{"id":2934,"date":"2025-06-05T11:03:45","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T11:03:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2934"},"modified":"2025-06-05T11:03:46","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T11:03:46","slug":"pazeste-ti-inima-atunci-cand-esti-casatorit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/guard-your-heart-when-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103-\u021bi protejezi inima c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti c\u0103s\u0103torit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aceast\u0103 postare pe blog ajut\u0103 cuplurile cre\u0219tine c\u0103s\u0103torite sau logodite s\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00een practic\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciunea din Proverbe 4:23.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL:DR: Rezumat<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd auzim expresia \"p\u0103ze\u0219te-\u021bi inima\", ne g\u00e2ndim adesea la cre\u0219tinii singuri \u0219i la cei care se \u00eent\u00e2lnesc \u00een speran\u021ba de a-\u0219i \u00eent\u00e2lni viitorul so\u021b. Dar cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu cei care sunt c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi? Mai este necesar s\u0103 v\u0103 p\u0103zi\u021bi inima odat\u0103 ce v-a\u021bi angajat fa\u021b\u0103 de so\u021bul\/so\u021bia dumneavoastr\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest subiect nu este adesea discutat \u00een cercurile cre\u0219tine, deoarece mul\u021bi celibatari presupun c\u0103 mariajul le va rezolva toate problemele. Totu\u0219i, acest lucru este departe de adev\u0103r. \u00cen realitate, c\u0103s\u0103toria necesit\u0103 \u0219i mai mult efort pentru c\u0103 este un leg\u0103m\u00e2nt - un angajament sacru c\u0103ruia du\u0219manul i se opune. El nu vrea ca tu \u0219i so\u021bul t\u0103u s\u0103 reu\u0219i\u021bi sau s\u0103 aduce\u021bi slav\u0103 lui Dumnezeu, a\u0219a c\u0103 pune capcane menite s\u0103 v\u0103 fac\u0103 pe unul sau pe am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 v\u0103 poticni\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-battle\">B\u0103t\u0103lia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca \u0219i cre\u0219tini, suntem angaja\u021bi \u00eentr-o lupt\u0103 spiritual\u0103, fie c\u0103 suntem singuri sau c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi. Cu toate acestea, cei din c\u0103sniciile evlavioase se confrunt\u0103 cu atacuri unice. A spune \"Da\" nu \u00eel face pe du\u0219man s\u0103 se retrag\u0103. \u00cen schimb, el lucreaz\u0103 \u0219i mai mult pentru a distorsiona imaginea lui Hristos \u0219i a Bisericii pe care c\u0103s\u0103toria este menit\u0103 s\u0103 o reflecte. De aceea, protejarea inimii r\u0103m\u00e2ne la fel de important\u0103 \u00een c\u0103snicie precum a fost \u00een timpul celibatului. De\u0219i c\u0103snicia nu va fi \u00eentotdeauna u\u0219oar\u0103, r\u0103m\u00e2nerea vigilent\u0103 \u0219i parteneriatul cu Duhul Sf\u00e2nt pot ajuta la protejarea \u0219i consolidarea rela\u021biei voastre. Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva modalit\u0103\u021bi de a-\u021bi p\u0103zi inima - chiar \u0219i \u00een c\u0103snicie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-keep-god-first\">\u021aine\u021bi-l pe Dumnezeu pe primul loc<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-set-boundaries-with-each-other\">Stabili\u021bi limite \u00eentre voi<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-communicate-openly-and-honestly\">Comunica\u021bi deschis \u0219i onest<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-focus-on-your-spouse-s-needs\">Concentreaz\u0103-te pe nevoile so\u021bului t\u0103u<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/h-practice-forgiveness-regularly\">Practica\u021bi iertarea \u00een mod regulat<\/a>\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Introducere<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 suntem cu to\u021bii de acord c\u0103 vr\u0103jma\u0219ul urm\u0103re\u0219te rela\u021biile, \u00eencep\u00e2nd chiar cu celibatul. El vrea s\u0103-i descurajeze pe