto tipy<\/a> ako sa dobre stara\u0165 o svoje peniaze.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hoci je nap\u00edsan\u00fd pre sn\u00fabeneck\u00e9 p\u00e1ry, nenechajte sa odradi\u0165 - pre\u010d\u00edtajte si n\u00e1\u0161 blog v spolupr\u00e1ci s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stewardship.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Spr\u00e1vcovstvo <\/a>na niektor\u00fdch <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/financne-darovanie\/\">ot\u00e1zky, ktor\u00e9 treba zv\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 v s\u00favislosti s darovan\u00edm<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-touch\">Nedostatok dotyku<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee o tom ako slobodn\u00ed kres\u0165ania ve\u013ea nehovor\u00edme. Vad\u00ed mi, \u017ee sa v\u00e1s nikto nikdy poriadne nedotkne.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vo v\u0161eobecnosti som dos\u0165 \u0161pecifick\u00e1 v tom, koho chcem, aby sa ma dot\u00fdkal. R\u00e1d obj\u00edmam \u013eud\u00ed na pozdrav, ale pri priate\u013eoch nechcem, aby sa objatie predl\u017eovalo, pokia\u013e jedna zo str\u00e1n nepla\u010de a nepotrebuje \u00fatechu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dlho som pracovala v odvetv\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 bolo ako kult\u00fara dos\u0165 citliv\u00e9, a preto bolo norm\u00e1lne dot\u00fdka\u0165 sa \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed neboli mojimi rodinn\u00fdmi pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edkmi\/partnermi. Bol som tie\u017e s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou cirkv\u00ed, kde sa dotyk stal norm\u00e1lnym, pri pozdravoch, vkladan\u00ed r\u00fak pri modlitbe at\u010f.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To v\u0161ak nie je \u0161tandardom pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch. Mnoh\u00ed slobodn\u00ed \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdch c\u00edtim, m\u00f4\u017eu \u013eahko pre\u017ei\u0165 dni, t\u00fd\u017edne, mo\u017eno aj dlh\u0161ie bez toho, aby sa ich niekto dotkol.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nehovor\u00edm tu o romantickom alebo sexu\u00e1lnom dotyku. Tie v kres\u0165anskom \u017eivote slobodn\u00fdch \"ch\u00fdbaj\u00fa\", ale sk\u00f4r v\u010faka vo\u013ebe randenia s \u00famyslom vst\u00fapi\u0165 do man\u017eelstva a zdr\u017ea\u0165 sa sexu. Chcem sa zamera\u0165 na norm\u00e1lnej\u0161iu, priate\u013esk\u00fa str\u00e1nku s\u00fahlasn\u00e9ho dotyku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zd\u00e1 sa to by\u0165 zvl\u00e1\u0161tne, ale je za t\u00fdm veda. Sme predsa spolo\u010densk\u00e9 tvory, ktor\u00e9 Boh stvoril na to, aby \u017eili v \u00fazkom spolo\u010denstve s ostatn\u00fdmi. V skuto\u010dnosti <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/science\/2024\/apr\/08\/touch-reduce-pain-depression-anxiety-mental-physical-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">dotyk m\u00f4\u017ee zmierni\u0165 boles\u0165, depresiu a \u00fazkos\u0165<\/a> pod\u013ea v\u00fdskumn\u00edkov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zamysleli ste sa niekedy nad t\u00fdm, ako Je\u017ei\u0161 pou\u017e\u00edval aj fyzick\u00fd dotyk? Aj ke\u010f je Je\u017ei\u0161 Boh v \u013eudskom tele, nebr\u00e1nilo mu to dot\u00fdka\u0165 sa \u013eud\u00ed. Vkladal ruky, aby uzdravil (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke%204&amp;version=NIV\">Luk\u00e1\u0161 4:40<\/a>) a umyl nohy svojim u\u010den\u00edkom (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2013%3A1-17&amp;version=NIV\">J\u00e1n 13,1-17<\/a>). Dotyk bol k\u013e\u00fa\u010dovou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou Je\u017ei\u0161ovho sprostredkovania Bo\u017eej l\u00e1sky jeho \u013eudu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ako teda m\u00f4\u017eeme zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165 svoje potreby dot\u00fdka\u0165 sa pre nezadan\u00fdch? Tu je nieko\u013eko n\u00e1padov:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Rezerv\u00e1cia relaxa\u010dnej mas\u00e1\u017ee.