{"id":118,"date":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T12:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=118"},"modified":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T12:19:28","slug":"dorinta-vs-atractie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/lust-vs-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie: Am \u00eentrecut m\u0103sura?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ca \u0219i cre\u0219tini care tr\u0103im \u00een anul 2026, trebuie s\u0103 cunoa\u0219tem diferen\u021ba dintre dorin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i atrac\u021bie<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/diferenta-dintre-afectiune-si-dorinta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">: cum ne d\u0103m seama dac\u0103 am dep\u0103\u0219it limita<\/a>? Cum putem avea acea sc\u00e2nteie \u00een rela\u021biile noastre amoroase, onor\u00e2ndu-L \u00een acela\u0219i timp pe Dumnezeu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\"><strong>TL;DR: Rezumat<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Cu to\u021bii am primit <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/cum-isi-pot-gestiona-crestinii-singuri-apetitul-sexual\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dorin\u021ba de sex \u0219i intimitate<\/a> de Dumnezeu. Pentru a gestiona bine acest lucru este nevoie de efort \u0219i de o inim\u0103 deschis\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un sfat cre\u0219tin bun pentru \u00eent\u00e2lniri este s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu ac\u021biunile noastre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acest blog vom analiza unde se termin\u0103 realitatea atrac\u021biei \u0219i unde \u00eencepe teritoriul poftei.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-and-its-lies\">L\u0103comia \u0219i minciunile ei.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\">Fantezie \u0219i fic\u021biune.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#Lust vs. Attraction: Responding to attraction\">R\u0103spunsul la atrac\u021bie.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">Confruntarea cu tenta\u021bia.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"#h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\">Am \u00eentrecut m\u0103sura?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Pofta vs. excitare: Cum evit p\u0103catul sexual #shorts\" width=\"422\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zCOlqp0c4ko?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/smr.fm\/about\/\">Dr. Corey<\/a> vorbe\u0219te cu persoanele singure SALT despre sex \u0219i dorin\u021b\u0103<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-or-attraction\"><strong>Dorin\u021b\u0103 sau atrac\u021bie?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centotdeauna am avut o mic\u0103 sl\u0103biciune pentru Zac Efron.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fost vorba de lipsa sa de abilit\u0103\u021bi vocale \u00een 2006? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/874198\/high-school-musical-2-turns-10-so-let-s-revisit-zac-efron-s-bet-on-it-sequence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">\"Dansul\" s\u0103u iconic pe un teren de golf?<\/a> Sau faptul c\u0103 a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit incredibil de bine?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oricum, nu m-am g\u00e2ndit niciodat\u0103 prea mult la aceast\u0103 \"pasiune pentru celebrit\u0103\u021bi\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu toate acestea, recent, mi s-a adus la cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 afec\u021biunea mea pentru dl Efron nu este at\u00e2t de inofensiv\u0103 pe c\u00e2t pare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cent\u00e2lnirea sau \u00eent\u00e2lnirea cu un actor celebru nu este, evident, o realitate realizabil\u0103. Sau ceva ce mi-am dorit vreodat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat. Prin urmare, g\u00e2ndurile mele despre respectivul actor mi s-au p\u0103rut irelevante. Un pic de distrac\u021bie, o modalitate de a trece timpul (\u0219i singur\u0103tatea).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Privind-o altfel, am descoperit c\u00e2teva \u00eentreb\u0103ri emo\u021bionante.