cre\u0219tinii singuri p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care ace\u0219tia fie se mul\u021bumesc cu mai pu\u021bin dec\u00e2t binele lui Dumnezeu, fie cred minciuna c\u0103 sunt meni\u021bi s\u0103 fie singuri, f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-i s\u0103 renun\u021be complet la c\u0103s\u0103torie. Pentru cei care se c\u0103s\u0103toresc, vr\u0103jma\u0219ul caut\u0103 s\u0103 creeze dezbinare \u0219i conflicte. Este descurajant faptul c\u0103 rata divor\u021burilor \u00een biseric\u0103 este aproape la fel ca \u00een lume. De ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta? Dac\u0103 avem Duhul lui Dumnezeu \u00een noi, Cuv\u00e2ntul S\u0103u \u0219i o comunitate evlavioas\u0103 \u00een jurul nostru, de ce sunt <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\">C\u0103s\u0103toriile cre\u0219tine<\/a> \u00eenc\u0103 mai e\u0219ueaz\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen timp ce fiecare divor\u021b se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 din motive diferite, \u0219tim c\u0103 inima fr\u00e2nt\u0103 de divor\u021b nu a fost niciodat\u0103 concep\u021bia ini\u021bial\u0103 a lui Dumnezeu. C\u0103s\u0103toria a fost menit\u0103 s\u0103 fie un leg\u0103m\u00e2nt pe via\u021b\u0103. Cu toate acestea, chiar \u0219i pentru cei care au trecut prin divor\u021b, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 sunt bunuri deteriorate sau c\u0103 Dumnezeu nu poate aduce o nou\u0103 dragoste \u00een via\u021ba lor. Totu\u0219i, trebuie s\u0103 ne echip\u0103m pentru a recunoa\u0219te \u0219i a rezista tacticilor du\u0219manului, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ne putem proteja c\u0103sniciile \u0219i familiile pentru gloria lui Dumnezeu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"C\u0103s\u0103toria nu ne face ferici\u021bi?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jtJw0f8IdrI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-god-first\">\u021aine\u021bi-l pe Dumnezeu pe primul loc<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar \u0219i \u00een c\u0103snicie, s\u0103-L ai pe Dumnezeu pe primul loc ar trebui s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 prioritatea ta principal\u0103. De ce? Pentru c\u0103 so\u021bul t\u0103u este om \u0219i va face gre\u0219eli. Mul\u021bi cre\u0219tini sufer\u0103 \u00een c\u0103snicie pentru c\u0103 versiunea idealizat\u0103 a so\u021bului lor dispare odat\u0103 cu via\u021ba real\u0103. Via\u021ba are un mod de a \u00eendep\u0103rta ochelarii roz pe care i-a\u021bi purtat c\u00e2nd a\u021bi spus \"Da\". Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 so\u021bul t\u0103u poate fi uimitor, dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu te va r\u0103ni niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 de mult timp, dar \u00een scurtul timp de c\u00e2nd sunt so\u021bie, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 indiferent c\u00e2t de mult \u00eemi iubesc so\u021bul, el are nevoie de Domnul la fel de mult ca mine. \u00centotdeauna m\u0103 rog ca so\u021bul meu s\u0103 \u00cel iubeasc\u0103 pe Isus mai mult dec\u00e2t m\u0103 iube\u0219te pe mine, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00cel pune pe Dumnezeu pe primul loc, Domnul \u00eel va preg\u0103ti s\u0103 fie un so\u021b bun. \u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103, \u00eenainte s\u0103 r\u0103sar\u0103 soarele, so\u021bul meu se treze\u0219te s\u0103 se roage, s\u0103 se \u00eenchine \u0219i s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 Biblia. Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce am urm\u0103rit acest obicei, mi-am dat seama c\u0103, cu c\u00e2t petrece mai mult timp cu Dumnezeu, cu at\u00e2t m\u0103 iube\u0219te \u0219i m\u0103 sluje\u0219te mai bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-prioritize-relationship-with-god\">Prioritizarea rela\u021biei cu Dumnezeu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i eu trebuie s\u0103 fac la fel. De\u0219i rela\u021bia mea cu Domnul este diferit\u0103 de cea a so\u021bului meu, \u0219tiu c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd petrec timp cu Dumnezeu, sunt mai r\u0103bd\u0103toare \u0219i mai iert\u0103toare. \u00cei pot acorda mai mult har so\u021bului meu pentru c\u0103 am experimentat harul lui Dumnezeu \u00een propria mea via\u021b\u0103. Exist\u0103 chiar momente \u00een timpul meu de lini\u0219te c\u00e2nd Domnul m\u0103 \u00eendeamn\u0103 s\u0103 fac ceva frumos pentru so\u021bul meu, pur \u0219i simplu ca un act de iubire. So\u021bul meu face acela\u0219i lucru pentru mine - dup\u0103 timpul petrecut cu Dumnezeu, de multe ori face ceva bun, f\u0103r\u0103 nicio obliga\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Frumuse\u021bea acestui lucru este c\u0103 eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu am avut fiecare o c\u0103l\u0103torie individual\u0103 cu Domnul \u00eenainte de a deveni so\u021b \u0219i so\u021bie. Pentru c\u0103 am construit aceast\u0103 funda\u021bie \u00een timpul celibatului nostru \u0219i al \u00eent\u00e2lnirilor noastre, aceasta s-a transferat \u00een mod natural \u00een c\u0103snicia noastr\u0103. Chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd nu suntem de acord, suntem mai dispu\u0219i s\u0103 empatiz\u0103m unul cu cel\u0103lalt, deoarece inimile noastre au fost deja \u00eenmuiate prin timpul petrecut individual cu Dumnezeu. \u021aine\u021bi-L pe Dumnezeu pe primul loc acum, \u00een singur\u0103tate, \u0219tiind c\u0103 ve\u021bi avea nevoie de El \u0219i mai mult \u00een c\u0103snicie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-set-boundaries-with-each-other\">Stabili\u021bi limite \u00eentre voi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Limitele nu dispar odat\u0103 ce v\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi. Ele se pot schimba, dar r\u0103m\u00e2n esen\u021biale chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 ce v\u0103 schimba\u021bi jur\u0103mintele. Care sunt c\u00e2teva exemple de limite s\u0103n\u0103toase \u00een c\u0103snicie? Una pe care eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu o respect\u0103m este s\u0103 nu discut\u0103m anumite chestiuni cu prietenii sau familia. Unele conversa\u021bii sunt menite doar pentru noi \u0219i nu trebuie \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ite cu al\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 noi <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/intalniri-cu-responsabilitate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ne izol\u0103m sau nu suntem responsabili<\/a>, dar recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 anumite subiecte sensibile trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentre noi. De asemenea, evit\u0103m s\u0103 discut\u0103m dezacordurile noastre cu alte persoane, dac\u0103 nu este absolut necesar. \u00cen cazul \u00een care c\u0103ut\u0103m \u00eendrumare din exterior, alegem cu grij\u0103 o persoan\u0103 \u00een care avem \u00eencredere - o persoan\u0103 impar\u021bial\u0103 care nu va lua partea nim\u0103nui. Altfel, chiar dac\u0103 eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu ne rezolv\u0103m problemele, prietenii sau familia pot p\u0103stra o impresie negativ\u0103 despre so\u021bul meu, ceea ce poate crea tensiuni inutile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-roles-of-husband-and-wife\">Rolurile so\u021bului \u0219i so\u021biei<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Rolul meu este s\u0103 \u00eemi protejez so\u021bul, iar rolul lui este s\u0103 m\u0103 protejeze pe mine. Acest lucru nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eei \u00een\u0219el\u0103m pe cei dragi cu privire la via\u021ba noastr\u0103, ci mai degrab\u0103 c\u0103 acord\u0103m prioritate protej\u0103rii c\u0103sniciei noastre de conflicte sau diviziuni inutile. O alt\u0103 limit\u0103 pe care o respect\u0103m este limitarea timpului pe care \u00eel petrecem desp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi. \u00cen timp ce circumstan\u021bele fiec\u0103rui cuplu difer\u0103 - fie din cauza muncii sau a altor angajamente - o distan\u021b\u0103 prea mare poate crea o oportunitate pentru ispit\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen cazul nostru, am convenit c\u0103 orice separare nu trebuie