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chodi\u0165 ku kadern\u00edkovi, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1m um\u00fdva vlasy.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Uistite sa, \u017ee sme objali svojich priate\u013eov a rodinu, ke\u010f sme ich videli.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mo\u017eno investujete do z\u00e1\u0165a\u017eovej deky, aby ste sa c\u00edtili pohodlne a pokojne.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Pocit nevidite\u013enosti slobodn\u00e9ho kres\u0165ana\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oQNin-BcyS8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-desire-to-date\">T\u00fa\u017eba po rande<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Jednou z vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 nezn\u00e1\u0161am na tom, \u017ee som slobodn\u00fd kres\u0165an, je to, \u017ee nechcem by\u0165 slobodn\u00fd! M\u00e1m t\u00fa\u017ebu randi\u0165 a niekedy to vy\u00fastilo do toho, \u017ee som sa naozaj sna\u017eil s mal\u00fdm \u00faspechom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia c\u00edtia skuto\u010dn\u00fd pokoj, ke\u010f nechodia na rande, a prij\u00edmaj\u00fa svoju slobodu s takou milos\u0165ou. Ja to v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou vn\u00edmam ako ch\u00f4dzu blatom a modl\u00edm sa, aby som sa \u010doskoro objavila na druhom konci.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ke\u010f naozaj <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">chcete chodi\u0165 s kres\u0165ansk\u00fdm mu\u017eom alebo \u017eenou<\/a> ale z nejak\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu sa to nedeje - je to frustruj\u00face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00f4\u017eete urobi\u0165 v\u0161etko pre to, aby ste t\u00fato realitu zmenili - napr\u00edklad nasledova\u0165 niektor\u00e9 z na\u0161ich tipov, ako ma\u0165 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/uspech-zoznamovacej-aplikacie\/\">\u00daspech kres\u0165anskej zoznamovacej aplik\u00e1cie<\/a>, alebo <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/presunut-kostoly-a-najst-slobodnych-krestanov\/\">zva\u017eujete, \u010di by ste sa mali pres\u0165ahova\u0165 do kostolov a n\u00e1js\u0165 \u010fal\u0161\u00edch nezadan\u00fdch.<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Niektor\u00ed z n\u00e1s by sa v\u0161ak mali zlep\u0161i\u0165 v \u010dakan\u00ed. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/pripraveny-na-rande\/\">Mo\u017eno e\u0161te ani nie sme pripraven\u00ed na rande<\/a>, aj ke\u010f sa tak c\u00edtime. Alebo sa mus\u00edme s\u00fastredi\u0165 na in\u00e9 rozpt\u00fdlenia, ktor\u00e9 treba rie\u0161i\u0165 ako prv\u00e9, napr\u00edklad sexu\u00e1lne poku\u0161enia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A pre ostatn\u00fdch, aj ke\u010f sme naozaj <em>nie <\/em>chc\u00fa by\u0165 slobodn\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/sk\/kedy-si-mam-dat-pauzu-od-zoznamovacich-aplikacii\/\">sme naozaj <em>do <\/em>potrebujete si da\u0165 pauzu na randenie.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bez oh\u013eadu na to, \u010di sa pr\u00e1ve stret\u00e1vame s nezadan\u00fdmi kres\u0165anmi, alebo nie, v\u0161etk\u00fdm by n\u00e1m mohlo prospie\u0165, keby sme sa cvi\u010dili v spokojnosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Udr\u017eujte svoj \u017eivot bez l\u00e1sky k peniazom a bu\u010fte spokojn\u00ed s t\u00fdm, \u010do m\u00e1te, preto\u017ee Boh povedal: \"Nikdy \u0165a neopust\u00edm, nikdy \u0165a neopust\u00edm.