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este acest lucru diferit de sentimentele de atrac\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva pe care \u00eel cunosc? Oare iubirea mea din copil\u0103rie ad\u0103poste\u0219te de fapt un p\u0103cat \u00een inima mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fixarea aten\u021biei mele asupra unui b\u0103rbat atr\u0103g\u0103tor care este \"departe de a fi la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103\" intr\u0103 \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 un pic gri. Este vorba de dorin\u021b\u0103 vs. atrac\u021bie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asta m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb - am dep\u0103\u0219it limita?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fie c\u0103 e\u0219ti un cre\u0219tin singur, fie c\u0103 te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu cineva (sau chiar e\u0219ti c\u0103s\u0103torit), linia de demarca\u021bie poate deveni pu\u021bin neclar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cel iubesc pe Dumnezeu \u0219i vreau s\u0103 devin mai mult ca Isus. Dar pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce sentimentele de entuziasm \u0219i atrac\u021bie se amestec\u0103 - este u\u0219or s\u0103 ne lu\u0103m ochii de la Dumnezeu \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m spre dorin\u021bele noastre umane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru a umbla \u00een voia lui Dumnezeu \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 amoroas\u0103 de cre\u0219tini, trebuie s\u0103 distingem \u00eentre ceea ce este dat de Dumnezeu \u0219i ceea ce este p\u0103c\u0103tos.  Noi \u0219tim c\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/de-ce-sexul-este-pentru-casatorie\/\">sexul este pentru c\u0103s\u0103torie<\/a> \u0219i vrem s\u0103 ne apropiem de Dumnezeu cu o con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 curat\u0103.  A\u0219a c\u0103 ne vom uita la <strong>Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-is-a-sin\"><strong>Pofta este un p\u0103cat<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Indiscutabil, pofta este un p\u0103cat, \u0219i nu este un p\u0103cat care dispare nici atunci c\u00e2nd te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu cineva (va trebui s\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/20-de-moduri-de-a-rezista-tentatiei-sexuale-in-intalniri\/\">dep\u0103\u0219irea tenta\u021biei sexuale \u00een \u00eent\u00e2lniri<\/a> de asemenea!). Biblia spune foarte clar acest lucru. A\u0219 sus\u021bine c\u0103 este un p\u0103cat \u0219i pentru c\u0103 am v\u0103zut omenirea lupt\u00e2ndu-se cu el de-a lungul istoriei.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/GEN.39.NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">So\u021bia lui Photiphar \u0219i cererile ei pofticioase \u00eengreuneaz\u0103 lucrurile pentru Joesph<\/a>. Exist\u0103 celebra poveste a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/2SA.11.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">David \u0219i Bethsheba.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar apostolii au scris multor biserici, \u00eendemn\u00e2ndu-le s\u0103 se \u00eendep\u0103rteze de p\u0103catul sexual. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bible.com\/bible\/111\/1TH.4.niv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Ca biserica Tesalonicenilor.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ast\u0103zi avem o multitudine de emisiuni TV, de la concursuri, la reality TV, fantezie \u0219i drame de epoc\u0103. Toate acestea senza\u021bionalizeaz\u0103 pofta pentru divertisment \u0219i evadare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar ceea ce gre\u0219im adesea este crearea unei ierarhii pentru p\u0103cat. C\u0103 unele p\u0103cate sunt mai mari sau mai rele dec\u00e2t altele. Pofta fiind unul dintre aceste p\u0103cate \"mari\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen\u021beleg de ce. Repercusiunile sunt semnificative. Nu doar asupra rela\u021biilor, ci \u0219i \u00een sens spiritual. Pofta elimin\u0103 spa\u021biul pentru iubirea noastr\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de Dumnezeu. Ignor\u0103 designul \u0219i planul S\u0103u pentru iubirea tr\u0103it\u0103 \u0219i \u00een aceast\u0103 parte a eternit\u0103\u021bii.