s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Dac\u0103 o separare mai lung\u0103 este inevitabil\u0103, discut\u0103m modalit\u0103\u021bi de a ne vizita reciproc. Unii ar putea crede c\u0103 acest nivel de precau\u021bie este inutil, dar inamicul este viclean \u0219i se va folosi chiar \u0219i de situa\u021bii nevinovate pentru a provoca dezbinare. Fi\u021bi vigilen\u021bi \u0219i nu permite\u021bi ca acest lucru s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple \u00een c\u0103snicia voastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"cuplu c\u0103s\u0103torit se uit\u0103 la perete graffiti\" class=\"wp-image-2174\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/maja-mundt-dupe-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-communicate-openly-and-honestly\">Comunica\u021bi deschis \u0219i onest<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil a\u021bi mai auzit-o - comunicarea este esen\u021bial\u0103 \u00een orice rela\u021bie, \u00een special \u00een c\u0103snicie. De\u0219i este pl\u0103cut atunci c\u00e2nd so\u021bul\/so\u021bia capteaz\u0103 aluziile, nu este treaba lui s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi citeasc\u0103 g\u00e2ndurile. Nu poate \u0219ti automat ce g\u00e2nde\u0219ti sau ce sim\u021bi. \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103, pentru unii, exprimarea emo\u021biilor poate fi dificil\u0103, dar efortul este foarte important pentru a v\u0103 asigura c\u0103 so\u021bul este con\u0219tient de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd comunica\u021bi, scopul nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie acela de a c\u00e2\u0219tiga o disput\u0103, ci de a g\u0103si o solu\u021bie cu care s\u0103 fi\u021bi am\u00e2ndoi de acord. Sinceritatea este esen\u021bial\u0103 \u00een c\u0103snicie, dar adev\u0103rul poate fi spus f\u0103r\u0103 a fi condescendent sau lipsit de respect. Nu este \u00eentotdeauna u\u0219or s\u0103 gestionezi emo\u021biile \u00een c\u0103ldura momentului, dar este necesar s\u0103 evi\u021bi s\u0103 spui ceva ce vei regreta mai t\u00e2rziu \u0219i pe care va trebui s\u0103 \u00eel repari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-you-speak-matters\">Modul \u00een care vorbi\u021bi conteaz\u0103<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi place acest citat al episcopului T.D. Jakes: \"Vorbe\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fii ofensiv. Ascult\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fii defensiv\". \u00centr-o lume \u00een care oamenii sunt u\u0219or jigni\u021bi, putem alege s\u0103 comunic\u0103m \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 ne ajute so\u021bul\/so\u021bia s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 ascultat(\u0103) dec\u00e2t atacat(\u0103). \u00cen loc s\u0103 spune\u021bi: \"\u00centotdeauna faci asta\", \u00eencerca\u021bi: \"C\u00e2nd ai f\u0103cut asta, m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt a\u0219a\". Men\u021bine\u021bi accentul pe problem\u0103, nu pe transformarea so\u021bului\/so\u021biei \u00een problem\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u021bul t\u0103u nu este du\u0219manul t\u0103u; este coechipierul t\u0103u \u0219i, \u00eempreun\u0103, lucra\u021bi pentru a v\u0103 consolida c\u0103snicia. Vulnerabilitatea nu este u\u0219oar\u0103 - poate p\u0103rea \u00eenfrico\u0219\u0103tor s\u0103 te deschizi \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu nesiguran\u021bele tale. Cu toate acestea, dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 apropia\u021bi, ruga\u021bi-L pe Dumnezeu s\u0103 v\u0103 ajute s\u0103 l\u0103sa\u021bi deoparte aceste temeri, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu crea\u021bi neinten\u021bionat distan\u021b\u0103. O c\u0103snicie puternic\u0103 necesit\u0103 ca am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 cre\u0219te\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 ca so\u021b \u0219i so\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-your-spouse-s-needs\">Concentreaz\u0103-te pe nevoile so\u021bului t\u0103u<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca oameni, suntem \u00eenclina\u021bi \u00een mod natural s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim mai \u00eent\u00e2i la noi \u00een\u0219ine, ceea ce poate face uneori dificil s\u0103 acord\u0103m prioritate celorlal\u021bi. Multe c\u0103snicii sufer\u0103 pentru c\u0103 unul sau ambii so\u021bi se concentreaz\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pe propriile nevoi, \u00een loc s\u0103 ia \u00een considerare nevoile partenerului lor. De exemplu, o so\u021bie se poate sim\u021bi neapreciat\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd so\u021bul ei vine acas\u0103 de la serviciu \u0219i \u00eentreab\u0103 imediat: \"Ce avem la cin\u0103?