\"<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u017didom 13:5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-single-blues\">Single Blues<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>V niektor\u00fdch d\u0148och sa zobud\u00edte a m\u00e1te pocit osamelosti, ktor\u00e9ho je naozaj \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 sa zbavi\u0165.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Blues ako single je pocit, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee zastihn\u00fa\u0165 z ni\u010doho ni\u010d alebo m\u00f4\u017ee pr\u00eds\u0165 zo sp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u010dov. Tieto sp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u010de m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 veci, ktor\u00e9 vid\u00edte vonku, rozhovory, ktor\u00e9 vediete, alebo veci, ktor\u00e9 sledujete.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sp\u00f4sob, ako to zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165 ako slobodn\u00fd Chrisitan, ktor\u00fd h\u013ead\u00e1 l\u00e1sku, je d\u00e1va\u0165 pozor na sp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u010de, do ktor\u00fdch idete priamo, ako je bezmy\u0161lienkovit\u00e9 rolovanie na soci\u00e1lnych sie\u0165ach alebo \u00fatuln\u00e9 sledovanie najnov\u0161ieho rom com s k\u00fdblikom zmrzliny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tieto pocity pr\u00eddu a od\u00eddu, a aj ke\u010f je to \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9, mus\u00edme si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee nakoniec pomin\u00fa. Je v poriadku dovoli\u0165 si c\u00edti\u0165 svoje pocity, ale je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 nezabl\u00fadi\u0165 pr\u00edli\u0161 \u010faleko do seba\u013e\u00fatosti, ktorou si sami s\u0165a\u017eujeme \u017eivot.  Niekedy v\u0161ak by\u0165 slobodn\u00fd <em>Christian <\/em>je vec, s ktorou z\u00e1pas\u00edme najviac. Vieme, \u017ee Boh nikomu nedlhuje partnera, ale ke\u010f je t\u00e1to t\u00fa\u017eba a t\u00fa\u017eba takou ve\u013ekou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou na\u0161ich t\u00fa\u017eob a Boh n\u00e1m e\u0161te nepriviedol t\u00fato osobu, vyvol\u00e1va to ve\u013ea ot\u00e1zok. Ako p\u00ed\u0161e . <a href=\"https:\/\/www.praise.com\/articles\/struggle-christian-single-is-real\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Joy Beth Smith<\/a> odr\u00e1\u017ea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ak Boh nezadr\u017eiava mu\u017ea, aby ma pripravil, na \u010do \u010dak\u00e1? A \u010do to o Bohu vypoved\u00e1, \u017ee mi napriek mojim vr\u00facnym t\u00fa\u017ebam zatajuje dobr\u00fa vec?<\/em> <em>Ako m\u00e1m cti\u0165 Boha, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 moc zmeni\u0165 moje okolnosti, ale rozhodne sa tak neurobi\u0165, \u010do mi sp\u00f4sobuje nesmiernu osamelos\u0165 a boles\u0165?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A tieto my\u0161lienky d\u00e1vaj\u00fa svetlo na\u0161im obav\u00e1m - z mo\u017enosti, \u017ee zostaneme nav\u017edy sami. Nielen to, ale aj to, \u017ee nikdy neza\u017eijeme sexu\u00e1lnu intimitu, \u017ee nebudeme ma\u0165 rodinu (pre niektor\u00fdch je t\u00e1to my\u0161lienka pr\u00edli\u0161 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e1 na to, aby ju zniesli). A navy\u0161e, \u010do ak strat\u00edte niektor\u00e9ho z bl\u00edzkych a nebudete ma\u0165 partnera, ktor\u00fd by v\u00e1m v t\u00fdchto \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch chv\u00ed\u013each pomohol. My\u0161lienka na to, \u017ee budete \u010deli\u0165 \u017eivotu bez svojej osoby, m\u00f4\u017ee vies\u0165 k mnoh\u00fdm zdrvuj\u00facim starostiam a roz\u010d\u00fali\u0165 v\u00e1s na Boha.