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar Isus a murit pe cruce de dragul tuturor p\u0103catelor noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...pentru c\u0103 to\u021bi au p\u0103c\u0103tuit \u0219i sunt lipsi\u021bi de slava lui Dumnezeu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Romani 3:23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mul\u021bi simt greutatea p\u0103catului \u0219i a ru\u0219inii, \u00een special \u00een domeniul poftei. Acest lucru \u00eei face pe oameni s\u0103 se ascund\u0103, s\u0103 repete comportamentul \u0219i s\u0103 se \u00eendep\u0103rteze de Dumnezeu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Isus a venit s\u0103 ne elibereze de p\u0103cat \u0219i ru\u0219ine. Fiecare p\u0103cat a trebuit s\u0103 fie \u00eenvins de s\u00e2ngele v\u0103rsat de Isus pe Cruce. Fie c\u0103 este vorba de b\u00e2rf\u0103 sau adulter. El a \u00eenvins p\u0103catul \u0219i ne invit\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een libertatea pe care ne-a cump\u0103rat-o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce discerni diferen\u021ba dintre dorin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i atrac\u021bie, fii precaut. Nu folosi asta ca pe un b\u0103\u021b cu care s\u0103 te ba\u021bi. Nici ca o modalitate de a te l\u0103sa \u00een pace. Vino \u00een fa\u021ba lui Dumnezeu, m\u0103rturise\u0219te ce \u00ee\u021bi apas\u0103 pe inim\u0103 \u0219i ia m\u0103suri pentru a umbla \u00een libertatea Lui, urm\u00e2ndu-L.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Te sim\u021bi prins \u00een capcana poftei\" class=\"wp-image-91\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/singleness-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-and-its-lies\"><strong>L\u0103comia \u0219i minciunile ei<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Deseori presupunem c\u0103 pofta este pur \u0219i simplu o ac\u021biune \u00eentreprins\u0103 pe baza unui sentiment de atrac\u021bie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar pofta este, de asemenea, separat\u0103 de atrac\u021bie. Da, sentimentul nostru de atrac\u021bie sexual\u0103 se poate transforma \u00een poft\u0103. Dar pofta este at\u00e2t de departe de ceea ce Dumnezeu a creat s\u0103 fie atrac\u021bia. Trebuie s\u0103 fie altceva.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pofta ia un g\u00e2nd, un sentiment, o ac\u021biune sau o persoan\u0103 \u0219i le transform\u0103 \u00eentr-un obiect. Ea transform\u0103 un \"cineva\" \u00eentr-un \"ceva\".&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u0103comia promoveaz\u0103 sinele. \"Vreau asta\". \"Am nevoie de asta.\" \"Nu pot face fa\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 asta\". Nu se g\u00e2nde\u0219te la cel\u0103lalt. Ea urm\u0103re\u0219te o inten\u021bie egoist\u0103.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pofta folose\u0219te obsesia pentru a ne stimula dorin\u021ba de posesie.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Acesta este motivul pentru care pofta este o minciun\u0103. Crea\u021bia lui Dumnezeu nu este un obiect pentru a fi folosit. Dumnezeu nu ne-a creat pentru a ne \u00eenmuia \u00een propriul nostru interes. Dumnezeu nu ne-a dat liberul arbitru pentru a ne da glorie sau putere.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceste distorsiuni arat\u0103 clar c\u0103 pofta este folosit\u0103 de du\u0219man pentru a ne \u00eendep\u0103rta de Dumnezeu \u0219i a ne face r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deci, pute\u021bi identifica c\u00e2nd pofta a intrat \u00een scen\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd recunoa\u0219te\u021bi unele dintre inten\u021biile de mai sus. De asemenea, pofta este evident\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Te sim\u021bi controlat de ea.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Crede\u021bi minciunile \u00een locul adev\u0103rului lui Dumnezeu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sim\u021bi\u021bi c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 nicio alt\u0103 op\u021biune.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiu, sunt lucruri grele. Totu\u0219i, pofta nu vine \u00eentotdeauna \u00een valuri mari sau \u00een circumstan\u021be dramatice. \u0218i g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i ac\u021biunile m\u0103runte pot l\u0103sa pofta s\u0103 intre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-fantasy-and-fiction\"><strong>Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie:<\/strong> <strong>Fantezie \u0219i fic\u021biune<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ceea ce \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 cel mai mult pofta este r\u0103sf\u0103\u021bul fanteziei sau fic\u021biunii \u00een mintea noastr\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u0103comia este c\u0103utarea pl\u0103cerii \u0219i a bucuriei din ceea ce nu ne apar\u021bine. Acest lucru poate fi foarte dificil de gestionat atunci c\u00e2nd intri pe scena \u00eent\u00e2lnirilor ca un cre\u0219tin singur sau dac\u0103 ai ales s\u0103 p\u0103strezi sexul pentru c\u0103s\u0103torie. Dar oamenii se lupt\u0103 cu pofta \u00eentr-o varietate de scenarii.