\" Ea s-ar putea g\u00e2ndi, <em>Cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu mine? \u0218i eu am muncit din greu toat\u0103 ziua.<\/em> Ceea ce ea poate s\u0103 nu realizeze este c\u0103 \u0219i so\u021bul ei a avut o zi lung\u0103 \u0219i obositoare \u0219i vrea doar s\u0103 vin\u0103 acas\u0103 la o mas\u0103 g\u0103tit\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie se leag\u0103 de punctul anterior referitor la comunicare. So\u021bul ar putea trimite un simplu mesaj \u00eenainte de a veni acas\u0103: <em>Hei, iubito, sunt sigur c\u0103 a fost o zi lung\u0103 pentru am\u00e2ndoi. 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Niciunul dintre noi <em>are<\/em> pentru a face aceste lucruri, dar micile acte de considera\u021bie fac o mare diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00een a-i ajuta pe ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 se simt\u0103 v\u0103zu\u021bi, asculta\u021bi \u0219i aprecia\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-practice-forgiveness-regularly\">Practica\u021bi iertarea \u00een mod regulat<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Am auzit odat\u0103 un pastor spun\u00e2nd: \"Dac\u0103 ai probleme cu iertarea \u00een singur\u0103tate, atunci vei avea probleme \u00een c\u0103snicie\". A\u0219a cum am spus mai devreme, so\u021bul\/so\u021bia ta este o fiin\u021b\u0103 uman\u0103 cu defecte. Dac\u0103 v\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi la perfec\u021biune din partea lui, ve\u021bi fi profund dezam\u0103gi\u021bi. So\u021bul t\u0103u nu va spune \u00eentotdeauna ceea ce trebuie. Va face lucruri pe care nu le \u00een\u021belegi. Nu ve\u021bi vedea \u00eentotdeauna lucrurile \u00een acela\u0219i mod. Ceea ce te-a atras la so\u021bul t\u0103u \u00een timpul \u00eent\u00e2lnirii poate foarte bine s\u0103 devin\u0103 lucrul care te enerveaz\u0103 \u00een c\u0103snicie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acceptarea faptului c\u0103 so\u021bul dvs. va face gre\u0219eli este un lucru de care trebuie s\u0103 \u021bine\u021bi cont atunci c\u00e2nd apar provoc\u0103ri. C\u00e2t de des ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 ierta\u021bi so\u021bul\/so\u021bia? R\u0103spunsul se \u00eentoarce la ceea ce i-a spus Isus lui Petru c\u00e2nd acesta l-a \u00eentrebat: \"De c\u00e2te ori ar trebui s\u0103-l iert pe fratele meu?\". Isus i-a r\u0103spuns: \"De \u0219aptezeci de ori c\u00e2te \u0219apte\". La fel cum Tat\u0103l vostru ceresc v\u0103 iart\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eei ierta\u021bi pe al\u021bii f\u0103r\u0103 limit\u0103 - \u00een special pe so\u021bul\/so\u021bia voastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru nu scuz\u0103 un comportament slab sau toxic. Mai degrab\u0103, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103, a\u0219a cum primim har de la Dumnezeu, ar trebui s\u0103 extindem gratuit acela\u0219i har \u0219i so\u021bului\/so\u021biei noastre. C\u0103s\u0103toria este o modalitate prin care Dumnezeu ne \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 iubim necondi\u021bionat, a\u0219a cum ne iube\u0219te El. Data viitoare c\u00e2nd sunte\u021bi tenta\u021bi s\u0103 purta\u021bi ranchiun\u0103, g\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 la c\u00e2te \u0219anse v-a dat Dumnezeu. Asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ceea ce a f\u0103cut sau a spus so\u021bul t\u0103u a fost \u00een regul\u0103 \u0219i, da, ai tot dreptul s\u0103 te sim\u021bi r\u0103nit sau furios. 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