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viem, \u017ee Boh m\u00e1 s nami trpezlivos\u0165 a \u010dak\u00e1, k\u00fdm si v\u0161etci uvedom\u00edme, \u017ee \u010di sme slobodn\u00ed, \u017eenat\u00ed, rozveden\u00ed alebo ovdoven\u00ed, On je st\u00e1le s nami. Nikdy nie sme sami.  Nehovor\u00edm to preto, aby som sa oh\u00e1\u0148al na\u0161imi pocitmi, ale preto, aby som n\u00e1m dal kotvu n\u00e1deje, ke\u010f sa n\u00e1m zd\u00e1, \u017ee vlna blues je pr\u00edli\u0161 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e1 na to, aby sme na \u0148u do\u0161li.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Povedzte Bohu presne, \u010do c\u00edtite, a uctievajte ho aj v strachu alebo bolesti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aleluja, nie som s\u00e1m<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je to m\u00f4j komfort,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u017edy ma dr\u017e\u00ed bl\u00edzko<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8OlMGnPUAdw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\u017dalm 23 (Nie som s\u00e1m) - \u013dudia a piesne<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ak sa pr\u00e1ve teraz nach\u00e1dzate na takomto \u0165a\u017ekom mieste, tento blog Samanthy Kellerovej je pre m\u0148a ve\u013ekou \u00fatechou. Posa\u010fte sa so svojimi pocitmi a nechajte zaznie\u0165 jej slov\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/blog\/being-single-hurts-today-and-thats-okay\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">By\u0165 single dnes bol\u00ed a je to v poriadku<\/a> aby v\u00e1s viedol v modlitbe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">Po\u010fme na z\u00e1ver<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>V skuto\u010dnosti m\u00e1m teraz odpove\u010f pre svoju babi\u010dku, \u00e1no, na\u0161la som si toho najkraj\u0161ieho chlapca - ned\u00e1vno som sa vydala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00e1to spr\u00e1va v\u00e1s ako slobodn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd \u010d\u00edta tento \u010dl\u00e1nok, pravdepodobne nahnev\u00e1. Nezn\u00e1\u0161ala som, ke\u010f mi \u017eenat\u00ed \u013eudia hovorili o slobodnom \u017eivote, teraz som sa zmenila na tak\u00fa osobu - uf!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tak\u017ee pokojne ignorujte, \u010do som povedal. To je spr\u00e1vna odpove\u010f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ak v\u0161ak m\u00e1te probl\u00e9my, vedzte, \u017ee nie ste jedin\u00ed. Mnoh\u00ed z n\u00e1s c\u00edtili alebo c\u00edtia presne tieto veci a vedia, ak\u00e9 je to vyrovna\u0165 sa s praktick\u00fdmi, emocion\u00e1lnymi a duchovn\u00fdmi frustr\u00e1ciami slobodn\u00e9ho kres\u0165ana.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neexistuje jednoduch\u00e9 rie\u0161enie, niekedy mus\u00edme pre\u017ei\u0165 b\u00farku. Mus\u00edme si zvoli\u0165 nov\u00fd postoj, aj ke\u010f je to \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9. Alebo mus\u00edme by\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00ed k Bohu v tom, ako sa c\u00edtime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Niekedy si v\u0161ak jednoducho mus\u00edme uvedomi\u0165 veci, ktor\u00e9 nen\u00e1vid\u00edme, dosta\u0165 ich z hlavy, aby sme sa mohli posun\u00fa\u0165 vpred s vedom\u00edm, \u017ee je toho viac, k\u00fdm sme, ne\u017e n\u00e1\u0161 slobodn\u00fd stav.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I grew up with my dad\u2019s parents in my life. I remember my grandparents coming to my drama shows, taking care of my brother and I some weekends, and the massive spread of food they brought out whenever we visited. Then my grandad sadly passed when I was an early teen, leaving just my grandma. 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