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru se datoreaz\u0103 mai ales faptului c\u0103 lumea noastr\u0103 \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 acest lucru tot timpul!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lumea ne spune s\u0103 continu\u0103m s\u0103 lupt\u0103m pentru ceea ce ne dorim. C\u0103 absolut orice ne dorim poate fi al nostru. Vedem acest lucru \u00een filme, mass-media, reviste \u0219i multe altele.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din nefericire, femeile au fost hr\u0103nite cu acest lucru prin comedii \u0219i romane romantice timp de ani de zile. Li s-a spus c\u0103 exist\u0103 un b\u0103rbat perfect, elegant, atletic din punct de vedere sexual. El va face orice pentru a fi cu ele. Prin urmare, creierul meu este conectat la g\u00e2ndurile lui Zac Efron \u00eenc\u0103 din zilele lui High School Musical.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceste pove\u0219ti glorific\u0103 aproape \u00eentotdeauna infidelitatea. Acest lucru se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 peste tot \u00een cinematografie. Cuplul pentru care alerg\u0103m - unul sau am\u00e2ndoi sunt de fapt \u00een\u0219ela\u021bi. <em>You've Got Mail, Enchanted, Scrisori c\u0103tre Julieta<\/em> plus mai mult.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De obicei, b\u0103rba\u021bii au fost \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 urm\u0103reasc\u0103 aceast\u0103 fantezie prin pornografie (mai multe despre asta mai t\u00e2rziu).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca \u0219i cre\u0219tini, Dumnezeu ne cheam\u0103 s\u0103;<em>Pune\u021bi-v\u0103 mintea la lucrurile de sus, nu la cele p\u0103m\u00e2nte\u0219ti <\/em>(Coloseni 3:2). Este foarte greu s\u0103 facem acest lucru atunci c\u00e2nd l\u0103s\u0103m fantezia s\u0103 se dezl\u0103n\u021buie \u00een mintea noastr\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Limitele emo\u021bionale \u00een \u00eent\u00e2lnirile cre\u0219tine: 5 sfaturi pentru castitatea emo\u021bional\u0103\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SNNNfrBvq2c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Delphine intr\u0103 mai mult \u00een fanteziile noastre de \u00eent\u00e2lniri aici<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-responding-to-attraction\"><strong>Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie: Reac\u021bia la atrac\u021bie<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Atrac\u021bia (\u00een acest context, atrac\u021bia sexual\u0103) vine de la Dumnezeu. El ne-a creat pentru rela\u021bii, iar sentimentele noastre de atrac\u021bie ne ghideaz\u0103 \u00een acest sens.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unul dintre factorii cheie care contribuie la experien\u021ba noastr\u0103 de atrac\u021bie sunt sim\u021burile noastre. Vederea pielii, mirosul de parfum sau ap\u0103 de colonie, sunetul vocii lor. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 multe \u00een spatele scenei \u00een corpul nostru atunci c\u00e2nd g\u0103sim pe cineva atr\u0103g\u0103tor. Videoclipul TED-Ed despre <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=SNNNfrBvq2c\">\u0218tiin\u021ba atrac\u021biei<\/a> este un ceas interesant pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u0219i o abordare \u0219tiin\u021bific\u0103 ar putea p\u0103rea s\u0103 elimine distrac\u021bia sau romantismul, ea are mult sens. Dumnezeu a creat sexul cu scopul de a aduce via\u021b\u0103 nou\u0103 \u00een lume. A\u0219adar, a sim\u021bi o pereche bun\u0103 cu care s\u0103 te reproduci pare \u00een\u021belept. Mai ales dac\u0103 facem acest lucru f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De asemenea, explic\u0103 de ce aceste sentimente fizice sau sim\u021buri de atrac\u021bie sexual\u0103 pot fi at\u00e2t de puternice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-feelings\">Sentimente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar dincolo de aceasta, atrac\u021bia implic\u0103 al\u021bi doi factori importan\u021bi. Sentimentele noastre joac\u0103 un rol important. Atunci c\u00e2nd suntem