Vientul\u012bba ir dzi\u013ci cilv\u0113ciska pieredze. Ja j\u016bs jaut\u0101jat: \"Vai ir nepareizi justies vientu\u013cam k\u0101 kristietim?\", \u013caujiet man j\u016bs p\u0101rliecin\u0101t: tas t\u0101 nav. Paties\u012bb\u0101 tas, ka j\u016btaties vientu\u013ci, nepadara j\u016bs maz\u0101k tic\u012bgus vai maz\u0101k gar\u012bgus. T\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i padara j\u016bs cilv\u0113cisku. Sv\u0113tie Raksti ir pilni ar st\u0101stiem par cilv\u0113kiem, kuri jut\u0101s izol\u0113ti, nesaprasti vai pat pamesti, tom\u0113r Dievs bija ar vi\u0146iem vis\u0101 taj\u0101. Atkl\u0101sim to kop\u0101 un pa ce\u013cam atrad\u012bsim cer\u012bbu un iedro\u0161in\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vispirms preciz\u0113sim: vientul\u012bbas saj\u016bta nav gr\u0113ks. T\u0101 ir emocija, un, t\u0101pat k\u0101 visas emocijas, t\u0101 ir dabiska dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013ca. J\u0113zus pats piedz\u012bvoja vientul\u012bbu, \u012bpa\u0161i \u0122etzemanes d\u0101rz\u0101, kad Vi\u0146a m\u0101cek\u013ci aizmiga, nevis sarg\u0101ja Vi\u0146u (Mt.26:40-45). Vi\u0146\u0161 pat sauca no krusta: \"Mans Dievs, mans Dievs, k\u0101p\u0113c Tu Mani esi atst\u0101jis?\" (Mt.ev.27:46). \u0160ie br\u012b\u017ei mums atg\u0101dina, ka pat Dieva D\u0113ls nebija im\u016bns pret izol\u0113t\u012bbas saj\u016btu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0101das emocijas k\u0101 vientul\u012bba paties\u012bb\u0101 var kalpot k\u0101dam m\u0113r\u0137im. T\u0101s atg\u0101dina mums par m\u016bsu vajadz\u012bbu p\u0113c saiknes - ar Dievu un ar citiem. Atz\u012bt savu vientul\u012bbu nav v\u0101juma paz\u012bme; tas ir solis ce\u013c\u0101 uz dzi\u013cu vajadz\u012bbu apmierin\u0101\u0161anu j\u016bsu dv\u0113sel\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0101 kristie\u0161i m\u0113s bie\u017ei izj\u016btam spiedienu vienm\u0113r izstarot prieku. Galu gal\u0101, B\u012bbele mums saka: \"Priec\u0101jieties vienm\u0113r\" (1. Tes. 5:16). Ta\u010du prieks un vientul\u012bba var past\u0101v\u0113t vienlaikus. J\u016bs varat pa\u013cauties uz Dieva labest\u012bbu un tom\u0113r atz\u012bt, ka jums ir nepiecie\u0161ama cilv\u0113ciska saikne. Runa nav par vienas emocijas apspie\u0161anu, lai atbr\u012bvotu vietu citai; runa ir par to, ka abas \u0161\u012bs emocijas ir j\u0101v\u0113r\u0161as pie Dieva l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101 un j\u0101l\u016bdz, lai Vi\u0146\u0161 apmierina tavas vajadz\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Es atz\u012bstu, ka man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 ir biju\u0161i br\u012b\u017ei, kad es jutos \u013coti vientu\u013c\u0161, pat kalpojot kalpo\u0161an\u0101. \u012apa\u0161i atceros vienu periodu, kad liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca manu draugu apprec\u0113j\u0101s vai nodibin\u0101ja \u0123imenes, un es jutos atst\u0101ta nov\u0101rt\u0101. Es izl\u0113ju savu sirdi Dievam, un, lai gan mani apst\u0101k\u013ci nemain\u012bj\u0101s vien\u0101 nakt\u012b, mana perspekt\u012bva main\u012bj\u0101s. Dievs man atg\u0101din\u0101ja, ka Vi\u0146\u0161 mani redz, m\u012bl un vi\u0146am ir labi pl\u0101ni attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz mani - pat gaid\u012b\u0161anas laik\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n