atra\u0219i de cineva tr\u0103im o avalan\u0219\u0103 de sentimente. Emo\u021bia, adrenalina, pl\u0103cerea, fericirea, siguran\u021ba sau validarea. Acestea ne determin\u0103 s\u0103 continu\u0103m s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m acel sentiment pentru o satisfac\u021bie sporit\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi este dorin\u021ba noastr\u0103. Cu to\u021bii avem o dorin\u021b\u0103 profund\u0103 de a fi iubi\u021bi. Dumnezeu a pus aceast\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103 \u00een inimile noastre pentru ca noi s\u0103 ne apropiem de El. Dorin\u021ba noastr\u0103 de a fi intimi cu altcineva face parte din designul nostru.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prin urmare, atrac\u021bia sexual\u0103 este un lucru minunat. Putem g\u0103si pe cineva atr\u0103g\u0103tor \u0219i pentru o serie de alte lucruri. Atributele fizice evidente, precum \u0219i personalitatea, tr\u0103s\u0103turile, statutul sau credin\u021ba cuiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Modul \u00een care r\u0103spundem la aceast\u0103 atrac\u021bie este cel \u00een care apare problema \"liniei\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exist\u0103 oameni atr\u0103g\u0103tori \u00een aceast\u0103 lume \u0219i cel mai probabil vei experimenta aceste sentimente de atrac\u021bie \u00een via\u021ba ta. Probabil, dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi \u00een c\u0103utarea unei \u00eent\u00e2lniri ca un cre\u0219tin singur sau sunte\u021bi \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie cre\u0219tin\u0103 de dating - sunte\u021bi deja familiariza\u021bi cu acest lucru.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dumnezeu dore\u0219te ca tu s\u0103 experimentezi fericire, bucurie \u0219i pl\u0103cere \u00een via\u021ba ta. Aceasta include \u0219i sexul! Planul lui Dumnezeu este ca acestea s\u0103 fie experimentate \u00een c\u0103snicie, cu o singur\u0103 persoan\u0103. Este esen\u021bial, \u00eens\u0103, ca inten\u021bia s\u0103 fie corect\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inten\u021bia noastr\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de atrac\u021bia sexual\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie \u00eentotdeauna aceea de a onora, respecta \u0219i iubi cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103. Orice se opune acestui lucru nu este planul lui Dumnezeu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru \u00eenseamn\u0103 adesea s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m la dorin\u021bele noastre imediate \u0219i s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m ca Dumnezeu s\u0103 v\u0103 plaseze \u00een contextul potrivit pentru a exprima aceast\u0103 atrac\u021bie. Suntem chema\u021bi s\u0103 ac\u021bion\u0103m cu inten\u021bie mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t cu reac\u021bie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd ac\u021bion\u0103m asupra sentimentelor noastre de atrac\u021bie sexual\u0103 \u00eenainte de momentul potrivit, aceast\u0103 atrac\u021bie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 se transform\u0103 \u00een egoism - conduc\u00e2ndu-ne spre pofte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-be-wary\"><strong>Fi\u021bi precaut<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Este u\u0219or de crezut atunci c\u0103 a avea g\u00e2nduri pofticioase este \u00een regul\u0103 at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu ac\u021bion\u0103m pe baza lor. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 g\u00e2ndurile sunt \u00een regul\u0103? Dar Sf\u00e2ntul Pavel ne reaminte\u0219te s\u0103 <em>\"lua\u021bi captiv orice g\u00e2nd pentru a-l face ascult\u0103tor de Hristos <\/em>(2 Corinteni 10:5). G\u00e2ndurile pofticioase \u00ee\u021bi spun s\u0103 ui\u021bi cu totul de planul lui Dumnezeu. Sentimentele de atrac\u021bie sexual\u0103 pot fi \u00eens\u0103 controlate \u0219i gestionate prin ascultarea de Dumnezeu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"dorin\u021b\u0103 vs. atrac\u021bie pasiune\" class=\"wp-image-81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/passion-in-dating-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pasiunea ne-a condus aici<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-dealing-with-sexual-temptation\">Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie: <strong>Confruntarea cu tenta\u021bia sexual\u0103<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Devine clar c\u0103 pofta este o realitate cu care mul\u021bi s-ar putea confrunta sau se confrunt\u0103. Este at\u00e2t de u\u0219or s\u0103 fim condu\u0219i pe acest drum de lume, de oamenii cu care ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim sau de noi \u00een\u0219ine.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd observ\u0103m acest lucru, trebuie s\u0103 acord\u0103m prioritate confrunt\u0103rii cu tenta\u021bia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-come-to-god-nbsp\"><strong>Vino la Dumnezeu&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Cartea lui Iacov ne spune:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>...<\/em><\/strong><em>umili\u021bi-v\u0103 \u00eenaintea lui Dumnezeu. Rezista\u021bi diavolului, \u0219i el va fugi de voi. Apropia\u021bi-v\u0103 de Dumnezeu, \u0219i Dumnezeu se va apropia de voi. Sp\u0103la\u021bi-v\u0103 m\u00e2inile, p\u0103c\u0103to\u0219ilor; purifica\u021bi-v\u0103 inimile, pentru c\u0103 loialitatea voastr\u0103 este \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit\u0103 \u00eentre Dumnezeu \u0219i lume.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Iacov 4:7-8)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce devenim con\u0219tien\u021bi de ispitele care ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103, avem dou\u0103 op\u021biuni. S\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem pe acea cale sau s\u0103 ne \u00eentoarcem la Dumnezeu. Aici vedem marea promisiune \u00een cea din urm\u0103. Dumnezeu se va apropia de tine.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nimic din ceea ce ai g\u00e2ndit, ai spus sau ai f\u0103cut nu te va desp\u0103r\u021bi de Dumnezeu datorit\u0103 a ceea ce Isus a realizat pe Cruce! Chiar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti doar \u00eengrijorat c\u0103 pofta poate deveni o problem\u0103 pentru tine, umile\u0219te-te \u00eenaintea lui Dumnezeu. Ruga\u021bi-v\u0103 \u0219i cere\u021bi harul S\u0103u.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd venim la Dumnezeu, primim puterea de a rezista planurilor du\u0219manului!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-remove-the-source-nbsp\"><strong>Elimina\u021bi sursa&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru este complicat. Este greu s\u0103 alegi un stil de via\u021b\u0103 care s\u0103 onoreze voia lui Dumnezeu \u00een detrimentul lumii. Dac\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi c\u0103 pofta v\u0103 controleaz\u0103, atunci este important s\u0103 elimina\u021bi ceea ce v\u0103 declan\u0219eaz\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lua\u021bi \u00een considerare posibilitatea de a lua o pauz\u0103 de la aplica\u021biile de dating, dac\u0103 acestea nu v\u0103 sunt de ajutor \u00een acest moment. \u0218tim c\u0103 acestea pot fi o piatr\u0103 de poticnire. Cite\u0219te mai mult pe '<a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/aplicatii-de-dating-sin\/\">P\u0103catul aplica\u021biilor de dating<\/a>\u2018.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 Dumnezeu \u00ee\u021bi cere s\u0103 renun\u021bi la pofte \u00een via\u021ba ta, lucrurile din via\u021ba ta (g\u00e2nduri, ac\u021biuni, con\u021binut, oameni etc.) te ajut\u0103 sau \u00ee\u021bi \u00eengreuneaz\u0103 acest lucru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-heal-the-heart\"><strong>Vindec\u0103 inima<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil c\u0103 va fi nevoie \u0219i de un control al pagubelor. P\u0103catul ne r\u0103pe\u0219te bucuria sufletului, st\u0103 \u00een calea rela\u021biei noastre cu Dumnezeu \u0219i ne poate afecta \u0219i starea de bine.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest lucru se manifest\u0103 cel mai clar \u00een utilizarea pornografiei. Mul\u021bi oameni folosesc pornografia pentru a se confrunta cu dorin\u021bele lor pofticioase sau pentru a le tr\u0103i. Cu speran\u021ba c\u0103 acest lucru le va aduce pl\u0103cere \u0219i satisfac\u021bie sexual\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar consumul de pornografie este asociat cu o s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103 mai precar\u0103, o stim\u0103 de sine mai sc\u0103zut\u0103, o imagine corporal\u0103 mai proast\u0103 \u0219i o singur\u0103tate crescut\u0103 (conform <a href=\"https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Combate\u021bi noul medicament<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fie c\u0103 inimile noastre r\u0103nite provin din utilizarea pornografiei, fie din alte ac\u021biuni sau consecin\u021be ale comportamentului pofticios - trebuie s\u0103 ne vindec\u0103m. Separarea de minciunile pe care le-am crezut \u0219i le-am tr\u0103it este primul pas. Dumnezeu vrea s\u0103 ne re\u00eennoiasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne repare inimile. El restaureaz\u0103 fiecare inim\u0103 care este zdrobit\u0103! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=uHz0w-HG4iU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Utiliza\u021bi acest cult<\/a> c\u00e2nta\u021bi pentru timpul petrecut cu Dumnezeu \u0219i permite\u021bi-I s\u0103 v\u0103 slujeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Consulta\u021bi cel\u0103lalt blog al nostru despre cum s\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/ro\/ispita-sexuala-ca-un-crestin-singur\/\">\u00eenvinge tenta\u021bia sexual\u0103<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lust-vs-attraction-have-i-crossed-the-line\"><strong>Lust vs. Atrac\u021bie:<\/strong> <strong>Am \u00eentrecut m\u0103sura?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sper\u0103m c\u0103 ceea ce am discutat pe acest blog te-a ajutat s\u0103 decizi unde te situezi pe scara dintre dorin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i atrac\u021bie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi con\u0219tient c\u0103 a\u021bi dep\u0103\u0219it limita, nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne\u021bi t\u0103cut. Este posibil s\u0103 fi citit acest articol \u0219i s\u0103 te fi sim\u021bit ru\u0219inat de g\u00e2ndurile obsesive, de utilizarea pornografiei sau chiar de \u00een\u0219el\u0103ciune. Cel mai bun lucru de f\u0103cut este s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti un cre\u0219tin de \u00eencredere cu care s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti. Un prieten, un membru al familiei sau un preot\/ministru pastor\/mentor poate c\u0103l\u0103tori cu tine \u00een rug\u0103ciune dac\u0103 te lup\u021bi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru noi to\u021bi, avem ocazia de a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a harul. S\u0103 reducem frica \u00een \u00eent\u00e2lnirile cre\u0219tine. \u00cen schimb, \u00eei putem iubi bine pe ceilal\u021bi accept\u00e2nd c\u0103 p\u0103catul este un lucru pe care \u00eel experiment\u0103m cu to\u021bii. Haide\u021bi s\u0103 devenim mai mult ca Isus \u0219i s\u0103 spunem nu judec\u0103\u021bii!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-s-conclude\">S\u0103 concluzion\u0103m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cencurajarea mea pentru voi este c\u0103 nimeni nu este perfect. Aminti\u021bi-v\u0103;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>...to\u021bi au p\u0103c\u0103tuit \u0219i sunt lipsi\u021bi de slava lui Dumnezeu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Romani 3:23)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru a face fa\u021b\u0103 poftei trebuie s\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00cenl\u0103tur\u0103 minciunile poftei \u0219i fanteziei din min\u021bile noastre.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00cembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a\u021bi marele plan al lui Dumnezeu pentru atrac\u021bia sexual\u0103 care ne-a fost dat de Dumnezeu \u0219i urma\u021bi planul S\u0103u pentru aceasta.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con\u0219tientiza\u021bi ispitele cu ajutorul lui Dumnezeu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Vestea \u0219i mai bun\u0103 este c\u0103 suntem liberi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 Fiul v\u0103 elibereaz\u0103, ve\u021bi fi cu adev\u0103rat liberi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Ioan 8:36)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 Isus vrea ca tu s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 pofte, pentru ca El s\u0103 te poat\u0103 binecuv\u00e2nta cu via\u021b\u0103 \u00een plin\u0103tatea ei!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen \u00eent\u00e2lnirile voastre, concentra\u021bi-v\u0103 pe onoare, respect \u0219i iubire \u0219i fie ca \u0219i voi s\u0103 le primi\u021bi \u00eenapoi pe deplin.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Christians living in 2026 we need to know the difference between lust vs. attraction: how do we know if we&#8217;ve crossed the line? 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